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What qualifies me to help you? Vast dating experience, especially in the LDR department, even an international on with an Aussie, broke hearts, had mine broken, been engaged once before, I know what a real friend is, seen the ugly side of divorce coming from a recently broken home myself, even went as far as to tip the odds to my side and use men only to toss them aside like yesterday's garbage like they do women, I know what it's like to almost give up hope on finding the perfect man when he's really only a few boyfriends away, and I'm starting to learn the ropes of married life. I also know a vast deal about the female and male reproductive system, and all about the mental struggles with infertility. On a side note, I'm the one who gives you tough love, I'm not on here to sugarcoat it or to tell you what you want to hear. I'm going to give it to you straight up, wouldn't you rather the truth?
-TOP 5 QUESTIONS I CAN'T STAND-
#1. Does this mean my teacher likes me?
Just because they're nice to you, offer extra help, and put a little gold star on your A+ paper doesn't mean they are in love with you.
#2. Could I be pregnant?
Have you not heard of a pregnancy test? Get off this website, and go to your local drugstore.
#3. I'm 14 and I want a baby?
Really? Me too! Oh wait I'm 28 and married. You're how old again?
#4. My husband loves porn more than me!
Maybe if you didn't let yourself go into the frumpy woman you have turned into then he wouldn't have to look at porn now would he? I recommend you get your rear to the salon for highlights, manicure, pedicure, tanning, toss the baggy tees and sweat pants for a wardrobe that fits, and a little makeup goes a long way. It's called basic woman maintenance in order to keep your man's eyes on you.
#5. Will we get back together, how can I get him to love me again?
Unfortunately, my crystal ball is broke at the moment and I just gave away the last of my love potion No. 9. Sorry.
MY GENERAL RULES OF THUMB (this should be common sense)
-No means no.
-Girls can ask out ask guys, this is a new generation.
-Unless you know sign language or are telepathic, you're going to have to talk to him/her.
-My "Don't ask, Don't tell" policy as is follows: Do not by any means volunteer your own sexual history, or ask your date/partner/wife/girlfriend their magic number (how many people they've slept with). If you find yourself being prompted to answer this question, politely tell them that's none of their business.
-Your past doesn't define who you are today. We grow, mature, age, and change as time passes.
-If you have to even ask random strangers on this website if you should have sex, then you're not ready for it.
-FWBs, fuck buddies, no strings attached, whatever you want to call it..is not a relationship don't get the 2 confused. In this case, sex=sex, not love.
-No trust=no relationship.
-It is normal for your husband/boyfriend to have friends of the opposite sex, do you not have male friends?
-LDRs can work, however they're not for everyone. You've got to have trust, communication, be faithful, and a lot of hobbies to keep yourself occupied. If you have trust issues, a case of being needy, clingy, problems staying faithful and are in a LDR don't be surprised when it doesn't work. I told you so.
- An ex is an ex for a reason. If you guys couldn't hack it as a couple the first 2 times what makes you think the third time is a charm?
-Going on a "break" is a nice way of breaking up.
-If you have sex with a man and he hasn't called you, or responded to your texts in weeks sorry to say but he was just after a piece of ass.
- Now unless he's getting blown up in Afghanistan, an on call ER doctor, or lying dead in a coffin then he's got no excuse for his poor or lack there of communication.
-You have a 12% chance of your married boyfriend leaving his wife and children.
-A man who is going through a divorce is still legally married. He's about to have an ex wife and you're wanting to get into a relationship with him? That's called a rebound.
-If you're a minor who's just found out she's pregnant, do me and everyone else on this site a favor..Tell your parents.
-Just because some one stares at you, it doesn't mean they like you. They could be staring at that booger hanging out of your nose.
-If you have a lump/bump/cyst/rash that looks green, has oozing puss, and itches like hell, but kinda looks like a STD then you had better consult your doctor. They went through 6 years of schooling and have a license to practice medicine, I think they would know better than random virtual strangers.
-Don't mix business with pleasure. Why? Because if you date your co-worker and in the event things turn sour then you're still stuck facing them 9-5, Mon-Fri. Awkward.
-No matter how hard you try, you can't change a person..they have to make that transformation themselves.
