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What qualifies me to help you? Vast dating experience, especially in the LDR department, even an international on with an Aussie, broke hearts, had mine broken, been engaged once before, I know what a real friend is, seen the ugly side of divorce coming from a recently broken home myself, even went as far as to tip the odds to my side and use men only to toss them aside like yesterday's garbage like they do women, I know what it's like to almost give up hope on finding the perfect man when he's really only a few boyfriends away, and I'm starting to learn the ropes of married life. I also know a vast deal about the female and male reproductive system, and all about the mental struggles with infertility. On a side note, I'm the one who gives you tough love, I'm not on here to sugarcoat it or to tell you what you want to hear. I'm going to give it to you straight up, wouldn't you rather the truth?
-TOP 5 QUESTIONS I CAN'T STAND-
#1. Does this mean my teacher likes me?
Just because they're nice to you, offer extra help, and put a little gold star on your A+ paper doesn't mean they are in love with you.
#2. Could I be pregnant?
Have you not heard of a pregnancy test? Get off this website, and go to your local drugstore.
#3. I'm 14 and I want a baby?
Really? Me too! Oh wait I'm 28 and married. You're how old again?
#4. My husband loves porn more than me!
Maybe if you didn't let yourself go into the frumpy woman you have turned into then he wouldn't have to look at porn now would he? I recommend you get your rear to the salon for highlights, manicure, pedicure, tanning, toss the baggy tees and sweat pants for a wardrobe that fits, and a little makeup goes a long way. It's called basic woman maintenance in order to keep your man's eyes on you.
#5. Will we get back together, how can I get him to love me again?
Unfortunately, my crystal ball is broke at the moment and I just gave away the last of my love potion No. 9. Sorry.
MY GENERAL RULES OF THUMB (this should be common sense)
-No means no.
-Girls can ask out ask guys, this is a new generation.
-Unless you know sign language or are telepathic, you're going to have to talk to him/her.
-My "Don't ask, Don't tell" policy as is follows: Do not by any means volunteer your own sexual history, or ask your date/partner/wife/girlfriend their magic number (how many people they've slept with). If you find yourself being prompted to answer this question, politely tell them that's none of their business.
-Your past doesn't define who you are today. We grow, mature, age, and change as time passes.
-If you have to even ask random strangers on this website if you should have sex, then you're not ready for it.
-FWBs, fuck buddies, no strings attached, whatever you want to call it..is not a relationship don't get the 2 confused. In this case, sex=sex, not love.
-No trust=no relationship.
-It is normal for your husband/boyfriend to have friends of the opposite sex, do you not have male friends?
-LDRs can work, however they're not for everyone. You've got to have trust, communication, be faithful, and a lot of hobbies to keep yourself occupied. If you have trust issues, a case of being needy, clingy, problems staying faithful and are in a LDR don't be surprised when it doesn't work. I told you so.
- An ex is an ex for a reason. If you guys couldn't hack it as a couple the first 2 times what makes you think the third time is a charm?
-Going on a "break" is a nice way of breaking up.
-If you have sex with a man and he hasn't called you, or responded to your texts in weeks sorry to say but he was just after a piece of ass.
- Now unless he's getting blown up in Afghanistan, an on call ER doctor, or lying dead in a coffin then he's got no excuse for his poor or lack there of communication.
-You have a 12% chance of your married boyfriend leaving his wife and children.
-A man who is going through a divorce is still legally married. He's about to have an ex wife and you're wanting to get into a relationship with him? That's called a rebound.
-If you're a minor who's just found out she's pregnant, do me and everyone else on this site a favor..Tell your parents.
-Just because some one stares at you, it doesn't mean they like you. They could be staring at that booger hanging out of your nose.
-If you have a lump/bump/cyst/rash that looks green, has oozing puss, and itches like hell, but kinda looks like a STD then you had better consult your doctor. They went through 6 years of schooling and have a license to practice medicine, I think they would know better than random virtual strangers.
-Don't mix business with pleasure. Why? Because if you date your co-worker and in the event things turn sour then you're still stuck facing them 9-5, Mon-Fri. Awkward.
