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What qualifies me to help you? Vast dating experience, especially in the LDR department, even an international on with an Aussie, broke hearts, had mine broken, been engaged once before, I know what a real friend is, seen the ugly side of divorce coming from a recently broken home myself, even went as far as to tip the odds to my side and use men only to toss them aside like yesterday's garbage like they do women, I know what it's like to almost give up hope on finding the perfect man when he's really only a few boyfriends away, and I'm starting to learn the ropes of married life. I also know a vast deal about the female and male reproductive system, and all about the mental struggles with infertility. On a side note, I'm the one who gives you tough love, I'm not on here to sugarcoat it or to tell you what you want to hear. I'm going to give it to you straight up, wouldn't you rather the truth?
-TOP 5 QUESTIONS I CAN'T STAND-
#1. Does this mean my teacher likes me?
Just because they're nice to you, offer extra help, and put a little gold star on your A+ paper doesn't mean they are in love with you.
#2. Could I be pregnant?
Have you not heard of a pregnancy test? Get off this website, and go to your local drugstore.
#3. I'm 14 and I want a baby?
Really? Me too! Oh wait I'm 28 and married. You're how old again?
#4. My husband loves porn more than me!
Maybe if you didn't let yourself go into the frumpy woman you have turned into then he wouldn't have to look at porn now would he? I recommend you get your rear to the salon for highlights, manicure, pedicure, tanning, toss the baggy tees and sweat pants for a wardrobe that fits, and a little makeup goes a long way. It's called basic woman maintenance in order to keep your man's eyes on you.
#5. Will we get back together, how can I get him to love me again?
Unfortunately, my crystal ball is broke at the moment and I just gave away the last of my love potion No. 9. Sorry.
MY GENERAL RULES OF THUMB (this should be common sense)
-No means no.
-Girls can ask out ask guys, this is a new generation.
-Unless you know sign language or are telepathic, you're going to have to talk to him/her.
-My "Don't ask, Don't tell" policy as is follows: Do not by any means volunteer your own sexual history, or ask your date/partner/wife/girlfriend their magic number (how many people they've slept with). If you find yourself being prompted to answer this question, politely tell them that's none of their business.
-Your past doesn't define who you are today. We grow, mature, age, and change as time passes.
-If you have to even ask random strangers on this website if you should have sex, then you're not ready for it.
-FWBs, fuck buddies, no strings attached, whatever you want to call it..is not a relationship don't get the 2 confused. In this case, sex=sex, not love.
-No trust=no relationship.
-It is normal for your husband/boyfriend to have friends of the opposite sex, do you not have male friends?
-LDRs can work, however they're not for everyone. You've got to have trust, communication, be faithful, and a lot of hobbies to keep yourself occupied. If you have trust issues, a case of being needy, clingy, problems staying faithful and are in a LDR don't be surprised when it doesn't work. I told you so.
- An ex is an ex for a reason. If you guys couldn't hack it as a couple the first 2 times what makes you think the third time is a charm?
-Going on a "break" is a nice way of breaking up.
-If you have sex with a man and he hasn't called you, or responded to your texts in weeks sorry to say but he was just after a piece of ass.
- Now unless he's getting blown up in Afghanistan, an on call ER doctor, or lying dead in a coffin then he's got no excuse for his poor or lack there of communication.
-You have a 12% chance of your married boyfriend leaving his wife and children.
-A man who is going through a divorce is still legally married. He's about to have an ex wife and you're wanting to get into a relationship with him? That's called a rebound.
-If you're a minor who's just found out she's pregnant, do me and everyone else on this site a favor..Tell your parents.
-Just because some one stares at you, it doesn't mean they like you. They could be staring at that booger hanging out of your nose.
-If you have a lump/bump/cyst/rash that looks green, has oozing puss, and itches like hell, but kinda looks like a STD then you had better consult your doctor. They went through 6 years of schooling and have a license to practice medicine, I think they would know better than random virtual strangers.
-Don't mix business with pleasure. Why? Because if you date your co-worker and in the event things turn sour then you're still stuck facing them 9-5, Mon-Fri. Awkward.