-When your boyfriend/girlfriend says they want space that doesn't mean you do the opposite and bombard them with calls/texts.
-As far as ultimatums go, don't try to make your boyfriend choose between you, his female friends, or weed. You won't like the results.
-If you're 13-17, I'm sorry but you haven't a clue what love really is. You have minimal dating experience confined to the high school dating pool which are nothing but horny boys. Their facial hair doesn't make them a man. It's only till you get out into the real world, a vast dating pool is when you learn the definition of love. So, go on thinking you and 13 year old Tommy will go on to get married, have 3 kids, and a two story house with a white picket fence. I don't expect you to listen, I'm 28 and married, what do I know? There's a reason why everyone says it won't last..because it doesn't.
-The average penis size erect is 6 inches, 4.85 inches. Women like average to even a little below average. We're not going to bust out a tape measure and measure it to make sure it's up to our standards. We just want to have sex, so enough complaining about your size let's get down and dirty.
- The legal age of consent in the U.S. is 16-18 varying oer state, in Britain it's 16. I think it's safe to say most parts of the world (unless you live in a tribe with their own form of government) the legal age to consent to sex is 16. So yes, all you minors below the age of consent are committing a crime when you engage in sexual activity. The age is set that high for a reason, you are not above the law. |
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I want her, she wants me, her best friend wants me, but I don't want her, So confused! please help!
Q. Four years ago I met this girl. I was in grade 8 when I met her and she was in grade 10. She told me she thought I was cute, so like any young boy, I got excited and went crazy. I started asking her if she liked me and telling her how much I liked ...
A. 6 August 2010: Yes! If uve already told Girl A that u dont want to be with here then its a done deal nothing left to say. And theyre best friends they tell each other everything..especially if a guy has called and they talk about the whole convo. Girl B has to ... (read in full...)
I'm not even sure if we have broken up properly, what should I do?
Q. So...8 months into our engagement I guess we are broken up. My fiance threw a fit my last week of college since the week before graduation is a big party week. He felt I didn't spend enough time talking to him on the phone, so he just didn't show ...
A. 6 August 2010: Your welcome, ive been in your shoes before..his loss..its rather sad but we cherish those years u know but theyre the ones who decided it to throw it away. Were just standing up as logical adults and saying I dont have to be unhappy, u cant talk to ... (read in full...)
Shall I give my cheating husband another chance?????
Q. MOD NOTE...The title you chose has been used in a previous question, so i've tweaked it a bit. While I was back home on vacation by myself, my husband went out, got drunk and went to a hotel with a prostitute. He kept this from me for 5 whole we...
A. 6 August 2010: Yikes, he's got herpes..well there's meds for that but idk if he can give it to u. That would be something to look into..U have some females on her saying give him another chance and the majority vote plus 2 male views kick him to the curb. We dont ... (read in full...)
Why does everyone always make fun of me for my love life?
Q. Why does everyone always make fun of me for my love life? I had one boyfriend in the sixth grade but after him when guys asked me out it was because I just didn't like them. I am eighteen now and all my friends, girl and guy, make fun of me for ...
A. 6 August 2010: Unfortunately we live in a world where everybody is getting sexually active younger and younger. Babies having babies, its kinda sad...U dont have to have sex or do anything u want to do just because ur friends are doing it. Plus, ur friends blabbed ... (read in full...)
Women desire to fondle testicles?
Q. How do girls feel about men's balls? Do women find the sexually exciting? Disgusting? Or, do they not factor at all? My last girlfriend was alwYs playing with them, and once I started shaving them ( at her request) would often take them in her ...
A. 6 August 2010: Personally, I was always told never to neglect the balls..by friends, co-workers, etc. There's just something guys like about their balls being fondled, taken in their mouth, or while ur giving a bj massaging them gently. With that being said, I ... (read in full...)
What can I wear that will make her think sex?
Q. Ladies, what can a guy do physically or wear to get his wife or girl/friend sexually excited. The reverse is so easy to figure out. A girl can wear longerie, nothing at all, or my fav: sexy panties and a tight wife beater. But what can a guy wear ...
A. 6 August 2010: What makes my tick is im loading the dishwasher and my husband walks past me with nothing on, on his way to the shower, and all of a sudden im feeling rather dirty need to go get clean. Thats if u dont do it often. Another one is if he's wandering ... (read in full...)
