How do I talk to him about the empty pack of condoms and Viagra I found in his drawer?
Q. Please help, i found an empty box of ribbed condoms and some viagra on my bf's drawer while i was looking for a dvd he said he has put there. The thing is we don't/NEVER use ribbed condoms and we didn't use them so i don't understand why the box is ...
A. 29 December 2008: Send him the following message -
This is my LAST MESSAGE. Talk to me or it's over..
Then call him. If he picks up, clear it out and ask him why they were there.. If he does not reply. Text him and let him know that he's a Jerk to use Viagra at... (read in full...)
How do I talk to him about the empty pack of condoms and Viagra I found in his drawer?
Q. Please help, i found an empty box of ribbed condoms and some viagra on my bf's drawer while i was looking for a dvd he said he has put there. The thing is we don't/NEVER use ribbed condoms and we didn't use them so i don't understand why the box is ...
A. 29 December 2008: What i wanted to tell you in my first post was that if you would have asked him in a Light mood, he might have just told you why they were there.. !! The way you've texted him, he'll have an excuse for not talking to you.. !! Second, it is ... (read in full...)
How do I talk to him about the empty pack of condoms and Viagra I found in his drawer?
Q. Please help, i found an empty box of ribbed condoms and some viagra on my bf's drawer while i was looking for a dvd he said he has put there. The thing is we don't/NEVER use ribbed condoms and we didn't use them so i don't understand why the box is ...
A. 29 December 2008: Girly69 you are too worried about my post.. You should instead be worried about the topic poster.. !!
Insted of telling her I have no clue, you can give her a better advice.. !!
What I am doing is "not" covering up buddy.. I am giving her ad... (read in full...)
How do I talk to him about the empty pack of condoms and Viagra I found in his drawer?
Q. Please help, i found an empty box of ribbed condoms and some viagra on my bf's drawer while i was looking for a dvd he said he has put there. The thing is we don't/NEVER use ribbed condoms and we didn't use them so i don't understand why the box is ...
A. 29 December 2008: You reacted in a wrong way.. You should have asked him 'what this honey' in a light mood right when you saw those things and see what he said..
Now, don't spoil the scene by acting too concerned.. Just let him know in a smooth manner that you saw ... (read in full...)
Should I let my wife be impregnated by my best friend?
Q. I'm totally in love with my girlfriend for about 5 years! I love her and I always have all these years! She is a really sexy girl! very fair skin and blue eyes! However, she is a very sexual driven girl but yet very conservative. She wants to have a ...
A. 29 December 2008: NO.. !!
It would create problems.. !! What would you do if your wife decides to be with your Friend after the baby is delivered..? He'll be the DAD and you would be nobody.. !!
Get an artificial done.. !! These things break relations and I ... (read in full...)
Is this abuse?
Q. I really hate being tickled...and I go into asthma attacks when someone tickles me really hard. Well my boyfriend sat on my chest yesterday so that I could not move...and he kept tickling me. I think he did it for about 5 minuets or more. My f...
A. 29 December 2008: Thank God he broke up with you... !!
Otherwise I would have asked you to break up with him.. !! He Stank to say the least.. !!
Just make sure you find yourself a guy who is concerned about you MORE than this Jerk.. !!
G'day
... (read in full...)
Was this attempted rape?
Q. My boyfriend knows I want to stay a virgin till im married....but last night we did a lot...and normally we do that dry humping thing..well this time I had no clothes on and he had his boxers on...well I felt his hands down there and I didnt kn...
A. 29 December 2008: No.. It's not a rape attempt.. A guy wears condom when he's about to enter a girl.. You asked him to wear condom as you didn't wanna get pregnant.. ANYONE would think you wanted it, let alone your guy.. If he was forcing you.. You should have STOP... (read in full...)
Normal behavior for straight guys?
Q. Is it normal to wank with your bestfriends, touchin each other penises but no suckin or fucking because were all straight guys... Do straight guys do this to?...
A. 29 December 2008: I DISAGREE with the statement "everyone in there lifetime does stuff like that whether they want to admit it or not!" given by the last poster.. !!
A few do it and think Everyone is as bad as them.. !!
Now, That is something that is VERY ALA... (read in full...)
He keeps saying would you do me?!
Q. right.. i have some friends and they have a brother and he keeps flirting with me and when we talk he asks me things like "would you do me?" and i don't know what to do, because i am only 13 and he is 16. he keeps asking me the same question...
