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... Send *ennisstar88 a private message | | | *ennisstar88's profile:Who I am? A 28yr old Army wife. My DH serves, I serve and sacrifice as well. Went to college in my early 20s, economy caught up with me in 08 and dropped out for a bit. I however returned and am down the path to finishing a bachelor's degree. I have also beat my long, 3 year battle with infertility and am expecting a baby this December! Its been a long, pot hole filled road but I am finally where I want to be.
What qualifies me to help you? Vast dating experience, especially in the LDR department, even an international on with an Aussie, broke hearts, had mine broken, been engaged once before, I know what a real friend is, seen the ugly side of divorce coming from a recently broken home myself, even went as far as to tip the odds to my side and use men only to toss them aside like yesterday's garbage like they do women, I know what it's like to almost give up hope on finding the perfect man when he's really only a few boyfriends away, and I'm starting to learn the ropes of married life. I also know a vast deal about the female and male reproductive system, and all about the mental struggles with infertility. On a side note, I'm the one who gives you tough love, I'm not on here to sugarcoat it or to tell you what you want to hear. I'm going to give it to you straight up, wouldn't you rather the truth?
-TOP 5 QUESTIONS I CAN'T STAND-
#1. Does this mean my teacher likes me?
Just because they're nice to you, offer extra help, and put a little gold star on your A+ paper doesn't mean they are in love with you.
#2. Could I be pregnant?
Have you not heard of a pregnancy test? Get off this website, and go to your local drugstore.
#3. I'm 14 and I want a baby?
Really? Me too! Oh wait I'm 28 and married. You're how old again?
#4. My husband loves porn more than me!
Maybe if you didn't let yourself go into the frumpy woman you have turned into then he wouldn't have to look at porn now would he? I recommend you get your rear to the salon for highlights, manicure, pedicure, tanning, toss the baggy tees and sweat pants for a wardrobe that fits, and a little makeup goes a long way. It's called basic woman maintenance in order to keep your man's eyes on you.
#5. Will we get back together, how can I get him to love me again?
Unfortunately, my crystal ball is broke at the moment and I just gave away the last of my love potion No. 9. Sorry.
MY GENERAL RULES OF THUMB (this should be common sense)
-No means no.
-Girls can ask out ask guys, this is a new generation.
-Unless you know sign language or are telepathic, you're going to have to talk to him/her.
-My "Don't ask, Don't tell" policy as is follows: Do not by any means volunteer your own sexual history, or ask your date/partner/wife/girlfriend their magic number (how many people they've slept with). If you find yourself being prompted to answer this question, politely tell them that's none of their business.
-Your past doesn't define who you are today. We grow, mature, age, and change as time passes.
-If you have to even ask random strangers on this website if you should have sex, then you're not ready for it.
-FWBs, fuck buddies, no strings attached, whatever you want to call it..is not a relationship don't get the 2 confused. In this case, sex=sex, not love.
-No trust=no relationship.
-It is normal for your husband/boyfriend to have friends of the opposite sex, do you not have male friends?
-LDRs can work, however they're not for everyone. You've got to have trust, communication, be faithful, and a lot of hobbies to keep yourself occupied. If you have trust issues, a case of being needy, clingy, problems staying faithful and are in a LDR don't be surprised when it doesn't work. I told you so.
- An ex is an ex for a reason. If you guys couldn't hack it as a couple the first 2 times what makes you think the third time is a charm?
-Going on a "break" is a nice way of breaking up.
-If you have sex with a man and he hasn't called you, or responded to your texts in weeks sorry to say but he was just after a piece of ass.
- Now unless he's getting blown up in Afghanistan, an on call ER doctor, or lying dead in a coffin then he's got no excuse for his poor or lack there of communication.
-You have a 12% chance of your married boyfriend leaving his wife and children.
-A man who is going through a divorce is still legally married. He's about to have an ex wife and you're wanting to get into a relationship with him? That's called a rebound.
-If you're a minor who's just found out she's pregnant, do me and everyone else on this site a favor..Tell your parents.
-Just because some one stares at you, it doesn't mean they like you. They could be staring at that booger hanging out of your nose.