How can I prove to her that I can be friendly and extroverted?
Q. Ok, in a nut shell, my girlfriend broke up with me and went to study abroad. On her return i went to her and told her how much i loved her and how i really felt. She had it in her mind that she was going to say no but now she is unsure. She still ...
A. 6 August 2010: Even the most social ppl get a lil anti-social at times..it happens. ooo dance class, most guys dont want to do that...and karaoke didnt think of that get up in front of a bunch of strangers and serenade ur lady...takes a lot of guts. I love it!... (read in full...)
I'm afraid she won't want me back after I broke her heart all those years ago
Q. I was very much in love with a girl when I was in school. We dated during our last year of school together. We moved in together after graduation and went to the community college. unfortunately reality struck very hard. I got very sick. I ...
A. 6 August 2010: Congrats on overcoming cancer and being a survivor! U have overcame quite I feat and personally I think u can do anything even ask this woman out again. Hunnie u were given a second chance at life and let's not waste it! When u wrote her, she was ... (read in full...)
Wife Inarticulate about her Desires
Q. MOD NOTE: OP's own title. My wife and I are trying to reconcile but there are problems. Among other problems we're having is this: I find it difficult to forgive her for not having communicated to me, for not having expressed herself. She kept many...
A. 6 August 2010: Haha, wow..ur wife wants u to read her mind and do anything from pick up groceries, to fulfilling her fantasies. How long have u guys been married? I gotta tell my husband repeatedly something if i want it done..most of the time I just do it myself ... (read in full...)
Should I just accept the fact that I am the one who has to do all the driving in our realtionship? Or should I be more assertive?
Q. Hi Aunts, My boyfriend and I have a good relationship, we see eachother 3-4 times a week, if not more. He lives right near where I study, so it's pretty convenient for me to stay the night and go to class the next day. However, I'm the only one...
A. 6 August 2010: Ah i was him at one time..when I was ur age my car was always broke down have the worst luck with them..so my bf always had to come to me or pick me up..and yes it does get old and tiresome..I understand where u feel like ur putting in the effort by ... (read in full...)
I want her, she wants me, her best friend wants me, but I don't want her, So confused! please help!
Q. Four years ago I met this girl. I was in grade 8 when I met her and she was in grade 10. She told me she thought I was cute, so like any young boy, I got excited and went crazy. I started asking her if she liked me and telling her how much I liked ...
A. 6 August 2010: Im Team Girl B..Yes, ur correct Girl A was using u as a last resort, she left u waiting in the wind for her, tsk, tsk. I was once Girl A...Girl A is also away at uni so there's plenty of guys for her to date there, LDR and of the ppl away at college ... (read in full...)
My bf's friends are mostly ex girlfriends!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for about 4 months now and I love him dearly. When I met him I didn't know how many friends that he has that are girls, with most of them being ex's. I am having a hard time dealing with them hanging around and calling ...
A. 6 August 2010: I dont mean to be a negative nancy but I dated that guy and it didnt work. To me ex's are the past and im not interested in being there friend till maybe later on down the road. One thing u could do is get to know these exs to see what theyre ... (read in full...)
Do u think my best guy friend might be falling for me???
Q. OP's own title. Do u think my best guy friend might be falling for me??? I've been in love with him for a while now and I want him to be mine forever. We have a odd relationship, like I can tell him anything. Things i have never shared with anyo...
A. 6 August 2010: I have a guy friend like your minus the bi part and touching my hair..but weve grown into the brotherly, sisterly relationship plus Im married now. At one point I was attracted to him, and would say stuff jokingly if i dont get married by im 30 were ... (read in full...)
Shall I give my cheating husband another chance?????
Q. MOD NOTE...The title you chose has been used in a previous question, so i've tweaked it a bit. While I was back home on vacation by myself, my husband went out, got drunk and went to a hotel with a prostitute. He kept this from me for 5 whole we...
A. 6 August 2010: Thank god he got tested!! Phew, im a lil relieved for u on that. Now im going to tell u him getting drunk is a poor excuse..Come on i count how many times Ive used that excuse. It doesnt fly, u still know whats going on when ur drunk. Well the sex ... (read in full...)
