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What qualifies me to help you? Vast dating experience, especially in the LDR department, even an international on with an Aussie, broke hearts, had mine broken, been engaged once before, I know what a real friend is, seen the ugly side of divorce coming from a recently broken home myself, even went as far as to tip the odds to my side and use men only to toss them aside like yesterday's garbage like they do women, I know what it's like to almost give up hope on finding the perfect man when he's really only a few boyfriends away, and I'm starting to learn the ropes of married life. I also know a vast deal about the female and male reproductive system, and all about the mental struggles with infertility. On a side note, I'm the one who gives you tough love, I'm not on here to sugarcoat it or to tell you what you want to hear. I'm going to give it to you straight up, wouldn't you rather the truth?
-TOP 5 QUESTIONS I CAN'T STAND-
#1. Does this mean my teacher likes me?
Just because they're nice to you, offer extra help, and put a little gold star on your A+ paper doesn't mean they are in love with you.
#2. Could I be pregnant?
Have you not heard of a pregnancy test? Get off this website, and go to your local drugstore.
#3. I'm 14 and I want a baby?
Really? Me too! Oh wait I'm 28 and married. You're how old again?
#4. My husband loves porn more than me!
Maybe if you didn't let yourself go into the frumpy woman you have turned into then he wouldn't have to look at porn now would he? I recommend you get your rear to the salon for highlights, manicure, pedicure, tanning, toss the baggy tees and sweat pants for a wardrobe that fits, and a little makeup goes a long way. It's called basic woman maintenance in order to keep your man's eyes on you.
#5. Will we get back together, how can I get him to love me again?
Unfortunately, my crystal ball is broke at the moment and I just gave away the last of my love potion No. 9. Sorry.
MY GENERAL RULES OF THUMB (this should be common sense)
-No means no.
-Girls can ask out ask guys, this is a new generation.
-Unless you know sign language or are telepathic, you're going to have to talk to him/her.
-My "Don't ask, Don't tell" policy as is follows: Do not by any means volunteer your own sexual history, or ask your date/partner/wife/girlfriend their magic number (how many people they've slept with). If you find yourself being prompted to answer this question, politely tell them that's none of their business.
-Your past doesn't define who you are today. We grow, mature, age, and change as time passes.
-If you have to even ask random strangers on this website if you should have sex, then you're not ready for it.
-FWBs, fuck buddies, no strings attached, whatever you want to call it..is not a relationship don't get the 2 confused. In this case, sex=sex, not love.
-No trust=no relationship.
-It is normal for your husband/boyfriend to have friends of the opposite sex, do you not have male friends?
-LDRs can work, however they're not for everyone. You've got to have trust, communication, be faithful, and a lot of hobbies to keep yourself occupied. If you have trust issues, a case of being needy, clingy, problems staying faithful and are in a LDR don't be surprised when it doesn't work. I told you so.
- An ex is an ex for a reason. If you guys couldn't hack it as a couple the first 2 times what makes you think the third time is a charm?
-Going on a "break" is a nice way of breaking up.
-If you have sex with a man and he hasn't called you, or responded to your texts in weeks sorry to say but he was just after a piece of ass.
- Now unless he's getting blown up in Afghanistan, an on call ER doctor, or lying dead in a coffin then he's got no excuse for his poor or lack there of communication.
-You have a 12% chance of your married boyfriend leaving his wife and children.
-A man who is going through a divorce is still legally married. He's about to have an ex wife and you're wanting to get into a relationship with him? That's called a rebound.
-If you're a minor who's just found out she's pregnant, do me and everyone else on this site a favor..Tell your parents.
-Just because some one stares at you, it doesn't mean they like you. They could be staring at that booger hanging out of your nose.
-If you have a lump/bump/cyst/rash that looks green, has oozing puss, and itches like hell, but kinda looks like a STD then you had better consult your doctor. They went through 6 years of schooling and have a license to practice medicine, I think they would know better than random virtual strangers.