-If you have a lump/bump/cyst/rash that looks green, has oozing puss, and itches like hell, but kinda looks like a STD then you had better consult your doctor. They went through 6 years of schooling and have a license to practice medicine, I think they would know better than random virtual strangers.
-Don't mix business with pleasure. Why? Because if you date your co-worker and in the event things turn sour then you're still stuck facing them 9-5, Mon-Fri. Awkward.
-No matter how hard you try, you can't change a person..they have to make that transformation themselves.
-When your boyfriend/girlfriend says they want space that doesn't mean you do the opposite and bombard them with calls/texts.
-As far as ultimatums go, don't try to make your boyfriend choose between you, his female friends, or weed. You won't like the results.
-If you're 13-17, I'm sorry but you haven't a clue what love really is. You have minimal dating experience confined to the high school dating pool which are nothing but horny boys. Their facial hair doesn't make them a man. It's only till you get out into the real world, a vast dating pool is when you learn the definition of love. So, go on thinking you and 13 year old Tommy will go on to get married, have 3 kids, and a two story house with a white picket fence. I don't expect you to listen, I'm 28 and married, what do I know? There's a reason why everyone says it won't last..because it doesn't.
-The average penis size erect is 6 inches, 4.85 inches. Women like average to even a little below average. We're not going to bust out a tape measure and measure it to make sure it's up to our standards. We just want to have sex, so enough complaining about your size let's get down and dirty.
- The legal age of consent in the U.S. is 16-18 varying oer state, in Britain it's 16. I think it's safe to say most parts of the world (unless you live in a tribe with their own form of government) the legal age to consent to sex is 16. So yes, all you minors below the age of consent are committing a crime when you engage in sexual activity. The age is set that high for a reason, you are not above the law. |
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Was I wrong for telling my cousin that the guy she likes is my FWB?
Q. Hey everybody!! Ok, so I was havin sex with this guy (let's call him Will) for 7 months (He was my second). It was just sex!! And yes I was starting to catch feelings for him but he was in college so when he leave they would fade away. I'm 18, i'll ...
A. 9 October 2010: Oh Tia darling, there are more men out there even better than Will! And steer clear of 5 minute men..there's also a lot of those out there too. But do remember to protect yourself using means of contraceptive and that you partner is wearing ... (read in full...)
I don't want my crushes besfriend to think I'm into her!
Q. so my crush's best friend stared at me and i just looked away ..did i do anything wrong? so my crush's best friend saw me and i saw her ,even though i didn't recognize her at first,i just looked away immediately by avoiding her as i was on...
A. 26 August 2010: True if you hang around her house you'll look like a creep..why don't you get your crush's number from her best friend? Give her a call, see how she's doing and ask her out...you're prolonging the inevitable.... (read in full...)
I don't want my crushes besfriend to think I'm into her!
Q. so my crush's best friend stared at me and i just looked away ..did i do anything wrong? so my crush's best friend saw me and i saw her ,even though i didn't recognize her at first,i just looked away immediately by avoiding her as i was on...
A. 26 August 2010: You need to talk to your crush instead of her best friend...chances are if the best friend likes you then nothing is getting back to your crush of your conversation. However, if she is a good friend then she is repeating this information back to ... (read in full...)
What should I wear on our first date?
Q. i have a crush on a boy and now get to date him. I learned that he had feeling for me too. I need some style advice from ladies on what to wear on a first date with him. I want to look nice, cute, and make him think I am sexy. Should I wear ...
A. 26 August 2010: It depends on where you're going and the weather..A little cleavage is ok, too much makes you look cheap. Warm weather, men love sundresses paired with wedges it's dressy but cute and playful. Charlotte Russe, and check out the department stores ... (read in full...)
Why does she want two lives?
Q. Please help I've been in a serios relationship now for a little over a year and things have been gettin worse we have a baby togeather who's 3 mounths old so I understand the strains with that but it seems to me no matter what I do my partner is ...
A. 26 August 2010: There's really no advice on learning on how to trust someone...She's never given you a reason not to, and you let go of what has happened in your past that's not every girl your going to meet in the future. Let me put it this way, she's doing a good ... (read in full...)
