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What qualifies me to help you? Vast dating experience, especially in the LDR department, even an international on with an Aussie, broke hearts, had mine broken, been engaged once before, I know what a real friend is, seen the ugly side of divorce coming from a recently broken home myself, even went as far as to tip the odds to my side and use men only to toss them aside like yesterday's garbage like they do women, I know what it's like to almost give up hope on finding the perfect man when he's really only a few boyfriends away, and I'm starting to learn the ropes of married life. I also know a vast deal about the female and male reproductive system, and all about the mental struggles with infertility. On a side note, I'm the one who gives you tough love, I'm not on here to sugarcoat it or to tell you what you want to hear. I'm going to give it to you straight up, wouldn't you rather the truth?
-TOP 5 QUESTIONS I CAN'T STAND-
#1. Does this mean my teacher likes me?
Just because they're nice to you, offer extra help, and put a little gold star on your A+ paper doesn't mean they are in love with you.
#2. Could I be pregnant?
Have you not heard of a pregnancy test? Get off this website, and go to your local drugstore.
#3. I'm 14 and I want a baby?
Really? Me too! Oh wait I'm 28 and married. You're how old again?
#4. My husband loves porn more than me!
Maybe if you didn't let yourself go into the frumpy woman you have turned into then he wouldn't have to look at porn now would he? I recommend you get your rear to the salon for highlights, manicure, pedicure, tanning, toss the baggy tees and sweat pants for a wardrobe that fits, and a little makeup goes a long way. It's called basic woman maintenance in order to keep your man's eyes on you.
#5. Will we get back together, how can I get him to love me again?
Unfortunately, my crystal ball is broke at the moment and I just gave away the last of my love potion No. 9. Sorry.
MY GENERAL RULES OF THUMB (this should be common sense)
-No means no.
-Girls can ask out ask guys, this is a new generation.
-Unless you know sign language or are telepathic, you're going to have to talk to him/her.
-My "Don't ask, Don't tell" policy as is follows: Do not by any means volunteer your own sexual history, or ask your date/partner/wife/girlfriend their magic number (how many people they've slept with). If you find yourself being prompted to answer this question, politely tell them that's none of their business.
-Your past doesn't define who you are today. We grow, mature, age, and change as time passes.
-If you have to even ask random strangers on this website if you should have sex, then you're not ready for it.
-FWBs, fuck buddies, no strings attached, whatever you want to call it..is not a relationship don't get the 2 confused. In this case, sex=sex, not love.
-No trust=no relationship.
-It is normal for your husband/boyfriend to have friends of the opposite sex, do you not have male friends?
-LDRs can work, however they're not for everyone. You've got to have trust, communication, be faithful, and a lot of hobbies to keep yourself occupied. If you have trust issues, a case of being needy, clingy, problems staying faithful and are in a LDR don't be surprised when it doesn't work. I told you so.
- An ex is an ex for a reason. If you guys couldn't hack it as a couple the first 2 times what makes you think the third time is a charm?
-Going on a "break" is a nice way of breaking up.
-If you have sex with a man and he hasn't called you, or responded to your texts in weeks sorry to say but he was just after a piece of ass.
- Now unless he's getting blown up in Afghanistan, an on call ER doctor, or lying dead in a coffin then he's got no excuse for his poor or lack there of communication.
-You have a 12% chance of your married boyfriend leaving his wife and children.
-A man who is going through a divorce is still legally married. He's about to have an ex wife and you're wanting to get into a relationship with him? That's called a rebound.
-If you're a minor who's just found out she's pregnant, do me and everyone else on this site a favor..Tell your parents.
-Just because some one stares at you, it doesn't mean they like you. They could be staring at that booger hanging out of your nose.
-If you have a lump/bump/cyst/rash that looks green, has oozing puss, and itches like hell, but kinda looks like a STD then you had better consult your doctor. They went through 6 years of schooling and have a license to practice medicine, I think they would know better than random virtual strangers.
-Don't mix business with pleasure. Why? Because if you date your co-worker and in the event things turn sour then you're still stuck facing them 9-5, Mon-Fri. Awkward.