-Don't mix business with pleasure. Why? Because if you date your co-worker and in the event things turn sour then you're still stuck facing them 9-5, Mon-Fri. Awkward.
-No matter how hard you try, you can't change a person..they have to make that transformation themselves.
-When your boyfriend/girlfriend says they want space that doesn't mean you do the opposite and bombard them with calls/texts.
-As far as ultimatums go, don't try to make your boyfriend choose between you, his female friends, or weed. You won't like the results.
-If you're 13-17, I'm sorry but you haven't a clue what love really is. You have minimal dating experience confined to the high school dating pool which are nothing but horny boys. Their facial hair doesn't make them a man. It's only till you get out into the real world, a vast dating pool is when you learn the definition of love. So, go on thinking you and 13 year old Tommy will go on to get married, have 3 kids, and a two story house with a white picket fence. I don't expect you to listen, I'm 28 and married, what do I know? There's a reason why everyone says it won't last..because it doesn't.
-The average penis size erect is 6 inches, 4.85 inches. Women like average to even a little below average. We're not going to bust out a tape measure and measure it to make sure it's up to our standards. We just want to have sex, so enough complaining about your size let's get down and dirty.
- The legal age of consent in the U.S. is 16-18 varying oer state, in Britain it's 16. I think it's safe to say most parts of the world (unless you live in a tribe with their own form of government) the legal age to consent to sex is 16. So yes, all you minors below the age of consent are committing a crime when you engage in sexual activity. The age is set that high for a reason, you are not above the law. |
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Intimacy gone after only a year
Q. My boyfriend and i have been dating for almost 1 year now. He's 3 years older than i am, and we are in the 20's. I've been told that in the beginning of the relationship, sex is always great. Well i've read somewhere. But lately i feel that i'm ...
A. 20 August 2010: Its hard for a man to discuss that problem, me and my husband are going through that stage bc he has a chemical imbalance needless to say my sex life has dwindled..its difficult to cope bc u need that intimate moment with ur husband. We have sex ... (read in full...)
Help!!! How do I get to know him better?
Q. I have so much feelings for a boy who doesnt know I exist, we're in the same maths, art and computing classes. I want to be more friendly with this boy. please help x...
A. 17 August 2010: Lol, sweetie he's not going to be like WTF.. U want to get to know him but u cant shout across the room, u gotta get next to him! Tell ur bestie ur going to try sitting by this guy for the next week (try it in math class first), she's more than ... (read in full...)
Does "I don't know" , mean she doesn't want to be in a relationship?
Q. Okay, people of dearcupid, I have a question. I have been in a relationship with a girl for about 5 months now and all has been more than good in my eyes but I have a few questions on things that have came up to stress to you to possibly get your ...
A. 17 August 2010: This chick obviously doesnt know what she wants and she's stated that, where I go back to she's a lil too young and needs to explore life a lil. Get out there and find out who she is. I think 5 months is a lil too early to be talking about a future ... (read in full...)
Bigger and better than ever.
Q. [OP original title] ima light skinned african american. i have chinese shaped eyes, 40 C boobs, and i kinda big butt. I need tips on how to look prettier before summer ends and i start middle school in about 3 weeks. also im a little chubby but im s...
A. 17 August 2010: http://lifestyle.iloveindia.com/lounge/how-to-make-your-nose-look-smaller-4448.html (thats a link for ur nose, u can use makeup to make it appear smaller) As far as a bit more ladylike, dress conservatively but flattering (no cleavage but to flatter ... (read in full...)
Help!!! How do I get to know him better?
Q. I have so much feelings for a boy who doesnt know I exist, we're in the same maths, art and computing classes. I want to be more friendly with this boy. please help x...
A. 17 August 2010: Do u sit near him? If not, then I would move by him if possible. I used to push my pen off my desk so it goes by him, ask him if he understood this math problem, or what did u get for #24, walk past his artwork (even if it sucks) compliment his pic. ... (read in full...)
