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Me and my boyfriend have been talking about having a threesome.

Q.   Me and my boyfriend have been talking about having a threesome. neither one of us know where to start. Any suggestions on where we can we go and find a person (female) that will be willing to join our threesome? We live in Boston....

A.   25 December 2008: Why a Female...? Why not a male...? Girl, These things create complications in relations.. !! If you both LOVE each other then DONT try it.. !! Otherwise Get another couple so that even you can enjoy 2 at a time... G'day... (read in full...)

Baby daddy drama!

Q.   i just got a new boyfriend! i am sooo happy, but im also having a baby that is not his. he knows about the baby and is fine with it, but i feel i am not being fair to him.. i just got out of a bad relationship with the baby daddy, who wants a part ...

A.   25 December 2008: BABY at the age of 13 to 15 ....? That's Ridiculous... Have you Kids gone Nuts or what...? ... (read in full...)

What to do to make him last longer in bed?

Q.   My boyfriend doesn't last very long when we have sex, a few minutes max! and it's over so quick i don't get anything from it. We are still in the early stages of the relationship and i was wondering if there was anything i could do to make him last ...

A.   25 December 2008: A few minutes is good enough.... !! Thats about the time a Normal man lasts... !! You can increase your sex time and pleasure by having some orAL SEX... G'day.. !!... (read in full...)

I just don't seem to get as much out of sex unless it's anal. Am I a freak?

Q.   Sometimes I wonder if I'm normal. Hi I'm 25 and Having a bit of a problem. It's just that during sex I actually find it more pleasurable when something is being done anally to me. Even masturbating I go back there as it feels amazing. It's been ...

A.   25 December 2008: FREAK? No... Thats your preference!! Why would you call yourself abnormal? We all have different likings. Even I enjoy giving Anal!! So, it's just what we like. You're Normal. ;-)... (read in full...)

Should I just bite his neck some more and make him forget I am a virgin?

Q.   I'm 14 and my boyfriend is 15. Last weekend I stayed the weekend with him. I'm a virgin and he told me once before that he didn't want to take my virginity away. Well we started making out and I started biting his neck which REALLY turns him on. ...

A.   25 December 2008: My advice would be to wait for 3 more years!! It's "NECESSARY' to wait for that long.. You're just 14 and your body is NOT READY for sex. You don't wanna face pain, pregnancy, sexual diseases, STDs, STIs.. There is a LOT that can go wrong in this... (read in full...)

I'd like to do oral sex but my g/f has bad smell

Q.   i've been with my partner a while now, we are very close and have a great relationship. however i have been wanting to perform oral sex on her for a long time but have always been put off from the smell. i understand it's natural and i would prob...

A.   25 December 2008: DON'T DOUCHE .. !! It would just make the situation complicated.. !! Vagina is best washed with Mild water.. !!... (read in full...)

I'd like to do oral sex but my g/f has bad smell

Q.   i've been with my partner a while now, we are very close and have a great relationship. however i have been wanting to perform oral sex on her for a long time but have always been put off from the smell. i understand it's natural and i would prob...

A.   24 December 2008: Well, Some of then have very strong Odour and can be a REAL Turn Off.. !! Smell can be because of Sweat also as the area around vagina is prone to a lot of sweat.. !! All women take a Shower before sex.. Don't they..? I mean especially b... (read in full...)

I Caught wife in the act!

Q.   I am stuck with the long hours job and always back at home late nights. my wife is one beautiful woman. one day my school time friend who works in gulf came on 2 months leave in india and met me at my place. I introduced him to my wife. he is so ...

A.   17 December 2008: I am quoting BUGS "Drona sent Duryodhana on a quest to find good people. Duryodhana came back and said,"Guru,I never found good people.All of them are liars,thieves,adulterers and cheaters" Drona said,"Very well". He then s... (read in full...)

I Caught wife in the act!