-No matter how hard you try, you can't change a person..they have to make that transformation themselves.
-When your boyfriend/girlfriend says they want space that doesn't mean you do the opposite and bombard them with calls/texts.
-As far as ultimatums go, don't try to make your boyfriend choose between you, his female friends, or weed. You won't like the results.
-If you're 13-17, I'm sorry but you haven't a clue what love really is. You have minimal dating experience confined to the high school dating pool which are nothing but horny boys. Their facial hair doesn't make them a man. It's only till you get out into the real world, a vast dating pool is when you learn the definition of love. So, go on thinking you and 13 year old Tommy will go on to get married, have 3 kids, and a two story house with a white picket fence. I don't expect you to listen, I'm 28 and married, what do I know? There's a reason why everyone says it won't last..because it doesn't.
-The average penis size erect is 6 inches, 4.85 inches. Women like average to even a little below average. We're not going to bust out a tape measure and measure it to make sure it's up to our standards. We just want to have sex, so enough complaining about your size let's get down and dirty.
- The legal age of consent in the U.S. is 16-18 varying oer state, in Britain it's 16. I think it's safe to say most parts of the world (unless you live in a tribe with their own form of government) the legal age to consent to sex is 16. So yes, all you minors below the age of consent are committing a crime when you engage in sexual activity. The age is set that high for a reason, you are not above the law. |
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Married man but now I KNOW I prefer men... help!
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A. 14 September 2010: See there's a possibility you two could end up as friends. ... (read in full...)
I'm having trouble being "just friends" again with my co-worker!
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A. 21 August 2010: Nope! 5 years is a long time..In fact in Sex in the City, Carrie Bradshaw was with Big for 10 years! F that, but Im an impatient girl. U are that age where everyone is finishing college and getting married, and some having babies. Its completely ... (read in full...)
Married man but now I KNOW I prefer men... help!
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A. 21 August 2010: Excellent, once u move out and get ur life started then u can work on the friendship, possibly even besties! For now, its best to coexist with one another as peacefully as possible and understand now u are just roommates..I hope all goes well!... (read in full...)
Intimacy gone after only a year
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My husband doesn't want our third baby!
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A. 19 August 2010: Yeesh, Im 25 and trying for my first! I would ecstatic to be pregnant..as u are..Its ur choice and ur body and ur husband needs to take into account ur beliefs. (if u dont believe in a abortion and u think its wrong) Mistakes and accidents happen ... (read in full...)
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A. 19 August 2010: What would u say is an average guy? And just out of curiosity where do u classify the pushovers? Lol, true a guy who doesnt like sports isnt really much of a guy now..of course aggressive guys are going to carry the normal outline of a male but with ... (read in full...)
How can I be a more aggressive dude?
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What other things can you use to masterbate??
Q. instead of dildo, vibrator,etc. what other things can you use to masterbate?...
A. 18 August 2010: I once heard of a girl who used a pickle and got it stuck in her..Unfortunately she had to go to the ER to get it removed, plus everyone in town knew the next day. Also, when I worked for a pet store this woman would come in buying cheap goldfish ... (read in full...)
Faded love. How do I end it once and for all?
Q. Okay, I'll keep this short, I've came here before for advice regarding the breaking up with my girlfriend. We are still together, It has been very rocky so far, and it has gotten to the point where I feel like I have not got the same feelin...
A. 18 August 2010: Sometimes I feel like I've got to
Run away Ive got to
Get away..I was thinking Tainted Love, lol
U live 4 states away, ur young, and being in this LDR is causing u to lose interest. Its normal and understandable u cant change the way u... (read in full...)
I can hardly approach him, let alone talk to him!
Q. right well. i'm trying to move on from this boy i was obssessed with, and i've seen a boy who i realy like but i dont know how to talk to him, its to embarussing to just aproach him. i've spoke to him vagely on facebook, not realy a proper convers...
A. 18 August 2010: I usually get a rough draft in my head of what im going to say to this young man, a few topics to talk about..Just approach him repeating to urself, "I can do it, I can do it, I can do it." Walk over, or sit next to him, start with hi and see where ... (read in full...)