I thought he respected my insecurity but I found out he was joking about it
Q. Basically my boyfriend met up with his ex for without telling me. I was already insecure before this, so obviously this added to the insecurities. We are still dating and I have fogiven him, but I really cannot forget at the moment. It has been ...
A. 17 August 2010: Uhhh I would defintely be mad..A woman's insecurities are no laughing matter plus we dont just confess them to just anyone. Plus him meeting up with his ex would make me question him..Did he tell u about that, or did u find out? U cant control who ... (read in full...)
My Ex's Attitude towards me has absolutely got me puzzled?
Q. Okay boys and girls, it's me, Ive been split since Dec from my babys mom, you know the one who got infatuated with her boss, then cut my throat! but after a rebound, and a girl I really liked, who I got nervous and broke up with, I find myself not ...
A. 17 August 2010: Did u literally get ur throat cut? Well if u did thats impressive ur forgiving her, my hat off to you. I doubt I could do that. Ur def to the stage of forgiving and ready to move on to some type of amendment. Which is fantastic bc I think parents ... (read in full...)
Am I sending the wrong signals?
Q. Hi- In the past year of dating I've run into a number of men, who seem to be far more sexually aggressive than men I've dated in the past (lean over and kiss me without any warning in a bar; try to have sex on the second date despite my being cl...
A. 17 August 2010: Ahhh ur dating online..Ive noticed from my own experience and other that those sites, eharmony, myspace, match, etc..are the new booty call. Myself not knowing this dated guys off of myspace and they were interested in nothing but getting into my ... (read in full...)
Intimacy gone after only a year
Q. My boyfriend and i have been dating for almost 1 year now. He's 3 years older than i am, and we are in the 20's. I've been told that in the beginning of the relationship, sex is always great. Well i've read somewhere. But lately i feel that i'm ...
A. 17 August 2010: Sex differs from couple, when ur young say up to mid 20s there's a moderate-ton of it..after children it decreases. Ur man is stressed that can put a damper on his libido, i.e not being able to get it up or finish. Since he's already going through ... (read in full...)
Ideas on how to pass the time during school holidays???
Q. hey everyone! My dilemma isn't necessarily about a relationship, but i'm really confused. My summer has been very, very long... it's been 106 days since i got out of school, and i've been bored. My mom and dad are a little lazy; they think that ...
A. 17 August 2010: Go to a local pool, or if ur friend or neighbor has one. Work on ur tan and wear sunscreen! when the sun sets i usually play tennis at the local park, ride ur bike along trails or in the neighborhood, ask ur mom or dad to get u a movie from redbox. ... (read in full...)
I'm on the pill and I haven't had my period for 8 months. Is this normal?
Q. I've been on a combination contraceptive pill for about 2 years now and my periods stopped 8 months ago. I am sexually active and I tested a number of times and I know I'm not pregnant. I'm not complaining , periods are a pain in the ass, but is ...
A. 17 August 2010: Did u lose a lot of weight? Or on the rather thin side? Im not being offensive so dont take this the wrong way..but in high school when I was underweight (eating disorder) my period stopped. Then once I went to the doctor and started gaining weight ... (read in full...)
Help needed! How can I get things back to the way they were?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and we recently broke up 2 days ago. We both agreed we bickered too much and it was starting to take a strain on our love. So the only thing we didnt agree on was that I want to work things out and ...
A. 17 August 2010: U dont need any advice ur already taking ur own!! This boy is toying with u and ur emotions, what a jerk! Move on with ur life, he's not worth the thought process. Thats good ure staying busy and u cant help but think about him but we all do that ... (read in full...)
Does "I don't know" , mean she doesn't want to be in a relationship?
Q. Okay, people of dearcupid, I have a question. I have been in a relationship with a girl for about 5 months now and all has been more than good in my eyes but I have a few questions on things that have came up to stress to you to possibly get your ...