I'm 16 and want a baby
Q. I can't wait to have a baby that I think sometimes I should just stop taking my birth control pills and not tell my boyfriend. I know it's horrible and I won't but I just want a baby so bad it makes me cry. Please give me NICE advice. I know I can't ...
A. 26 August 2010: If you do that then your boyfriend will probably leave you when your pregnant. I believe that a baby should be brought into this world with two loving partners and that it should be wanted by both. You already know your too young..and that your a ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is mad at me because we can't have sex!
Q. He and I have been together for almost 3 years. This is not the first time this happens. I can't go to his house and he can't come to mine. We have to pay for hotel rooms to be alone together. I am a college student so I am not working right now. He ...
A. 26 August 2010: Why can't you go to each others houses? Hotel rooms are expensive, point out to him your always footing the bill, and you don't even have the money to. There's other places you could go to hang out like Starbucks, the park, library, etc..But if you ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to want my new man to lose weight?
Q. I met a guy online. We had never met but had mutual friends. He ended up helping me through a hard time. Then we met up. The thing is he is very overweight and I find it really off- putting. I do still love many things about him, but don't know ...
A. 26 August 2010: Well you both sound very conscious about your weight..You're right you can't tell him outright, would you want anyone to tell you that? People get motivated different ways, I suggest a walk in the park everyday together or what does he think about ... (read in full...)
I'd leave but I don't want to hurt the kids..
Q. What is the impact of a spouse hearing these words: "I'd leave but I don't want to hurt the kids"? Having been recently accused of knowing that I don't love my spouse, I'm trying to reconcile that statement with the knowledge that she'd leave but ...
A. 26 August 2010: I'm confused she said it, right? I've heard that awful statement a few times..it says I want a divorce but I'm staying in this so our kids can have a normal life. I hate this statement because it's better to do it when they're younger and they kind ... (read in full...)
When should I call my ex?
Q. [OP original title] I have dated this girl for four months. Three weeks ago she blocked me from Facebook and said her reason was that she doesn't want to look at my page and see other girls commenting or liking my status and then missing me and want...
A. 26 August 2010: Again, you're being too pushy..She still isn't over her problems and still needs the space, you're coming on way too strong. Back off some. Don't keep asking her what day is she going to see you, if she wants to see you then she'll suggest a day and ... (read in full...)
I want a baby!
Q. Any advice will be appreciated. I'm 25, feeling like I'm getting a bit old to keep having failed relationships and waiting around for a man who is more Mr right rather than Mr right now. Thing is I really want a baby, I'm Catholic and have always ...
A. 26 August 2010: I can relate!! This feeling with me started a year ago, wanting to have a baby, getting emotional over it, feeling a little jealous that you see pregnant girls, you feel that everywhere you go there's always a girl with a bump or a newborn swaddled ... (read in full...)
My friend thinks she is the queen of the world!
Q. I have a friend who thinks she is the queen of the world. her family is filthy rich and I'm not rich. She always rubs it in my face, and she brags about everything. When we were not friends, she had gotten a puppy (Something I've wanted forever), ...
A. 26 August 2010: Why do you want to be friends with someone who flaunts her wealth and who throws it in your face that she has something that you want pretty badly? She doesn't sound like a very nice person. Has to talk about how rich she is in order to make herself ... (read in full...)
Was the connection b.c we were drunk
Q. Hi. I've used this site once before and got some great advice.Now; I need some more. Two nights ago, I met a guy at a club who I really liked. We got on really well and had loads of fun. The only thing is....he lives in Wales and I live in Scotland! ...
A. 26 August 2010: So you were never alone with him and no phone calls, texts nothing? Then yeah it was just a drunken connection. It sounds like he doesn't want to take it any further because he would be keeping in contact and asking you to come out and see him. ... (read in full...)
Can it "work out" for me?
Q. I am a cheerleader, and want to be liked, and noticed and stand out, and lose like 5 pounds ( i am 125) . not much. i was just wondering what would make me funny, flirty, naturaly pretty, skinny, and were to get cute clothes? also want to know some ...
