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What qualifies me to help you? Vast dating experience, especially in the LDR department, even an international on with an Aussie, broke hearts, had mine broken, been engaged once before, I know what a real friend is, seen the ugly side of divorce coming from a recently broken home myself, even went as far as to tip the odds to my side and use men only to toss them aside like yesterday's garbage like they do women, I know what it's like to almost give up hope on finding the perfect man when he's really only a few boyfriends away, and I'm starting to learn the ropes of married life. I also know a vast deal about the female and male reproductive system, and all about the mental struggles with infertility. On a side note, I'm the one who gives you tough love, I'm not on here to sugarcoat it or to tell you what you want to hear. I'm going to give it to you straight up, wouldn't you rather the truth?
-TOP 5 QUESTIONS I CAN'T STAND-
#1. Does this mean my teacher likes me?
Just because they're nice to you, offer extra help, and put a little gold star on your A+ paper doesn't mean they are in love with you.
#2. Could I be pregnant?
Have you not heard of a pregnancy test? Get off this website, and go to your local drugstore.
#3. I'm 14 and I want a baby?
Really? Me too! Oh wait I'm 28 and married. You're how old again?
#4. My husband loves porn more than me!
Maybe if you didn't let yourself go into the frumpy woman you have turned into then he wouldn't have to look at porn now would he? I recommend you get your rear to the salon for highlights, manicure, pedicure, tanning, toss the baggy tees and sweat pants for a wardrobe that fits, and a little makeup goes a long way. It's called basic woman maintenance in order to keep your man's eyes on you.
#5. Will we get back together, how can I get him to love me again?
Unfortunately, my crystal ball is broke at the moment and I just gave away the last of my love potion No. 9. Sorry.
MY GENERAL RULES OF THUMB (this should be common sense)
-No means no.
-Girls can ask out ask guys, this is a new generation.
-Unless you know sign language or are telepathic, you're going to have to talk to him/her.
-My "Don't ask, Don't tell" policy as is follows: Do not by any means volunteer your own sexual history, or ask your date/partner/wife/girlfriend their magic number (how many people they've slept with). If you find yourself being prompted to answer this question, politely tell them that's none of their business.
-Your past doesn't define who you are today. We grow, mature, age, and change as time passes.
-If you have to even ask random strangers on this website if you should have sex, then you're not ready for it.
-FWBs, fuck buddies, no strings attached, whatever you want to call it..is not a relationship don't get the 2 confused. In this case, sex=sex, not love.
-No trust=no relationship.
-It is normal for your husband/boyfriend to have friends of the opposite sex, do you not have male friends?
-LDRs can work, however they're not for everyone. You've got to have trust, communication, be faithful, and a lot of hobbies to keep yourself occupied. If you have trust issues, a case of being needy, clingy, problems staying faithful and are in a LDR don't be surprised when it doesn't work. I told you so.
- An ex is an ex for a reason. If you guys couldn't hack it as a couple the first 2 times what makes you think the third time is a charm?
-Going on a "break" is a nice way of breaking up.
-If you have sex with a man and he hasn't called you, or responded to your texts in weeks sorry to say but he was just after a piece of ass.
- Now unless he's getting blown up in Afghanistan, an on call ER doctor, or lying dead in a coffin then he's got no excuse for his poor or lack there of communication.
-You have a 12% chance of your married boyfriend leaving his wife and children.
-A man who is going through a divorce is still legally married. He's about to have an ex wife and you're wanting to get into a relationship with him? That's called a rebound.
-If you're a minor who's just found out she's pregnant, do me and everyone else on this site a favor..Tell your parents.
-Just because some one stares at you, it doesn't mean they like you. They could be staring at that booger hanging out of your nose.
-If you have a lump/bump/cyst/rash that looks green, has oozing puss, and itches like hell, but kinda looks like a STD then you had better consult your doctor. They went through 6 years of schooling and have a license to practice medicine, I think they would know better than random virtual strangers.
