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What qualifies me to help you? Vast dating experience, especially in the LDR department, even an international on with an Aussie, broke hearts, had mine broken, been engaged once before, I know what a real friend is, seen the ugly side of divorce coming from a recently broken home myself, even went as far as to tip the odds to my side and use men only to toss them aside like yesterday's garbage like they do women, I know what it's like to almost give up hope on finding the perfect man when he's really only a few boyfriends away, and I'm starting to learn the ropes of married life. I also know a vast deal about the female and male reproductive system, and all about the mental struggles with infertility. On a side note, I'm the one who gives you tough love, I'm not on here to sugarcoat it or to tell you what you want to hear. I'm going to give it to you straight up, wouldn't you rather the truth?
-TOP 5 QUESTIONS I CAN'T STAND-
#1. Does this mean my teacher likes me?
Just because they're nice to you, offer extra help, and put a little gold star on your A+ paper doesn't mean they are in love with you.
#2. Could I be pregnant?
Have you not heard of a pregnancy test? Get off this website, and go to your local drugstore.
#3. I'm 14 and I want a baby?
Really? Me too! Oh wait I'm 28 and married. You're how old again?
#4. My husband loves porn more than me!
Maybe if you didn't let yourself go into the frumpy woman you have turned into then he wouldn't have to look at porn now would he? I recommend you get your rear to the salon for highlights, manicure, pedicure, tanning, toss the baggy tees and sweat pants for a wardrobe that fits, and a little makeup goes a long way. It's called basic woman maintenance in order to keep your man's eyes on you.
#5. Will we get back together, how can I get him to love me again?
Unfortunately, my crystal ball is broke at the moment and I just gave away the last of my love potion No. 9. Sorry.
MY GENERAL RULES OF THUMB (this should be common sense)
-No means no.
-Girls can ask out ask guys, this is a new generation.
-Unless you know sign language or are telepathic, you're going to have to talk to him/her.
-My "Don't ask, Don't tell" policy as is follows: Do not by any means volunteer your own sexual history, or ask your date/partner/wife/girlfriend their magic number (how many people they've slept with). If you find yourself being prompted to answer this question, politely tell them that's none of their business.
-Your past doesn't define who you are today. We grow, mature, age, and change as time passes.
-If you have to even ask random strangers on this website if you should have sex, then you're not ready for it.
-FWBs, fuck buddies, no strings attached, whatever you want to call it..is not a relationship don't get the 2 confused. In this case, sex=sex, not love.
-No trust=no relationship.
-It is normal for your husband/boyfriend to have friends of the opposite sex, do you not have male friends?
-LDRs can work, however they're not for everyone. You've got to have trust, communication, be faithful, and a lot of hobbies to keep yourself occupied. If you have trust issues, a case of being needy, clingy, problems staying faithful and are in a LDR don't be surprised when it doesn't work. I told you so.
- An ex is an ex for a reason. If you guys couldn't hack it as a couple the first 2 times what makes you think the third time is a charm?
-Going on a "break" is a nice way of breaking up.
-If you have sex with a man and he hasn't called you, or responded to your texts in weeks sorry to say but he was just after a piece of ass.
- Now unless he's getting blown up in Afghanistan, an on call ER doctor, or lying dead in a coffin then he's got no excuse for his poor or lack there of communication.
-You have a 12% chance of your married boyfriend leaving his wife and children.
-A man who is going through a divorce is still legally married. He's about to have an ex wife and you're wanting to get into a relationship with him? That's called a rebound.
-If you're a minor who's just found out she's pregnant, do me and everyone else on this site a favor..Tell your parents.
-Just because some one stares at you, it doesn't mean they like you. They could be staring at that booger hanging out of your nose.
-If you have a lump/bump/cyst/rash that looks green, has oozing puss, and itches like hell, but kinda looks like a STD then you had better consult your doctor. They went through 6 years of schooling and have a license to practice medicine, I think they would know better than random virtual strangers.