-No matter how hard you try, you can't change a person..they have to make that transformation themselves.
-When your boyfriend/girlfriend says they want space that doesn't mean you do the opposite and bombard them with calls/texts.
-As far as ultimatums go, don't try to make your boyfriend choose between you, his female friends, or weed. You won't like the results.
-If you're 13-17, I'm sorry but you haven't a clue what love really is. You have minimal dating experience confined to the high school dating pool which are nothing but horny boys. Their facial hair doesn't make them a man. It's only till you get out into the real world, a vast dating pool is when you learn the definition of love. So, go on thinking you and 13 year old Tommy will go on to get married, have 3 kids, and a two story house with a white picket fence. I don't expect you to listen, I'm 28 and married, what do I know? There's a reason why everyone says it won't last..because it doesn't.
-The average penis size erect is 6 inches, 4.85 inches. Women like average to even a little below average. We're not going to bust out a tape measure and measure it to make sure it's up to our standards. We just want to have sex, so enough complaining about your size let's get down and dirty.
- The legal age of consent in the U.S. is 16-18 varying oer state, in Britain it's 16. I think it's safe to say most parts of the world (unless you live in a tribe with their own form of government) the legal age to consent to sex is 16. So yes, all you minors below the age of consent are committing a crime when you engage in sexual activity. The age is set that high for a reason, you are not above the law. |
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Is he serious?
Q. My current boyfriend is 16 years old, and I'm 19. He's mature for his age (for the most part) and is extremely romantic and sweet. I love him to death. We met in person this summer after talking online (he lives in Ireland and I'm in the US), and we ...
A. 1 February 2011: My apologies, I misread your age and got you two reversed. Easy mistake.
A few months into the relationship, of hardly knowing you he's already talking about marriage and proposing. Moving a tad bit too fast, don't you think? How many times ha... (read in full...)
My fiance will not help me clean!
Q. Mod note: Titled by poster okay, ever since i started dating my fiance he has always been VERY messy.. i knew that getting into it but i never thought he could be as bad as i know now i make little notes for him on the fridge of a little li...
A. 24 August 2010: haha excellent! If he doesn't pick up his things then you will start throwing them away. I like it!... (read in full...)
Shaving down there...
Q. Basically,I have been in a relationship for 3 years and my boyfriend always requested i shaved down there.....now that i am single i am wondering is this a normal thing and what do most other people do? thanks:)...
A. 24 August 2010: What's the point of trimming? If your going to go through that trouble with a trimmer, why not just shave it all off? The bumps and itch that's what the medicated cream is for. Besides what guy wants to have some stubbly hair scratching him in the ... (read in full...)
It bothers me that my friend changed her name when she got married
Q. My friend at work got married in private three months ago, and took her husband's name. It was a couple of weeks before we (her friends) found out. It was all so sudden. We all had to get used to her having a completely different last name, but I...
A. 24 August 2010: Ah ha, you have a crush on her didn't get a chance to tell her and now she's married! Well it's not archaic to take the man's last name, unless C.Grant stated you're in Quebec. Which I had no idea, learn something new everyday. In fact, I don't know ... (read in full...)
Are these signs that he could be gay?
Q. Is he gay? I have this friend I think is gay I'm not totally sure but my friends keep asking me and I don't know i would be a bit down because I really like him but the way he walks is slightley feminin and he smokes so he smokes a little bit gayi...
A. 24 August 2010: Doesn't sound gay enough to me. You need more than that to pass some judgement. If he starts dressing better than you, really focusing on his hair, flips through fashion magazines over Maxium, suggests going shopping, his bedroom is squeaky clean ... (read in full...)
Closure? Or wants me to wait?
Q. I was with my ex for 2 years, but then I met a new guy. This new guy treated me right, I felt like a princess, but he wasn't ready for a new relationship, and I was still in the 2year long relationship. I became best friends with this new guy, and ...
A. 24 August 2010: Look you were never his girlfriend just his side item. You two have never had a relationship, just sex and a whole lot of confusion for you. He stopped by for a visit because your still allowing him to be in your life, he gets bored of his ... (read in full...)