-Don't mix business with pleasure. Why? Because if you date your co-worker and in the event things turn sour then you're still stuck facing them 9-5, Mon-Fri. Awkward.
-No matter how hard you try, you can't change a person..they have to make that transformation themselves.
-When your boyfriend/girlfriend says they want space that doesn't mean you do the opposite and bombard them with calls/texts.
-As far as ultimatums go, don't try to make your boyfriend choose between you, his female friends, or weed. You won't like the results.
-If you're 13-17, I'm sorry but you haven't a clue what love really is. You have minimal dating experience confined to the high school dating pool which are nothing but horny boys. Their facial hair doesn't make them a man. It's only till you get out into the real world, a vast dating pool is when you learn the definition of love. So, go on thinking you and 13 year old Tommy will go on to get married, have 3 kids, and a two story house with a white picket fence. I don't expect you to listen, I'm 28 and married, what do I know? There's a reason why everyone says it won't last..because it doesn't.
-The average penis size erect is 6 inches, 4.85 inches. Women like average to even a little below average. We're not going to bust out a tape measure and measure it to make sure it's up to our standards. We just want to have sex, so enough complaining about your size let's get down and dirty.
- The legal age of consent in the U.S. is 16-18 varying oer state, in Britain it's 16. I think it's safe to say most parts of the world (unless you live in a tribe with their own form of government) the legal age to consent to sex is 16. So yes, all you minors below the age of consent are committing a crime when you engage in sexual activity. The age is set that high for a reason, you are not above the law. |
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Help! No longer sexually attracted to my chubby wife...
Q. So we all know that men are visual creatures. My problem is that I am just not that attracted to my wife anymore. We have been married 15 years. She is a pretty woman, but has slowly gained weight. She is maybe 40-50 lbs overweight, and weighs ...
A. 13 September 2010: @Universe man, all I'm saying is we accept the male for what he has come to be with age, why can't males accept their now overweight spouses? Gained weight isn't permanent, it can be fixed. So maybe husbands should stop whining about their not so ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend won't talk to me.
Q. My girlfriend and I have been together for a week less than two months. We met online (we only live a few miles from each other though) and began texting each other a lot, usually until 2 to 3am. We met in person maybe a week after talking and ...
A. 11 September 2010: Oh I forgot to add one more thing I was rather appalled that one of the reasons she broke up with you because you didn't ask about your feelings! WTF, you can't read her mind..she expects way too much out of men, probably why she's divorced. Oh a ... (read in full...)
Wanting to sleep over at the boyfriend's house...
Q. I am 18 years old. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for two years now, and before that we were best friends. He used to live across the street from me, so my parents know him well. I have never asked my mom if I can sleep over his house, ...
A. 11 September 2010: Here's what I did OP, I moved out at 19 because my dad wouldn't let me spend the night at my boyfriend's house. He, similar to your mother said "My house, my rules. If you can't abide by my rules then there's the door." So I packed my things and ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend won't talk to me.
Q. My girlfriend and I have been together for a week less than two months. We met online (we only live a few miles from each other though) and began texting each other a lot, usually until 2 to 3am. We met in person maybe a week after talking and ...
A. 11 September 2010: Yayyy, I think you're making a break through here! So proud of you. You do have a smidgen of relationship experience but a little more couldn't hurt just to help you out of that shell. Hey, I was serious when if I was single I'd give you a ... (read in full...)
Does this make me a homewrecker? And how can I ask him....?
Q. Hello; so I'm torn literally down to my nerves. So there is this guy I've known for a year and a month, and he's graced me with my first kiss. Anyway, since about April, he got a girlfriend, which I found out about due to one of our friends posting ...
A. 11 September 2010: Nope I was in your situation, if you stay in it you end up getting hurt. Sometimes hurt beyond repair. The pros and cons list is staring you right back in the face can't argue with that. Get yourself a new tutor.... (read in full...)
She doesn't want me to give her oral... how can I change her mind?