-Don't mix business with pleasure. Why? Because if you date your co-worker and in the event things turn sour then you're still stuck facing them 9-5, Mon-Fri. Awkward.
-No matter how hard you try, you can't change a person..they have to make that transformation themselves.
-When your boyfriend/girlfriend says they want space that doesn't mean you do the opposite and bombard them with calls/texts.
-As far as ultimatums go, don't try to make your boyfriend choose between you, his female friends, or weed. You won't like the results.
-If you're 13-17, I'm sorry but you haven't a clue what love really is. You have minimal dating experience confined to the high school dating pool which are nothing but horny boys. Their facial hair doesn't make them a man. It's only till you get out into the real world, a vast dating pool is when you learn the definition of love. So, go on thinking you and 13 year old Tommy will go on to get married, have 3 kids, and a two story house with a white picket fence. I don't expect you to listen, I'm 28 and married, what do I know? There's a reason why everyone says it won't last..because it doesn't.
-The average penis size erect is 6 inches, 4.85 inches. Women like average to even a little below average. We're not going to bust out a tape measure and measure it to make sure it's up to our standards. We just want to have sex, so enough complaining about your size let's get down and dirty.
- The legal age of consent in the U.S. is 16-18 varying oer state, in Britain it's 16. I think it's safe to say most parts of the world (unless you live in a tribe with their own form of government) the legal age to consent to sex is 16. So yes, all you minors below the age of consent are committing a crime when you engage in sexual activity. The age is set that high for a reason, you are not above the law. |
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Can't get pregnant
Q. Hi, so me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 years, I'm 25 and he is 29, we both have good jobs, we both have a car, we own a condo, we have a great little life, but... We want to have a baby. We have been trying for a few months, we want it ...
A. 19 December 2010: Great, now I wish that I could get preg too!... (read in full...)
Caught up between two guys... help!
Q. I started dating my boyfriend about two years ago and we were together for 6 months, but it was long distance I only got to see him on weekends. we broke up for 4 months then got back together and have been together now for 13 months. I used do ...
A. 6 August 2010: Wow, I would have a lil talk with ur family that they cant pick and choose who u date, that is your choice, ur a young adult ur a big enough girl to make that decision on ur own. That being destructive and hateful isnt the answer nor is vandalism. U ... (read in full...)
I'm so confused, who do I chose?
Q. MOD NOTE: OP's own title, tweaked a little as your original title has been used before. hey im 14 and im going out with a boy 1 year older than me and i love him but i got chatting to this boi callum 18 and 4 weeks on he told me he loves me and i...
A. 5 August 2010: If ur bf dumped u on facebook and was too big of a wuss to say it to ur face then he's a jerk and ur better off without him. Ur young boys will come ago...there's still plenty of boys out there looking to ask u out.... (read in full...)
I've forgiven him so many times, I still love him but is it time to walk away?
Q. well.. i have a very hard time right now deciding what i want... long story but i need some type of advice and i have no where to go to.. My husband and i met in high school back in 2000.he was my first boyfriend and my first love,, my first EV...
A. 5 August 2010: Exactly, u arent the typical stereotype military wife. Remember that! And once u start to feel good about urself inside then the outside will too. Build that self esteem back up bc ur still a strong woman through all this...most wouldve crumbled ... (read in full...)
If he doesn't want her anymore, why is he going back?
Q. Me and my ex had been together 12yrs, i was 16 and he was 27.... im now 28 and hes 39, we have 4 children together but in feb we boke up, it was ment to be just a break, to clear our heads... but i found out he was seeing an old flame from when he ...
A. 5 August 2010: Im gonna go ahead and tell u he's lying about driving the wedge between his friend if he breaks up with that chick...he's just not ready to give up that past. Im gonna go ahead and say he still loves u bc one theres a history, 4 children together, ... (read in full...)