Wife Inarticulate about her Desires
Q. MOD NOTE: OP's own title. My wife and I are trying to reconcile but there are problems. Among other problems we're having is this: I find it difficult to forgive her for not having communicated to me, for not having expressed herself. She kept many...
A. 6 August 2010: Well ur a husband who clearly wants to listen!!! Can u talk to mine for me? Lol, jk. Is your wife really passive and not really one to talk about things, gets into fights and just says whatever and shrugs it off? As women were tricky, we sometimes ... (read in full...)
Any advice on how to help my father accept and deal with his health and drinking problem?
Q. I have several problems, but the main one right now is that my dad (who has a heart problem) has an alcohol problem and he's in denial. This makes my entire family very vunerable. I apologise beforehand because this is long, but I really need so...
A. 6 August 2010: My dad has heart problems and a major drinking problem too. Ur a very strong girl for the situation ur in..now as far as ur dad goes, Ive quoted statistics from health sites, even threw brochures about drinking and heart attacks on his stuff, a ... (read in full...)
I'm not even sure if we have broken up properly, what should I do?
Q. So...8 months into our engagement I guess we are broken up. My fiance threw a fit my last week of college since the week before graduation is a big party week. He felt I didn't spend enough time talking to him on the phone, so he just didn't show ...
A. 6 August 2010: Why should u apologize? U didnt do anything wrong. He lashed out at ur rents thats a deal breaker for me, dont disrespect my rents and involve them..Plus, he ruined ur special weekend just bc he u didnt spend enough time talking to him on the phone? ... (read in full...)
I feel like I have been treated like a doormat!
Q. I am seeing this guy who works a lot and travels very frequently. He's told me that he could not have a committed relationship at this point with his crazy work and travel schedule and I want to know if that is an excuse. We have had sexual ...
A. 6 August 2010: Im going to go ahead and tell u like it is, he's just using you for his pleasures nothing more and thats all ur going to be to him. And dont feel alone bc he's doing it to another woman as well. He cant be trusted so why would u want to seriously ... (read in full...)
Was I right to lie?
Q. I apologize for the length of this. Please bear with me if you can. I was close friends with this guy in high school and he developed feelings for me. At the time, I wasn't able to feel "that way" about him, but screwed up by basically telling ...
A. 6 August 2010: Well u lied to protect his feelings and thats not a bad thing, bc the first time he was pretty hurt and took it to heart. With that being said we cant always tiptoe around ppl's feelings, but i understand it was more like a white lie. However at the ... (read in full...)
I just don't want to feel this jealousy anymore because it drives me insane!
Q. Hello there, I'm a very jealous person, unfortunately. I am not proud about it. My partner is speaking to this particualar person and I know that they like my partner more than just friends. My partner won't stop talking to them and it makes me ...
A. 6 August 2010: Oh u and me both..Once i saw this text between my husband and this chick I had no idea who she was but I didnt like what it said, I confronted him got into a big argument...how i solved it I told him I wasnt very comfortable in him talking to her ... (read in full...)
He's friends with someone I barely dated, now he's acting off.
Q. Ughh. Guy problem here. Right, i was with a group of mates going to the park one day when we were meeting up with another group of people that my friend new. Amongst these group of people was this really cute nice guy and we got talking and stuf...
A. 6 August 2010: Weird he's acting all off about u dating his friends, in which maybe he's thinking sloppy seconds, but u dated a lil bit and that was it.
I would send him a message saying u dated his friend forever ago and it didnt go very... (read in full...)
Want to have sex, but don't want to tell him I'm a virgin!
Q. I am a 29 year old virgin. This is not something I planned on, it just sort of happened. I am not religious at all, I simply have not found the right guy for me. I dated a guy for awhile when I was a teenager and he really took away my ...
A. 6 August 2010: Men love virgins, there's just that satisfaction they get from being your first. If ur really into him and at 29 ur probably looking to settle down then I would be honest and tell him u want to but only when ur ready to..and its going to hurt, so if ... (read in full...)
How do I behave when I see my ex who hurt me?