Stop looking and it will happen???
Q. Good evening, Dear Cupid Community: My problem is that I'm too "friendly". Or it seems this way. Girls always look at me as a friend. I ask you this: Who you rather date somebody you helps you with you problems or talks to you often, and cares ab...
A. 24 August 2010: I'm wondering why you're falling into the friend zone every time. When was your last relationship and how did it end? I'll say this as stupid as it sounds but guys do like the ones that are a bit of a jerk. I don't know what it is but there's some ... (read in full...)
16 and wanting to be pregnant need advice!
Q. alright, so im 16 years old, alot of people around me are all having babies or just getting pregnant,plus the fact i looooove babies,i also have a really horrible family life, and sometimes just need to know someone cares about me i know i have all ...
A. 24 August 2010: A baby is a ton of responsibility and very expensive. Who's going to help you out with the baby and support you? You have to be there 24-7 attending their every needs, often having to put your own aside for a crying infant. Feed, change, burp, give ... (read in full...)
It bothers me that my friend changed her name when she got married
Q. My friend at work got married in private three months ago, and took her husband's name. It was a couple of weeks before we (her friends) found out. It was all so sudden. We all had to get used to her having a completely different last name, but I...
A. 24 August 2010: Are you upset because she didn't tell you she was getting married? I would be a little hurt if I didn't know and she didn't invite u. But then again you have to remember people get married in whatever way they want eloping, small ceremony with just ... (read in full...)
So much stress in my life what do I do?
Q. what do you do if you are so depressed because your boyfriend is in the military and your very behind in college and you have a job afterwards and then you have church every wednesdays and sundays and sometimes saturdays and thursdays and your also ...
A. 24 August 2010: Remember you chose your boyfriend who is in the military, if you guys end up married you're going to have to deal with that your whole life. College you can finish at any age there's no deadline on it, and being pregnant you can do online schooling ... (read in full...)
Betrayal by sister and mom!
Q. okay, so here it goes. I have this Horribe problem. im 17, and I have this Amazing, most wonderful boyfriend in the world. Hi name is Greg, and His 19. And my name is liz : p I have this bratty lil sister, named clair. and well. ok here i...
A. 24 August 2010: It's clear to me that your boyfriend liked your sister not your mom hence why he broke up with you for her. Your sister played you. Plus he's not the amazing guy you think he is, sorry. Do you and your sister have a competitive relationship? If so ... (read in full...)
My fiance will not help me clean!
Q. Mod note: Titled by poster okay, ever since i started dating my fiance he has always been VERY messy.. i knew that getting into it but i never thought he could be as bad as i know now i make little notes for him on the fridge of a little li...
A. 24 August 2010: Haha, I'm lucky if my husband does half my honey do list. I gotta tell him 2-3 times to take out the trash, that the dirty clothes belong in the hamper not on the floor, toilet seat down, I'm constantly reminding mine. One tip for the dirty clothes, ... (read in full...)
Is 30 years and 3000 miles such a problem?
Q. ok everyone when i was young i had a fake profile on a dating site i fell in love with a man on that site at the time but i could never tell him who i really was now i am 19 and i see he is still on the site i am so happy he is still single as i ...
A. 24 August 2010: You're old enough to be his daughter, it would be like talking to your dad. Ew. Online dating can be very dangerous, he could be lying about who he is as well there's really no telling. There was a girl on here yesterday that chatted with some guy ... (read in full...)
Confused with my first love! please help
Q. so I am 19 yes old I have been with a guy who is my first love, we were together for 2 years like he is the first guy I ever kissed. we had met when I was sixteen and he was fifteen, he will be eighteen this September bit like we broke up maybe a ...
A. 24 August 2010: I was around your age when I was trying to get over my first love, he sounded a lot like yours in fact not good for me at all. First loves can be hard to get over even more so than regular break-ups. I surrounded myself with friends I couldn't ... (read in full...)
Was it a date or just hanging out?
Q. So I reconnect with a friend from high school online…we went out for like month (purely innocent) during my first yr of high school. So I broke up with him, I don’t remember why, but we remained friends. We lost contact and recently exchange ...