Q. Hi, I've been going out with my girlfriend for nearly a year, i am her first sexual partner and we have sex often but she doesn't want me to go down on her because she says that she doesnt like the smell when i kiss her after, but i really love ...
A. 11 September 2010: You know if it takes a Dixie cup and a travel size mouthwash on your nightstand then so be it. Gotta do what you gotta do.... (read in full...)
I'm 43, she's 18 & pregnant and I didn't know she wanted more than sex. I don't want this!
Q. im 43 and slept with an 18 year old and now shes pregnant but thats not the only problem she said that she fort we was going out when we slept together i knew she gets very close to people too fast but i didnt realise she wanted more than sex i fort ...
A. 11 September 2010: @ ANON, You must have missed the part that this 18 year old is special needs so she may not have understood that he was just having casual sex with her. If you were a 43 year old man would you have sex with a special needs 18 year old? Depending ... (read in full...)
He's bored with our sex life!
Q. My boyfriend and i have been together for 6 months now, and he expressed to me a few days ago that he's essentially bored with our sex life, after about 2 months of our frequency of having sex decreasing more and more. So I suggested that we try new ...
A. 11 September 2010: Are you saying he wants a threesome with another man, or that he wants to mess around with a dude solo?? Shed some light on that dear..Have you taken the sex all over the place? The backseat of a car, beach, park late at night, throwing a mattress ... (read in full...)
I need ideas! How can I make my friend feel better?
Q. okay, so my best friend, sam, ALWAYS has a bf, and is always talking about her prioblems with him, and because i have never expirienced anything like it, i never know what to say, so a few weeks ago her latest boyfriend(john) had asked her to go a ...
A. 11 September 2010: Ouch your friend got used for sex then tossed aside like yesterday's news! Poor thing. Well when I was your age we weren't that sexually advanced..so let's fast forward to when I was a little older and this happened to my friends...We would all ... (read in full...)
I've done nothing wrong and I end up in this situation.
Q. Well I met this girl on a trip away when we were both still in relationships. It went really well and we both ended up breaking up with our partners to be together. Her ex ended up in hospital after being beaten up and she was asked to go visi...
A. 11 September 2010: Sorry hon, but she wasn't over the ex after she broke up with him for you. If she was over him then she would have went with friends or parents to see him and definitely wouldn't have kissed him. He's hurt and she's flocked to his side like a little ... (read in full...)
Wanting to sleep over at the boyfriend's house...
Q. I am 18 years old. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for two years now, and before that we were best friends. He used to live across the street from me, so my parents know him well. I have never asked my mom if I can sleep over his house, ...
A. 11 September 2010: How do his parents feel about it? She's not comfortable with you sleeping over there due to the fact, you two aren't engaged or married. I give you props for asking her..I'm a little confused that she already knows you guys have sex and there's ... (read in full...)
How do I approach this girl? I'd love to go out with her!
Q. ive just started year 9 at a new school where everyone knows each other and anyway the teacher asked this boy to show me around and he turned out to be quite popular and he introduced me to everyone including this gorgeous girl who started to flirt ...
A. 10 September 2010: I vote for the other girl. The popular one sounds like she has to have a lot of male attention and a little high maintenance. And I definitely wouldn't want to date anyone whom I feel stupid around. Plus, you're friends with this guy there's that ... (read in full...)
How do I go about asking this woman out on a date? No experience in this.
Q. i keep getting funny looks from this woman i see every day she smiles at me and i found out she's single like me and has no children, i was wondering how to approach her... i don't want her to be frightened off. i have no experience with asking ...
A. 10 September 2010: Well waste no time in asking her out! Next time you see her approach her and introduce yourself..continue with a little small talk, how do u like the area, are you originally from around here, I've noticed you smiling at me, do you want to grab a ... (read in full...)
She doesn't want me to give her oral... how can I change her mind?
