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What qualifies me to help you? Vast dating experience, especially in the LDR department, even an international on with an Aussie, broke hearts, had mine broken, been engaged once before, I know what a real friend is, seen the ugly side of divorce coming from a recently broken home myself, even went as far as to tip the odds to my side and use men only to toss them aside like yesterday's garbage like they do women, I know what it's like to almost give up hope on finding the perfect man when he's really only a few boyfriends away, and I'm starting to learn the ropes of married life. I also know a vast deal about the female and male reproductive system, and all about the mental struggles with infertility. On a side note, I'm the one who gives you tough love, I'm not on here to sugarcoat it or to tell you what you want to hear. I'm going to give it to you straight up, wouldn't you rather the truth?
-TOP 5 QUESTIONS I CAN'T STAND-
#1. Does this mean my teacher likes me?
Just because they're nice to you, offer extra help, and put a little gold star on your A+ paper doesn't mean they are in love with you.
#2. Could I be pregnant?
Have you not heard of a pregnancy test? Get off this website, and go to your local drugstore.
#3. I'm 14 and I want a baby?
Really? Me too! Oh wait I'm 28 and married. You're how old again?
#4. My husband loves porn more than me!
Maybe if you didn't let yourself go into the frumpy woman you have turned into then he wouldn't have to look at porn now would he? I recommend you get your rear to the salon for highlights, manicure, pedicure, tanning, toss the baggy tees and sweat pants for a wardrobe that fits, and a little makeup goes a long way. It's called basic woman maintenance in order to keep your man's eyes on you.
#5. Will we get back together, how can I get him to love me again?
Unfortunately, my crystal ball is broke at the moment and I just gave away the last of my love potion No. 9. Sorry.
MY GENERAL RULES OF THUMB (this should be common sense)
-No means no.
-Girls can ask out ask guys, this is a new generation.
-Unless you know sign language or are telepathic, you're going to have to talk to him/her.
-My "Don't ask, Don't tell" policy as is follows: Do not by any means volunteer your own sexual history, or ask your date/partner/wife/girlfriend their magic number (how many people they've slept with). If you find yourself being prompted to answer this question, politely tell them that's none of their business.
-Your past doesn't define who you are today. We grow, mature, age, and change as time passes.
-If you have to even ask random strangers on this website if you should have sex, then you're not ready for it.
-FWBs, fuck buddies, no strings attached, whatever you want to call it..is not a relationship don't get the 2 confused. In this case, sex=sex, not love.
-No trust=no relationship.
-It is normal for your husband/boyfriend to have friends of the opposite sex, do you not have male friends?
-LDRs can work, however they're not for everyone. You've got to have trust, communication, be faithful, and a lot of hobbies to keep yourself occupied. If you have trust issues, a case of being needy, clingy, problems staying faithful and are in a LDR don't be surprised when it doesn't work. I told you so.
- An ex is an ex for a reason. If you guys couldn't hack it as a couple the first 2 times what makes you think the third time is a charm?
-Going on a "break" is a nice way of breaking up.
-If you have sex with a man and he hasn't called you, or responded to your texts in weeks sorry to say but he was just after a piece of ass.
- Now unless he's getting blown up in Afghanistan, an on call ER doctor, or lying dead in a coffin then he's got no excuse for his poor or lack there of communication.
-You have a 12% chance of your married boyfriend leaving his wife and children.
-A man who is going through a divorce is still legally married. He's about to have an ex wife and you're wanting to get into a relationship with him? That's called a rebound.
-If you're a minor who's just found out she's pregnant, do me and everyone else on this site a favor..Tell your parents.
-Just because some one stares at you, it doesn't mean they like you. They could be staring at that booger hanging out of your nose.
-If you have a lump/bump/cyst/rash that looks green, has oozing puss, and itches like hell, but kinda looks like a STD then you had better consult your doctor. They went through 6 years of schooling and have a license to practice medicine, I think they would know better than random virtual strangers.
-Don't mix business with pleasure. Why? Because if you date your co-worker and in the event things turn sour then you're still stuck facing them 9-5, Mon-Fri. Awkward.
-No matter how hard you try, you can't change a person..they have to make that transformation themselves.
