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What qualifies me to help you? Vast dating experience, especially in the LDR department, even an international on with an Aussie, broke hearts, had mine broken, been engaged once before, I know what a real friend is, seen the ugly side of divorce coming from a recently broken home myself, even went as far as to tip the odds to my side and use men only to toss them aside like yesterday's garbage like they do women, I know what it's like to almost give up hope on finding the perfect man when he's really only a few boyfriends away, and I'm starting to learn the ropes of married life. I also know a vast deal about the female and male reproductive system, and all about the mental struggles with infertility. On a side note, I'm the one who gives you tough love, I'm not on here to sugarcoat it or to tell you what you want to hear. I'm going to give it to you straight up, wouldn't you rather the truth?
-TOP 5 QUESTIONS I CAN'T STAND-
#1. Does this mean my teacher likes me?
Just because they're nice to you, offer extra help, and put a little gold star on your A+ paper doesn't mean they are in love with you.
#2. Could I be pregnant?
Have you not heard of a pregnancy test? Get off this website, and go to your local drugstore.
#3. I'm 14 and I want a baby?
Really? Me too! Oh wait I'm 28 and married. You're how old again?
#4. My husband loves porn more than me!
Maybe if you didn't let yourself go into the frumpy woman you have turned into then he wouldn't have to look at porn now would he? I recommend you get your rear to the salon for highlights, manicure, pedicure, tanning, toss the baggy tees and sweat pants for a wardrobe that fits, and a little makeup goes a long way. It's called basic woman maintenance in order to keep your man's eyes on you.
#5. Will we get back together, how can I get him to love me again?
Unfortunately, my crystal ball is broke at the moment and I just gave away the last of my love potion No. 9. Sorry.
MY GENERAL RULES OF THUMB (this should be common sense)
-No means no.
-Girls can ask out ask guys, this is a new generation.
-Unless you know sign language or are telepathic, you're going to have to talk to him/her.
-My "Don't ask, Don't tell" policy as is follows: Do not by any means volunteer your own sexual history, or ask your date/partner/wife/girlfriend their magic number (how many people they've slept with). If you find yourself being prompted to answer this question, politely tell them that's none of their business.
-Your past doesn't define who you are today. We grow, mature, age, and change as time passes.
-If you have to even ask random strangers on this website if you should have sex, then you're not ready for it.
-FWBs, fuck buddies, no strings attached, whatever you want to call it..is not a relationship don't get the 2 confused. In this case, sex=sex, not love.
-No trust=no relationship.
-It is normal for your husband/boyfriend to have friends of the opposite sex, do you not have male friends?
-LDRs can work, however they're not for everyone. You've got to have trust, communication, be faithful, and a lot of hobbies to keep yourself occupied. If you have trust issues, a case of being needy, clingy, problems staying faithful and are in a LDR don't be surprised when it doesn't work. I told you so.
- An ex is an ex for a reason. If you guys couldn't hack it as a couple the first 2 times what makes you think the third time is a charm?
-Going on a "break" is a nice way of breaking up.
-If you have sex with a man and he hasn't called you, or responded to your texts in weeks sorry to say but he was just after a piece of ass.
- Now unless he's getting blown up in Afghanistan, an on call ER doctor, or lying dead in a coffin then he's got no excuse for his poor or lack there of communication.
-You have a 12% chance of your married boyfriend leaving his wife and children.
-A man who is going through a divorce is still legally married. He's about to have an ex wife and you're wanting to get into a relationship with him? That's called a rebound.
-If you're a minor who's just found out she's pregnant, do me and everyone else on this site a favor..Tell your parents.
-Just because some one stares at you, it doesn't mean they like you. They could be staring at that booger hanging out of your nose.
-If you have a lump/bump/cyst/rash that looks green, has oozing puss, and itches like hell, but kinda looks like a STD then you had better consult your doctor. They went through 6 years of schooling and have a license to practice medicine, I think they would know better than random virtual strangers.
-Don't mix business with pleasure. Why? Because if you date your co-worker and in the event things turn sour then you're still stuck facing them 9-5, Mon-Fri. Awkward.
-No matter how hard you try, you can't change a person..they have to make that transformation themselves.
-When your boyfriend/girlfriend says they want space that doesn't mean you do the opposite and bombard them with calls/texts.