A. 26 August 2010: Your weight usually fluctuates 5-10 pounds anyway..your a cheerleader so start increasing your cardio to a minimum of 4-5 times a week. Being funny either you are or you aren't, being naturally pretty..your looks will change as you get older just ... (read in full...)
I don't know if I made the right decision!
Q. My boyfriend and I have have been together for nearly a year, the other night something happen that scared me. We were lying in bed and I accidentally hit him in his, er, area, it was a complete accident and I apologized straight away, but he turned ...
A. 26 August 2010: Him hitting you in the ribs twice is a red flag..What you did was an accident and you apologized, he however hit you on purpose..He sounds like he has built up anger and maybe a little emotions. Also, when you say he needs you more than you need ... (read in full...)
I'm self conscious about myself and when he looks at other girls it upsets me!
Q. My eating disorder is ruining my relationship. I have been with my boyf for two years now and we have some problems, but it all comes down to my insecurity. I'm 20 and he is 23. He has known about my issues with eating for around a year. I was re...
A. 26 August 2010: All girls are self conscious, you however are dipping into the dangerous side with your eating disorder. I had an eating disorder around 17, I was stressed, hated the way I looked and decided to starve myself to change it..Dropped down 100 pounds my ... (read in full...)
Should I ask her out again and if so, when?
Q. Went on a date tonight and it went really well. We just got some dinner and talked for a bit. Nothing too serious. She was talkative and seemed interested. We actually laughed quite a bit. She is quite the flirter with others so i kind of take that ...
A. 26 August 2010: Standing someone up is just plain rude, it's not that hard to make a phone call and make some excuse to cancel the date. That would've been greatly appreciated in your case. I'm sorry that happened to you, it's a crap thing for someone to do. She ... (read in full...)
Why is my ex ignoring me? Does he hate me?
Q. We had a good relationship.he seemed super into me practically in love with me (calling 2x daily/wanting to see me daily).We ended on a sour note because he flaked on plans + didnt return my calls/msgs.after i wrote a lengthy email pouring my heart ...
A. 26 August 2010: Once I saw a male agony aunt say it's ok for a guy not to call you in a 3 day time period, they're busy. He flaked out on plans meaning he stood you up, no phone call nothing..Now that would've pissed me off, I feel you on that. That was very ... (read in full...)
How to gain confidence and weight?
Q. Hey readers, So I'm 14 and I'm not to happy with how my body ! Everyone says they wish they were me but I believe they say this just to say it . I'm skinny but I'm not super skinny. Lets just say I'm thin. My matabilism is very slow so its...
A. 25 August 2010: Your metabolism is high at your age that's why your not gaining it..not because it's slow..Don't work out, start eating more fatty foods than usual..McDonald's will make you gain weight quick, eat more carbs pasta, sandwiches, no skipping meals..If ... (read in full...)
How do guys feel about clevage enhancing bra's?
Q. Hi, I'd like some opinions, especially from guys out there, about cleavage-enhacing bras. I normally wear a padded, water-filled bra when I go out, which makes my breasts look one cup size bigger than they are...so I've been doing this whilst ...
A. 25 August 2010: What's your cup size? Most women wear bust enhancing bras anyway unless they are truly blessed in that department. I suggest staying away from this water ones, my cousin's popped in public, so she had one deflated wet boob. Don't worry about your ... (read in full...)
I want to either cut it off or commit
Q. Hi Cupid. My question is a little long but I hope manageable. Recently my boyfriend of several months returned to America after a year abroad, when we met. We have set no limit date on the distance and the relationship is more or less officially ...
A. 25 August 2010: Not really, it's normal for people to decide they can't handle the ILDR..or if you want to stay with him, like I said as committed as your going to get is marriage.... (read in full...)
I don't want my crushes besfriend to think I'm into her!
Q. so my crush's best friend stared at me and i just looked away ..did i do anything wrong? so my crush's best friend saw me and i saw her ,even though i didn't recognize her at first,i just looked away immediately by avoiding her as i was on...