A. 17 August 2010: Dear, ur 23 most likely finished with college ur future is already rolling u know what u want..On the other hand, u have this girl who isnt ready for commitment, she's 18 and has a lot on her plate, school, work etc..plus deciding where she wants to ... (read in full...)
How should I tell my best friend I'm moving to another school?
Q. ok so for 2yrs now i've been going to a school really far away from my house i've been having to get up at 3:00am (my mom has go to work early and i cant drive yet) go to my grams sleep an hr or so then get on the bus. it is really stressful and im ...
A. 16 August 2010: Well thats not something I would want to hear first thing before school..Ur bestie sounds like she tells it like it is..I would mention it the next time u guys are hanging out..Im sure she knows it was bound to happen sooner or later. Just tell her ... (read in full...)
Need advice on enhancing my bustline.
Q. I'm fifteen years old, and I am still in my 34 A's in bra size. This may not be a major problem, or something to worry about, but I just don't want my breasts to be this small, especially not at my age. Maybe I'm going through the road when everyone ...
A. 16 August 2010: I was u in high school, in fact I was a triple A..lol I think i made that size possible.. Dont stuff with tissue or socks it will come out, dont do those water bras either bc my cousin's leaked (in public)...Padded bras were my secret, Victoria's ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend's ex causing trouble and I don't know how to deal with it
Q. i recently posted a question on here how do i know if my boyfriend slept with his baby mama... So again today she texts me that thursday and friday she had fun with him... But i know for sure that its b.s well almost for sure... I knew what he was ...
A. 16 August 2010: Drop him, is that relationship worth all the drama? The baby mama drama will never go away, she's always going to be in his life..
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Anxiety over ED is becomming self-fulfilling
Q. Hello all. I would like your perspective on an issue that's troubling me very much these days. Female perspectives are much appreciated. I know it's long, but I need help, desperately. I've been in a relationship with my girlfriend ...
A. 16 August 2010: Well, my husband and I are going through a similar problem but he cant sometimes finish sex..which we found out he has a chemical imbalance..So I suggest going to the doctor if u havent gone already. Now for us women, we think the problem is ... (read in full...)
My friend's being drawn to a player
Q. This is a friend's issue (seriously) and I don't know what to tell her. Her guy treats her fine but won't commit, is sort of a selfish lover. This guy she met a while ago wants to make her dinner and has been flirting non-stop via txt, I really ...
A. 16 August 2010: I wish there was a way but ultimately ur friend is going to do want she wants regardless of how many times u tell her otherwise about this douche. Its just human nature she's going to have to make the mistake on her own and learn from it. The only ... (read in full...)
If I started a relationship with her would it compromise our jobs?
Q. Hi, I really like this girl at work, shes a few years younger than me but one of the most beautiful and kind girls I know, I don't really know her that well though, and I would like to eventually have a relationship with her, but the problem is I'm ...
A. 16 August 2010: Are u in a position of where ur her superior? Is so then u can keep ur relationship a secret but ppl talk and it will be only so long before the cat is out the bag. Plus, sneaking around gets a lil old. Now ur willing to do this for her so I would ... (read in full...)
I like one of my best friend's ex girlfriends. Do I act on it?
Q. I really like one of my best friends ex's. I don't know how to cope with this, I've known her longer than I've known him but am closer to him as a friend. The problem is I want to try a relationship with her but not to lose my friend, at the moment ...
A. 16 August 2010: I know in girl world u have to ask ur best friend if it's ok to date their ex..not sure how it goes in guy world..but u guys are probably more lenient. If ur bestie gives the "go ahead" then I would have a talk with her and ask if she would consider ... (read in full...)
In love with my stepdaughter...
Q. I recently slept with my step daughter, she's 20 i'm 40 and now have these deep, deep feelings of love for her and everything I try to I can't get her out of my heart, she has mentioned to other family members that she has feelings for me as well. ...