Q.   I am stuck with the long hours job and always back at home late nights. my wife is one beautiful woman. one day my school time friend who works in gulf came on 2 months leave in india and met me at my place. I introduced him to my wife. he is so ...

A.   17 December 2008: How many Bad people have changed into good people in your memory..? I know Saint Valmiki did but wasn't that like 5000 years ago...? Some people never change.. !! And to have an extra marital affair in a society such as ours, you have to be "Real... (read in full...)

Is HPT reliable?

Q.   Generally My gf period is on 5th of every month, but in this month already delayed by 12 days. She checked her pregnancy by HPT. But the test was negative. So, Is HPT reliable?? Please tell me the symptoms of pregnancy at this point in time??...

A.   17 December 2008: Pregnancy symptoms in the first few weeks.. (1) Urge to pee. She would Pee thrice as much if she is Pregnant. (2) Sore Breasts. Her breast would Pain if you squeeze them a little. (3) Urge to Vomit. She'll feel like she needs to vomit. (... (read in full...)

Have youe ver tried penis enlargement pills? What were the results?

Q.   Who has ever tried penis enlargement pills? What were the results?...

A.   17 December 2008: LOL uncle phil .. !! NONE work dude.. !! Be happy with what you have.. Its not the size, its what you do with it.. ;-) G'day... (read in full...)

Fishy smell?

Q.   if i have a fishy like smell what to do...

A.   17 December 2008: Where......? Armpits , Body , Head , Hair...? Where..? I guess you are talking about your vagina..? If that's the case, you have a yiest infection.. "DONT DOUCHE" .. That increases the chances of an infection, believe it or not.. Vagina is B... (read in full...)

I Caught wife in the act!

Q.   I am stuck with the long hours job and always back at home late nights. my wife is one beautiful woman. one day my school time friend who works in gulf came on 2 months leave in india and met me at my place. I introduced him to my wife. he is so ...

A.   17 December 2008: Once a Cheat.. Always a Cheat.. !! No matter how much we argue but a CHEAT can never change..!! It is inborn.. She cannot suddenly start loving him and not cheat in future.. Yeah, she might make sure that she is Not Caught the next time.. !... (read in full...)

She talks about her ex's a lot, intimately. Your opinions?

Q.   Just a quick sum up before my issue. It may just be that, MY issue. I have been dating a great gal for about 5 months now. She has great morals and values and our plans seem to line up. There just one thing I can't seem to get around. She talks ...

A.   17 December 2008: Look brother, There is something really wrong with her.. !! Nobody likes to talk about their sexual past with their partners.. !! She keeps on telling you all these things that would make you anything but jealous and disgusted.. !! I think sh... (read in full...)

I want sex with my cousin but she says no.... what to do???

Q.   Hi my name is jaan, iwant to have sex with my cousine sister.whenever i tried to seduce her she refuses. i am very cofused and frustrated. please help me. Thanks...

A.   17 December 2008: To Bugs.. !! Make it simple for them : In your village do u call your cousins, "Brothers" ...? No.. You don't.. !! They are cousins whom you can marry and are NOT considered Cousin Brother or Sister.. !! Rather Just a Cousin.. !! The Poster ... (read in full...)

I am still having doubts about him after 7 years!

Q.   I have a problem- i have been with my boyfriend for 7 years and i still have doubts! he knos how i feel and believes ill always have doubts and thinks we are good together. I am scared because i duno if hes the one, and its been so long!! Is there ...

A.   16 December 2008: You're complicating things.. 7 years is a BIG TIME.. People who don't love can actually fall in love with each other without any reason if they stay together for so many years.. Why does it freak you out when you think of marriage.? Is he active w... (read in full...)

Wierd smell

Q.   This isn't really a sex question but I've recently noticed that my urine smells a bit strange, I can't describe it. Can anyone help me? :)...