How can I be a more aggressive dude?
Q. Ok first off, i am not female 23 this is my sisters page i just gotta ask a question. I am male, 38, married 12 years divorced 4. I broke up with the only girl after my divorce about a month ago so i am not ashamed to say that i am out of the game. ...
A. 18 August 2010: Ur 38 and u dated 2 high school girls? Uhhh let's try to stick with women here..Honestly, I would just be urself..U already seem to have the confidence. Women dont want a guy trying to be something theyre not, bc eventually we find out who the ... (read in full...)
Sleeping With Adopted Blood Sister
Q. My Sister was adopted when i was 2 years old and when i was 18 i managed to track her down and went to meet her, at the time i was still living at our biological parents house and my sister decided she wanted to meet our mum and see what she was ...
A. 17 August 2010: She is ur own flesh and blood, u need to continue with the relationship ur in. Tell ur sister she needs help bc its not natural for her to want to have sex with her half brother..U need to seek it as well. ... (read in full...)
Really embarrassed about the after affects of anal sex... is it normal?
Q. Hi, I am a gay male, and I recently started having anal sex (receiving), and it feels great! He is very gentle, since he knows I'm inexperienced and, well, tight! But I noticed a bit of feces on the condom a couple times. Another time, I was on ...
A. 17 August 2010: I think its normal, bc when my husband and i did anal he said he could feel something..I felt embarrassed and a lil grossed out but he just laughed it off. Now my gay friends hate "poop dick." Also, i just read on a site that a diet high in fiber ... (read in full...)
At a crossroads in the relationship
Q. Hi Everyone, help me find my sanity and put this little mellodrama into perspective. I'm a grounded, confident, 30 something that has always had a solid steady dating life, and while I haven't found the one, I take the ups and downs in stride. I ...
A. 17 August 2010: This dude has some leftover emotional baggage that only he can deal with and put behind him. He's def into u in the dating/relationship sense however his whole heart isnt into it. Do u really want to wait for him to get over it? I give him props for ... (read in full...)
I caught him cheating on me with my ex-besfriend!!
Q. I just sarted dating this boy. I really like him and he said he would do anything for me. I'm not sure if he really likes me though. I caught him cheating on me with my ex-besfriend. He doesn't know that i know, he said he had something important to ...
A. 17 August 2010: Should we put that to die for u theory to test? Lol, just joking. It takes two to tango, and of all people it had to be with ur bestie. Men will say anything to try or say anything to redeem themselves.."I cheated on u with ur bestie so the way to ... (read in full...)
No affection! Has my husband stopped loving me?
Q. hi everyone,am 24yrs n i av bin married for an year now,my husband is a wonderful guy n i love him alot.the thing is lately he has bin very distant from me.hes less sensitive 2 ma needs i.e no cuddling unles when we r in bed and he wants 2 hav ...
A. 17 August 2010: Ha my husband never tells me he appreciates me, he tells me im beautiful sometimes..Now the holding u in public, some guys arent into public display of affection, but if he's embarrassed then that would be something to raise an eyebrow at. I dont ... (read in full...)
How do we get out of this impossible situation???
Q. Five years ago after my relationship with my child's father ended I met a wonderful, wonderful man who was just what I needed; he took care of my (then) very young child and I in every way imaginable. However, after 10 months together I ended the ...
A. 17 August 2010: I dont agree with him getting married for the other woman..Get married bc ur in love. I feel like he's toying with u, going back and forth he wants u but he doesnt, then he wants u again. Its not exactly healthy for u and ur child to be in this love ... (read in full...)
My bf is terrible at keeping in contact!!
Q. This is starting to really annoy me. My bf is terrible at keeping in contact. Even when i first met him txts/ phone calls have always been quite slow. We have been together 6 months and i guess hes comfortable now so its slipped even further. ...
A. 17 August 2010: Agreed with AskOlderSister, he's a poor candidate if this is a LDR. Both parties have to maintain great communication in order for it to work. It can work Im proof...Im now married to him. If u do spend time with him often, or as much as u can then ... (read in full...)