Q. Hi, I've been going out with my girlfriend for nearly a year, i am her first sexual partner and we have sex often but she doesn't want me to go down on her because she says that she doesnt like the smell when i kiss her after, but i really love ...
A. 10 September 2010: Lol, well unless you have a little mouthwash by your bed to swish real quick after giving her oral, then it may be a little while before she changes her mind. As gross as it sounds, we let our men give us oral then continue kiss them afterwards. ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend signed up to dating site and exchanging numbers
Q. I an an issue. I've been with my bf for 6 months the first 4 moths were great. I fell for him and he admitted falling for me. I only saw him weekends nad ocassional sleep overs. but the last 2 monhths he started actind diff. Distant, cold and ...
A. 10 September 2010: Well you sound like a smart girl, I'm sure you know the answer to this problem..When one is depressed they lose interest in activities they once enjoy, trouble focusing, don't get out of the house much, get social anxiety, have suicidal thoughts, ... (read in full...)
Husband calling chat lines all the time!
Q. Hello, I need some advice this is driving me crazy! I just found out that my husband has been calling these chat lines they advertise on TV. This is not just once or twice; he is doing this excessively causing us to go over our minutes on our phone ...
A. 10 September 2010: Sounds like he's bored and is passing time yanking his wanker. He can't seem to use his imagination so he needs to watch pay per view porn or dial those 1-900 numbers.Cell phone I'm guessing? I would follow Youwish's advice but you have to be the ... (read in full...)
He left me for his old g/f he found on facebook, so why is he acting this way now?
Q. Ive been with my husband for 8 yrs... All of a sudden he found an old GF on Facebook... He talked to her 2 weeks and decided to ddrop everything for her, he says things are going good for them and they get along good.. house and all. It has been a ...
A. 10 September 2010: I hope you divorced him..Come on rekindling an old flame, dropping a wife and house to reminisce on the good old days. I smell a mid life crisis...but if that's what he wants by all means let him have it...just don't get caught up in his boulshit ... (read in full...)
Found out booty call guy no longer returning phone calls
Q. Here's the deal: A woman finds out that F Buddy/Booty Call had a GF. When the GF was told of his actions he in turn got very angry and left very nasty messages. Now the woman hasn't heard from him in several weeks. What do you make of his...
A. 10 September 2010: Alright has the guy used this woman as fuck buddies or a booty call during the time he got a girlfriend? Or was it before the girlfriend? Did this woman tell the girlfriend about herself? If she did and this man was indeed having a booty call and a ... (read in full...)
Help! No longer sexually attracted to my chubby wife...
Q. So we all know that men are visual creatures. My problem is that I am just not that attracted to my wife anymore. We have been married 15 years. She is a pretty woman, but has slowly gained weight. She is maybe 40-50 lbs overweight, and weighs ...
A. 10 September 2010: You're put off by her weight an nothing more?..If it was all about appearance then shouldn't women be divorcing their husbands who are balding, have beer bellies, and erectile dysfunction? My husband most likely won't look like he does now at 50, so ... (read in full...)
Why has this happened to me?
Q. I have a very tragic life story. Please give me some consolation,that I'm not alone. In my whole life,I tried to do my best,but the chain of partly unexplained unfortunate events,the whole thing became a nightmare. None of the things ,what happened, ...
A. 10 September 2010: They say that bad things happen in 3's but I agree it's much more than that. Especially in your case...Without knowing the whole story and your vagueness all I can say is it's not a case of luck or karma coming around to bite you in the bum. Maybe ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's female friend is rude to me and he just doesn't see it!
Q. I am not sure what to do. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2years. He has a female friend who is very rude and disrespectful to me. After awhile he would begin to see some of the stuff and would not allow her to interrupt me or pull him away ...
A. 10 September 2010: Do excuse my language ahead of time..Guys don't want to get in the middle of girl fights because it can get pretty ugly. Few things here, this one is a fake ass bitch who wants nothing but your man. She doesn't care about you and enjoys getting a ... (read in full...)
What do I say to him after that kiss???