A. 16 August 2010: Dude youre old enough to be her dad..Im just wondering why u couldnt find anyone youre own age or around there..U do need to be honest with her mother, and that may be the last youre going to see of both of them...which is probably the best for u. ... (read in full...)
He's blackmailing me since I broke up with him...
Q. I just broke up with my boyfriend of 14 months and he he will not accept that it is over. He keeps threatening to come and house and tell my parents all my secrets and if i don't reply to his texts he rings the house phone which means i have to ...
A. 16 August 2010: Noooooo by no means go back to that creep! He's a psycho, and he needs to be dealt with by the police. Tell him he if he keeps on bothering u and blackmailing u, u will call the police and telling them u are being harassed and need a restraining ... (read in full...)
My gay friend... or IS he gay???
Q. Please help, so confused! Okay so my absolute best friend in the whole world is gay, and i should make it clear that i love him to pieces so this is serious for me. We share everything together, always go out together and we're so close, everyone ...
A. 16 August 2010: This one sounds confused...maybe not sure of which he is attracted to. These days thats perfectly normal. Gay guys are still interested in women's boobs, always complimenting me on my looks, and I often kiss my gay friends on the mouth but nothing ... (read in full...)
Am I gay or what?!
Q. I am a 15 year old male, and I am in high school. I think I am straight but I don't know. I have sexual attractions to males, and I think some males are hot. I look at it this way I would rather date a girl because I like the way a girl thinks, but ...
A. 16 August 2010: well, I would experiment with both and then make your decision...Right now, i would say your not because your leaning towards girls more, but you just want to make sure thats what u want, i.e. why u want to experience with guys. U have youre whole ... (read in full...)
Bigger and better than ever.
Q. [OP original title] ima light skinned african american. i have chinese shaped eyes, 40 C boobs, and i kinda big butt. I need tips on how to look prettier before summer ends and i start middle school in about 3 weeks. also im a little chubby but im s...
A. 16 August 2010: Wow, youre gorgeous! well, you sound perfect to me. I dont see anything u should change! Boys love those curves, skinny girls are out..... (read in full...)
Should I still want her?
Q. [OP original title] Okay, so this is a bit of a long one. I had a summer romance. She was my first love. Right now I am having an internal struggle. She broke up with me a couple of weeks before she left to her UC. She didn't want that kind of comm...
A. 16 August 2010: aawwwww....Fantastic post well said! From a girl's advice, sweetie she's going to a party school and well she's going to meet a lot of people get her heart broke, fall in love, and get pretty drunk. Youre so mature to realize it's not fair to tie ... (read in full...)
How do you cope with being alone?
Q. How do you cope with being alone? I hate it. I have never been in a relationship, never had a boyfriend, never had sex. Is there some magic formula for dealing with the lonliness and watching everyone else move forward with their lives, marriage,...
A. 16 August 2010: Look, I didnt mean to offend u..hence what I typed before u judge me..I was guessing and giving u both angles of my advice..its kinda hard when u dont have all the pieces of the puzzle.... (read in full...)
My wife won't let me touch her!
Q. My wife won't let me even touch her anymore. Several months ago I became aware of resentment stemming for isolated episodes during our 14 years of marriage when she thought I was insensitive and uncaring. The worst one was my not being present ...
A. 16 August 2010: Well I have one suggestion that i just got back from...I took a week away from my husband bc things were getting bad..I was almost to my breaking point..I packed a bag and stayed a week with my mom. To calm down, clear your head and come at the ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend doesn't introduce me to his family ..
Q. My boyfriend is German who lives in another Asian country. I am Asian also lives in another country few hours by air, not his.We met while he was travelling in my country.He told me he fell in love with me at the first sight. Long distance ...