-As far as ultimatums go, don't try to make your boyfriend choose between you, his female friends, or weed. You won't like the results.
-If you're 13-17, I'm sorry but you haven't a clue what love really is. You have minimal dating experience confined to the high school dating pool which are nothing but horny boys. Their facial hair doesn't make them a man. It's only till you get out into the real world, a vast dating pool is when you learn the definition of love. So, go on thinking you and 13 year old Tommy will go on to get married, have 3 kids, and a two story house with a white picket fence. I don't expect you to listen, I'm 28 and married, what do I know? There's a reason why everyone says it won't last..because it doesn't.
-The average penis size erect is 6 inches, 4.85 inches. Women like average to even a little below average. We're not going to bust out a tape measure and measure it to make sure it's up to our standards. We just want to have sex, so enough complaining about your size let's get down and dirty.
- The legal age of consent in the U.S. is 16-18 varying oer state, in Britain it's 16. I think it's safe to say most parts of the world (unless you live in a tribe with their own form of government) the legal age to consent to sex is 16. So yes, all you minors below the age of consent are committing a crime when you engage in sexual activity. The age is set that high for a reason, you are not above the law. |
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I feel more like we are best friends not lovers
Q. I am so lost and looking for advice as to whether I should try and move on I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years. We own a home together (no children) and are both in our late 20s. He has cheated on me in the past (never physical, but ph...
A. 29 August 2010: You're already stronger than you think, you ended the relationship and moved out. Those 2 steps right there are the hardest part!!! But you did it, yaaayyyyy! Now, the next part is not to relapse...Yeah, there was 6 years in it, and you miss the ... (read in full...)
I feel more like we are best friends not lovers
Q. I am so lost and looking for advice as to whether I should try and move on I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years. We own a home together (no children) and are both in our late 20s. He has cheated on me in the past (never physical, but ph...
A. 29 August 2010: You're already stronger than you think, you ended the relationship and moved out. Those 2 steps right there are the hardest part!!! But you did it, yaaayyyyy! Now, the next part is not to relapse...Yeah, there was 6 years in it, and you miss the ... (read in full...)
How do you know if he is still really into you or just wanting you in his life?
Q. I could really use some advice and am pretty much alone so I hope to hear from some of you. I was in a 13 year relationship with someone I had known for 23 years total when I ended the relationship for various reasons. By the time I got to the place ...
A. 27 August 2010: Because of the nature of the break-up I'm confident that this relationship can be mended...plus you already have the living together out of the way..that broke an engagement of mine. And there was never a time where communication was lost....if it ... (read in full...)
Should I ask her out again and if so, when?
Q. Went on a date tonight and it went really well. We just got some dinner and talked for a bit. Nothing too serious. She was talkative and seemed interested. We actually laughed quite a bit. She is quite the flirter with others so i kind of take that ...
A. 26 August 2010: Standing someone up is just plain rude, it's not that hard to make a phone call and make some excuse to cancel the date. That would've been greatly appreciated in your case. I'm sorry that happened to you, it's a crap thing for someone to do. She ... (read in full...)
By your standards, how many sexual partners is too many by age 19?
Q. When I was younger, I could not get laid--could not even get a date--to save my life. I never went to any dances, never went to proms, nothing. This year, however, I lived in Africa for 3 months and when I came back to college, somehow, things ...
A. 24 August 2010: Well don't I look like the slutty agony aunt.... (read in full...)
I have a girlfriend but miss the sex with my older woman...
Q. I am a 32 year old male I have been with my partner for over 15 years, we have lived together for over 10 years and have 3 children. I had always considered our sex lives to be healthy until I met an older woman (11 years older) who is very sexual ...
A. 24 August 2010: If he's got balls roysten then wouldn't he tell his girlfriend?... (read in full...)
Closure? Or wants me to wait?
Q. I was with my ex for 2 years, but then I met a new guy. This new guy treated me right, I felt like a princess, but he wasn't ready for a new relationship, and I was still in the 2year long relationship. I became best friends with this new guy, and ...
A. 24 August 2010: Look you were never his girlfriend just his side item. You two have never had a relationship, just sex and a whole lot of confusion for you. He stopped by for a visit because your still allowing him to be in your life, he gets bored of his ... (read in full...)