Q. So this past weekend I went to a party, got a little bit too tipsy and kissed a guy i was dancing with. The party was at a frat house at my college. Now all his frat buddies and teammates know who I am. I walked into the cafeteria yesterday and they ...
A. 10 September 2010: LOL, oh honey at least you didn't sleep with him then wake up the next day to do the "walk of shame" in front of all his frat brothers. Talk about mortifying! But it was nothing but a kiss, and you still have your dignity. Don't make eye contact, ... (read in full...)
I'm not a cheater
Q. ok first off i am not a cheater i love my wife. now that thats out of the way my problem is this, for about a month ive been talkin to a girl on email dont know where she is from but we just would talk about lots of stuff. well woke up one morning ...
A. 10 September 2010: You know sometimes I have guys inbox me on here that need additional help or support due to what they're going through but I tell my husband about it. I understand that you met this chick online and maybe she's a new friend someone that you can ... (read in full...)
Has he broken up with me?
Q. Hi I am seeing this guy for the past 1 year. FOr the past 2 months we are in LDR (Long distance relationship) since i moved to different location cause of my work. Would return back after 3-4 months. For nearly 2 weeks my bf is acting really w...
A. 10 September 2010: I'd say he's already broken up with you without your knowledge. How rude, you're in a LDR for god's sakes he could have given you a phone call out, he at least owes you that. Or an email breaking up with you if he can't handle the phone/text, what a ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend won't talk to me.
Q. My girlfriend and I have been together for a week less than two months. We met online (we only live a few miles from each other though) and began texting each other a lot, usually until 2 to 3am. We met in person maybe a week after talking and ...
A. 10 September 2010: Good, good. It sounds like she's possibly wanting to work on being friends. Drop the relationship talk..just focus on normal routine. What do you think I'm going to say?? Don't text her like she didn't text you..she wants you to keep up the ... (read in full...)
Help! No longer sexually attracted to my chubby wife...
Q. So we all know that men are visual creatures. My problem is that I am just not that attracted to my wife anymore. We have been married 15 years. She is a pretty woman, but has slowly gained weight. She is maybe 40-50 lbs overweight, and weighs ...
A. 10 September 2010: You sound a little shallow here wanting to possibly divorce her because she gained weight. I'm wondering what you look like.. Women gain that comfort weight in marriage, plus added baby weight if you got kids, and looks change over time..we're not ... (read in full...)
Should this guy be trusted?
Q. My husband and I both recently got an iphone. After just a couple of days of getting my new iphone I used a gps tracking device (that we both had) and found that he was not at work one morning. He claims the device is faulty but since he has lied ...
A. 10 September 2010: Oh I like it, very top secret agent...Hey I understand where you gotta have the proof and see it with you're own two eyes. ... (read in full...)
How do women deal with former lovers who were better?
Q. How hard, or dissapointing is it for you women to go from a guy who is very well hung and mind blowing in bed to a guy who is just average in both the size and skill departments. Let's say that the well hung guy was great in bed, and you were only ...
A. 10 September 2010: Great question, but it's not fair to compare to your old flame to your new romance. There's one that sticks out in my mind, the biggest I've had was actually the best fuck I had, he knew what to do without me telling him and gave me an awesome ... (read in full...)
I like being loved, but is he too old for me?
Q. I've divorced my husband after 18 years together. I've met this man 20 years older than me. I dont like that big age gap. However he is a caring person and I find me attracted to him. A year on I dont find his wrinkles false teeth and big body ...
A. 10 September 2010: Well if you're put off by the age gap, false teeth, and couch potato physique then why are you still with him? He sounds old enough to potentially be your father. Who doesn't like to be loved? But that's not a reason to be in a relationship. There ... (read in full...)
I feel that we're drifting apart! I haven't seen her for 3 weeks.
Q. Dear cupids, My girlfriend's birthday is on Monday and I'm not going to see her because of my parents, I haven't seen her for three weeks now due to her recent holiday and I feel we're drifting apart, what shall I do? Thanks in advance....