A. 29 December 2008: My Advice..?
Slap him in the face next time.. Do you realise that he is INSULTING YOU.. !! He is asking you to have sex and disregarding you by saying it would be a Secret.. !! This guy doesnt even want a relationship but all SEX.. !!
G'day... (read in full...)
I don't know if I'm ready!
Q. Well, I'm 13 and my boyfriend is 14. We've been dating for about 2 months now and we had our first kiss about 2 weeks ago. I Love him and I think he's the perfect boyfriend. I just spent time with him yesterday and we made out for a couple hours. He ...
A. 29 December 2008: you hav to say "NO" .. Reasons :
(1) You're Young, infact just 13
(2) You are not ready
(3) At your age, a relationship must go on WITHOUT SEX to make sure it's not your hormones that is making you get attracted to someone. !!
My Advice... (read in full...)
Where can I get a guy to respect me and not just want sex
Q. I'm 17, and have a 3 1/2 month old baby girl. her father isnt around and hasnt been since the day i found out i was pregnant... i really wnat to get into a relationship, because it has been so long since i had someone to care about me, and someone ...
A. 29 December 2008: On Mars.. !! LOL .. !! Naah, You don't have to "Find" the right guy.. ! He'll come accross someday and you'll know.. !! That's all i can say.. !! If you go out FINDING people, everyone would have a fault.. ;-) G'day... (read in full...)
Can anyone help me understand my reactions?
Q. Ok here is my question. I realise it may offend some people but I am seeking advice for a problem like anyone else. I have feelings too and hope they count as much as the next person. My problem is with gay men, a few years ago my problem was not ...
A. 28 December 2008: I am really against gay relations.. I feel sick of such people..I've always been criticized here for being like this..
But the difference between you and me is i ask such people go be out of my sight and the sort of image i have in my city, no... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and ready for sex --how to tell my boyfriend!?
Q. hi im 13 and my question is how do i tell my boyfriend im ready for sex??? me and my boyfriend been together for along time and told me to tell him when im ready but i dont know how...can u help me oh yea i thought this over for the last 2mo...
A. 28 December 2008: Kudos luvi_duvi and hats off to Gabi.. You've set great examples in front of there youngsters and i am happy you realize your mistake Gabi..
Here is am example for you girl.. WAIT..... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and ready for sex --how to tell my boyfriend!?
Q. hi im 13 and my question is how do i tell my boyfriend im ready for sex??? me and my boyfriend been together for along time and told me to tell him when im ready but i dont know how...can u help me oh yea i thought this over for the last 2mo...
A. 28 December 2008: YOU ARE NOT READY FOR SEX.. You're JUST 13 and atleast 3 to 4 years short of being ready.. Here is a warning..
You would regret having sex at this age.. And it would pain like hell.. So, i would advice you to wait till your body is ready.. ... (read in full...)
Someone took my virginity!
Q. ok im jst going to ask a real quick question im really scared someone took my virginity the other day and we have sex and he used condom but then after we done it im start to feeling kinda sick like my tummy hurttt soo bad and I feel throwin up do u ...
A. 28 December 2008: Hurting stomach does not mean pregnancy dear.. And NOBODY expect a doctor or a home pregnancy test kit can tell for sure whether you are pregnant or not..
You can buy a home pregnancy test kit.. It's cheap and easily available.. And don't worry.. ... (read in full...)
Easier for guys to move on??
Q. My b/f and I broke up after 7 years. we are 20 difference in age, I'm in my later 20's and he's in his later 40's. We love each other very much, he's a very nice guy and treats me with respect. He always tell me that I'm the love of his life. ...
A. 27 December 2008: Guys actually take much longer to get over a break up if they were serious..
Girls get over these better..
G'day... (read in full...)
Condom leaked..preggers?
Q. My boyfriend and i had protected sex but i think the condom might have leaked, my period came 2 weeks earlier and it only lasted 3 days. We had sex a week ago... Does this mean i'm pregnant or is it to early to tell...
A. 27 December 2008: You're pregnant..
If you don't want a baby, Go take an abortion pill, it can be taken within 10 days of pregnancy..
I say you're pregnant because you said your period came two weeks earlier, which is EXACTLY when a girl ovulates and the... (read in full...)
Aids after kissing ex-girlfriend?