She is still hanging on to her ex but wants a relationship with me
Q. I recently got back into the dating game. Met this girl, we saw each other for about 3 months or so. She had told me through conversation that she is still in touch with her ex bf who happens to live in a different part of the world. They dated for ...
A. 23 August 2010: I'm going to give you some insight to the girl world. Some girls hate being alone, in your first statement you get that. Your relationship is undefined, you guys appear to me open dating, like I said she can talk to, date or see whomever. In a ... (read in full...)
What he and I consider cheating does not seem to be the same thing!
Q. ok, so my boyfriend and i have been dating for almost 5 months..but we were best friends before that..and we have known eachother for like..3 or 4 years. and he is bisexual...lol i know.but i love him sooooo much, and i know that he loves me as ...
A. 23 August 2010: But the thing is he's in a relationship with you and going around kissing other dudes/girls bisexual or not that's still cheating. Tell he can other cut the crap or you're going to leave.... (read in full...)
How can I tell my friend to butt out???
Q. I'm fourteen and my bf and I have been going out for two months but somehow I find myself almost madly in love with him I've met him in person but we've never been alone..my friend that hooked us up always comes.. I know she us jealous but I do...
A. 22 August 2010: Well, that's great she hooked you guys up but now she needs to stop being the third wheel. I'm sure her and this guy are friends so there's nothing you can do about that. I don't think she's jealous or likes him because why would she take the time ... (read in full...)
I have a girlfriend but miss the sex with my older woman...
Q. I am a 32 year old male I have been with my partner for over 15 years, we have lived together for over 10 years and have 3 children. I had always considered our sex lives to be healthy until I met an older woman (11 years older) who is very sexual ...
A. 22 August 2010: Ugh, horny trev are you aware you cheated on your girlfriend? If your not happy with your sex life with your girlfriend then let her go before you hurt her and how it will affect your kids. If you love your girlfriend then I would tell her what ... (read in full...)
Is this a good enough reason to break up?
Q. I've been dating my boyfriend for about 4 years now and plans for our wedding have been going much slower than I wud have wanted them to go. It has affected my attitude towards my boyfriend and he has noticed the change in me. I feel frustrated, ...
A. 22 August 2010: Plans for your wedding? Did I miss the part where you got engaged? Ok, if you are engaged don't expect him to help out with the wedding. That's not their thing and they don't know a thing about it. You're better off hiring a wedding planner, or your ... (read in full...)
I feel completely burned out. How can I get my motivation back?
Q. I have a question regarding to none working wife syndrome. I have a uniquely, painful situation. Im in my late 40's and faced with a a big dilemma. I wish I could find some opinions here. So, I had many children, and I was stay-home mom, for many ...
A. 22 August 2010: Nobody said parenting was an easy job! First off, you sound like a great mom to me. I'm concerned are you getting medicine for your depression and seeing a therapist? My mom went through rough teenage years with me then through an affair, and a ... (read in full...)
I recently found out that the person I live with has been communicating with prostitutes via craigslist!
Q. Hi, I recently found out that the person I live with has been communicating with prostitutes via craigslist and several other sites. He had a prostitute call him which tipped me off so I went through his phone and saw numerous calls and even p...
A. 22 August 2010: Is this guy your boyfriend, friends with benefits, what's your status with him? How is your guys' sex life if he's interested in porn a ton and some phone sex? Unless you live in Las Vegas prostitution is illegal. I'd tell him your going to report ... (read in full...)
Is she wrong and why?
Q. Two guys who r kool like the same chick! They all hang out and become good friends! The chick likes guyA and has a casual relationship with guyA but guy B won't give up!Guy B tells the chick all of guy A's bizz one night while having drinks and ...
A. 22 August 2010: Yeah, friends with benefits never work someone always has feelings for the other and it always seems to be the girl. Women aren't emotionally cut out for friends with benefits. Guy A is toying with her and she's letting him..Guy B was just a side ... (read in full...)
I love her, but she loves him...He's a jerk...and what is love anyway?
Q. Okay, so my best friend was dating this girl on and off for two years. Most of those two years were a killer on this girl, because his parents would not let him see her and they would sneak around and he would always get in trouble. Several times he ...
A. 22 August 2010: What is love.
Baby don't hurt.
Don't hurt me no more.