A. 10 September 2010: Can you not text or call her? If you can't see her then you need to keep up the communication as best as you can given your current situation. For some reason you can't call/text then send her email, get on skype, msn, yahoo messenger and send her a ... (read in full...)
He doesn't notice me because I'm a nerd!
Q. Hi I am 13. There is a boy that I really like (also my next door neighbor) but he doesn't notice me. I think its because I'm a nerd. Also because we go to different schools. What can I do? ...
A. 10 September 2010: Is he new to the neighborhood? I say do ask your mom to bake some brownies or a pie and that would give you an excuse to go knock on his door and introduce yourself. If you're a little shy and can't possibly bring yourself to knock on his door and ... (read in full...)
I feel awkward and have to excuse myself when there's sex-talk at school... any advice?
Q. Every time I hear any thing that has to do with sex I immediately have to go to the bathroom. There is a lot of that kind of talk at my school and I like not to talk about that kind of stuff. All my friends make me feel awkward for not knowing these ...
A. 10 September 2010: I lead a rather sheltered life an didn't really know a lot till we watched those sex/puberty videos in sixth grade where everyone laughed their butts off..then we got those mortifying goodie bags stuffed with tampons, massive pads, and this in depth ... (read in full...)
Is dating my mom's new boyfriend's son wrong (even though we started crushing before our parents hooked up)?
Q. ok i sort of have the a dilemma, my mom and "step" dad were secretly dating when i started high school, well i met this guy and he was so amazing! he was cute and knew just what to say to make me laugh but one noght my dad said he was bringing his ...
A. 10 September 2010: Are they engaged to be married, hence the "step" dad? You know that show Teen Mom where, Catelynn and Tyler are engaged but Tyler's dad and Catelynn's mom are either married or boyfriend/girlfriend and have a kid together. So there's nothing wrong ... (read in full...)
Should I shave my chest hair?
Q. Hey ladies, and gentlemen if you can provide good info, should I shave my body hair? Is that something that women like or not? I know I'm over generalizing here but I would like some insight onto this. I'm not insanely hairy, but I have the standard ...
A. 10 September 2010: My husband shaves his on and off because waxing hurts...Beware of those hair removal creams, they often have a bad odor and cause irritation. I've just accepted his hairy nipples and minimal chest hair after awhile, LOL. However, if you're not ... (read in full...)
I'm 43, she's 18 & pregnant and I didn't know she wanted more than sex. I don't want this!
Q. im 43 and slept with an 18 year old and now shes pregnant but thats not the only problem she said that she fort we was going out when we slept together i knew she gets very close to people too fast but i didnt realise she wanted more than sex i fort ...
A. 10 September 2010: One, you should have used protection and she should have been on birth control. Secondly, she has special needs did you even specify you were using her for sex? Thirdly, how could you be so low and use her like that? Lastly, she's just a mere 18 and ... (read in full...)
Trying to look older
Q. How to make myself look older? I'm 19 and I guess I look my age or less. I probably look 20 or 21 if I wear make up or maybe even my age some people say. However, I would like to look older maybe 23 or something. My boyfriend is 34 and its weird...
A. 10 September 2010: Trading in your long locks for a shorter sleek bob, something up to date..Shorter hair makes you look older. Keep make-up at a minimal, natural, highlight your best features, and use earth tones. Dress conservatively, cardigans, polos, crew necks, ... (read in full...)
Do most booty calls turn into relationships? Or not?
Q. do most booty calls turn into relationships?...
A. 10 September 2010: If the man calls nearly every weekend after 9pm then he's looking for some action not a relationship. Booty calls are just a no strings attached, he calls you, you drive over to his house, do the deed, grab your purse because you're not spending the ... (read in full...)
Do you know when you're ready for a relationship?
Q. Hey.. I've got a question. How do you know when you're ready for a relationship? I'm in highschool and I'm sixteen, and there's this awesome guy. We're just friends but everyone thinks he is my boyfriend. He thought I had a boyfriend, whi...