Porn versus love
Q. Mods note: OP's own title: I have an an age old problem-my boyfriend is addicted to porn. We actually broke up but got back together over it. I have two children and you can tell by my figure that I do. But my bf always tells me I am not fat. He ...
A. 5 August 2010: Have u ever watched true life on MTV? There is an episode Addicted to Porn, and all the ppl on there have admitted they are in fact one of the guys goes to rehab center for it. U can go to MTV.com and watch the full episode then if he similar to ... (read in full...)
Will we be able to make this work in spite of it all??
Q. I am really sorry for the length of this but I have to get this off my chest. I met my boyfriend online almost 2 years ago. He lives in the USA and is in the Navy and I live in the UK, working in a bank. We really hit it off and after 3 months i...
A. 5 August 2010: Coming from an army wife..long distance relationships do work me and my husband were in one and if both parties put in the right amount of effort it will survive and eventually grow..the international part of it, I was in an international ... (read in full...)
Should I be hopeful that we can have a future despite the distance between us?
Q. Dear Cupid, I am really in love with this guy that I met online. I find him very understanding, gentle, and uplifting. Every time we talk I always find myself feeling a realm of happiness that I usually don't feel otherwise. We always talk tog...
A. 5 August 2010: Have u ever met this guy? U dont even know if he's really who he says he is..Long distance international relationships most def do not work out. How are u going to be with someone u cant see, or touch?... (read in full...)
I've forgiven him so many times, I still love him but is it time to walk away?
Q. well.. i have a very hard time right now deciding what i want... long story but i need some type of advice and i have no where to go to.. My husband and i met in high school back in 2000.he was my first boyfriend and my first love,, my first EV...
A. 5 August 2010: Starts with a D and the suffix rhymes with horse. How many times are you going to take this poor excuse for a man back? I agree being a military wife is hard I know Im one, but honey it doesnt have to be that hard. Ur in love with your hs sweetheart ... (read in full...)
Do you think it's wise to go home on a surprise visit or just leave it as we ended it?
Q. Need some advice... Here it goes... I have known this girl for about 5 years now... She and I hav always been cool with each other... And about 5 months ago she and I finally hooked up... At first she and I agreed that it was just going to be casual ...
A. 5 August 2010: This is a toughie...Now do u still have feelings with this girl or if u go home will it be one-nighter? Now if u still have feelings for her, I would show up unannounced with a perfect bouquet of flowers in ur hand..women love that we see it in ... (read in full...)
If he doesn't want her anymore, why is he going back?
Q. Me and my ex had been together 12yrs, i was 16 and he was 27.... im now 28 and hes 39, we have 4 children together but in feb we boke up, it was ment to be just a break, to clear our heads... but i found out he was seeing an old flame from when he ...
A. 5 August 2010: I can relate in a sense...I rekindled an old flame while i was engaged(I know shame on me) just went out then things turned sexual which led to a one nighter and now out of my system. Same thing with him, he re-visted what it was like back in the ... (read in full...)
I'm so confused, who do I chose?
Q. MOD NOTE: OP's own title, tweaked a little as your original title has been used before. hey im 14 and im going out with a boy 1 year older than me and i love him but i got chatting to this boi callum 18 and 4 weeks on he told me he loves me and i...
A. 5 August 2010: If only forums like this when I was your age...Ur not in love with either of these boys, U really, really like them bc ur just starting to date...and dating gets way more complicated as u go along and what till ur married! Now Callum is 18? Well ur ... (read in full...)
He has played me and I am only allowing it because without him I would be homeless! What should I do?
Q. Iam in a situation so complicated. I met someone who is a multi slave owner BDSM and has been for over 22 years. Hes has multiple partners. and is fascinated with the lifesyle. Eats lives worships. I was homeless and came here in return had to sleep ...