She's 16-17, sorry to say but at that age you don't know what love is. You got a long way to go worry about that stuff after college and when you come across the one you just know. This ... (read in full...)
We were fwb...now its changing. How do I make it lean the way I want it to go?
Q. i have known this guy for 8 years, we have been having sex on and off for about 7 years now. we have had other relationships but always end up back with each other. but for the last couple of years he hasn't want a girlfriend and i haven't seen him ...
A. 22 August 2010: Oh honey, friends with benefits is such a gray area they never work because some one always has feeling for the other, in this case you. If he was the one for you don't you think he would have initiated a relationship at some point in those 7 years? ... (read in full...)
Can this cause an invalid child?
Q. Mod Note: Could not use Posters Chosen Title hello everyone! i have a question and i hope i'll get answers....as i heard if you have a sex with your boyfriend who is drunk you will have invalid child......can you tell me is it true or not? thanks...
A. 22 August 2010: No it's if you drink while your pregnant then you risk the chances for an invalid, or your fetus having fetal alcohol syndrome.... (read in full...)
How do I get past this and tell him size is not as important as he thinks it is and it also does not make a good lover?
Q. I have been with Husband for 14 years, 2 years ago we separated for a little over a year by his choice. During that time I began to see another man since my husband was certain he didn't want to continue our relationship. We (he) decided we wanted t...
A. 22 August 2010: Well size doesn't always matter to me every woman has her personal preference...but we don't let men on that secret because they would get a huge complex. Like your husband. The penis is a touchy sensitive, which I have no idea why he went down that ... (read in full...)
I don't paticularly want a relationship with him or anything... I guess I'm just intruiged. What should I do now?
Q. i came back from overseas, where i met this man. to be honest, my first impression of him was that he'e a complete idiot/douchebag. but, as you get to know people, they dont seem so bad. we were in a military environment where he was my officer,...
A. 22 August 2010: Once a douche bag always a douche bag, he's 40 with a wife and kids flirting with someone who is old enough to be his daughter. Too many red flags for me to count. You were overseas and then you came back, so how long ago was your last ... (read in full...)
I'm having trouble being "just friends" again with my co-worker!
Q. I am so confussed... I met a man at work, both of us single, but separted ( failed relationships) for the first few months of working there , we started to flirt and chat, which came easily for both of us, I'm a wee bit chatty and tend to chat alot ...
A. 22 August 2010: Love updates, now it didn't seem like you let your romantic side slide just yet. You guys are "friends" but still have that little extra. Too many mixed signals going on, both your side and his. If it's friends let's keep it that way no ... (read in full...)
I can't ever express myself without getting into a fight with her
Q. Hello all, my gf and I have been in a relationship for about 9 months and it is long distance. The problem is whenever I'm sad about anything now she gets worked up and always tells me "grow a fucking pair!" "man up!" "quit being a pussy" so I can ...
A. 22 August 2010: Are sure your dating a girl? She sounds like a dude with that mouth. Personally, I love a guy who opens up about their feelings it's like eclipses it only happens a couple of times every 2 years. That's where your girlfriend should be lending an ... (read in full...)
I feel more like we are best friends not lovers
Q. I am so lost and looking for advice as to whether I should try and move on I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years. We own a home together (no children) and are both in our late 20s. He has cheated on me in the past (never physical, but ph...
A. 22 August 2010: Well, if the spark was never there from the get go then it surely isn't going to ignite now. No spark, chemistry, or passion=a crap sex life. Alright, if you find yourself flirting with others then go ahead and end this relationship before you do ... (read in full...)
What he and I consider cheating does not seem to be the same thing!
Q. ok, so my boyfriend and i have been dating for almost 5 months..but we were best friends before that..and we have known eachother for like..3 or 4 years. and he is bisexual...lol i know.but i love him sooooo much, and i know that he loves me as ...
A. 22 August 2010: First problem your boyfriend is bisexual, you knew it from the get go but now he wants to have the guy aspect of it too. Personally I don't believe in bisexuality you either lean more towards one or the other there is no in between. In his case, ... (read in full...)
Is there any chance my straight best friend will fall for me, a teen gay?
Q. I know this question has been asked by many a gay guy, but i was hoping for a more specific answer. My friendship with this guy started rather oddly (he is the same age as me and we have actually been at school together for the past 5 years). He was ...