Q. i am 21 years old. i am kind of very deeply thinking guy. i posted my question on this website some 2 days back and i was not convinced with the answers i got. the problem that still persists is, i am very tensed of getting AIDS after i have ...
A. 27 December 2008: You will not get AIDS even if you kiss a person having AIDS.. I think that clears a lot.?
And sores, cuts whatever.. Sliva won't give you aids.. So chill man..
G'day... (read in full...)
What do these terms actually mean?
Q. Just, can someone give me the definitions to these terms. been felt up/ been fingered: given handjob, blowjob, eaten out. oral sex, cybersex, any other types of sex besides the "regular" Im pretttyy sure i know what the first one is...
A. 27 December 2008: 18 to 21 ..? You sure.. I totally agree with aunty_rach.. That's the perfect explanation.. And cyber sex is really for big time losers..
G'day... (read in full...)
Which girl would you ask out?
Q. what types of girl do guys mostlt for: A)heavy girl with class and sophication,sort of pretty just about B)blonde or red head or brunnette c)easy girl with no class ,dresses trashy ,goodlooking, D)girl of class, sophication,ed...
A. 27 December 2008: Well.. You will have One reply in the favour of each of them..
I asked my girl friend out because she had a good personality, she was shy, intelligent, beautiful and very cute.. Infact kiddish..
G'day... (read in full...)
Can swallowing sperm harm one?
Q. I gave my boyfriend a blow job last night and swallowed when he came, this won't effect me in anyway will it?...
A. 27 December 2008: It may or may not.. There are changed you get a disease if he has an STD.. There are tremendous chances of infection as well..
But if he has been thoroughly checked and his sperm has on infection, it's quite good meal..
G'day... (read in full...)
Can men get pregnant?
Q. I also have another question.. My dad told me to clean the inside part of my ''p-nis''. I cleaned it out, like he said. ( he wasn't watching by the way ) And then a few moments ( when i was cleaning it ) sperm came out. I was in the bath tub, the...
A. 27 December 2008: I was almost about to faint reading that question.. But then i read he was ten years younger.. Thank God.. ! !
Boy.. How many pregnant men have you seen.? I think that sums it up..
G'DAY... (read in full...)
I am 38, she is 19 and my daughter's football coach! Is this age gap too big?
Q. Hi, I am 38 years old male, I have 2 girls, 11 and 8. I have 80% custody of my girls. About 8 months ago, my older daughter's soccer coach , hurt herself while playing soccer, she is 19 years old. I am a physical therapy doctor. She didn't have ...
A. 26 December 2008: Life is not simple dude.. We face difficult situations and become stronger every time.. You too will..
G'day... (read in full...)
Did he pop my cherry? Or am I still a virgin... please reply!!
Q. okay so last night (christmas) i went over my bestfriends house...(its a boy) and we were kissing.....so it led to touching then it led to clothes coming off...next thing i know he's on top of me....i'm still a virgin (i think) so when he puts it in ...
A. 26 December 2008: And i read you are 13 - 15 years old.. WHY CAN'T YOU KIDS WAIT.. As i keep on saying again and again IT PAINS LIKE HELL AT THIS AGE.. Wait for 3 years atleast..
G'day... (read in full...)
Did he pop my cherry? Or am I still a virgin... please reply!!
Q. okay so last night (christmas) i went over my bestfriends house...(its a boy) and we were kissing.....so it led to touching then it led to clothes coming off...next thing i know he's on top of me....i'm still a virgin (i think) so when he puts it in ...
A. 26 December 2008: Virginity has got nothing to do with popping the cherry.. If entered you, you're no more a virgin..
As far as your hymen is concerned, it bleeds much more than that when the hymen breaks.. He might have split the hymen a little or might have scr... (read in full...)
Too old for a first boyfriend
Q. is 30 years old too old for a first boyfriend and first kiss,i know i am pathetic...
A. 26 December 2008: It's never too old buddy..
I don't think you're pathetic.. We all make our first attempt when we feel correct.. What's too bad about it.. You're good..
G'day... (read in full...)
Fantasies involving my girl with other men
Q. i have the fantasy of watching my girlfriend have sex with her exboyfriend that got her pregnant *she aborted* and also with her last boyfriend as well as with one of my friends! how normal is this? ...
A. 26 December 2008: VERY ABNORMAL..
Even the thought of this would kill some guys.. Get over it dude..
G'day... (read in full...)