-When your boyfriend/girlfriend says they want space that doesn't mean you do the opposite and bombard them with calls/texts.
-As far as ultimatums go, don't try to make your boyfriend choose between you, his female friends, or weed. You won't like the results.
-If you're 13-17, I'm sorry but you haven't a clue what love really is. You have minimal dating experience confined to the high school dating pool which are nothing but horny boys. Their facial hair doesn't make them a man. It's only till you get out into the real world, a vast dating pool is when you learn the definition of love. So, go on thinking you and 13 year old Tommy will go on to get married, have 3 kids, and a two story house with a white picket fence. I don't expect you to listen, I'm 28 and married, what do I know? There's a reason why everyone says it won't last..because it doesn't.
-The average penis size erect is 6 inches, 4.85 inches. Women like average to even a little below average. We're not going to bust out a tape measure and measure it to make sure it's up to our standards. We just want to have sex, so enough complaining about your size let's get down and dirty.
- The legal age of consent in the U.S. is 16-18 varying oer state, in Britain it's 16. I think it's safe to say most parts of the world (unless you live in a tribe with their own form of government) the legal age to consent to sex is 16. So yes, all you minors below the age of consent are committing a crime when you engage in sexual activity. The age is set that high for a reason, you are not above the law. |
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My family is doing everything for one daughter at the expense of another
Q. I am a 21 year old female in her last year of university. Recently my family found out my little sister (15 years old) cuts herself and was hanging out with a strange crowd. To curb this, they have given her everything that makes her happy and ha...
A. 28 August 2010: What would they do if you got a job? Stop paying for school, you have one year left? That's what student loans are for, or you can apply for pell grants which you don't have to pay back. If they're using the supplied income against you, get your ... (read in full...)
Why does she want two lives?
Q. Please help I've been in a serios relationship now for a little over a year and things have been gettin worse we have a baby togeather who's 3 mounths old so I understand the strains with that but it seems to me no matter what I do my partner is ...
A. 26 August 2010: There's really no advice on learning on how to trust someone...She's never given you a reason not to, and you let go of what has happened in your past that's not every girl your going to meet in the future. Let me put it this way, she's doing a good ... (read in full...)
When should I call my ex?
Q. [OP original title] I have dated this girl for four months. Three weeks ago she blocked me from Facebook and said her reason was that she doesn't want to look at my page and see other girls commenting or liking my status and then missing me and want...
A. 26 August 2010: Again, you're being too pushy..She still isn't over her problems and still needs the space, you're coming on way too strong. Back off some. Don't keep asking her what day is she going to see you, if she wants to see you then she'll suggest a day and ... (read in full...)
Why does she want two lives?
Q. Please help I've been in a serios relationship now for a little over a year and things have been gettin worse we have a baby togeather who's 3 mounths old so I understand the strains with that but it seems to me no matter what I do my partner is ...
A. 25 August 2010: Alright there's the missing piece of the puzzle...I'm going to give it you straight up my friend...She says she's never given you any reason to doubt or suspect her, this is correct? You're paranoid for certain reasons due to your past, well let me ... (read in full...)
Why does she want two lives?
Q. Please help I've been in a serios relationship now for a little over a year and things have been gettin worse we have a baby togeather who's 3 mounths old so I understand the strains with that but it seems to me no matter what I do my partner is ...
A. 25 August 2010: Help her with the baby as much as you can, let her know you're there to help her no matter what..of course within reason cause I'm sure you have to go to work. Like I said look at the history to see what she is actually doing. If that's her outlet ... (read in full...)
My best friend told me she doesn't want to be my friend anymore!
Q. Well I had a best friend for 2 years. This yearwe got into a lot of fights this year. She has anxiety problems and can't deal with stress. So the end of this year she told me to come to her house. So I was like sure no problem. I didn't think it'll ...
A. 25 August 2010: What did you guys fight over? I don't understand why she couldn't have told you over the phone, it isn't like she's your boyfriend and has to break-up with you to your face. That's rather rude of her to do, she could have saved you some gas and that ... (read in full...)
Jealous of my boyfriends sister and ashamed of it!
Q. My boyfriend's sister is years younger than him and they have a very close-knit relationship. I feel pathetic because I'm jealous of their relationship and how much time they get to spend together, whereas I'm lucky to see him once a week. It'...
