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Love my boyfriend but texting other guy! Should I tell my b/f?

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Question - (31 December 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 7 March 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, *ashionistaBaybee writes:

I need help.

yu all probably seen my last post about havinqg sex with my boyfriend ( and I decided to wait by the way) but now I have a different problem.

I love my boyfriend so much and we've been together for three months. yesterday while I was on myspace a boy added me and told me he thought I was cute. so qave him number and we texted. as soon as I sent him my number I started feeling extremely guilty - like I was cheatinq on my boyfriend. so when the boy started textinq me I didn't text back. then he texted me askinq if he did something wrong and I lied and told him I fell asleep so he can talk to me tomorrow.

but I feel so bad. I feel like I'm cheating on my boyfriend. I love him so much and I don't wanna hurt him. I decided not to text the boy but I'm debating wbether I should be truthful and tell my boyfriend wat happened. I feel bad that I started this in the first place and it made me realize how much I really love my boyfriend. should I tell him the truth or forget about it ?

any advice helps - thanks !

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2011):

Watch it, he could get back at you by doing the same thing. Most guys are very intuitive and if he catches you, you're in trouble.

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A male reader, a_decent_1 India +, writes (31 December 2008):

a_decent_1 agony auntYou don't need to tell your boyfriend anything right now honey.. But please don't text that guy ever again.. I'd consider that Cheating..

If you ever text that guy in your life, then you must tell your boyfriend.. But you're not required to tell him now as you've already realised how much you love him and won't do it again..

You're young and these things would make your relationship even more strong.. Never cheat in life..

G'day

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