Help, what to do... I fancy my sister!
Q. hey, i had a question, in the back of my head there's a voice telling me this is wrong, but at the same time i feel like it's not so wrong, my sister is only about a year younger then me, most guys her age think shes attractive and she's petite. i ...
A. 26 December 2008: Control your hormones dude or you'll land into trouble.. This is Incest and is a Sin to say the least..
You don't see how tight your sister's ass is.. So just look straight.. This is the age where your actions and thoughts make your real nature, ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my hubby that his dad is a pervert?
Q. Ever since my in-laws took a winter home in Florida my husband's dad "Marty" looks for opportunities to grab me(or "hug me" as he puts it)when his son and wife aren't around. If I enter their home last, "Marty" blocks my entry, grabs me and won't ...
A. 26 December 2008: Talk to your father in law first and warn him that any future misbehavious would lead to you revealing his actions..
Then give away a few hints to your husbant and see what happens..
G'day... (read in full...)
What is the normal age for the following sexual activities?
Q. I'm curious as to at what age certain sexual activites start to happen. If some one could tell me the average age for the following: Seeing a girl naked (in person obviously and not a baby or something) Fingering Oral (to a girl) Oral (recivi...
A. 26 December 2008: It is different for RESERVED and Non RESERVED people..
Here is for non reserved
Seeing girl naked - 15
Fingering - 16
Oral - 17
For the RESERVED
Seeing girl naked - 18
Fingering - 18
Oral - 20 or more..
I may agree if someon... (read in full...)
I am 38, she is 19 and my daughter's football coach! Is this age gap too big?
Q. Hi, I am 38 years old male, I have 2 girls, 11 and 8. I have 80% custody of my girls. About 8 months ago, my older daughter's soccer coach , hurt herself while playing soccer, she is 19 years old. I am a physical therapy doctor. She didn't have ...
A. 26 December 2008: Yes i guess the age difference is too much.. You need to understand that she would just be 41 when you turn 60 .. And if not today, it would create problem at that time..
I would advice you to be good friends with her throughout your life and... (read in full...)
Never met but in love... and then she goes and gets a boyfriend!
Q. I am 20.I know this girl for about a year now.We have never meet but it was all over phone and mails...We were supposed to meet soon.Six months back i told her that I love her and She said that she loved me too.It was the happiest moment of my ...
A. 26 December 2008: ONLINE LOVE ... !!
Alas !! They don't work.. !! You can't use the word Love so Randomly mate.. !! and Online love..? Please forgive me for saying this but i dont thing anyone should be stupid enough to Love without meeting.. !! It's all that Bol... (read in full...)
Can you get AIDS from kissing?
Q. i kissed my ex girlfriend for the first time . i am kinda very deeply stressed after that. i know i am being a phycho asking this but will this cause me AIDS ? i trust her completely but still she is a stranger for me afteral and i cant be sure of ...
A. 26 December 2008: Are you reallu 22 years old..?What Kinda question is that..? How on earth would you get AIDS by kissing..?
NO YOU CAN'T GET AIDS BY KISSING..
And where did this whole AIDS story come from..? Everyone kisses their Girlfriends.. Yo... (read in full...)
Do guys care for their appearance when they go clubbing?
Q. Do guys care for their appearance when they go clubbing? Like hairsyling, aftershave, coglone, deodorant, mositures, do they care how look clubbing or do they make any effort at all because I don't see why girls have to make all the effort and guys ...
A. 26 December 2008: I DON'T .. !!
But that does not mean nobody does.. !! Many guys spend hours in front of the mirror.. !! I spend like a minute a day.. Not more. !! and guess what, I ain't short of girlz either.. !!
I dont understand the point in looking what ... (read in full...)
Air trapped inside vagina!
Q. after my boyfriend and i had intercourse i felt like i had air trapped in my uterus/vagina. it's still not coming out and now it's causing intense cramp like pain. what can i do to get rid of this and is it harmful?...
A. 26 December 2008: Did he blow inside your vagina...? I don't wanna scare you or anything but PLEASE SEE YOUR DOCTOR IMMEDIATELY..
Air inside Vagina can cause a lot more problems than you would guess... !! Plz see your dctor at once.. !!
G'day.... (read in full...)
My g/f's job is to hold a man's parts
Q. hey, so i've found the woman of my dreams. We're both crazy in love w/ each other and going on a year now together. I have this one issue that bugs me soooo much and it seems the more feelings I develop for her, the more this issue bugs me. She ...