A. 16 August 2010: Then I would say he cannot handle the distance. Not everyone can in international relationships..And that's his problem not yours, your Asian and your gorgeous. I know guys who only date Asian women! Asians are so intelligent, witty, have exotic ... (read in full...)
How can I be successful with girls in clubs?
Q. Hey everyone. I just want to say before I go on with this story, I am not a pig. I just got out of a long term relationship and just want to have fun as a teenager (19). I just moved to a different state and living with my cousin. He is really ...
A. 6 August 2010: Totally understandable...to approach a girl in a club, if she's at the bar I would send over a drink, thats a classic one that got me every time. Then she's got to come over and thank u..Im not saying go broke, lol. but have some $ to buy the ladies ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend doesn't introduce me to his family ..
Q. My boyfriend is German who lives in another Asian country. I am Asian also lives in another country few hours by air, not his.We met while he was travelling in my country.He told me he fell in love with me at the first sight. Long distance ...
A. 6 August 2010: No ur not too demanding
If he's serious about you and wants marriage then he'll take u to meet his parents.
Never ever question ur heritage! Ur Asian and honey ur exotic!!! Other parts of the world men desire u.
Introducing u to his family is a ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend doesn't introduce me to his family ..
Q. My boyfriend is German who lives in another Asian country. I am Asian also lives in another country few hours by air, not his.We met while he was travelling in my country.He told me he fell in love with me at the first sight. Long distance ...
A. 6 August 2010: No ur not too demanding
If he's serious about you and wants marriage then he'll take u to meet his parents.
Never ever question ur heritage! Ur Asian and honey ur exotic!!! Other parts of the world men desire u.
Introducing u to his family is a ... (read in full...)
Would you contact/meet your first love? After a long time apart?
Q. [OP Original title] Hi there, A General Question. Given the chance, how many of you would contact/meet up with yr 1st Love....and would you do it if you were married/in a realtionship? Cheers ...
A. 6 August 2010: Im married and I wouldnt meet up with my first love. I trust myself and love my husband very much but those are some dangerous waters to tread. There's no telling what my ex might do or say, he's got a way with words..Once when I was engaged he ... (read in full...)
Why am I so awkward?
Q. [OP original title] so i've always been kinda shy but i guess its just the paranoia of wat ppl think of me gets to me all the time when i try to talk to someone.i can never think straight. i can't focus on the topic at hand.last night i was at a bbq ...
A. 6 August 2010: Sounds like ur nervous, maybe a lil paranoid.. U have the right to go anywhere u want. Maybe ur like my husband he doesnt like large crowds and he gets really freaked out and starts to twitch a lil and has to get out of there. Its not his fault he ... (read in full...)
I want her, she wants me, her best friend wants me, but I don't want her, So confused! please help!
Q. Four years ago I met this girl. I was in grade 8 when I met her and she was in grade 10. She told me she thought I was cute, so like any young boy, I got excited and went crazy. I started asking her if she liked me and telling her how much I liked ...
A. 6 August 2010: Yes! If uve already told Girl A that u dont want to be with here then its a done deal nothing left to say. And theyre best friends they tell each other everything..especially if a guy has called and they talk about the whole convo. Girl B has to ... (read in full...)
Caught up between two guys... help!
Q. I started dating my boyfriend about two years ago and we were together for 6 months, but it was long distance I only got to see him on weekends. we broke up for 4 months then got back together and have been together now for 13 months. I used do ...
A. 6 August 2010: Wow, I would have a lil talk with ur family that they cant pick and choose who u date, that is your choice, ur a young adult ur a big enough girl to make that decision on ur own. That being destructive and hateful isnt the answer nor is vandalism. U ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend tells white lies!
Q. [OP original title] My GF told me she loved me about a month ago and I said the same. we also as of last week said we may want to move in together a bit in the future. BUT, she told her BF that she just realized she loved me but hasn't told me and ...
