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What qualifies me to help you? Vast dating experience, especially in the LDR department, even an international on with an Aussie, broke hearts, had mine broken, been engaged once before, I know what a real friend is, seen the ugly side of divorce coming from a recently broken home myself, even went as far as to tip the odds to my side and use men only to toss them aside like yesterday's garbage like they do women, I know what it's like to almost give up hope on finding the perfect man when he's really only a few boyfriends away, and I'm starting to learn the ropes of married life. I also know a vast deal about the female and male reproductive system, and all about the mental struggles with infertility. On a side note, I'm the one who gives you tough love, I'm not on here to sugarcoat it or to tell you what you want to hear. I'm going to give it to you straight up, wouldn't you rather the truth?
-TOP 5 QUESTIONS I CAN'T STAND-
#1. Does this mean my teacher likes me?
Just because they're nice to you, offer extra help, and put a little gold star on your A+ paper doesn't mean they are in love with you.
#2. Could I be pregnant?
Have you not heard of a pregnancy test? Get off this website, and go to your local drugstore.
#3. I'm 14 and I want a baby?
Really? Me too! Oh wait I'm 28 and married. You're how old again?
#4. My husband loves porn more than me!
Maybe if you didn't let yourself go into the frumpy woman you have turned into then he wouldn't have to look at porn now would he? I recommend you get your rear to the salon for highlights, manicure, pedicure, tanning, toss the baggy tees and sweat pants for a wardrobe that fits, and a little makeup goes a long way. It's called basic woman maintenance in order to keep your man's eyes on you.
#5. Will we get back together, how can I get him to love me again?
Unfortunately, my crystal ball is broke at the moment and I just gave away the last of my love potion No. 9. Sorry.
MY GENERAL RULES OF THUMB (this should be common sense)
-No means no.
-Girls can ask out ask guys, this is a new generation.
-Unless you know sign language or are telepathic, you're going to have to talk to him/her.
-My "Don't ask, Don't tell" policy as is follows: Do not by any means volunteer your own sexual history, or ask your date/partner/wife/girlfriend their magic number (how many people they've slept with). If you find yourself being prompted to answer this question, politely tell them that's none of their business.
-Your past doesn't define who you are today. We grow, mature, age, and change as time passes.
-If you have to even ask random strangers on this website if you should have sex, then you're not ready for it.
-FWBs, fuck buddies, no strings attached, whatever you want to call it..is not a relationship don't get the 2 confused. In this case, sex=sex, not love.
-No trust=no relationship.
-It is normal for your husband/boyfriend to have friends of the opposite sex, do you not have male friends?
-LDRs can work, however they're not for everyone. You've got to have trust, communication, be faithful, and a lot of hobbies to keep yourself occupied. If you have trust issues, a case of being needy, clingy, problems staying faithful and are in a LDR don't be surprised when it doesn't work. I told you so.
- An ex is an ex for a reason. If you guys couldn't hack it as a couple the first 2 times what makes you think the third time is a charm?
-Going on a "break" is a nice way of breaking up.
-If you have sex with a man and he hasn't called you, or responded to your texts in weeks sorry to say but he was just after a piece of ass.
- Now unless he's getting blown up in Afghanistan, an on call ER doctor, or lying dead in a coffin then he's got no excuse for his poor or lack there of communication.
-You have a 12% chance of your married boyfriend leaving his wife and children.
-A man who is going through a divorce is still legally married. He's about to have an ex wife and you're wanting to get into a relationship with him? That's called a rebound.
-If you're a minor who's just found out she's pregnant, do me and everyone else on this site a favor..Tell your parents.
-Just because some one stares at you, it doesn't mean they like you. They could be staring at that booger hanging out of your nose.
-If you have a lump/bump/cyst/rash that looks green, has oozing puss, and itches like hell, but kinda looks like a STD then you had better consult your doctor. They went through 6 years of schooling and have a license to practice medicine, I think they would know better than random virtual strangers.
-Don't mix business with pleasure. Why? Because if you date your co-worker and in the event things turn sour then you're still stuck facing them 9-5, Mon-Fri. Awkward.
-No matter how hard you try, you can't change a person..they have to make that transformation themselves.
-When your boyfriend/girlfriend says they want space that doesn't mean you do the opposite and bombard them with calls/texts.