Growing suspicions about my friend's wife!
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A. 17 August 2010: Im rather confused by ur post but as a wife myself I dont go around kissing another male on the lips other than my husband. Alcohol is no excuse, it doesnt give her a reason to be flirty and a lil forward with other males. I smell she's lacking ... (read in full...)
Am I a bad friend for giving up on her?
Q. Last year, me and my boyfriend broke up over a small thing and during this time, my best friend who really enjoyed my boyfriend's company, got involved and she took his side. This of course, broke my heart, because we've been friends for 4 years, ...
A. 17 August 2010: Nope sounds like a crappy best friend to me. She took ur boyfriend's side! Who does that? A back stabbing bestie that's who..Also she lied, talked trashed on u, and tried taking ur ex sorry honey but that deserves a boot to the curb. This friendship ... (read in full...)
My husband wants me to dump my friend!!
Q. So two years ago, when my husband was just my boyfriend back in the day, we both had this friend, "Angel" something happened and she ended up threatening to beat up my husbands two younger sisters. Right from the get go of that incident I told each ...
A. 17 August 2010: Nooo, Tell ur husband he cant pick and choose ur friends, u are not in the middle of this threat that happened 2 years ago, it was silly and now its in the past so let it stay there. I think its rather ridiculous he's threatening divorce over ... (read in full...)
Do I deserve better?
Q. I don't know what to do. My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years. Our 5 year anniversary meant nothing to him. He told me that. He never even remembered even though he knew it was a big deal to me. I'm going back to Uni soon and he's never ...
A. 17 August 2010: YES!!!! Any man( to me his a waste of space) that tells u ur anniversary doesnt mean squat, insults u in public, calls size 6 fat (thats skinny) expects to be waited on hand on foot, and makes u feel guilty for being in the hospital with heart ... (read in full...)
Should I end my 3 YEAR AFFAIR???
Q. I have been having an affair for three years. We are both married. I'm trying to figure out: If I should stay in my marriage, end it and tell my husband? Or get out of my marriage. It's not fair to my husband to continue this in this way. ...
A. 17 August 2010: Affairs arent fair especially if there's children involved. Do u have any and how old? No one wants to come from a broken home. However, honesty is the best policy..My mother had an affair for a year and my dad finally caught her, it ended in ... (read in full...)
Help!!! How do I get to know him better?
Q. I have so much feelings for a boy who doesnt know I exist, we're in the same maths, art and computing classes. I want to be more friendly with this boy. please help x...
A. 17 August 2010: Lol, sweetie he's not going to be like WTF.. U want to get to know him but u cant shout across the room, u gotta get next to him! Tell ur bestie ur going to try sitting by this guy for the next week (try it in math class first), she's more than ... (read in full...)
I'm having trouble being "just friends" again with my co-worker!
Q. I am so confussed... I met a man at work, both of us single, but separted ( failed relationships) for the first few months of working there , we started to flirt and chat, which came easily for both of us, I'm a wee bit chatty and tend to chat alot ...
A. 17 August 2010: This is why I dont date anyone I work with, it ends in breakup and ur still stuck with them nearly everyday. Its not the best time for u two to be together because u both have to settle ur issues first and both minds have to be totally into it. Keep ... (read in full...)
I attacked my Husband!!
Q. Today I got into an argument with my husband. The row started getting worse and then i pushed him and slapped him in the face. I also scratched him when he pushed me back. I've done this a few years ago and thought I'm over my 'anger' feelings...
A. 17 August 2010: Time out. When u think the row is getting worse, u need to yell time out before u go any further. It sounds to me like u are at ur breaking point, u went to the point of physical violence though. I dont necessarily agree with him pushing u, unless ... (read in full...)
I need to know... does he REALLY like me or are we just friends?
Q. I'm 15 and about to start my last year of school, a boy I like has just left he went to the same school as me bu obviously in the year above. I started talking to him a few months back when he came to the cinema with me and my friend and his f...