A. 24 August 2010: Well, he didn't cuddle you because he was sick that's actually kind of sweet. From your text everything is positive, he initiated the first text, he paid for the dinner and movie, you got to pick, he talked about going on another, he tried a little ... (read in full...)
Long distance confusion...any help would be appreciated!
Q. (MOD NOTE: Two questions have been posted together) 1)-I have been in a long distance relationship for almost 2 years.We get along great , told each other things ect...But , the thing is when he goes shopping he mentions it's with a girl then whe...
A. 24 August 2010: Two years in a LDR and you haven't met? Wow. That's a lot of hanging out with girls..I've noticed that guys who have lots of girlfriends are very flirty with them. He's more of a ladies man than a man's man. Those guys I don't trust, but that's just ... (read in full...)
I wish I knew a way to get him back...
Q. Hi, Im looking for advice on how to get my ex back. we were together nearly three years,never had a fight always on got on well, i thought id be with him forever.... we were having a long distance relationship for a while because i was studying ...
A. 24 August 2010: People says those 3 words at different times in the relationship, some sooner than others, others are late bloomers..How old is he? I mean if he doesn't know after 3 years then come on. If you did all the chasing and there was very little effort on ... (read in full...)
Told him how I feel now he is acting different
Q. Im quite confused about how my friend now feels about me. I have 2 questions here so please help me to figure out both points :) I always thought he did have feelings for me but we both seemed shy, he never spoke to me like he did anyone else....
A. 24 August 2010: Let's recap to see if I understand you , I'm a little confused at certain bits in here but I get the gist. You guys are friends, told him you have feeling for you but he doesn't reciprocate he wants to be friends, but he wants to mess around, and ... (read in full...)
My friend is on birth control and I'm not sure she's using it correctly!
Q. My friend and I both went to the public clinic about three months ago to start on Birth Control. I went on the Nuvaring, she's on the Evra patch. She's very sexually active with her boyfriend, and we are very open and honest about this kind ...
A. 24 August 2010: Did she not listen to the clinic doctor when she got it? Chances of her getting pregnant aren't very high because you're releasing eggs and sperm only live a day or two in the uterus. But there still is a chance, her highest chance is during her ... (read in full...)
I want to have sex with my boss!
Q. i fancy my manager at work, hes 10 years older than me, hes married though, we flirt alot and when we go out for drinks we get quite touchy feeling, i know he wont leave his wife, and i wouldnt want him to but i really want to have sex with hi...
A. 24 August 2010: Cut the flirting on your end, stop going out to drinks with him I'm sure there's a fraternization policy, and when he gets touchy feeling brush him off and tell him let's keep this professional. He'll get the idea.... (read in full...)
Shaving down there...
Q. Basically,I have been in a relationship for 3 years and my boyfriend always requested i shaved down there.....now that i am single i am wondering is this a normal thing and what do most other people do? thanks:)...
A. 24 August 2010: In America, yes it's pertinent that women shave down south. You can get it waxed, Brazilian wax where they get all of it including your bum, or repeatedly shaving in the shower. Now, I'll tell you if I'm not in a relationship or sexually active then ... (read in full...)
Is he serious?
Q. My current boyfriend is 16 years old, and I'm 19. He's mature for his age (for the most part) and is extremely romantic and sweet. I love him to death. We met in person this summer after talking online (he lives in Ireland and I'm in the US), and we ...
A. 23 August 2010: You've only met him once and it's only been a few months of dating and he's already talking marriage? I don't know how young they marry in Ireland but for you 16 is too young. Your parents would have to sign for you in order for you to marry I doubt ... (read in full...)
How can I tell my parents I'm gay without them getting upset?
Q. Dear Gays, I'm a gay teen and I've been thinking about coming out to my home family a lot lateley but it's not easy with two sisters waiting to meet my first girlfriend and my mum is a homophobe and it would disgust her and as my fathers only son...
A. 23 August 2010: Where are our gay agony aunts for this one? Do we have any?
Well, I'm what they call a fag hag. A gay guy's go to gal, the best of all friends. I can lend you advice to what I've seen. One of my gays pretended he was gay I was his "gir... (read in full...)