A. 25 August 2010: Does your crush even know that you like her? I think you're looking into too much or that her best friend could be into you and your crush is respecting her. It was a look, it didn't mean anything.... (read in full...)
Bad acne! What can work?
Q. Hi, i need help. i have bad acne, we've tried everything. i dont know what to do anymore, mum doesnt have the money for proactive and a friend of ours said it made her face swell and she was allergic to it, and because i have sensitive screen...
A. 25 August 2010: Oh home remedies, I hear witch hazel is good for clearing the skin, it won't dry out your skin like rubbing alcohol. (stay away from that it will make your skin dry in return produce more oil on your face) Toothpaste will dry out the zit a little ... (read in full...)
Are me and my boyfreind too young to be in love?
Q. dear cupid, Im 16 and in a relationship with a guy my age only six months older. we have been together for 10 months...it wil be a year in october. before we stared datin we were like best friends. my parents can tell we really like each other ...
A. 25 August 2010: Yes and no..16-17 you're just starting to date properly, the hormones are running high, and your experiencing sex for the first time. It's easy to confuse sex, love, and infatuation all together. It's just a mess. Plus, you guys haven't been ... (read in full...)
Stop the dropped calls!
Q. my boyfriend always drop his call on me when ever we are talking on phone, how do i nicely tell him to stop that stupid act of his...
A. 25 August 2010: Well, if he has AT&T for his service provider then it's not his fault! Or do they even have AT&T in your country? When you say dropped calls, do you mean he hangs up on you or does the conversation cut out from loss of signal and he doesn't call you ... (read in full...)
Not on the pill, no condom! Pregnant?
Q. im 15, i lose my V 3 days ago to a 16 year old. im not on the pill, and he wasnt wearing a condom. we didnt stop for about 30mins. ist possiable for me to be pregnant?x...
A. 25 August 2010: You don't get pregnant instantly, you have to wait to miss or be a week late then spot for a few days if you are pregnant. If any of that happens then I would take a pregnancy test just to be sure. Your a little too young to be having sex much less ... (read in full...)
HELP I want to sleep with my dads best friend
Q. hi i am in a bit of a pickle my dad is 42 and his best fried is 38 i was introduced to him when i was 12 but now i am 18 i am a adult and my feelings to him have got stronger he is single. i think he likes me too he comes over to our house ...
A. 25 August 2010: You want to have sex with a guy who's old enough to be your dad? Think about it, do you really want to jeopardize your dad's friendship with this guy, they're best friends! If you do sleep with him and your dad finds out then your dad will be going ... (read in full...)
I want to either cut it off or commit
Q. Hi Cupid. My question is a little long but I hope manageable. Recently my boyfriend of several months returned to America after a year abroad, when we met. We have set no limit date on the distance and the relationship is more or less officially ...
A. 25 August 2010: Yeah international LDR's don't work..Airfare is expensive, or can't take the time off of work or school. Someone eventually has to give and get a visa, if you truly want to be together, but why risk it? There's no guarantee you'll be together ... (read in full...)
Bad acne! What can work?
Q. Hi, i need help. i have bad acne, we've tried everything. i dont know what to do anymore, mum doesnt have the money for proactive and a friend of ours said it made her face swell and she was allergic to it, and because i have sensitive screen...
A. 25 August 2010: Proactive only works for like the first few weeks and doesn't work after that. I've been using it for 2 months, I can't get my adult acne to go away. Don't waste your money! I've tried everything on the shelf at the drugstore..it's a trial and error ... (read in full...)
Should I be worried about my girlfriend and her male friend?
Q. Myself and my girlfriend are in our thirties and have been together happily for 3 years, living together for the last two. About a year ago she made a new male friend through a mutual friend. At first I didn't mind, but he lives in a differen...
A. 25 August 2010: You can't tell her who she can and can't be friends with. Ultimately, she's going to do what she wants. Its very common these days for women to have male best friends. I agree with smile, ask her to introduce you to him, maybe you guys can go on a ... (read in full...)
Why is my ex ignoring me? Does he hate me?