A. 5 August 2010: U have much more self worth than what this situation is giving u. Ur seeking shelter and ur paying for by sex which i hope is protected, and a form of slavery which wasnt that abolished? Pack ur things and hit the road, after u have turned him into ... (read in full...)
Am I too attached?
Q. my boyfriend keeps telling me he wants to be with me all the time. and i want to be with him, but im kind of scared of losing him! what do i do? just get more attached? idk! help!...
A. 5 August 2010: Its not exactly healthy to be with ur boyfriend 24-7, u need time to yourself, family, and with your friends of course. Dont make the mistake of losing ur friends just bc u have a bf. Another tip, guys dont like stage 5 clingy girls.... (read in full...)
Ladies, what's the big deal with making the first move?
Q. Hey Guys, I've been posting on this site for a while now and there's something that's been bothering me, something that I just can't figure out. Why are women so afraid of, adverse to or just straight up against making the first move? ...
A. 5 August 2010: U do have a point here..As women we wish we could read a male's mind it would make things so much simpler..
Now, we see in movies and TV, Cosmo, etc..that if a guy wants u he'll come to u and ask u out.If he's that into u he'll make the... (read in full...)
Does it matter if someone you love has had too many partners?
Q. If you meet somone and you then develop feelings for them and then love them, will it not matter to you if they've had too many partners or hardly any at all. No matter what age (be it 20, 30 or 40)? Just asking out of curiosity as I'm not the most...
A. 5 August 2010: Before I met my husband I always ask the million dollar question "How many have u slept with"? The only reason women ask it is to weed out the man whores..Then I met my husband and at that point I didnt care..And i know his number was high, but then ... (read in full...)
My jealousy makes me furious at my BF, I need help!
Q. Hello, I get extremely sad, angry, and jealous when my boyfriend looks at other women. Its not that he stares, an attractive woman can walk by on the street and i would feel the same way. Even if we are watching a movie and a sex sence comes up w...
A. 5 August 2010: Honey every girl gets a lil jealous..and of course our men only have eyes for us (wed like to think so). All guys are going to look just to look, nothing more..then turn their attention back to us. And as far as the breast scene goes I jokingly ... (read in full...)
How do you get over a broken heart?
Q. How do you get over a broken heart? Over the past 12 yrs of dating guys including 4 long term (between 1-5yrs) in that time but I've never been in love before. I recently met someone and I fell head over heels for him but then I did something that I ...
A. 5 August 2010: I used to sit down with a gallon of Rocky Road ice cream (whatever ur fave is) a spoon, and the sappiest love movie I could find and cry my eyes out until my tear ducts dried out. Next nite went to my best friends house and a cheesy girls slumber ... (read in full...)
Caught up between two guys... help!
Q. I started dating my boyfriend about two years ago and we were together for 6 months, but it was long distance I only got to see him on weekends. we broke up for 4 months then got back together and have been together now for 13 months. I used do ...
A. 5 August 2010: Move out of the other guy's house before u start dating someone new. One it will turn very awkward because u guys broke up and still live together. Secondly do it before he finds out and kicks u out. Move back home with your rents or another ... (read in full...)
Am I being irresponsible?
Q. I am 19 years old and im in college Me and my bf are not using protection while having sex so everytime we have sex he cums inside me. We love each other and we feel like we are meant to be. We are not really worried about me getting pregnant. We ...
A. 5 August 2010: If u dont want a baby and are not ready for one, get on birthcontrol right away. There's endless options to choose from, a ring u insert, the pill, the patch, the pill that makes u only have 4 periods a year..And condoms...also remember ... (read in full...)
How can I get a second date!!!!! Fed Up!!!
Q. Girls! I need help! I find it difficult to have a relationship - be it a one night stand or long term. I'm 22 and I've only had one one-night stand (ok some people are still virgins but I believe I am an outgoing guy that deserves more) ; and have ...
A. 5 August 2010: Girls love a guy with confidence but sometimes a lil too much confidence and u can come off as being cocky or for a better lack of words "thinking your all that". As women we dont want u to be weak, but not overshine us in confidence. Or maybe ... (read in full...)