A. 22 August 2010: Yes your wasting your time, your not going to be able to turn your best friend. He likes you like a brother nothing more, so keep it that way or break off the friendship. Now that girl friend was a crappy little fag hag, even though your gay your ... (read in full...)
How Do I Tell My Boyfriend I Have No Friends? Pls Help
Q. My boyfriend is very sweet and a good guy and he has introduced me to his friends but I have not. We had a discussion recently where he was pouring out his mind, saying he puts in more effort, that I have never even introduced or taken him along ...
A. 22 August 2010: You got friends! I got friends in a couple of diff states whom I need to go visit. So what if most of them are guys, opposite sex is easier to get along with plus I think of them all as the brotherly type. In fact both of my best friends are dudes. ... (read in full...)
What do I do at this point in our relationship?
Q. Hello all, I've been in a LDR with my gf but the problem is that her parents won't let her date for a number of reasons because of this we never get to be together and spend every waking moment texting. Recetly her parents have even began limiting ...
A. 22 August 2010: I would surprise them by calling their house talking to her parents and setting up a convenient time for them to meet you. That will show your maturity to date their daughter. Unless she's under 16 then they shouldn't be telling her she can't date. ... (read in full...)
Short affair with my doctor has left me broken hearted
Q. I am so heart broken. I have been seeing a plastic surgeon for over 12 years, a man that, from the moment I met I fell in love with. He is married and his children that are grown now. I have no children, however, I to am married. Our relat...
A. 22 August 2010: Why are you still married to your husband if you have no feelings for him? You understand an affair is wrong, that's all it was to this doctor, and he stated it wasn't his first and most likely not his last. I'm sure that was a lie him telling you ... (read in full...)
Should I ask her out again and if so, when?
Q. Went on a date tonight and it went really well. We just got some dinner and talked for a bit. Nothing too serious. She was talkative and seemed interested. We actually laughed quite a bit. She is quite the flirter with others so i kind of take that ...
A. 22 August 2010: In girl world, if you don't call us for the second date within 3 days that means your not interested. So you have 3 days starting the day after your date. Call and don't text, it makes it that much more personal.... (read in full...)
By your standards, how many sexual partners is too many by age 19?
Q. When I was younger, I could not get laid--could not even get a date--to save my life. I never went to any dances, never went to proms, nothing. This year, however, I lived in Africa for 3 months and when I came back to college, somehow, things ...
A. 22 August 2010: I dont think there's an appropriate number as long as your being safe, birth control and he wears a condom. As long as it's not in say the 30s then your fine. My number is 16 and Im 25. ... (read in full...)
I know she was in a bad mood, but was she taking her anger out on me in a way or am I just being sensitive?
Q. I met up with my friend Lisa tonight for dinner. (She had to go to a family event and was meeting up with me.) While on my way over there, she called and asked where I was. When I told her, she asked if I was with a mutual friend, Jackie. I said no ...
A. 22 August 2010: Oh you and I were out? Lol, my name is Jackie and I do have a friend named Lisa but she's not like the Lisa u described. Lisa sounds like she has a lot on her mind and her parents were the icing on the cake for her. She lashed out at you a bit ... (read in full...)
She is still hanging on to her ex but wants a relationship with me
Q. I recently got back into the dating game. Met this girl, we saw each other for about 3 months or so. She had told me through conversation that she is still in touch with her ex bf who happens to live in a different part of the world. They dated for ...
A. 22 August 2010: Well not exactly, you guys are in the undefined gray area of dating. So she is free to talk to anyone she pleases or to date anyone else. Unless you stated that your exclusively dating..Think of this way, he is on the other side of the world and ... (read in full...)
Engaged to be married but have feelings for someone else too!
Q. I am engaged to be married. I care and love my current girlfriend but I also may have feeling for someone else. Sometimes I think it may be infatuation but then sometimes I think it is more than that. I haven't cheated on my fiance and I don't want ...
A. 22 August 2010: If there is any doubt in your mind, do yourself and your fiance a favor and call off the engagement. It's ok to call off an engagement because your mind and heart aren't 100% into it. I've done it and I know there are others out there who have too. ... (read in full...)
26 years of marriage and not even a card on my birthday?