-As far as ultimatums go, don't try to make your boyfriend choose between you, his female friends, or weed. You won't like the results.
-If you're 13-17, I'm sorry but you haven't a clue what love really is. You have minimal dating experience confined to the high school dating pool which are nothing but horny boys. Their facial hair doesn't make them a man. It's only till you get out into the real world, a vast dating pool is when you learn the definition of love. So, go on thinking you and 13 year old Tommy will go on to get married, have 3 kids, and a two story house with a white picket fence. I don't expect you to listen, I'm 28 and married, what do I know? There's a reason why everyone says it won't last..because it doesn't.
-The average penis size erect is 6 inches, 4.85 inches. Women like average to even a little below average. We're not going to bust out a tape measure and measure it to make sure it's up to our standards. We just want to have sex, so enough complaining about your size let's get down and dirty.
- The legal age of consent in the U.S. is 16-18 varying oer state, in Britain it's 16. I think it's safe to say most parts of the world (unless you live in a tribe with their own form of government) the legal age to consent to sex is 16. So yes, all you minors below the age of consent are committing a crime when you engage in sexual activity. The age is set that high for a reason, you are not above the law. |
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My girlfriend won't talk to me.
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Not experienced enough in the bedroom department and it's holding me back from asking her out!
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Low class guys asking me out, is it ok not to date then?
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Doesn't want a relationship but still acts as if we were still together
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Do Women See Penises As Men Do Breasts?
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How do I tell mom that I want to be on birth control?
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How would people feel about a 40 and 19 year old being together?
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A. 8 September 2010: Like dirtball says it doesn't matter what everyone thinks..you're the one to decide to give it the green light. As long as she is very mature at that age, I was so naive at 19... she's capable of holding and maintaining a serious relationship if ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend broke up with me out of nowhere!
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Is this question too personal? did I screw up and say something wrong?
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A. 8 September 2010: No, not personal at all. It wasn't like you were asking his penis size, now that would be out of line. He obviously didn't get it was a joke or took it as a serious question and realized he really didn't have any dreams thus feeling embarrassed. If ... (read in full...)
How can I stop this infatuation for my Co-Worker
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A. 8 September 2010: Let's take a look at the cons because I see no pros on this one..
1. He's your supervisor meaning if you get into a fling/affair it goes bad or he decides it's over..
A. He could get you fired.
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Turned on a dime..
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A. 8 September 2010: East coast meets west coast. Is she in the midst of a divorce that isn't finalized yet? How long has she been going through a divorce? And how often do you see each other? The thing about a woman such as her are that once that divorce is finalized ... (read in full...)
I slapped the man I love!
Q. I slapped the man I adore to death this weekend when I was drunk, well we were both drunk. He now doesn't want to speak or talk to me. I clearly don't want this, what should I do? A bit of back round on us. Him and I have been on and off for over...
A. 8 September 2010: Now I don't want you to get the wrong impression of me Romany. I don't go around bitch slapping guys for no apparent reason, plus the last time i did so was in my late teens. However, I do think if a guy calls you a foul word such as a cunt, told ... (read in full...)
Why does she treat me like I'm invisible when we're out with friends?
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A. 8 September 2010: Are you guys together as in boyfriend/girlfriend? Some girls don't know how to interact with her boyfriend/guy their dating and her friends at the same time..It's like a juggling act trying to pay attention to your friends and boyfriend. Or for your ... (read in full...)
My ex friend doesn't like me anymore. How do I cope being in 2 classes with her?
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A. 8 September 2010: I hated when that happened to me! It's like there's so many other teachers and different hours for her to be in but of course she's in yours. I dealt with these ex best friends by like the realist suggested sit on the other side of the room, make no ... (read in full...)
I slapped the man I love!
Q. I slapped the man I adore to death this weekend when I was drunk, well we were both drunk. He now doesn't want to speak or talk to me. I clearly don't want this, what should I do? A bit of back round on us. Him and I have been on and off for over...
A. 8 September 2010: Why did you slap him? Well, after cheating on you with four women and talking to another I think a slap in the face was much deserved. There's nothing men hate more than a woman just bitch slapping them in the face..It's about equivalent to kicking ... (read in full...)
Has my boyfriend lost interest in me? could there be someone else?