A. 25 August 2010: This big brother is very protective of his little sister. The bond is very strong between these two it's never going to break. You can't win everyone over, so her not liking you is her problem. I would just continue to ignore her as much as she does ... (read in full...)
Am I attractive?
Q. i would just like to know if i am attractive. I am about to turn 16. Im 5 4 and 96 ibs. light blonde with bright green blue eyes and a 34B. people say im pretty but i just want to know other's opinion thanks. any questons about me ill answer....
A. 25 August 2010: Blue/green eyes are gorgeous, and they definitely stand out with your blonde hair. Plus you have a rack at 16, not everyone has those at that age. Mine were more like triple A's at 16. So, I would say you're pretty with the best feature being your ... (read in full...)
Is he joking or does he actually love me?
Q. I've just moved from a mixed school to an all girls school, I used to have a crush on this guy who sat next to me, he said no after I asked him out, twice. So I gave up and moved on. About a week ago he asked me out, I didn't know if it was a joke...
A. 25 August 2010: Chances are it's a joke, so I would reject him like he did you. He doesn't even know you and he's not even your boyfriend so how could he love you? I'm sure you're not ugly, we're often our own worse critic. Tell him no you don't want to go out with ... (read in full...)
Am I over reacting? or should I be worried?
Q. My girlfriend has pictures of herself with another guy on facebook and its really pissin me off! There are about five pics of them and they all seem really flirty to me. He has his arm around her in most of them. They talk on the phone and skype ...
A. 25 August 2010: Have you ever met him? My best friend is a guy so I'm siding with your girlfriend on this one. I introduced my husband to my best friend over dinner one night and they got along really well. Ask her to see if he wanted him to come over one night and ... (read in full...)
Confused by her up's and downsand don't know what I should be doing
Q. So me and my gf were going out for 8 months. We had so many great times together and were always having fun and going out. Then we went on vacation and had an even more amazing time and things were seeming pretty great. We came back and things ...
A. 25 August 2010: It's definitely not you. In the beginning you were too needy and you realized that, corrected it by lessening up on her. It seemed like break didn't do anything for her. She's so on again off again with you that I'm confused. This girl hasn't the ... (read in full...)
We are not wanted together!
Q. This guy and i are really in love but the problem is we arent wanted together my many people. We have liked each other for a while, and he is in the wrong kind of group thanks to his parents who show no interest in him or his problems what-so-ever, ...
A. 25 August 2010: Is he in a gang? Alright I'll say this you're a little too young to know what real love is. What you have is puppy love, you can't even drive and go out on a proper date. Heck, I didn't know what love was till my early 20s. It takes you awhile to ... (read in full...)
My family is doing everything for one daughter at the expense of another
Q. I am a 21 year old female in her last year of university. Recently my family found out my little sister (15 years old) cuts herself and was hanging out with a strange crowd. To curb this, they have given her everything that makes her happy and ha...
A. 25 August 2010: How did they make you move back into their house? I'm guessing you lived on campus and they said they were going to stop paying for it?
I see how your parents are trying their best to please your sister keep her happy and mostly cutt... (read in full...)
Why does she want two lives?
Q. Please help I've been in a serios relationship now for a little over a year and things have been gettin worse we have a baby togeather who's 3 mounths old so I understand the strains with that but it seems to me no matter what I do my partner is ...
A. 25 August 2010: What is she doing on the internet? Facebook, Myspace, shopping, playing games? I wouldn't worry about anything other than that, just check the history on the computer next time. Now, if she's spending more time on the internet and neglecting her ... (read in full...)
Should I help pay for my new stepdaughter's college?
Q. I am a male in the USA in my 40's. I plan on getting married again in a few months. I have 2 young sons age 9 and 6. I pay support for them and see them 3 times a week. One child likes my GF the other one does not. She also does not get along with ...
A. 24 August 2010: Your stepdaughter dipped once into that account she's going to again. Why spend your own money when you can spend your step-daddy's? She's living the high life and has a damn good job at 20 let her fund it. In fact, she can learn some discipline ... (read in full...)
Does she have the same feelings?