A. 17 August 2010: The guy friends that I have can be a lil flirty at times when they dont have gfs. I dont know why they do but its harmless, I dont take it serious. Commenting on how hot I look in this dress, give me the once over, a slap on the bum..just little ... (read in full...)
I need to know... does he REALLY like me or are we just friends?
Q. I'm 15 and about to start my last year of school, a boy I like has just left he went to the same school as me bu obviously in the year above. I started talking to him a few months back when he came to the cinema with me and my friend and his f...
A. 17 August 2010: Ur a lil young to be getting drunk..but then again I dont know the legal age in Britain..hoping its reasonable. If he said he didnt like u that way then he means it. He just wants to be your friend nothing more. Dont give it anymore thought, find ... (read in full...)
Can only orgasm from missionary. Is something wrong?
Q. Husband and i have been married for 4 years, sex is great everytime but we are still stuck with the missionary position.I can only climax with him on top of me.We have tried different positions but never reached orgasm with any.I have heard great ...
A. 17 August 2010: I do on top with me stimulating my clitoris, missionary with my legs on his shoulders, and if he's comfortable with it Ive introduced vibrators during sex...It took me awhile to get comfortable being on top its like ur being put on the spot, but I ... (read in full...)
Fiance broke things off. Cold feet?
Q. Me and my fiance had been together for nearly 4 years. 2 weeks ago she asked for a break, then 7 days later broke up with me. No sign of loveloss from her though. There was no discussion about our relationship and no real problems before this, ...
A. 17 August 2010: How long are u willing to wait for her? It make take her awhile to find herself and make sure this is what she wants in her life right now. ... (read in full...)
Is she wrong to give her ex a present like this?
Q. So I've been seeing this girl. I really like her a lot. Yesterday she tells me she is going to her ex-boyfriends birthday party, which I am fine with as they are still friends. Then I find out her birthday present to him is that her and a couple ...
A. 17 August 2010: My first thought it was a gag gift. However with the ex-factor its not entirely appropriate. ... (read in full...)
Is it a one night stand or rape?
Q. I've been wondering for a long time whether what I experienced was just a one night stand or rape. A while ago I went to visit a friend of mine at school. We went out, and I drank way too much. I remember I was flirting with this friend of hers most ...
A. 17 August 2010: U were a victim of a one night stand with a creepster! Hate those guys who take advantage of piss drunk girls, its rather inhuman. Next time, drink in moderation so u dont give disgraces of the opposite sex a chance again. ... (read in full...)
He asked to see someone's boobs, but everyone is telling me it's what boys do!
Q. me and my bf have been together for 3 years. we were at his sister wedding reception and I found out he asked another girl to see her boobs. I kown this girl shes married with kids and not at all interested in him. He and his sister have know her ...
A. 17 August 2010: He was drunk when he asked to see this woman's boobs? U have every right to be teed off I know I would and being drunk is a sorry excuse. I would say he's genuinely sorry if he shed some tears. Can u forgive him? If u do I wouldnt make it easy on ... (read in full...)
Does "I don't know" , mean she doesn't want to be in a relationship?
Q. Okay, people of dearcupid, I have a question. I have been in a relationship with a girl for about 5 months now and all has been more than good in my eyes but I have a few questions on things that have came up to stress to you to possibly get your ...
A. 17 August 2010: This chick obviously doesnt know what she wants and she's stated that, where I go back to she's a lil too young and needs to explore life a lil. Get out there and find out who she is. I think 5 months is a lil too early to be talking about a future ... (read in full...)
Help! My relationship is at breaking point!
Q. It will be 5 years later this month that my boyfriend and I have been dealing with each other. During this time there has been many break ups. Ive been very loyal to him over the years never having sex with anyone else, just making friends for the ...
A. 17 August 2010: A breakup is def needed here. Im not one for a "break" bc most of the time couples dont get back together after the break. Plus, if he got violent with you, cheated, lying, and 31 missed calls is just psycho that's a deal breaker for me. Is he ... (read in full...)
The mysterious clitoris?
Q. whats the best way to stimulate the clitorus?...
A. 17 August 2010: Oral, or if ur comfortable enough with a vibrator. There's one called a rabbit, or the ones that look like like rings with a lil mini vibrator that go on ur finger, girls love it!... (read in full...)