Confused Attractions
Q. I told a girl that I liked her. She rejected me. We became close friends and my feelings died down. However she came back to me months later and said that she has feelings for me now, but she is confused as to whether she does or not. Are her ...
A. 23 August 2010: This girl hasn't a clue to what she wants. She likes you but she doesn't. To be frank, she isn't girlfriend material. Just keep it as friends because it you get together I foresee heartbreak for you. ... (read in full...)
Do you think every guy deserves a second chance?
Q. Hey i was just wondering do you think every guy deserves a second chance? In the begning of are relationship i told my bf if he ever cheats on me its over. (i was cheated on before by me ex and i kept giving him chances over and over and i dont ...
A. 23 August 2010: When I was dating, B.H. (before husband) I never believed in the breakup, makeup. I only gave one chance, cheating is a deal breaker for me that's grounds for being kicked to the curb. If they couldn't hack it the first time what makes me think ... (read in full...)
Not sure if I want to marry him now! Help!
Q. Hi i've been with my bf for 5 years and although i love him the fear of getting closer to marriage kinda scares me. It's so weird b/c marriage is all i used to think about with him..during our 2nd and 3rd year dating were were looking at rings for ...
A. 23 August 2010: I was your age when I was engaged the first time, we were engaged after 2 years, moved to another state to be with. We moved in together and he was a totally different person, controlling, possessive, clingy, etc. I couldn't take it, I started to ... (read in full...)
I want to have sex with my boss!
Q. i fancy my manager at work, hes 10 years older than me, hes married though, we flirt alot and when we go out for drinks we get quite touchy feeling, i know he wont leave his wife, and i wouldnt want him to but i really want to have sex with hi...
A. 23 August 2010: So this man is worth it to jeopardize his marriage and potentially your job? Do you really want to be his mistress? If things get out you could be deemed the office slut and you both could get fired, or if things turn sour between you two he could ... (read in full...)
I cheated and he did too but he's lying about it!
Q. ive been with my boyfriend for 3 years but for two of them he has been incarcerated, while he was away i had an affair and stupidly told him about it. he chose to forgive me and recently returned home. most of the time everything is fine but every ...
A. 23 August 2010: He cheated first, so did you cheat just to get back at him? There is no victim here, you're just as bad as he is, only he went to prison so he's got one up on you. Two wrongs don't make a right nor do they cancel each other out. Chances are he's not ... (read in full...)
I don't have a job! what should I tell people at my brothers wedding?
Q. I'm not sure what to do. I have been invited for a night out in a group for my friend's birthday, and i am also going to my brother's wedding soon, but i feel embarrassed because i dont have a job and i know that people usually ask what you do for a ...
A. 23 August 2010: Are you a student? If so then you can say that's your job till you graduate. People these days definitely understand the recession is hitting everyone hard so if they ask just say your um-employed at the moment, then discuss how the economy hit you, ... (read in full...)
What is it with my bf texting but not calling?
Q. Do some guys just not like calling? My boyfriend seems to only like texting and we only talk on the phone every few days. If I call him then he does answer or call me back but i just find it a bit strange. Has anyone else been in a similar situat...
A. 23 August 2010: I've been told by numerous guys they can't stand to talk on the phone and they don't have much to say. Texting is the new phone call anyway so I would't worry about it. Phone calls are more for chicks anyway because we love to chat and have a lot to ... (read in full...)
Turned into a wuss with my girlfriend, so I dumped her. Now I want her back, what do I do?
Q. I madly love my girlfriend. We had an amazing and vibrant story together... at least the first months. She is a super hot babe, 10++, A class, a great spirit and a stunning beauty. I got her because I was a wild stallion then, a H2G super male. ...
A. 23 August 2010: Are you afraid your not going to get another girl like her? And you broke up with her 4 times? Sorry but if it didn't work the other 4 times what makes you think the fifth time is a charm? To be frank your still acting like a wussy and she obviously ... (read in full...)
How often do you get a "spark" when dating?