Q. does she feel the same way i feel ? this girl and me are staring at each other quite for a while,at first i was,not interested in her even after being attracted to her,i ignored her as she is much younger than me,but after few days she didn't ...
A. 24 August 2010: Attraction, if she's taking the time to notice you then there's something there. In order to get past these games you're going to have to approach her, go up either say excuse me, or wait up..Hi my name is (insert name). I've noticed you and I've ... (read in full...)
Does she have the same feelings?
Q. does she feel the same way i feel ? this girl and me are staring at each other quite for a while,at first i was,not interested in her even after being attracted to her,i ignored her as she is much younger than me,but after few days she didn't ...
A. 24 August 2010: There's a big possibility but she's waiting for you to make the first move. She's probably wondering the same of you, so put an end to the staring game and go over and there and start with "Hi" and see where it goes.... (read in full...)
Chest hair removal... how do you deal with the itching?
Q. Hi all, I just need a bit of advice. My new partner doesnt like my hairy chest (just the chest!!). So I used some hair clippers and trimmed it all to practically zero...bare chest for the 1st time since puberty. I quiet like it..s...
A. 24 August 2010: Well don't have chest hair myself but to get ready of itching down south, I use any medicated cream..anywhere from medicated bikini zone gel which burns to I found that cortizone cream is a bit more soothing. The area your shaving or trimming gets ... (read in full...)
What is her motive behind the question she asked?
Q. After knowing each other plutonically for more than a year, my girlfriend and I have become intimately involved and have lived together now for a month and a half. Things are wonderful, but I was a bit taken aback when she suddenly asked me how many ...
A. 24 August 2010: Don't ask, don't tell. There is really no motive behind it, women (I really don't know why) tend to ask about your previous sexual partners..if the number is too high for our likings then we start thinking am I dating a man whore? Then, the ... (read in full...)
I need some tips on loosing weight!
Q. I'm very uncomfortable with my body, my bf however loves it. He says he loves the curves. But, I'd like to find a good medium...lose some weight and get fitter w/o losing some curves :) So I thought ok, let me lose 20 pounds. I've done research but ...
A. 24 August 2010: Besides the basic diet and exercise..which does work but it's the maintaining part, and discipline that's key. I've got curves, hate to exercise and love junk food. Some fat is good but in moderation. Cabbage diet or I knew a girl that did the ... (read in full...)
Is this a text breakup?
Q. Breakup line or not " I think I better take a break for awhile"...
A. 24 August 2010: Hahaha, eyes wide open.
He's talking about taking a break from you, your relationship. In which, it's basically over because when you take a "break" you almost never get back together. To me it's just avoiding saying the inevitable. What a l... (read in full...)
I'm so frustrated because I can't insert a tampon!
Q. I am getting so frustrated. I usually get my period at the end of every month. And its near the end of the month now and the first day of school is tomorrow. I want to wear tampons instead of pads because when I wear pads its so obvious and its just ...
A. 24 August 2010: Don't throw away the instructions! Applicator in your vagina( the tampon is in it) pull out that little knob then push the tampon in your vagina. TSS is a rare fatal disease that can occur when a tampon is left in way too long. Even if you get high ... (read in full...)
I'm so frustrated because I can't insert a tampon!
Q. I am getting so frustrated. I usually get my period at the end of every month. And its near the end of the month now and the first day of school is tomorrow. I want to wear tampons instead of pads because when I wear pads its so obvious and its just ...
A. 24 August 2010: Don't throw away the instructions! Applicator in your vagina( the tampon is in it) pull out that little knob then push the tampon in your vagina. TSS is a rare fatal disease that can occur when a tampon is left in way too long. Even if you get high ... (read in full...)
I felt something was wrong so I looked at his phone, he does not know this, what do I do?
Q. recently my husband went on a trip with the boys. which he often does. I have always had great trust in our relationship. He called and texted everyday to check in. Upon returned, he asked if the washing machine was empty while he was still in ...
A. 24 August 2010: Personally, I don't see anything wrong with the texts, they weren't from a woman. So I'm not seeing the red flags. Trying to decipher texts is something we women aren't good at just yet. The may come off one way to you but could totally mean ... (read in full...)
My weird fantasy...