Q. We had a good relationship.he seemed super into me practically in love with me (calling 2x daily/wanting to see me daily).We ended on a sour note because he flaked on plans + didnt return my calls/msgs.after i wrote a lengthy email pouring my heart ...
A. 25 August 2010: Give the guy a break! He's going thru a custody battle, moving, and not to mention the fact for looking for a new car. Time is precious and sometimes I feel like there's never enough of it. This guy hasn't the time to give you your 2 phone calls a ... (read in full...)
Why does she want two lives?
Q. Please help I've been in a serios relationship now for a little over a year and things have been gettin worse we have a baby togeather who's 3 mounths old so I understand the strains with that but it seems to me no matter what I do my partner is ...
A. 25 August 2010: Alright there's the missing piece of the puzzle...I'm going to give it you straight up my friend...She says she's never given you any reason to doubt or suspect her, this is correct? You're paranoid for certain reasons due to your past, well let me ... (read in full...)
Why does she want two lives?
Q. Please help I've been in a serios relationship now for a little over a year and things have been gettin worse we have a baby togeather who's 3 mounths old so I understand the strains with that but it seems to me no matter what I do my partner is ...
A. 25 August 2010: Help her with the baby as much as you can, let her know you're there to help her no matter what..of course within reason cause I'm sure you have to go to work. Like I said look at the history to see what she is actually doing. If that's her outlet ... (read in full...)
Should I let my taken colleague know of my feelings?
Q. Em, this colleague of mine at work is cute but she has a guy. We lyk each other and i av a feeling 4 her.We stare at each other shyly and spend hours talking on the phone.Should i let it known to her what i feel?...
A. 25 August 2010: Do you know for a fact that she likes you? Note, that if you guys date and say things turned sour leaving you broken up, then it will make the work atmosphere very awkward. Now if you think you can handle that you have one more problem, she's taken. ... (read in full...)
Am I asking for too much from my mum?
Q. Hi, Im 23 Married and I have 2 kids. I dont drive and my husband works all sorts of shifts hes very helpful with our kids, ive currently got my learners permit and recently got myself a car. But today the weather is horrible, its raining with ver...
A. 25 August 2010: Because she thinks your married with 2 kids and an adult so thus you should be able to do it yourself. But, I understand where you're coming from not being comfortable with driving in that weather with your kids and just having a learner's permit. ... (read in full...)
How do I see through all his mixed signals?
Q. theres this guy i really like but theres too many mixed signals and i cant read him please help i like this guy in one of my classes i dont know what attracted me to him his cute and nice and confident. at the first two days of school i noticed...
A. 25 August 2010: Guys don't have time for mixed signals, they're too simple for that crap. He may like you and he might not. Go up next time, introduce yourself, and start talking about whatever, be like "oh you like my hair that one day but do you like it this way ... (read in full...)
I had an affair with my sister in law's husband. Why won't she forgive me?
Q. Dear Cupid, My Sister in Law and I used to be best friends. I knew about her maritual problems (she had an affair, she talked about divorcing him many times), and she knew mine (my husband always was away 'with other girls hunting', while ov...
A. 25 August 2010: Well, cheating runs in the family. I don't know how you all made out like it was ok, you're the only one who crossed the line and cheated with your brother-in-law...and if you were really best friends then you would've never done that. There is ... (read in full...)
I don't want to say those 3 little words yet!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for exactly nine days, and we've only known each other for a little bit over three weeks (24 days to be exact). I like him a lot,and I actually told him today that I spoke to my ex. When I spoke to my ex I felt ...
A. 25 August 2010: 24 days is way too soon to say I love you..You're justing getting to know each other! No you're not wrong for not saying it back, I wouldn't have. Let him know it's way too soon to say those words, don't say them unless you mean them because you ... (read in full...)
My friend's first boyfriend ever is a womaniser. Should I tell her?
Q. My friend is currently going out with a guy(her first boyfriend ever) who is a complete womaniser, but she has absolutely no idea. I was told about his reputation by another friend, he uses the exact same 'romantic' dating plan, gets what he wants...