Q. "OP Own Title" Hello all, My boyfriend has gone back to his ex, Im devastated, I truly believed him when he told me he loved me. We were together for 5 months. He hasn't even had to balls to tell me. Its been 6 weeks now and I haven't contacted ...
A. 6 August 2010: I love questions like yours..Its sad that he dumped u weve all been there sweetie, he's with his ex( stupid bc exs are exs for a reason) but u know what his loss. He's missing out on a fantastic Aussie woman, men in other parts of the world ... (read in full...)
How can I get my ex to talk to me and not be mad at me?
Q. heres a good one for you guys. to make a long story short, my ex said she loved me when we broke up, now she hates my guts and calls me an ass and all this stuff and shes ignoring me. i tried to friend her new guy on facebook, not knowing he was the ...
A. 6 August 2010: First of why do u want to be friends with this mean girl? U said urself she calls u an ass and god knows what else, she doesnt deserve ur friendship buddy. It sounds like she wants u out of her completely. Sometimes, when u date girls and u break ... (read in full...)
Am I just worrying over nothing?
Q. I keep worrying about the following, - Never had a long term relationship - Not great dating experience and bad luck in general with dating - Not many chance to meet women when I start working in male dominated industry. Some things I know I ca...
A. 5 August 2010: Yes, stop worrying right now! Every woman u meet from now on doesnt have to know about ur past as far as Im concerned everytime u meet a woman u have a clean slate in dating history. I just granted u one. No woman really wants to know about ur ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend can't stay hard anymore!
Q. My boyfriend and I have a lot of sex. Every night if we could. We were both eachothers firsts, so of course we're gonna have a ton of sex. For the past 2 or 3 months, he's been having a hard time getting and maintaining an erection, or eve...
A. 5 August 2010: He sounds to young to have erectile dysfunction..google it, it helped me understand. But the whole not finishing thats due to stress, or a chemical imbalance(my husband went to the doctor for not being able to finish yesterday). Just know that its ... (read in full...)
My long distance boyfriend is coming, and I don't know how to act.
Q. hi my long distance boyfriend is coming to visit me next week,it would be the 2th time we meet but i feel so nervous and i dont know what to do,where to go,what to say ...maybe because we didnt see eachother for 8 months. any advice? also,i ...
A. 5 August 2010: Hug, tell him how much youve mised him, Hungry? well lets go grab a bite to eat and catch up. Then when ur at a restaurant, tell him how youve been whats been going on with ur life and then his turn..I recommend a lot of hand holding, a lil kissy ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend is mad at me for not reacting stronger to this guy.
Q. Hello dear cupiders. I have been in a relationsh ip with my girlfriend for four years on and off, and through a lot of cheating, lies and now a pregnancy we have managed to work everything out. But lately I feel like Im doing everything wrong...
A. 5 August 2010: Now ur into women and is this girlfriend bi im assuming since she slept with a guy? I gather that she's not sure if she's into women or men since she's preg.. U need to get on the same page with ur gf, tell her what u want and that ull support her ... (read in full...)
How long will the pain of a break-up last for?
Q. The man I have been with dumped me this morning after three years of dating . He stated he is depressed and blamed me. Said he needs to find himself . What want to know is how long does it take to mend a broken heart . I was /am. In love with this ...
A. 5 August 2010: Sometimes its a week, to a month, couple years..it varies from person to person.
First off, he's depressed and that's not ur problem or fault..if he actually has the symptoms of depression then he needs to schedule an appt and get ... (read in full...)
My ex-boyfriend vs. My current boyfriend
Q. [OP original title] Hi everyone, I have a pretty complicated situation on my hands at the moment. I'll try to make it as quick, and to the point, as possible. I have had a boyfriend now for about 5 months. He is great. Funny, affect...
A. 5 August 2010: Honey if ur not ready for the marriage and want to enjoy the best of years then good for u! I wish I had known that before I got engaged the first time, was drug out and ended very, very nasty. British guys are quite sexy too, and hey u only get a ... (read in full...)
I haven't heard from my long-distance boyfriend for a week! How long is too long?
Q. How long is a long time to wait for a guy? Dear all - I have been involved with a LDR guy who isn't the most reliable guy in the world but I do care for him and he has been making contact regularly to me. However, recently he hasn't been in t...