Q. I have got this fantasy that I want to kiss a girl (I'm a girl too). I'm not a lesbian and I'm not bi. I'm rather curious. I mentioned this to my bf a couple of times and I made it seem as a joke, he told me that this would be cheating and that he ...
A. 24 August 2010: Really? Most guys are into the girl on girl action. Your boyfriend sounds rather conservative. Fantasies never really go away they pop in your mind randomly from time to time. Sounds like curiosity is slowly killing the cat for you, however you've ... (read in full...)
Online relationship, does she love me?
Q. Hi everyone ...im in online Relationship "8 months" with Girl "16 yrs and 9 months" , i love her sooo much even i didn't meet her in real life, but my problem is she doesn't want there friends to know about me, or when she goes to her friends house ...
A. 24 August 2010: You love her and you've never met her? You don't even know if she's who she says she is. Sorry to say but this girl doesn't harbor the same feelings. Sounds to me like you're someone to chat with online when she's bored, or up late at night and no ... (read in full...)
I'm so frustrated because I can't insert a tampon!
Q. I am getting so frustrated. I usually get my period at the end of every month. And its near the end of the month now and the first day of school is tomorrow. I want to wear tampons instead of pads because when I wear pads its so obvious and its just ...
A. 24 August 2010: My mother wouldn't let me wear tampons because one of her friends died from that Toxic Shock Syndrome. I hated wearing pads, it felt like I was wearing a banana seat or a diaper. Always felt like people could see it if they looked closely at my ... (read in full...)
Have you ever experience in your life that no matter what you do nothing goes right?
Q. Did you ever experience,in your life,that no matter,what you do,nothing goes right? I feel ,Im trying to make good choices everyday, but from the smallest things to the biggest, almost everything turns out wrong or a nightmare. Like in a bad movi...
A. 24 August 2010: Yes! There's that saying "bad things always happen in threes". Well for me it seemed like 6. I got myself caught in a whirlwind of where nothing went right, my break-up went nasty, ex threw out my stuff andI had no where to go, took my stuff and ... (read in full...)
My fiance will not help me clean!
Q. Mod note: Titled by poster okay, ever since i started dating my fiance he has always been VERY messy.. i knew that getting into it but i never thought he could be as bad as i know now i make little notes for him on the fridge of a little li...
A. 24 August 2010: haha excellent! If he doesn't pick up his things then you will start throwing them away. I like it!... (read in full...)
Should I drop it and move on?
Q. I met this girl at a law function (we are both in law school) and we talked most of the night, then went to an 80's party together. I got her number, and asked her to dinner (she smiled and agreed). We went out and had a great time, we went back ...
A. 24 August 2010: I live by the 3 day rule give her 2 more days to call you back is she doesn't call during that time frame then she's just not that into you. Or since law school is pretty demanding, she could be busy but if woman are interested we'll send at least a ... (read in full...)
How do I get over my abusive relationship?
Q. My ex boyfriend was very emotionally abusive and after seven years together I left him. It took me leaving him to realize how bad it really was. I was so low on myself I wouldn't even look in the mirror. It's been awhile since we broke up and I've ...
A. 24 August 2010: Well don't hate everything about yourself because there's someone right there that loves everything about you. Now all you have to do is see what he sees. Does your husband know about this? Seven years is a long time to endure abuse of any kind, you ... (read in full...)
I'm upset how my friend disciplined her children, wondering if I should call children's services?
Q. It’s a bit of a strange one this but the yesterday my friend walloped her two children right in front of me, now I’m wondering whether to call children’s’ services. She’s got two girls, one 11 and other 13. She’s a single mom and each can be a bit...
A. 24 August 2010: Now, no bashing Americans.
Personally I grew up on the era where spanking, a pop upside the hand, a backhand was perfectly acceptable means of discipline. With whatever object was closest, a frying pan, spatula, ping pong paddle, ... (read in full...)
Frustrated and boyfriendless!
Q. I’m 14 and a half and have never had a boyfriend. Most of my friends have already dated or currently have a boyfriend. It seems like now they are to busy with them and I want that feeling of being loved... and don’t want to end up that girl in ...
A. 24 August 2010: Don't about it that much, dating doesn't really start till about 16-17 when you get a license to drive. How are you going to go on a date now? Your parents drop you off at the movies to meet your boyfriend? How romantic. Once you get more into high ... (read in full...)