A. 25 August 2010: If you have that piece of information then it would be wise to share it..here's what could happen if you tell her..She'll be mad you told her then go into denial about it saying those sources aren't valid or that's the past he could have changed. Or ... (read in full...)
How do I help a friend in an abusive relationship?
Q. She's is in a unhealthy relationship for 5 years already. She's 19 and her bf is 22. She tells me, she has broke up but patched many times with him, being emotionally hurt a lot of times in this relationship, he is very possessive and controls her, ...
A. 25 August 2010: I don't see where it's an abusive relationship? He's threatening to come to her apartment if she doesn't answer isn't abuse it's a ploy to get her to respond. Now if there is some abuse I'm missing such as emotional abuse then it's going to be very ... (read in full...)
Was I wrong for telling my cousin that the guy she likes is my FWB?
Q. Hey everybody!! Ok, so I was havin sex with this guy (let's call him Will) for 7 months (He was my second). It was just sex!! And yes I was starting to catch feelings for him but he was in college so when he leave they would fade away. I'm 18, i'll ...
A. 25 August 2010: Will is right what does it have to do with you? Were you guys over when he went to college? If you guys are over then Will has every right for Lisa to be his new FWB since that's what they both want. More power to them. And by you telling her all ... (read in full...)
Was the connection b.c we were drunk
Q. Hi. I've used this site once before and got some great advice.Now; I need some more. Two nights ago, I met a guy at a club who I really liked. We got on really well and had loads of fun. The only thing is....he lives in Wales and I live in Scotland! ...
A. 25 August 2010: Do tread lightly on this one. Once, I was piss drunk and this rather cute guy was hitting on me, we danced and chatted exchanged numbers. My friends wanted to leave for IHOP..we texted back in forth the rest of the night. Next day I woke up and he ... (read in full...)
After we made out, he started ignoring me! Should I just give up on this guy?
Q. Well i have been at this company for a few years.. i always thought this one guy was good looking and had a good personality as well.. he is pretty popular in the office..does get attention and i am very quiet. I have been kind of down lately at w...
A. 25 August 2010: Were you drunk the first night? Or was he? It sounds like he wanted to cheer you up a bit that's why he offered the shot and showed you a little attention. The aftermath of it, he probably felt a little awkward that happened hence why he hasn't said ... (read in full...)
My best friend told me she doesn't want to be my friend anymore!
Q. Well I had a best friend for 2 years. This yearwe got into a lot of fights this year. She has anxiety problems and can't deal with stress. So the end of this year she told me to come to her house. So I was like sure no problem. I didn't think it'll ...
A. 25 August 2010: What did you guys fight over? I don't understand why she couldn't have told you over the phone, it isn't like she's your boyfriend and has to break-up with you to your face. That's rather rude of her to do, she could have saved you some gas and that ... (read in full...)
Why does she want two lives?
Q. Please help I've been in a serios relationship now for a little over a year and things have been gettin worse we have a baby togeather who's 3 mounths old so I understand the strains with that but it seems to me no matter what I do my partner is ...
A. 25 August 2010: What is she doing on the internet? Facebook, Myspace, shopping, playing games? I wouldn't worry about anything other than that, just check the history on the computer next time. Now, if she's spending more time on the internet and neglecting her ... (read in full...)
When should I call my ex?
Q. [OP original title] I have dated this girl for four months. Three weeks ago she blocked me from Facebook and said her reason was that she doesn't want to look at my page and see other girls commenting or liking my status and then missing me and want...
A. 24 August 2010: Couple of questions first...Why are you wanting to celebrate your 4 month anniversary when you guys aren't dating anymore? I'm confused about you taking off the texting, and then she blocked you on Facebook? If she doesn't want to talk then why do ... (read in full...)
Should I ask her out again and if so, when?
Q. Went on a date tonight and it went really well. We just got some dinner and talked for a bit. Nothing too serious. She was talkative and seemed interested. We actually laughed quite a bit. She is quite the flirter with others so i kind of take that ...
A. 22 August 2010: In girl world, if you don't call us for the second date within 3 days that means your not interested. So you have 3 days starting the day after your date. Call and don't text, it makes it that much more personal.... (read in full...)
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