A. 10 September 2010: I wasn't allowed to date till I was 16, believe me I was more than ready! You've let some time pass since your ex and it sounds to me like you're ready to go out with this guy. He definitely likes you, hopefully he asks you out soon! Your mother ... (read in full...)
Who do I pick? The 13 year old? Or the 16 year old?
Q. Hi, I'm 14 and there are 2 different girls that I like and have questions about. There is a 16 year old she has a car and she wants to have sex with me. Should I? But there is a 13 year old almost 14 and I really like her and she really likes me. We ...
A. 10 September 2010: How about you wait to have sex, you're a little too young. At 14, you don't know anything about love, dear..you're just starting out in this dating world. I wonder why does a 16 year old want to have sex with someone who is 3 years younger, usually ... (read in full...)
How should I react to her comments?
Q. Not sure what to do, I have been married for over 20 years, and recently witnessed a co-worker of my husband try to hit on him. Bringing this up has led us to a huge argument, and now we are not talking. Not sure why he is mad at me for bringing it ...
A. 10 September 2010: Or that he rejected her when she tried to put the moves on him....Really there could be nothing behind her comment. But if she continues with her forwardness, I would take her aside then politely introduce yourself in case she had forgotten that ... (read in full...)
Should this guy be trusted?
Q. My husband and I both recently got an iphone. After just a couple of days of getting my new iphone I used a gps tracking device (that we both had) and found that he was not at work one morning. He claims the device is faulty but since he has lied ...
A. 10 September 2010: No, those GPS trackers on the Iphone are pretty accurate..what a piss poor excuse. Well, you must not trust him if you were looking up where he was going that day when you knew he was supposed to be at work. About his previous lie, why would he go ... (read in full...)
He's stressed out about not having a job
Q. I met a man 2 months ago we met and everything was great he calls me everyday. I've noticed in the last 2 weeks he doesnt call me as much. so the other night i noticed he was upset. he hasnt had a job in a few months. He told me it has nothing to do ...
A. 10 September 2010: He probably wants to be alone and doesn't want to go complaining to you about not having a job. Also, he probably thinks you're tired of hearing about it. I would call him and offer words of encouragement, or take him out for a few drinks to take ... (read in full...)
Does this make me a homewrecker? And how can I ask him....?
Q. Hello; so I'm torn literally down to my nerves. So there is this guy I've known for a year and a month, and he's graced me with my first kiss. Anyway, since about April, he got a girlfriend, which I found out about due to one of our friends posting ...
A. 10 September 2010: Oh this situation never turns out good. No, you're not a homewrecker that's only if the guy is married to her and has a family. All you are is the other girl, which you don't wan't to be. I've been where you are, it sucks because the guy is going ... (read in full...)
After our date I couldn't tell if he liked me...
Q. i met a guy up with a guy after 6 years i got his number by accident so i chanced texting him, went well enough. he came to see me which went well then i went up to see him. have no idea how it went, im so confused hes either shy or just not ...
A. 10 September 2010: That's a good sign that he kissed you on the first date..and there's no need to bring up the ex factor it only makes the conversation awkward plus it's the past so let it stay there. Abide by the "don't ask, don't tell" rule. Give him 3 days ... (read in full...)
Doesn't get things done on time, what should I do.
Q. What does it mean when a man says i am tired of you trying to dictate when I need to do something??? He is the worst procrastinator. I have sat back and tried to let him handle our family business. But he will lie about doing it and it never get...
A. 10 September 2010: What is it with husband's procrastinating? The only chores I give my husband is taking out the trash and sometimes I have to remind him to do it. You know I try to do everything, and I hate when I have to ask him to do something because I know he ... (read in full...)
I don't have closure...
Q. I had been seeing this really nice guy for 4 months. We always had problems as we are long distance, and he finds it difficult to communicate and is sometimes away as he is in the military. We tried to stay close by texting often. 2 weeks ago we...