By your standards, how many sexual partners is too many by age 19?
Q. When I was younger, I could not get laid--could not even get a date--to save my life. I never went to any dances, never went to proms, nothing. This year, however, I lived in Africa for 3 months and when I came back to college, somehow, things ...
A. 24 August 2010: Well don't I look like the slutty agony aunt.... (read in full...)
Am I expecting too much, too soon?
Q. Am I expecting too much too soon?? I just met this guy less than a month ago....when he first got my number he texted me non stop....that night we hung out for a couple hours....the next morning he sent me a text saying good morning honey an...
A. 24 August 2010: How texts a day did you send him? Sounds like quite a bit, it's like if he didn't text back in a certain time frame you would freak out on him then apologize. The reason the texts have gone done could be any of the following: he really is busy at ... (read in full...)
I have a girlfriend but miss the sex with my older woman...
Q. I am a 32 year old male I have been with my partner for over 15 years, we have lived together for over 10 years and have 3 children. I had always considered our sex lives to be healthy until I met an older woman (11 years older) who is very sexual ...
A. 24 August 2010: If he's got balls roysten then wouldn't he tell his girlfriend?... (read in full...)
Shaving down there...
Q. Basically,I have been in a relationship for 3 years and my boyfriend always requested i shaved down there.....now that i am single i am wondering is this a normal thing and what do most other people do? thanks:)...
A. 24 August 2010: What's the point of trimming? If your going to go through that trouble with a trimmer, why not just shave it all off? The bumps and itch that's what the medicated cream is for. Besides what guy wants to have some stubbly hair scratching him in the ... (read in full...)
It bothers me that my friend changed her name when she got married
Q. My friend at work got married in private three months ago, and took her husband's name. It was a couple of weeks before we (her friends) found out. It was all so sudden. We all had to get used to her having a completely different last name, but I...
A. 24 August 2010: Ah ha, you have a crush on her didn't get a chance to tell her and now she's married! Well it's not archaic to take the man's last name, unless C.Grant stated you're in Quebec. Which I had no idea, learn something new everyday. In fact, I don't know ... (read in full...)
Dreams of my first love
Q. I keeping having dreams about my first love. I don't think about her nearly as much as I used to, but a part of her still clings on to me which I hate because all it does is cause upset and hurt. This dream was brought on because I have some details ...
A. 24 August 2010: The dreams don't mean anything. I think you're still having them because she's on your mind quite a but still after these 2 years. I used to have nightmares about my ex, and I think that was because of our nasty break-up and a part of me hadn't ... (read in full...)
I don't feel anything for the man I used to love.
Q. Hey there, I've been dating a guy for about two years now, and we've been engaged for one year and a few months. We were very happy when we first met each other and continued to be happy for the first year; however, now that I'm in college for m...
A. 24 August 2010: Oh Brian, your a gay guy ready to commit at a young age what a rarity! But then again your not, and that's normal most gay guys I know of all ages can't commit or if they are committed and live in a state where it's not legal to marry they still ... (read in full...)
We're sleeping together, but he'll never just talk on the phone!
Q. Hi I have been in a sexual relationship for some time with this one guy, what i don't understand about him is that after we have sex he never calls me for days at a time sometimes 6 or more days go by, yet he txts me twice a day everyday sometimes ...
A. 24 August 2010: You're in a sexual relationship, technically he doesn't have to call or text unless he wants to get frisky that night. Guys don't do phone calls because they either hat to talk on the phone or just don't have much to say. Texting is the new phone ... (read in full...)
I'm 8 months pregnant with his child, but he has a girlfriend.
Q. I am dating this man for 11 months and am 8 months pregnant with his child i know he have a girlfriend and they have a 5 year old daughter but i want him to live here and be with me and our child what can i do? ...
A. 24 August 2010: Why did you start dating this guy when you knew he had a girlfriend? How would you feel if the roles were reversed? Now was this pregnancy planned or unexpected? Chances are he's not going to move in because he already has a girlfriend and a 5 year ... (read in full...)
When should I call my ex?