A.   16 December 2008: There are a number of things that might or might not be wrong.. To name a few : Urine infection Vaginal infection ( yeast ) STD , STI Diabeties Or it could just be the food you eat.. As simple as that.. If it is periodic.. For a week or so.... (read in full...)

Do guys like athletic girls?

Q.   do guys like girls who combat sport?...

A.   16 December 2008: Yeah.. I find them much more attractive than the normal girls.. That is because i like dominant and girls with a good personality.. G'day... (read in full...)

I want sex with my cousin but she says no.... what to do???

Q.   Hi my name is jaan, iwant to have sex with my cousine sister.whenever i tried to seduce her she refuses. i am very cofused and frustrated. please help me. Thanks...

A.   16 December 2008: Uncle phil.. I respect your opinion and your post.. I know you're far more experienced than me.. But what you've quoted is exactly what i said.. CROSS COUSIN MARRIAGE.. I told you the son and daughter is married in the same family. And then the... (read in full...)

I Caught wife in the act!

Q.   I am stuck with the long hours job and always back at home late nights. my wife is one beautiful woman. one day my school time friend who works in gulf came on 2 months leave in india and met me at my place. I introduced him to my wife. he is so ...

A.   16 December 2008: Brother, Shez a ***** .. You know that.. !! Please don't get offended but you know WHY I am saying that.. Don't you..? She cheated you with your friend.. We say "Bhabhi maa samaan hoti hai" (friends wife is like a mother) and in a culture lik... (read in full...)

I want sex with my cousin but she says no.... what to do???

Q.   Hi my name is jaan, iwant to have sex with my cousine sister.whenever i tried to seduce her she refuses. i am very cofused and frustrated. please help me. Thanks...

A.   16 December 2008: Wow, Uncle Phil, The website given by you only "Strengthens" my Point.. Are you helping my view or are u against it..? From the Website : " Broadly, in the Indo-Aryan-speaking north, a family seeks marriage alliances with people to whom it i... (read in full...)

Sex education? What should I read?

Q.   well i just wanted to be educate myself on sex education..here are a few things i wanna know...what's a clitoris in a woman???what is a sperm count??...

A.   16 December 2008: Hey DevonleStat, Here in India, sex is taboo.. You can't or don't talk about sex to your mother or father.. You may talk about it with your cousin.. But not to anyone in direct relation.. Sex education in india is VERY RESERVED.. We don't have... (read in full...)

She talks about her ex's a lot, intimately. Your opinions?

Q.   Just a quick sum up before my issue. It may just be that, MY issue. I have been dating a great gal for about 5 months now. She has great morals and values and our plans seem to line up. There just one thing I can't seem to get around. She talks ...

A.   16 December 2008: Please Pay attension to the Moderator's note below your post. Thanx Now coming to you - "It MUST bother you" , or you would be abnormal.. !! Nobody is comfortable with a girl he loves talking about how she had sex with her Ex and how difficul... (read in full...)

I want sex with my cousin but she says no.... what to do???

Q.   Hi my name is jaan, iwant to have sex with my cousine sister.whenever i tried to seduce her she refuses. i am very cofused and frustrated. please help me. Thanks...

A.   16 December 2008: "Uncle Phil" and "DiovanLestat", I would like to mention that there is a "Difference" between a "Cousin" and a "Cousin Sister"... at least here in India there is !!! "NOBODY" in East West North or South of this Country Marry their "Cousin Sister".... (read in full...)

If you swallow sperm, can you get pregnant?

Q.   Hi, my question is really embarrassing and I know a lot of people will feel awkward answering it... but I have always wandered but I am to embarrassed to ask any one else... Ok so I'll cut to the chase... basically if cum (sperm) gets on or in any o...

A.   16 December 2008: If I may add : You "Should not" be swallowing "Sperm" at this age.. !! I mean, that's not something you do at this age.. !! You're young.. If you were the "Right" age, i.e 18 years (for intercourse) you would not have needed to ask this question... (read in full...)

Sex education? What should I read?