A. 5 August 2010: Unless he's in the military and overseas in Iraq with lil connection to a phone or computer then I would say a week is to long. LDR and he isnt that reliable? Ouch..When he waited 18 days to contact u what was his excuse for that? LDR's do work(im ... (read in full...)
Is there a way to not sound insecure?
Q. [OP original title] I'm in a long-distance "relationship" where my friend doesn't always like sharing her personal feelings with anyone, it makes her uncomfortable sometimes (which I understand, I'm kinda the same). I last saw her in early june when...
A. 5 August 2010: So are u actually bf and gf? Im confused at why u put "relationship" in quotations. Im going to assume u guys are together in a sense but ur not defined..which this my dear is a very gray area..that u need to try to move this "relationship" out of ... (read in full...)
Can you rekindle a friendship the same way you'd rekindle a romance?
Q. Is it possible to rekindle a friendship in a similar fashion one might try to rekindle a romantic relationship? Or are the two inherently different enough that the same approach can't be used in both cases. ...
A. 5 August 2010: U can rekindle it in the sense of "hey lets go out for a drink and a chat to catch up". But when ur rekindling an old romance, its generally just for a one-nighter, or youre not dating anyone at the moment and are feeling rather lonely and ur still ... (read in full...)
How do I get him to stop sitting next to me, without saying it directly to his face?
Q. C and I became friends late last year. Soon, I developed feelings for him. Around March this year, I heard from a friend that apparently he suspected that I had a crush on him, though he never talked to me about it. We remained friends. A few mon...
A. 5 August 2010: Hahaha....Im sorry but u went to the extreme of putting his desk on the other side of the room and he still didnt get it. Here's a few things u can do hoping he gets it before u gotta tell the boy off.
1. Set ur p... (read in full...)
Did my best friend betray me over a guy? Should I forgive her?
Q. One of my best friends and I met 2 guys last year at a party and we started to go on group dates toghether. However her guy -X was always flirting with me and disrespecting me. I noticed she would grow quiet and look mad. I confessed to her That I ...
A. 5 August 2010: Your friend broke the 2 biggest rules...One being two-faced, and two ditching u for her bf and a new set of friends. Chicks before dicks!! As friends were not perfect but I usually give them the 3 strike rule then end the friendship. Now since her ... (read in full...)
Should I end my long distance relationship with my boyfriend?
Q. Hi! I've been with my boyfriend/bestfriend for four years. The first year, I was with him and the rest, its an on and off long distance relationship. I only see him everytime the family goes on holiday to my home country. Most people told me ...
A. 5 August 2010: Ppl are going to get on here and tell u LDRs dont work but they do my husband and I were in for a year..and yours is 3 times longer than mine. 4 years later and now ur having a lil doubt specifically after he cheated..Do u still have trust in him ... (read in full...)
I'm so confused, who do I chose?
Q. MOD NOTE: OP's own title, tweaked a little as your original title has been used before. hey im 14 and im going out with a boy 1 year older than me and i love him but i got chatting to this boi callum 18 and 4 weeks on he told me he loves me and i...
A. 5 August 2010: If ur bf dumped u on facebook and was too big of a wuss to say it to ur face then he's a jerk and ur better off without him. Ur young boys will come ago...there's still plenty of boys out there looking to ask u out.... (read in full...)
I want to ask him out when he gets back from travelling but I don't know if he still fancies me anymore!
Q. I met this guy in a nightclub in 2008. He fancied me, but he took my number but didnt contact me. I bumped into him while we were round town a few times after that but we just spoke to each other a bit but didnt keep in contact. Last year, he got my ...
A. 5 August 2010: I love that word "fancy". If you guys keep bumping into each other then that tells me something right there..give it a try. Also if u guys met in 08 and he's still had a lil contact u since then that says a lot about him..Ive been busy lately, life ... (read in full...)
I don't like living with my boyfriend and his worker under the same roof. Any ideas?
Q. I've just moved in with my BF, who runs his own business out of our house. I was under the impression that when I moved in my BF would tell his worker to go live at his house. The worker lives in our house in the guest room m-f and goes home on the ...