Q. I have been married for 26 years, and today was my 50th birthday. My husband did not even buy me a card. No presents, no party, nothing. We are in a bit of a financial crunch, but not matter what has been happening throughout our marriage I have ...
A. 22 August 2010: Is this the only problem in your marriage or does it run deeper than a birthday? Has he never bought u a card, surprise party etc for your birthday? I would be a lil upset as well your 50th birthday is quite a milestone. Have a talk with him, ask ... (read in full...)
Why does my ex mistreat me so much?
Q. why does my ex and father of my baby mistreat me so much. my ex broke up with me in the last months of my pregnancy, and ever since then we've grown farther apart. now that our daughter is here i try to get along with him for the sake of my baby ...
A. 22 August 2010: I applaud you for being the better person here and thinking about your daughter even during this crappy situation. You can't make him want to see his daughter, he'll hopefully decide he wants to see her on his own. It's really the single mothers out ... (read in full...)
How do you know if he is still really into you or just wanting you in his life?
Q. I could really use some advice and am pretty much alone so I hope to hear from some of you. I was in a 13 year relationship with someone I had known for 23 years total when I ended the relationship for various reasons. By the time I got to the place ...
A. 22 August 2010: What are the odds of you moving into the same apartment complex as them? Unless you live in a small town. First off you have known him for 23 years together for 13, what were you guys the other 10? Why did you end the relationship? Well know that ... (read in full...)
He finished off on his own!
Q. okay so today i gave my boyfriend a handjob and a blowjob and he didn't cum, he finished it off on his own..i feel like he wasn't turned on by me.. why didn't he cum? and what are good ways to make him? or turn him on?...
A. 22 August 2010: Hand jobs are rather silly I think. It's like you're doing the masterbating for him. I was never really into them, I think it's something he can do on his own time, plus my hand would get a little tired, lol. ... (read in full...)
Is she wrong and why?
Q. Two guys who r kool like the same chick! They all hang out and become good friends! The chick likes guyA and has a casual relationship with guyA but guy B won't give up!Guy B tells the chick all of guy A's bizz one night while having drinks and ...
A. 22 August 2010: Ah I see the missing piece to the puzzle...If he didnt tell up front that this was nothing but FWBs then he is the one in the wrong. However she shouldnt sleep with B out of spite to A its just not fair to B. I dont think A really cares if there ... (read in full...)
Is she wrong and why?
Q. Two guys who r kool like the same chick! They all hang out and become good friends! The chick likes guyA and has a casual relationship with guyA but guy B won't give up!Guy B tells the chick all of guy A's bizz one night while having drinks and ...
A. 22 August 2010: Im on team Guy A. Let me try to keep this straight, define casual relationship with Guy A..Are we talking in terms of friends with benefits or is this an actual relationship exclusive bf and gf? Ur friend seems to attract drama or enjoys it one of ... (read in full...)
Meeting people online
Q. I need some advice about meeting people online. I am in my late twenties and have never been in a real relationship. I have suffered with social anxiety disorder as well as bipolar disorder for all of my adult life. Once diagnosed, I began ...
A. 22 August 2010: I would hold back on the disorder part until u get to know the guy or friend well enough and are comfortable to share ur secret. Beware not everyone is that trustworthy...For boyfriends, u can do that match.com, or theres one called fish in a pond, ... (read in full...)
Annoyed with best friend squealing
Q. hi guys, i am pissed off with my best friend, who i used to consider the brother i never had. i thought i could safely bitch about my gf to him while me and my gf are in a bit of turmoil over money and trust, and other issues. he was happy to agr...
A. 22 August 2010: Ouch ur best bud violated ur trust, I thought it didnt happen in guy world, same thing happens in girl world. U should be able to tell your best friend everything and not matter what they dont judge u, just offer their advice, keep ur secrets, and ... (read in full...)
How to be happy for and support my boyfriend in college?
Q. Sooo my boyfriend of over a year just moved to college a couple weeks ago, and he's really excited about his college life, as he should be. He's been attending fish camp and all kinds of introductory fun activities to his school before it starts. ...
A. 22 August 2010: Ha in college u dont really start to calm down until halfway thru junior year? How's the communication? The thing about this that sucks in these kind of relationships is he's in college and these are the best years of his life, u meet so many diff ... (read in full...)