How do I let go and move on?
Q. This will probably get long, and I apologize, but I appreciate anyone who reads and tries giving advice, as I really just don't know what to do at this point. I was in a relationship with someone whom I loved very deeply, for just over 3 year...
A. 5 August 2010: The first thing u need to do is close ur eyes and say its not my fault. U were dating a real queen I must say. He was hiding things from you, chatting with ppl online, going out and not coming home. I give u props for being a mature sexual ... (read in full...)
Can't get pregnant
Q. Hi, so me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 years, I'm 25 and he is 29, we both have good jobs, we both have a car, we own a condo, we have a great little life, but... We want to have a baby. We have been trying for a few months, we want it ...
A. 5 August 2010: Oh u and I are in the same boat..Weve been trying for 4 months now..Ive tracked my ovulation, and I fear something may be wrong. 85% that try to conceive, conceive in their first yr of trying..Now Idk if this is true well see. The only info I can ... (read in full...)
He mistreats me to get back at me for hurting him in the past
Q. should i give up? im going to try to make the story short i know i've asked this question in several ways but my situation changes from day to night. i have a mth old baby, my ex doesnt love me anymore he holds alot of resentment towards me bcuz ...
A. 5 August 2010: If he's moved on then u need to as well. He's got issues with the past..And what happens in the past need to stay in the past. We live in the future, so move forward with yourself..if he still wants to see his daughter set up a schedule.... (read in full...)
How long does it take for a relationship to develop a committed one
Q. i have been seeing a this man for three years, he lives in another state. the first we pretty much talked and emailed one another. the second and third pretty much his vacations were at my home and my vacations and all of my summer were at his ...
A. 5 August 2010: If uve already spent 3 yrs with him as what a friend not even a gf..then he my dear will never commit to u. Because frankly, ur comfortable not being committed..but now u realize ur nothing to him so my question is why are u still hanging around? ... (read in full...)
My aunt and I lived like we were married but then she married someone else!
Q. Im 19 yers old and i've become a part of an incest with my aunt (age:24) it was all started by me when i was 16! We used to sleep in my room in different bed !! One night i kissed her when she was sleeping! One night it all happend, but she...
A. 4 August 2010: Its your aunt how sick, she probably came to her senses and ended it. U need to move on.... (read in full...)
I love her and it hurts me to listen to her anymore talk about the man who treats her so bady!
Q. I have been best friends with this girl for 17 years. I've seen her in and out of many relationships. I don't think she's ever been single. She always felt 'complete' as long as she was in a relationship regardless of how unhappy she was. I always ...
A. 4 August 2010: Ahh we always feel sorry for those who are hurt, I know u want to help her because u love her but u cant help someone who doesnt want to help themselves. This chick has a lot on her plate that she keeps pushing around with fork thinking theyre going ... (read in full...)
Wife wants an open relationship so that I will stray and she can walk away
Q. My wife proposed that we have an open marriage because she refuses to meet my sexual needs and expectations. She wants me to find a "whore" who is willing to attach herself to my crotch and she can find someone who will meet her emotional needs. ...
A. 4 August 2010: Does your wife not enjoy sex? Or do u just want it everyday 24-7 that u seem to forget about everything else that goes along with it. There's a piece missing to this puzzle, so lets go off of the info provided. In my opinion, i smell a woman who is ... (read in full...)
Confusion lead me to look at her phone while she was sleeping.....
Q. My girlfriend and I have been together for a few years. About a year ago we started fighting a lot. Since then we have had sex only six times and we havn't had sex at all in months. She doesn't even want to kiss me or cuddle with me when we ...
A. 4 August 2010: From the female point of view, we stop the sex for a reason. Mine was I cheated on my ex fiance and felt so guilty I couldnt have sex with him. And since when do we tell our friends those 3 words? Were women we dont just toss around "i love you" ... (read in full...)