A. 26 December 2008: Be a MAN...
It's her JOB and that is what she is doing.. She is Holding a penis out of Compulsion not Choice... !! She is anyway Holding a Penis, not stroaking it..
Buddy, Id she would wanna see another Penis, she would do it without being at... (read in full...)
I like the man in the relationship to take control. How do I get him to kiss ME?
Q. I've been going out with a guy that I really like for three months. This is extremely pathetic, but he still hasn't kissed me yet... well, just a quick peck on the cheek... I'm worried. People have told me to make the first move. That will probably ...
A. 26 December 2008: Just rest your head on his cheast and rub his arm..!! Then look up in his eyes and he'll kiss you for sure.. !!
Your BF is a guy like me, I won't make an attempt until i am sure that the girl wants it.. !! This is because He and I respect girls an... (read in full...)
What makes someone popular? Where am I going wrong then?
Q. Hi I consider myself to be a caring and sincere person. Being a counsellor was always a dream. I have a good sense of humour I think, a couple of kids, a home, a job, a car, animals. I like being on my own for now. My kids are early teens and I th...
A. 26 December 2008: Most "Good" people are alone.. !!
I'd say "5" Good Friends are better than a 100 average ones..!!
Being popular is actually a misconception .. ! Nobody is popular unless you are a Film Actor or a Politician or a celeb. There are Girls who ar... (read in full...)
This guy wont go out with me because I'm inexperienced. What should I do?
Q. i got a huge problem theres this guy he likes me n i like him but he wont go out with me cus i havnt had sex or havnt actually kissed a guy yet what should i do??...
A. 26 December 2008: This Guy is Sick.. !! Yeah he is.. !!
Guys actually prefer girls like you if they want to have a serious relationship.. !! It is quite OBVIOUS that he wants SEX ONLY. So, if u r looking out for a relationship with him, back off.. !!
If you ... (read in full...)
Pregnant, or just my period?
Q. well here is my problem in 15. i been in a 10 mnth relationship. so you know i know his the one. so i gave it to him. well we been having unprotected sex for some while now, but he always pulls it out.. well one night, we just did it and right when ...
A. 26 December 2008: Again feeling to pee can be a sign of a sexually transmitted disease.. All the pregnancy symptoms can be symptoms of stress and disease and nobody can tell on the behalf of symptoms that you're pregnant or not.. My advice would be to get a Home ... (read in full...)
Pregnant, or just my period?
Q. well here is my problem in 15. i been in a 10 mnth relationship. so you know i know his the one. so i gave it to him. well we been having unprotected sex for some while now, but he always pulls it out.. well one night, we just did it and right when ...
A. 25 December 2008: You got your period the Next day.. That's it .. You're not pregnant.
Now PLEASE understand that the PULL OUT METHOD IS NOT SAFE as you can get pregnant from his pre cum.. He won't even know..
And here is an example for under aged sex couples... (read in full...)
Pregnant, or just my period?
Q. well here is my problem in 15. i been in a 10 mnth relationship. so you know i know his the one. so i gave it to him. well we been having unprotected sex for some while now, but he always pulls it out.. well one night, we just did it and right when ...
A. 25 December 2008: Also to mention Lower Back Pain does not happen as early as this.. It happens when you are in about 4 months of your pregnancy..
G'day... (read in full...)
Pregnant, or just my period?
Q. well here is my problem in 15. i been in a 10 mnth relationship. so you know i know his the one. so i gave it to him. well we been having unprotected sex for some while now, but he always pulls it out.. well one night, we just did it and right when ...
A. 25 December 2008: If your period came the very next day, you're not pregnant. But then you say it was just 2 days long.. How long do they last normally.?
Here is a lesson to be learnt for all the kids, WAIT TILL YOU KNOW WHAT YOU ARE DOING..
Pull out meth... (read in full...)
Me and my boyfriend have been talking about having a threesome.
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been talking about having a threesome. neither one of us know where to start. Any suggestions on where we can we go and find a person (female) that will be willing to join our threesome? We live in Boston....
A. 25 December 2008: Why a Female...? Why not a male...?
Girl, These things create complications in relations.. !! If you both LOVE each other then DONT try it.. !!
Otherwise Get another couple so that even you can enjoy 2 at a time...
G'day... (read in full...)
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