A. 6 August 2010: It sounds like she's not ready to take that step and move in..another thing of why she told her bestie that she loves u but hasnt said it yet is sometimes our friends judge us and say that "oh ur saying those words too soon are u sure?" putting a ... (read in full...)
I have to lie to go out with friends and I'm sick of it.
Q. Hi, i am having problems in my relationship ino it is mostly my fault. i wanna go out alot but my girlfriend dont like my friends so i always lie to her. i can never tell her how i feel we never do any thing together any more. we hardly have a sex ...
A. 6 August 2010: Tell ur gf that she is not ur mother and she cant tell u who to be friends with or where to go and who ur seeing. She's being very controlling and no guy likes that. If u do like her and wanna stay with her tell her she cant control u and she needs ... (read in full...)
I'm not even sure if we have broken up properly, what should I do?
Q. So...8 months into our engagement I guess we are broken up. My fiance threw a fit my last week of college since the week before graduation is a big party week. He felt I didn't spend enough time talking to him on the phone, so he just didn't show ...
A. 6 August 2010: Your welcome, ive been in your shoes before..his loss..its rather sad but we cherish those years u know but theyre the ones who decided it to throw it away. Were just standing up as logical adults and saying I dont have to be unhappy, u cant talk to ... (read in full...)
His ex is still in his life and it's really getting to me.
Q. My boyfriend and i have been together for 2 years now; but his ex keeps popping into our lives every so often. Now usually i wouldn't hav a prob with this but the thing that ticks me off, is that she never pays attention to me wen I'm around!! she ...
A. 6 August 2010: U dont have to be friends with her to send her a message on facebook. All ur doing is giving her a warning. U need to stop taking this out on ur bf, its not his fault this girl is how she is. He cant control what she says or does, and sounds to me ... (read in full...)
Shall I give my cheating husband another chance?????
Q. MOD NOTE...The title you chose has been used in a previous question, so i've tweaked it a bit. While I was back home on vacation by myself, my husband went out, got drunk and went to a hotel with a prostitute. He kept this from me for 5 whole we...
A. 6 August 2010: Yikes, he's got herpes..well there's meds for that but idk if he can give it to u. That would be something to look into..U have some females on her saying give him another chance and the majority vote plus 2 male views kick him to the curb. We dont ... (read in full...)
How do I get her phone number without being creepy?
Q. Hey I need some advice. there's this cute chick in my building named Ana that I see from time to time. I think she's hot and need some advice on getting her phone number without it being creepy or anything. first time I saw her I was leaving the ...
A. 6 August 2010: Has she shown u any interest, a smile? Im assuming no ring, she lives alone no bf nothing? She introduced herself so thats a plus..If ur new to the building, area I would play the "I dont know where a great bar is around here, could u show me one". ... (read in full...)
Is it just me or am I just not accepting this?
Q. Ugh..I hate this. I can't tell whether it's her, or is it me just not accepting this. Okay, so I'll be honest overall people tend to say I'm quiet. To me I say, if I don't have/want to interact with you why should I? Which is alot of people you can ...
A. 6 August 2010: Friends arent perfect, but remember ur friends with them for a reason. Everyone gets stabbed in the back by friends, bf..and we have trust issues so its hard to find new friends bc its almost like a job interview. (I can relate) I agree Id rather ... (read in full...)
My wife won't let me touch her!
Q. My wife won't let me even touch her anymore. Several months ago I became aware of resentment stemming for isolated episodes during our 14 years of marriage when she thought I was insensitive and uncaring. The worst one was my not being present ...
A. 6 August 2010: As a newlywed I know it most def takes 2 to make the marriage work. It sounds to me like she has had some mental issues building up for some time now, and she's come to her breaking point. Ur wife really needs to talk to someone, and let me tell u ... (read in full...)
Why does everyone always make fun of me for my love life?
Q. Why does everyone always make fun of me for my love life? I had one boyfriend in the sixth grade but after him when guys asked me out it was because I just didn't like them. I am eighteen now and all my friends, girl and guy, make fun of me for ...