Q. [OP original title] I have dated this girl for four months. Three weeks ago she blocked me from Facebook and said her reason was that she doesn't want to look at my page and see other girls commenting or liking my status and then missing me and want...
A. 24 August 2010: Couple of questions first...Why are you wanting to celebrate your 4 month anniversary when you guys aren't dating anymore? I'm confused about you taking off the texting, and then she blocked you on Facebook? If she doesn't want to talk then why do ... (read in full...)
Older woman w/ a younger man
Q. is it wrong for me to have a relationship with a 17yr lad i am a 33yr woman with 2 children, i don't look 33 and he doesn't look 17, we both are very much in love so i wanted to know does age really matter if you're happy?...
A. 24 August 2010: Technically, he's old enough to be your son. Think about it, you would be dating a baby who's got there whole life ahead of him and is still immature. You however have 2 kids and have experienced life some. In America, it would be a crime because ... (read in full...)
He's coming back at all hours, do I have trust issues?
Q. i've been in a 3 year relationship with this guy. while dating, we hung out, had fun, and would come in late or not at all. now, we reside with one another, have children together, and he continues to do the same thing minus not coming in. in a past ...
A. 24 August 2010: Every girl has or has had some trust issues at one point in there life. I know it's hard not to compare the past to the now, but think it's the past for a reason and it's not fair to compare relationships like that. You have children and he's coming ... (read in full...)
Are these signs that he could be gay?
Q. Is he gay? I have this friend I think is gay I'm not totally sure but my friends keep asking me and I don't know i would be a bit down because I really like him but the way he walks is slightley feminin and he smokes so he smokes a little bit gayi...
A. 24 August 2010: Doesn't sound gay enough to me. You need more than that to pass some judgement. If he starts dressing better than you, really focusing on his hair, flips through fashion magazines over Maxium, suggests going shopping, his bedroom is squeaky clean ... (read in full...)
It bothers me that my friend changed her name when she got married
Q. My friend at work got married in private three months ago, and took her husband's name. It was a couple of weeks before we (her friends) found out. It was all so sudden. We all had to get used to her having a completely different last name, but I...
A. 24 August 2010: Are you upset because she didn't tell you she was getting married? I would be a little hurt if I didn't know and she didn't invite u. But then again you have to remember people get married in whatever way they want eloping, small ceremony with just ... (read in full...)
My fiance will not help me clean!
Q. Mod note: Titled by poster okay, ever since i started dating my fiance he has always been VERY messy.. i knew that getting into it but i never thought he could be as bad as i know now i make little notes for him on the fridge of a little li...
A. 24 August 2010: Haha, I'm lucky if my husband does half my honey do list. I gotta tell him 2-3 times to take out the trash, that the dirty clothes belong in the hamper not on the floor, toilet seat down, I'm constantly reminding mine. One tip for the dirty clothes, ... (read in full...)
Shaving down there...
Q. Basically,I have been in a relationship for 3 years and my boyfriend always requested i shaved down there.....now that i am single i am wondering is this a normal thing and what do most other people do? thanks:)...
A. 24 August 2010: In America, yes it's pertinent that women shave down south. You can get it waxed, Brazilian wax where they get all of it including your bum, or repeatedly shaving in the shower. Now, I'll tell you if I'm not in a relationship or sexually active then ... (read in full...)
I have a girlfriend but miss the sex with my older woman...
Q. I am a 32 year old male I have been with my partner for over 15 years, we have lived together for over 10 years and have 3 children. I had always considered our sex lives to be healthy until I met an older woman (11 years older) who is very sexual ...
A. 22 August 2010: Ugh, horny trev are you aware you cheated on your girlfriend? If your not happy with your sex life with your girlfriend then let her go before you hurt her and how it will affect your kids. If you love your girlfriend then I would tell her what ... (read in full...)
By your standards, how many sexual partners is too many by age 19?
Q. When I was younger, I could not get laid--could not even get a date--to save my life. I never went to any dances, never went to proms, nothing. This year, however, I lived in Africa for 3 months and when I came back to college, somehow, things ...
A. 22 August 2010: I dont think there's an appropriate number as long as your being safe, birth control and he wears a condom. As long as it's not in say the 30s then your fine. My number is 16 and Im 25. ... (read in full...)
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