A. 5 August 2010: No ur not being unreasonable, have u tried getting to know the worker? Maybe he only speaks a lil english, he may not understand you. If u gave him that chance and then uve tried to speak to ur bf about it and how uncomfy u feel and u got nowhere? ... (read in full...)
Adding strangers on msn - what should I say to him?
Q. so i added this one guy that i think is really cute on msn , he doesn't know me , i don't know him him ... YET ! what can i say to him ? if he says "do i know you ?" what can i say back ? ...
A. 5 August 2010: Be very careful ur very young and I only talked to ppl I knew on MSN. However ur curious to talk to someone else..keep in mind they may not always be who they say they are....Start off with hi, how old are u?...he may ask u where ur from just tell ... (read in full...)
6 years later, he is very secretive and our sex life is lacking. Help!
Q. i have been with my partner for 6 years we have a lovely little boy together we both work full time. lately i have notice big changes in him like been very sneaky not leaving his phone down or when i walk in the room he hides it straight away we ...
A. 5 August 2010: The sex stopped for a reason....And if he's holding on to his cell phone like its his member then something is up. This part I hate, that cell phone is key my friend youre going to have to wait till he slips up and leaves the phone on the table ... (read in full...)
How can I prove to her that I can be friendly and extroverted?
Q. Ok, in a nut shell, my girlfriend broke up with me and went to study abroad. On her return i went to her and told her how much i loved her and how i really felt. She had it in her mind that she was going to say no but now she is unsure. She still ...
A. 5 August 2010: Before I start Im going to applaud u for breaking out of that shell, and telling her how u feel when she came back! Good for you. You know youre the kind of guy most women want, u can show change, improvement, and u admit ur feelings. U my dear are ... (read in full...)
I've forgiven him so many times, I still love him but is it time to walk away?
Q. well.. i have a very hard time right now deciding what i want... long story but i need some type of advice and i have no where to go to.. My husband and i met in high school back in 2000.he was my first boyfriend and my first love,, my first EV...
A. 5 August 2010: Exactly, u arent the typical stereotype military wife. Remember that! And once u start to feel good about urself inside then the outside will too. Build that self esteem back up bc ur still a strong woman through all this...most wouldve crumbled ... (read in full...)
If he doesn't want her anymore, why is he going back?
Q. Me and my ex had been together 12yrs, i was 16 and he was 27.... im now 28 and hes 39, we have 4 children together but in feb we boke up, it was ment to be just a break, to clear our heads... but i found out he was seeing an old flame from when he ...
A. 5 August 2010: Im gonna go ahead and tell u he's lying about driving the wedge between his friend if he breaks up with that chick...he's just not ready to give up that past. Im gonna go ahead and say he still loves u bc one theres a history, 4 children together, ... (read in full...)
I've forgiven him so many times, I still love him but is it time to walk away?
Q. well.. i have a very hard time right now deciding what i want... long story but i need some type of advice and i have no where to go to.. My husband and i met in high school back in 2000.he was my first boyfriend and my first love,, my first EV...
A. 5 August 2010: Starts with a D and the suffix rhymes with horse. How many times are you going to take this poor excuse for a man back? I agree being a military wife is hard I know Im one, but honey it doesnt have to be that hard. Ur in love with your hs sweetheart ... (read in full...)
If he doesn't want her anymore, why is he going back?
Q. Me and my ex had been together 12yrs, i was 16 and he was 27.... im now 28 and hes 39, we have 4 children together but in feb we boke up, it was ment to be just a break, to clear our heads... but i found out he was seeing an old flame from when he ...
A. 5 August 2010: I can relate in a sense...I rekindled an old flame while i was engaged(I know shame on me) just went out then things turned sexual which led to a one nighter and now out of my system. Same thing with him, he re-visted what it was like back in the ... (read in full...)
I'm so confused, who do I chose?
Q. MOD NOTE: OP's own title, tweaked a little as your original title has been used before. hey im 14 and im going out with a boy 1 year older than me and i love him but i got chatting to this boi callum 18 and 4 weeks on he told me he loves me and i...
A. 5 August 2010: If only forums like this when I was your age...Ur not in love with either of these boys, U really, really like them bc ur just starting to date...and dating gets way more complicated as u go along and what till ur married! Now Callum is 18? Well ur ... (read in full...)
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