Should I talk to my FWB about a possible title on our relationship?
Q. so i've been seeing this guy for about 9 months now. we started off as friends with benefits, but its more then that. we hang out constantly, and we dont see other people. we always have fun. and at first, he used to always kiss me when dropping me ...
A. 21 August 2010: Yeah the FWB never works bc one always ends up having feelings for another. In this case u. Are u positive that he isnt seeing anyone else? Sorry but it isnt going anywhere except for heartache for u. The title is FWB with u trying to make it more, ... (read in full...)
What can I do to convince her to call the cops on him?
Q. Help my friend guys!! About a year ago my friend joined a group on facebook and put a link on its wall to some pictures of her in sexy outfits. A guy messaged her saying that he thought she was sexy. She accepted his friend request even as he said ...
A. 21 August 2010: Thank god, I feel better knowing I helped u and ur friend get to this first step! Everything will be alright.... (read in full...)
Closure? Or wants me to wait?
Q. I was with my ex for 2 years, but then I met a new guy. This new guy treated me right, I felt like a princess, but he wasn't ready for a new relationship, and I was still in the 2year long relationship. I became best friends with this new guy, and ...
A. 21 August 2010: So u cheated on ur bf with K? How long did u take to end things with ur boyfriend? Sorry but it sounds like u were just a fun fling for him. And the right before u leave sex, it only confuses u even more that wasnt a great idea. Plus, he cheated on ... (read in full...)
How to make your husband getting to his mood ?
Q. How to get your husband turn on.I got my hubby and Is been 2 years we are married and he is never in the mood of having sex.we have sex like once a month.Is crazy I know.What can I do to turn him on ?make him go crazy ?...
A. 21 August 2010: Walk naked past him to go shower, I wear naughty lingerie to bed, or one time I was a naughty school girl complete with a ruler. I'll let u in on one secret, if u get home before him. I suggest making dinner wearing nothing but a cute apron, heels, ... (read in full...)
Stabbed in the heart by her comment...
Q. So this morning was the biggest heart break I could ever handle. I found out my girlfriend... my best friend... my everything cheated on me a month ago. She told me this intoxicated and also took an e pill saying some guy performed oral on her, but ...
A. 21 August 2010: Big mistake number one, having sex right after confronting her. Ur emotions are running high then u channel it into sex. When u put ur foot down keep it down! Promise me never to do it again. Sorry darling but she doesnt sound like the marrying ... (read in full...)
Should I stay with him even though he's put me through so much?
Q. k where do i begin... i will make this short with as much descritption as possible... about 5 months ago my boyfriend of 41/2 years admitted that when he was between the ages of 16-19 he let another man give him oral. before this he was an jerk ...
A. 21 August 2010: Woah, now I dont think he's gay most likely just a lil experiment that happened back then, or he could have been pressured into that oral with a man. Him being underage and that happening obviously shook his world and is still affecting him now. I ... (read in full...)
Honey boobs!
Q. Hi, For a very long time my hubby has had a wish that he wants to put honey on boobs and nipples so that he can lick my boobs and suck my nipples. Please advise... is it safe and okay?...
A. 21 August 2010: That sounds like a fantastic idea! Why didnt I ever think of that? It would be the same as wearing that whip cream bikini. Most def safe and sexy for him to eat right off of u! Yum.... (read in full...)
Attracted to his personality but not his appearance
Q. I'm in hard situation I've been best friends with this guy for a long while now and he's made attempts in the past to ask me out but I denied him. But I've developed feeling for him. So I told him this in march. He makes me feel happy. He's the best ...
A. 21 August 2010: You know the hottest guy with the worst personality could ask me out and I wont dare give him the time of day. I know growing up we were often told "Looks don't matter it's on the inside that counts." Now there is some truth to that, but come on ... (read in full...)
I'm having trouble being "just friends" again with my co-worker!
Q. I am so confussed... I met a man at work, both of us single, but separted ( failed relationships) for the first few months of working there , we started to flirt and chat, which came easily for both of us, I'm a wee bit chatty and tend to chat alot ...
A. 17 August 2010: This is why I dont date anyone I work with, it ends in breakup and ur still stuck with them nearly everyday. Its not the best time for u two to be together because u both have to settle ur issues first and both minds have to be totally into it. Keep ... (read in full...)
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