Q. Hi, I'm wondering what you think about my question... Basically, I had great sexual chemistry with my first proper boyfriend, when I was 16. We were together 3 years, and the spark never died, but we grew apart. The spark with my next bf was even ...
A. 23 August 2010: When your young it's infatuation, that giddy, twisted stomach feeling..when your with someone your really into. As you get older and get a few more relationships under your belt I do think that spark is less and less, because your looking for ... (read in full...)
After 3 years I still haven't moved on
Q. I dont know why i cant get over him, its been three years now since i separarted from my boyfriend of 5 years. i broke the relationship because apparently he was cheating on me.....not only cheating on me, but impregnanting the girls and forcing ...
A. 23 August 2010: You were dating the devil. He cheated on you and got these chicks pregnant with his child then forced them to have an abortion, what a piece of crap!! And you still think about him after what he's done to you? This guy doesn't even deserve to walk ... (read in full...)
Is it ok to have sex with your cousin?
Q. Ok I am 15 and my cousin is 16 we aren't really close she started comming down for the summer 3 years ago and I hadn't seen her since we were like 5. A couple times we got in to a couple of sexual positions where we could have done it. ...
A. 23 August 2010: No it's not ok, and I'm sure you have an idea that it's not right. She's your relations, and has family blood running through her veins. Incest is illegal and a criminal offense, I don't know what the punishment is for minors but bottom line stay ... (read in full...)
My best friend is gay and I love him and want to tell him
Q. I am in love with my best friend. How could I not be? He is always there for me and we do everything together. We have stuck together for a very long time, and I believe he feels the same. One issue; he's gay. Since I am his female "fag hag...
A. 23 August 2010: How does he know he's gay if he has never been with a guy? Or he's newly gay and has that attraction for males? If he has no interest in females at all the chances are he's not going to be in love with you. You're a fag hag, you're there to support ... (read in full...)
She is still hanging on to her ex but wants a relationship with me
Q. I recently got back into the dating game. Met this girl, we saw each other for about 3 months or so. She had told me through conversation that she is still in touch with her ex bf who happens to live in a different part of the world. They dated for ...
A. 23 August 2010: I'm going to give you some insight to the girl world. Some girls hate being alone, in your first statement you get that. Your relationship is undefined, you guys appear to me open dating, like I said she can talk to, date or see whomever. In a ... (read in full...)
He was looking for a fling, but I can't get him off my mind
Q. Hi, Went to a conference in Hawaii and met another professional who lives in another country. We really hit it off in just 3-4 days and spent a lot of time together. I felt we connected at a deep level. Very aggressive about wanting to have sex and ...
A. 23 August 2010: At times, dating can be like job interviews for a husband. Lol. Do some light, casual dating for now, since you're going to be a little rusty but you'll get the hang of it once again. Do a mental checklist of what you're now looking in a man, then ... (read in full...)
Has he stopped making an effort because he already has me?
Q. hi ive been with my partner for over two years and we are now engaged problem is i have a security issue. My partner tells me im the only one for him but sometimes i dont feel like it. Before he propsed to me he told his mate the reason why he was ...
A. 23 August 2010: Call me old-fashioned but when you get engaged it's for love. Sorry to say but your relationship is at the end of the road. There's so many red flags here I don't even know where to start...The first and biggest one is he proposed to you so you ... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant, husband cheated, I took him back but I don't see things changing
Q. My husband and I will have been married two years December 12 2010. I am pregnant will our first child and due November 21 2010. My husband works out of town a lot, sometimes a week to two weeks at a time. I don't really like that he is gone so much ...
A. 23 August 2010: I would be afraid for you and your unborn child's safety if he went buck wild destroying crap. Talk about a temper. No one's marriage is perfect in fact it takes a lot of work and maintenance to keep it up. The catch to that is that both parties ... (read in full...)
Is she playing hard to get? or do I really mean nothing to her?
Q. Sorry in advance for the wall of text. Ok so I don't have the best track record when it comes to dating. Many of the girls I asked out in high school simply avoided my advacnes all together. Needless to say I was a little jaded from these girls and ...