Q. I'm confused. My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year. Lately, he's been somewhat.. eh, I want to say aggressive. To the extent where it's starting to annoy, worry, and hurt me. What I mean by aggressive is that he used to be soft, and ...
A. 8 September 2010: Everyone has LDR issues today..Here's the thing for any LDR to work communication is key! I should know because I married my last LDR. Think about it, you can't see(unless you skype but even then), touch, or small so all you have left to hold on to ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend said he needs to take a "break"
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A. 8 September 2010: Ah everyone is telling you to end it for a reason..That's a majority vote there. Agony aunts and uncles are on here to give you good advice, never bad advice. You're wanting someone to tell you what you want to hear, sorry but so far that isn't ... (read in full...)
There is nothing sexy happening here. Please help!
Q. Hi, everyone. I'm in a situation where there is nothing sexy going on at all. Romance seems to be way out of reach and I really don't remember the last time my girlfriend of ten years and I had sex. It was this year sometime. We have too muc...
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I don't understand some of the things he does?
Q. Ive been dating this guy, for awhile now, uu cud say, and ii kinda realli like him. But there r some things he does, that ii dnt understand what to do. For example, he hasnt told me tat he loves me, he hasnt held my hand in the street, and he hasnt ...
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I feel like we are growing apart, how do I deal with it?
Q. My boyfriend works 4-11 at night and I go to school from 8-3 then work from 5-9. I feel alone. I miss him so much it feels like I never see him. The I my time we spend together is once in a while on the weekends. It really hurts being away from ...
A. 7 September 2010: Do you guys still communicate via text, or calling? If the weekends and great communication is all you got then be grateful for that. Toss a kid in the mix, or maybe a boyfriend in the military, I know couples who can't see each other but maybe once ... (read in full...)
He snapped at me and it stung! Why is he like this?
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A. 7 September 2010: Wait you asked if he ever tried or received anal sex? I don't blame you on anal sex, to me it's an exit not an entrance...it's just not cut out for penetration. You don't have to comply to anal sex, it's your body your choice whether he like it or ... (read in full...)
Who should propose first... me or her?
Q. Hi... Me and my girl are having a good friendship for the past 4 months. We know about each other very well and to be frank I Luv her and I know she Loves me too but we never proposed each other. Should i propose her? What if she denies me? Or s...
A. 7 September 2010: Although you can't put a timeline on love, 4 months is a little too early to propose to someone you barely know. Take the time to get to know her first and make sure this is who you really want to marry. All you have is time there is no need to rush ... (read in full...)
How to get rid of acne quickly and naturally?
Q. Dear cupids, I am getting really upset about my acne, no girls like me because of it and it depresses me, I wash everyday and wash my face 3 times a day with soap and water, I don't want to use cream etc as I've tried them already, I just ant to ...
A. 7 September 2010: If you have acne then you will need special cleansers..I'm not sure what they have in Italy, but hit the drugstore and go over to your Face care aisle and start looking for acne care products. They will say it right on it, for guys they use ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend said he needs to take a "break"
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 13 months. He lives in California, and I live in Maryland. We've had a long distant relationship for 13 months, and haven't seen each other once. We've never really seemed to mind it, as long as were ...
A. 7 September 2010: You have never met him in person? Or you haven't seen him since being in this relationship in which I'm curious as to how this relationship transpired? Here's the secret to a successful LDR..communication without the relationship is pretty much over ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend won't talk to me.
Q. My girlfriend and I have been together for a week less than two months. We met online (we only live a few miles from each other though) and began texting each other a lot, usually until 2 to 3am. We met in person maybe a week after talking and ...
A. 7 September 2010: That issue is part of who she is..something only she can work on..If you leave things bottled up for so long they always come exploding out and not in a good way. I know women like this and they are often divorced or bounce from relationship to ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend won't talk to me.
Q. My girlfriend and I have been together for a week less than two months. We met online (we only live a few miles from each other though) and began texting each other a lot, usually until 2 to 3am. We met in person maybe a week after talking and ...
A. 4 September 2010: She was at least separated when you guys started to date, right? Here's the thing about this situation..
1. This woman is going through a divorce and what I'm reading about her this relationship/dating has progressed pretty fast.
2. She's not read... (read in full...)
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