Q.   well i just wanted to be educate myself on sex education..here are a few things i wanna know...what's a clitoris in a woman???what is a sperm count??...

A.   16 December 2008: what's a clitoris in a woman??? Clitories is situated right at the top of the vagina below the upper skin. It can be seen by spreading the upper lips of vagina. You can see it only through a mirror.. There are a lot of vagina Nerve endings at... (read in full...)

Can't sleep without my boyfriend!

Q.   I am sitting up right now, I can't sleep when my boyfriend's not a round and just sit and think about him. I haven't seen him for 5 days it's geting to me. What Can I do? plzzz Help P.S. Is this site just for relationship questions?...

A.   16 December 2008: This Site is for "ALL" the questions that are troubling you.. Relationship/sex/advice .. Anything..!! Coming to your question, you need to get over it.. !! You can't expect ur BF to be with you all the times.. The best way is to keep urself busy... (read in full...)

Vaginal sex!

Q.   What does vaginal sex with no clitoral stimulation feel like for a girl? Does it just feel like a massage or does it provide stimulation but just not sufficient enough to climax?...

A.   16 December 2008: It Depends.. !! All Women are different.. Some get orgasms from clitories stimulation, other get it while intercourse and there are a few who never have an orgasm.. !! All are different... !! Keeping your age in Mind, you should'nt be wor... (read in full...)

What to do with my hands when I kiss someone...

Q.   Hey, I've never been kissed before and I'm wondering what am I supposed to do with my hands? Hold his hands? Hold the back of his neck? Run them through his hair? Any suggestions? Especially guys, tell me what you like? thanks ...

A.   16 December 2008: Go with the Moves... !! Run your hands through the hair and neck.. !! He'll love it.. !! But be gentle.. Not WILD or HARSH.. Don't go too hard and fast.. !! Also remember, Don't grab his ***** while kissing if u want to save ur virginit... (read in full...)

Lumpy and sticky juice after masturbating, an alert?

Q.   urm this is abit embarresing really but recently when i masturbated my juice wasnt really juice was kind of lumpy and sticky and there wansnt much is this cus i have been masturbating more lately or what?...

A.   16 December 2008: Hey Boy... !! "There is Nothing to worry" .. It would soon get back to normal.. !! But if you are too worried, u can see your doctor. He'll guide you better as to what to eat and what not... !! Don't worry too much.. It's just that kind of an ... (read in full...)

Lumpy and sticky juice after masturbating, an alert?

Q.   urm this is abit embarresing really but recently when i masturbated my juice wasnt really juice was kind of lumpy and sticky and there wansnt much is this cus i have been masturbating more lately or what?...

A.   15 December 2008: Don't worry over it.. The cum gets thicker and milky as you grow in age.. It's just a part of your growth.. And the quantity keeps on changing depending upon various factors such as amount of stimulation, frequency of masturbation, diet etc.. Th... (read in full...)

If you swallow sperm, can you get pregnant?

Q.   Hi, my question is really embarrassing and I know a lot of people will feel awkward answering it... but I have always wandered but I am to embarrassed to ask any one else... Ok so I'll cut to the chase... basically if cum (sperm) gets on or in any o...

A.   15 December 2008: We don't find anything "Embarassing" here girl.. !! We are used to these questions so Just Chill.. !! You can ask anything without even having to think twice.. !! "NO" you cannot get pregnant by swallowing sperm.. !! The only way of getting ... (read in full...)

I want sex with my cousin but she says no.... what to do???

Q.   Hi my name is jaan, iwant to have sex with my cousine sister.whenever i tried to seduce her she refuses. i am very cofused and frustrated. please help me. Thanks...

A.   15 December 2008: I am ashamed to know that you are an Indian.. !! This is Incest and "NO RELIGION" allows that.. !! Moreover she is saying NO. So "Leave her alone" . Be a MAN and find yourself a girl "out of the family" G'day... (read in full...)