A. 23 August 2010: High school dating was the beginning of an era, in fact they're not that mature of relationships so I never really counted them. Once you get to college it's a clean slate anyway. How much of a tip did your Dad leave her? She sounds rather fake, ... (read in full...)
He was looking for a fling, but I can't get him off my mind
Q. Hi, Went to a conference in Hawaii and met another professional who lives in another country. We really hit it off in just 3-4 days and spent a lot of time together. I felt we connected at a deep level. Very aggressive about wanting to have sex and ...
A. 23 August 2010: You said it yourself he was just looking for a fling. You're in a delicate, vulnerable state of mind right now with the recent divorce. Let's face the facts, the man is on a different island, he was very aggressive to get into your pants, you gave ... (read in full...)
What he and I consider cheating does not seem to be the same thing!
Q. ok, so my boyfriend and i have been dating for almost 5 months..but we were best friends before that..and we have known eachother for like..3 or 4 years. and he is bisexual...lol i know.but i love him sooooo much, and i know that he loves me as ...
A. 23 August 2010: But the thing is he's in a relationship with you and going around kissing other dudes/girls bisexual or not that's still cheating. Tell he can other cut the crap or you're going to leave.... (read in full...)
I got involved with the wrong guy!
Q. Im not confused i jus need to hear the situation from someone elses point of view...I know i got caught up with the wrong guy. he cheated on his last girlfriend and when i didnt do anything with him last year he called me boring cause i would not ...
A. 22 August 2010: In a nutshell, he's never going to be relationship material. He proved that when he cheated on his girlfriend with you and continued to keep a hold on you through open dating which is such a gray area. Your his go to girl when he comes back on break ... (read in full...)
What does it take to be happy and successful in life?
Q. I am back here after a few years, those years had helped me open my eyes wide open, and understand that you cant force somebody to love you, or respect you if they don't want to, either make then change their actions... I am very happy now my son is ...
A. 22 August 2010: It varies from person to person but I would say as long as your doing things that make you happy, achieving goals and dreams then you are successful. Some go to college and be a doctor, scientist, school teacher, nurse etc..having children, finding ... (read in full...)
How can I tell my friend to butt out???
Q. I'm fourteen and my bf and I have been going out for two months but somehow I find myself almost madly in love with him I've met him in person but we've never been alone..my friend that hooked us up always comes.. I know she us jealous but I do...
A. 22 August 2010: Well, that's great she hooked you guys up but now she needs to stop being the third wheel. I'm sure her and this guy are friends so there's nothing you can do about that. I don't think she's jealous or likes him because why would she take the time ... (read in full...)
What he and I consider cheating does not seem to be the same thing!
Q. ok, so my boyfriend and i have been dating for almost 5 months..but we were best friends before that..and we have known eachother for like..3 or 4 years. and he is bisexual...lol i know.but i love him sooooo much, and i know that he loves me as ...
A. 22 August 2010: First problem your boyfriend is bisexual, you knew it from the get go but now he wants to have the guy aspect of it too. Personally I don't believe in bisexuality you either lean more towards one or the other there is no in between. In his case, ... (read in full...)
She is still hanging on to her ex but wants a relationship with me
Q. I recently got back into the dating game. Met this girl, we saw each other for about 3 months or so. She had told me through conversation that she is still in touch with her ex bf who happens to live in a different part of the world. They dated for ...
A. 22 August 2010: Well not exactly, you guys are in the undefined gray area of dating. So she is free to talk to anyone she pleases or to date anyone else. Unless you stated that your exclusively dating..Think of this way, he is on the other side of the world and ... (read in full...)
Closure? Or wants me to wait?
Q. I was with my ex for 2 years, but then I met a new guy. This new guy treated me right, I felt like a princess, but he wasn't ready for a new relationship, and I was still in the 2year long relationship. I became best friends with this new guy, and ...
A. 21 August 2010: So u cheated on ur bf with K? How long did u take to end things with ur boyfriend? Sorry but it sounds like u were just a fun fling for him. And the right before u leave sex, it only confuses u even more that wasnt a great idea. Plus, he cheated on ... (read in full...)
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