Was she really a virgin?
Q. Hey, i have been with my girlfriend for a little over 2 years now and when we started dating she was a virgin and i wasnt and eventually we ended up having sex and obviously i was the one to take her virginity. My question is and something that has ...
A. 4 August 2010: its her business who she loses her virginity to and if there was no blood during her first time then my friend she wasnt a virgin. And if things felt a lil too open down there then someone wasnt a virgin. Let me backtrack, if none of those things ... (read in full...)
Should I have sex to lose virginity even though I don't think it will be as special to him as it is to me?
Q. I have been with my partner for three years and so far we only engage in oral sex. I havent been ready to go forward with full sex and he has been very understanding about this. However, now I am getting tired of being a virgin as I am 25 and its ...
A. 4 August 2010: Lose ur virginity bc u feel that he is right and that u truely love him..Hold true to ur morals..dont lose sight of them. I cant tell u enough how much that doesnt exist in our modern world. Now, if this guy has been with u for 3yrs and no ... (read in full...)
Not eating! Love sickness?
Q. Since I started seeing a new guy about a month ago. I've stopped eating, not perpously, I didn't even notice until about a week ago, I do eat, but like once a day if that sometimes. I don't know whether love sickness is making me not feel hungry ...
A. 4 August 2010: No such thing as love sickness..u most likely cant eat bc ur overly excited about a relationship and u often think about him and often forget to eat. Now do me the favor of calming down a lil, and eat 3 times a day. No guy likes an anorexic girl.... (read in full...)
Is my coming out so traumatic to my parents that they block it out?
Q. well, a few months ago i came out to my parents. they gave me the works. crying, arguing, anger, bullshit. basically my parents weren't, and still aren't okay with my sexuality, my sisters on the other hand, they're fine, they don't care. well, i've ...
A. 4 August 2010: First off snaps to u for coming out to your rents, many of my gay friends try to hide it for so long. U have to take in consideration how ur rents are feeling they think ur going through a phase in ur life that will pass, and theyre in denial about ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has double standards about oral sex!
Q. Dear all my girlfriends says that me tasting her cum is ok and should be a pleasure but her tasting my is disgusting and degrading to women Help please...
A. 4 August 2010: In order to recive u have to give. Not a balanced relationship my dear..Ditch her... (read in full...)
I'm only 15 but I really like this married man who lives opposite me! What should I do?
Q. Hi, my names Sara and im now 15 at school. I really like this man who works at a supermarket but he also lives opposite me as well. It makes me feel stupid that i like him so much, especially when he is married and has kids but i dont know why i fe...
A. 4 August 2010: Think about what ur saying, ur 15 and still a CHILD he is a MAN married with children. Im going to say u lack a father figure in ur life. He will never have relations with u and if he does that is called a sex offender and he can go away for a long ... (read in full...)
Should I put my profile back up?
Q. First off I am new to online dating. I met someone about 7 weeks ago, things seem like they are going good. We spend a lot of time together and he tells me he likes me and is affectionate. After a couple weeks I took my profile off cuz I am really ...
A. 4 August 2010: I always say have some sitting on the back burner on a low flame. I.e. keep ur options open..Id keep ur profile up u never know if it's going to work with this guy or not...If u get into a relationship then yeah take it down but if its just the ... (read in full...)
If I get into a relationship, should I tell the guy that I have never been kissed?
Q. Hey everyone! It is a little bit embarassing but i would really like your help. I a 19 year old girl, who has never had a real kiss. The reason for that is that i am not into relationships, i prefer dating. Recently i have been meeting really c...
A. 4 August 2010: I would practice on a guy friend first who is comfortable helping you out in that dept. Never ever admit ur weaknesses to the opposite sex, they'll only use it against u. ... (read in full...)