What should I do with my pubic hair?

Q.   I don't know whether or not to shave my pubic hair. I have shaved it in the past, but let it grow back as I was not sure if girls are 'meant to' do this - I heard that it is a matter of opinion, but I am still unsure of what to do - where and how ...

A.   15 December 2008: I prefer an unshaved one.. !! As said before by boredatwork, it's about preference.. !! Actually some days i prefer an unshaved then some days i fancy a shaved one.. !! So, there is no definite answer to that.. By the way you are 13 - 15 and ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend saw her friend trying to kiss me and stormed out, how to get her to listen to me?

Q.   My girlfriend's friend come up to and tried to me kiss (she was so drunck that she coundnt think straight) at a party that my girlfriend and me went to. Of coruse I didnt let her I stop her she get more then 6 inches. But my gf saw us together and ...

A.   15 December 2008: Well, My Advice..? Make it simple.. !! Text her that This is the last time you are trying to explain and she better listen to you or she would lose you just because of her anger.. !! If she does listen, well enough.. If she doesn't then giv... (read in full...)

I am DESPERATE for a baby!

Q.   My name is Valerie I have been trying to have a baby now for 11 years. I don't know what's going wrong but anyway, if me and my boyfriend come together, can I get pregnant. Is there anything I can take to get pregnant?????...

A.   15 December 2008: There can be a Number of reasons for not getting pregnant..!! You need to see a Doctor.. Going 11 years without a baby (while trying) is not normal.. !! You Boy Friend may have a lower sperm count, or there might be a problem in your tummy.. !! ... (read in full...)

Should she feel sore?

Q.   okay well im 14 and my girlfriend is 13. the other nite i fingered her for her first time and she liked it but she said that later on her vagina was a lil sore. is that normal?...

A.   15 December 2008: As you mentioned, She is "13" and any kind of sexual activity at this age would be discomforting.. What she is experiencing is an aftr effect of the sexual activity.. !! Her vagina is too vulnerable at this age. a lil fingernail cut would give h... (read in full...)

Guys: do you find it gross to finger a girl while she's on her period?

Q.   This question is for the guys. Buuut, ladies, if you have any helpful answers, you're welcome to reply, too...lol. My boyfriend has been wanting to finger me, and I've been wanting him to, also. He asked me if he could do it when we meet up tomor...

A.   14 December 2008: Hey MutantKitten, What about the Odour..? ... (read in full...)

Why are all these teenagers talking about their sex lives on here?

Q.   Is anyone else here fed up - and worried for - all the under-aged girls who come here, desperate for answers about how to solve their problems with their boyfriend who is 10 years older than them? I mean, a lot of these girls are 15 years or ...

A.   14 December 2008: I am really fed up and disgusted when 13 to 15 year olds ask about how they can have sex.. And how they lost their virginity.. Having sex that early is a curse.. I am really worried for a lot of people on here. The other day a 13 year old was 'to... (read in full...)

Can I tell if I'm pregnant this early

Q.   i had my period two weeks ago. yesterday i was having sex with my boyfriend the condom came off and he came inside me. is there away of telling if i am pregnant this early? what should i do i need to know asap...

A.   14 December 2008: GET A MORNING PILL.. You are still not late.. Please rush to your chemist and ask him for an emergency contraseptive pill.. It can be taken within 72 hours of sex.. The sooner the better.. ... (read in full...)

Guys: do you find it gross to finger a girl while she's on her period?

Q.   This question is for the guys. Buuut, ladies, if you have any helpful answers, you're welcome to reply, too...lol. My boyfriend has been wanting to finger me, and I've been wanting him to, also. He asked me if he could do it when we meet up tomor...

A.   14 December 2008: A BIG TURN OFF.. Please tell him that you could meet some other time.. Nobody actually enjoys fingering when a girl is on her periods.. The odour etc is just too .......... Please don't start off in your periods..... (read in full...)

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