A. 10 September 2010: So you were just "seeing" or were you actually boyfriend/girlfriend? If you weren't boyfriend/girlfriend then he has no obligation to you, and just walked off without another word. Another thing is if you guys were just in the "seeing" stage for ... (read in full...)
Help!!! I think my boyfriend is cheating on me. How do I tell?
Q. Okay, so.. My boyfriend recently tried to leave me, but got back together with me. He started to act aggressively saying things like "To get away from you" when he leaves the phone(We're in a long distance relationship), but that's sort of died ...
A. 10 September 2010: You're still having problems with him? How much more are you going to take, dear? He's into WoW so he will be on it 24-7, so she has a lot of time to talk to him then. You're in a LDR so there's no way to tell or prove he's cheating. And I know ... (read in full...)
Ladies, how did you form your first ideas about love and romance?
Q. Question for young women out there (under 30 ideally) I would love to know where and how did you first form your ideas about love and romance? Did you read books, see movies or get your ideas from your parents or friends? How did you expect y...
A. 10 September 2010: I like the Disney reference, mine was the Little Mermaid, I think Disney shapes us at a young age thinking marriage and being a pretty princess will bring us happiness, plus all of our dreams will come true. Cosmo I only read for the naughty ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend won't talk to me.
Q. My girlfriend and I have been together for a week less than two months. We met online (we only live a few miles from each other though) and began texting each other a lot, usually until 2 to 3am. We met in person maybe a week after talking and ...
A. 10 September 2010: Reply to her but be vague....especially don't text her right after she texts you. If she wants you she will come to you. We're women we jump when we get a text, or a phone call. And usually it's hard for us to keep our little fingers off the ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend won't talk to me.
Q. My girlfriend and I have been together for a week less than two months. We met online (we only live a few miles from each other though) and began texting each other a lot, usually until 2 to 3am. We met in person maybe a week after talking and ...
A. 9 September 2010: Go without texting/ talking to her for 2-4 weeks..then send her a friendly text nothing more, nothing less than "Hi, how are you". Leave it at that, work on giving her a lot of space. The worst you could do is bombard her with texts, calls, and ... (read in full...)
Ladies, how did you form your first ideas about love and romance?
Q. Question for young women out there (under 30 ideally) I would love to know where and how did you first form your ideas about love and romance? Did you read books, see movies or get your ideas from your parents or friends? How did you expect y...
A. 9 September 2010: Ideas about love and romance formed as I went along in life and matured. Movies I watched "He's Just Not that Into You" and read the 2 self-help books that followed..they told me I needed to stop being needy and to stop chasing after the wrong guy ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend won't talk to me.
Q. My girlfriend and I have been together for a week less than two months. We met online (we only live a few miles from each other though) and began texting each other a lot, usually until 2 to 3am. We met in person maybe a week after talking and ...
A. 9 September 2010: 3 days isn't enough space to give her to think. I really think she's trying to find excuses to nitpick at you. She needs to understand that the economy blows and that jobs aren't a dime a dozen anymore. As long as you're looking then I see no ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend won't talk to me.
Q. My girlfriend and I have been together for a week less than two months. We met online (we only live a few miles from each other though) and began texting each other a lot, usually until 2 to 3am. We met in person maybe a week after talking and ...
A. 7 September 2010: That issue is part of who she is..something only she can work on..If you leave things bottled up for so long they always come exploding out and not in a good way. I know women like this and they are often divorced or bounce from relationship to ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend won't talk to me.
Q. My girlfriend and I have been together for a week less than two months. We met online (we only live a few miles from each other though) and began texting each other a lot, usually until 2 to 3am. We met in person maybe a week after talking and ...
A. 4 September 2010: She was at least separated when you guys started to date, right? Here's the thing about this situation..
1. This woman is going through a divorce and what I'm reading about her this relationship/dating has progressed pretty fast.
2. She's not read... (read in full...)
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