A. 6 August 2010: Unfortunately we live in a world where everybody is getting sexually active younger and younger. Babies having babies, its kinda sad...U dont have to have sex or do anything u want to do just because ur friends are doing it. Plus, ur friends blabbed ... (read in full...)
I want her, she wants me, her best friend wants me, but I don't want her, So confused! please help!
Q. Four years ago I met this girl. I was in grade 8 when I met her and she was in grade 10. She told me she thought I was cute, so like any young boy, I got excited and went crazy. I started asking her if she liked me and telling her how much I liked ...
A. 6 August 2010: Im Team Girl B..Yes, ur correct Girl A was using u as a last resort, she left u waiting in the wind for her, tsk, tsk. I was once Girl A...Girl A is also away at uni so there's plenty of guys for her to date there, LDR and of the ppl away at college ... (read in full...)
Shall I give my cheating husband another chance?????
Q. MOD NOTE...The title you chose has been used in a previous question, so i've tweaked it a bit. While I was back home on vacation by myself, my husband went out, got drunk and went to a hotel with a prostitute. He kept this from me for 5 whole we...
A. 6 August 2010: Thank god he got tested!! Phew, im a lil relieved for u on that. Now im going to tell u him getting drunk is a poor excuse..Come on i count how many times Ive used that excuse. It doesnt fly, u still know whats going on when ur drunk. Well the sex ... (read in full...)
I'm not even sure if we have broken up properly, what should I do?
Q. So...8 months into our engagement I guess we are broken up. My fiance threw a fit my last week of college since the week before graduation is a big party week. He felt I didn't spend enough time talking to him on the phone, so he just didn't show ...
A. 6 August 2010: Why should u apologize? U didnt do anything wrong. He lashed out at ur rents thats a deal breaker for me, dont disrespect my rents and involve them..Plus, he ruined ur special weekend just bc he u didnt spend enough time talking to him on the phone? ... (read in full...)
Caught up between two guys... help!
Q. I started dating my boyfriend about two years ago and we were together for 6 months, but it was long distance I only got to see him on weekends. we broke up for 4 months then got back together and have been together now for 13 months. I used do ...
A. 5 August 2010: Move out of the other guy's house before u start dating someone new. One it will turn very awkward because u guys broke up and still live together. Secondly do it before he finds out and kicks u out. Move back home with your rents or another ... (read in full...)
His ex is still in his life and it's really getting to me.
Q. My boyfriend and i have been together for 2 years now; but his ex keeps popping into our lives every so often. Now usually i wouldn't hav a prob with this but the thing that ticks me off, is that she never pays attention to me wen I'm around!! she ...
A. 4 August 2010: True u cant ask ur bf to stop being friends with her, but u can tell him that their friendship especially with her being persistent and her being in the way is making u uncomfortable..Leave ur mutal friend out of it, that will make u look like ur ... (read in full...)
His ex is still in his life and it's really getting to me.
Q. My boyfriend and i have been together for 2 years now; but his ex keeps popping into our lives every so often. Now usually i wouldn't hav a prob with this but the thing that ticks me off, is that she never pays attention to me wen I'm around!! she ...
A. 4 August 2010: This is case of where you should not keep your enemy closer. This ex is fake and doesnt care about being your friend or even acknowledging your existence..all she cares about is getting back with your boyfriend. This is a reoccurring problem and ... (read in full...)
How do you cope with being alone?
Q. How do you cope with being alone? I hate it. I have never been in a relationship, never had a boyfriend, never had sex. Is there some magic formula for dealing with the lonliness and watching everyone else move forward with their lives, marriage,...
A. 4 August 2010: Hmmm so your that girl, and you most often it happens with guys being the one that fall into the friend zone..I dont mean to be rude, and Im most def not judging or trying to be mean, but do you think it might have something to do with your looks? ... (read in full...)
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