Porn versus love
Q. Mods note: OP's own title: I have an an age old problem-my boyfriend is addicted to porn. We actually broke up but got back together over it. I have two children and you can tell by my figure that I do. But my bf always tells me I am not fat. He ...
A. 4 August 2010: There are some ppl out there that have a serious addiction to porn..If its ruining ur relationship then i suggest seeking help. Now he has a rear fetish and u seem a lil insecure about urself but who isnt? I would suggest either watching it with him ... (read in full...)
Confusing ex-gf situation...what is she doing?
Q. Hi This girl, who happens to be an ex, is keen to join my band. But she missed our first rehearsal, saying there was no time specified and she couldn't make it as she'd made other plans. I was annoyed at the time, but disn't bother too much...
A. 4 August 2010: here's a lil female insight, Dont know what happened between u guys but she's doing the Im so into being ur friend but right now im standing u up and making myself unavailabe..I think thats great you want to be friends and are letting her into the ... (read in full...)
Is there a part of him that regrets breaking things off?
Q. I went out with this guy for 8 years. He was very loving, but he split up with me. Days later he was with someone else. They've been together about 18 months now. I'm over it although I still care for him as a person. Thing is, I am moving on, an...
A. 4 August 2010: Do u want this guy back? All this girl is the rebound chick, and im afraid she knows it..Even though he broke it off, and he hasnt done the closure part by removing his belongings from ur house he still has a hold on u. This guy is not completely ... (read in full...)
I'm confused, is he playing head games?
Q. My boyfriend(30) and I(25) have been together for almost a year now. We have been living together for the past 7 months. He seperated from his wife over a year ago and has just finalized his divorce at the beginning of summer. Yay! However, I have ...
A. 4 August 2010: U guys are not on the same page..think about what u want..Sounds like to me u want a home and marriage. He however doesnt being as he just went through a divorce. He wants to do the whole living together bf, gf seeing how things go situation. I dont ... (read in full...)
Am I doing it wrong?
Q. I ve been dateing this guy for a few weeks I gave him oral sex today he is the first guy I have ever given a b j to anyway while I was doing it he started pushing the back of my head down on it further and makeing me suck iyt faster do all men do ...
A. 4 August 2010: In my day and mind u im 25, I didnt give oral till i was at least 19..and frankly i think ur a lil too young to start. But the reason he pushed ur head down, is they like u to deep throat it taken him all in meaning ur going to gag a lil. but that ... (read in full...)
Does he like me or is that just his personality?
Q. This is such a cliche question, but the circumstances are always different! Okay so I've had this guy friend that I sort of knew/ was friends with my freshman year when he was a senior. When he graduated that year we lost touch. Now I'm going into ...
A. 4 August 2010: Some ppl on facebook are better left as friend not added..He sounds like he's into u, but be careful if he's that guy who calls every girl "baby", sweetie", etc...those are the very flirty, friendly ones..who like lots of ladies and really have a ... (read in full...)
Is tossing the salad a reglular part of lovemaking?
Q. Mod Note...OP's own title: Hey everyone. Is it normal for a man to be turned off by the idea of having anal sex with a woman and by the idea of tossing a woman's salad (pleasing her anus orally). I'm in love with my girlfriend and I find h...
A. 4 August 2010: Personally ive had my salad tossed and im not a fan..Guys do have an obsession with the rear, but not all do..There's another man on her that has the same problem..Simply state it doesnt tickle your fancy and explore other options in the bedroom. ... (read in full...)
I feel like I am her second choice best friend!
Q. My best friend is like a dear sister to me. I love her forever and she is my best friend. We agree about this a lot and hhave lots of notes and necklaces saying what best friends we are. However, whenever I am over she is always asking other people ...
A. 4 August 2010: when i was ur age, i had many of best friends..a whole group of them in fact. Ur friend is the type of girl who needs to have a best friend with her at all times, maybe she's insecure about herself..and craves that attention she doesnt get elsewhere ... (read in full...)
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