My brother admitted to me he thought of me in a sexual way
Q. I am a single mother of 1 daughter. I am 20 and was living with my bf but we broke up. Since then about 2 months ago I've moved back home with my parents. I have a younger brother who is 18 and a sister who is 14. We were all having dinner last ...
A. 17 August 2010: I just dont get incest..Of all the available men out there u happen to get caught up in the mood with your younger brother? Ur own flesh and blood, especially when u knew it was wrong. No its not common for brothers to think about their sister in ... (read in full...)
Bigger and better than ever.
Q. [OP original title] ima light skinned african american. i have chinese shaped eyes, 40 C boobs, and i kinda big butt. I need tips on how to look prettier before summer ends and i start middle school in about 3 weeks. also im a little chubby but im s...
A. 17 August 2010: http://lifestyle.iloveindia.com/lounge/how-to-make-your-nose-look-smaller-4448.html (thats a link for ur nose, u can use makeup to make it appear smaller) As far as a bit more ladylike, dress conservatively but flattering (no cleavage but to flatter ... (read in full...)
I've been told he likes me but out in public he ignores me!
Q. What should I do?!? So it started a year ago when I started my new job. It's a small team of 5 people, 1 being a 19 year old boy (I'm 20). Of course everyone immediately started teasing us both saying we should get married, etc. On a night out I...
A. 17 August 2010: Yikes, a year is too long to wait for a guy who ignores u in public! How very rude of him, especially when u make an effort for convo he doesnt even acknowledge u exist outside of work. My main rule was never date ur co-workers bc what if things end ... (read in full...)
Help!!! How do I get to know him better?
Q. I have so much feelings for a boy who doesnt know I exist, we're in the same maths, art and computing classes. I want to be more friendly with this boy. please help x...
A. 17 August 2010: Do u sit near him? If not, then I would move by him if possible. I used to push my pen off my desk so it goes by him, ask him if he understood this math problem, or what did u get for #24, walk past his artwork (even if it sucks) compliment his pic. ... (read in full...)
Intimacy gone after only a year
Q. My boyfriend and i have been dating for almost 1 year now. He's 3 years older than i am, and we are in the 20's. I've been told that in the beginning of the relationship, sex is always great. Well i've read somewhere. But lately i feel that i'm ...
A. 17 August 2010: Sex differs from couple, when ur young say up to mid 20s there's a moderate-ton of it..after children it decreases. Ur man is stressed that can put a damper on his libido, i.e not being able to get it up or finish. Since he's already going through ... (read in full...)
Does "I don't know" , mean she doesn't want to be in a relationship?
Q. Okay, people of dearcupid, I have a question. I have been in a relationship with a girl for about 5 months now and all has been more than good in my eyes but I have a few questions on things that have came up to stress to you to possibly get your ...
A. 17 August 2010: Dear, ur 23 most likely finished with college ur future is already rolling u know what u want..On the other hand, u have this girl who isnt ready for commitment, she's 18 and has a lot on her plate, school, work etc..plus deciding where she wants to ... (read in full...)
Bigger and better than ever.
Q. [OP original title] ima light skinned african american. i have chinese shaped eyes, 40 C boobs, and i kinda big butt. I need tips on how to look prettier before summer ends and i start middle school in about 3 weeks. also im a little chubby but im s...
A. 16 August 2010: Wow, youre gorgeous! well, you sound perfect to me. I dont see anything u should change! Boys love those curves, skinny girls are out..... (read in full...)
Married man but now I KNOW I prefer men... help!
Q. I've been married to a woman who I love very much for 4 years now and have been with her for almost 7 years. Before we hooked up, I was in two consecutive homosexual relationships. She knew and even supported me at that time, and we were good ...
A. 4 August 2010: How awkward for your wife..I dont believe in bisexuality you either lean towards one more than the other, there is no in between...Now u must realize how yoyr wife must feel, probably freaked out and blaming everything on herself..or maybe she's ... (read in full...)
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