-No matter how hard you try, you can't change a person..they have to make that transformation themselves.
-When your boyfriend/girlfriend says they want space that doesn't mean you do the opposite and bombard them with calls/texts.
-As far as ultimatums go, don't try to make your boyfriend choose between you, his female friends, or weed. You won't like the results.
-If you're 13-17, I'm sorry but you haven't a clue what love really is. You have minimal dating experience confined to the high school dating pool which are nothing but horny boys. Their facial hair doesn't make them a man. It's only till you get out into the real world, a vast dating pool is when you learn the definition of love. So, go on thinking you and 13 year old Tommy will go on to get married, have 3 kids, and a two story house with a white picket fence. I don't expect you to listen, I'm 28 and married, what do I know? There's a reason why everyone says it won't last..because it doesn't.
-The average penis size erect is 6 inches, 4.85 inches. Women like average to even a little below average. We're not going to bust out a tape measure and measure it to make sure it's up to our standards. We just want to have sex, so enough complaining about your size let's get down and dirty.
- The legal age of consent in the U.S. is 16-18 varying oer state, in Britain it's 16. I think it's safe to say most parts of the world (unless you live in a tribe with their own form of government) the legal age to consent to sex is 16. So yes, all you minors below the age of consent are committing a crime when you engage in sexual activity. The age is set that high for a reason, you are not above the law. |
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How do I get my husband to enjoy showing off his sexy wife?
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A. 9 October 2010: You can still dress sexy but a bit more covered up. Daisy dukes and showing off underboob is just asking for a fight with your husband. Wear clothes that fit, not too tight..dresses are sexy, backless shirts, skirts, pencil skirts and I know men who ... (read in full...)
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We got into a fight and now best friend doesn't want to be friends anymore
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How can I get my girlfriend to perform oral sex?
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Is he just dragging me along till he finds someone else?
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She acts different around me
Q. So there is this girl I told I liked on facebook (i know it was stupid...) so she said she was flattered and she told me that she doesnt like me that way ever since then, i noticed she looks at me and when i catch her looking, she looks awa...
A. 12 September 2010: Sorry honey but she's not into you. From all the reasons you listed, I see no interest on her side. Sometimes she doesn't even acknowledge you or is even courteous to you. You're overanalyzing everything that she does or says...girls at 16 are going ... (read in full...)
I was a good girl and now I'm wondering why I didn't do the bad things that others do!
Q. I was a virgin when I got married. I will admit to heavy petting and finger penetration. But no complete sex penetration. I was saving myself for marriage. I was a good girl. I was married for 26 years when my husband past away suddenly. ...
A. 12 September 2010: I was a good girl gone bad, then back to good again. I've dabbled in a little bit of recreational drugs, partying, drinking, and one-nighters. Never did the gang banging. Take it from me, it's fun for the time being and a phase that one goes through ... (read in full...)
How do I get my husband to enjoy showing off his sexy wife?
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A. 12 September 2010: "The one person I do care about what he thinks is my husband." Well, then why do you care about the male attention you receive? Why do you care about him showing you off when his is the only opinion that matters? That's great that you have a nice ... (read in full...)
Has anyone ever had to cut ties with a close family member?
Q. I have to cut all ties with my father. Basically, he is an emotional bully and because of him my whole life I have not had any confidence or self-esteem. Im 27 now and because of how he has made me feel, I am unable to deal with conflicts and ...
A. 12 September 2010: It's more common that you think. My mother caught severed the ties with her father. They had a terrible relationship, he beat her, called her names, and claimed that she stole money from him when she didn't touch a thing. She grew up hating him when ... (read in full...)
I don't want to leave her but I'm fed up of being treated like excrement!
Q. Ok, not quite sure where to start as i'm usually the one giving advice never asking. Key points: *My girlfriend is 20 (21 in a week), and i am 20. *We have been together for 4 years 10 months. *We had a very active sex life for the fir...
A. 12 September 2010: Sweetie, everyone argues in a relationship..it even continues on when you get married it doesn't stop there. She sounds a little selfish, but I was too at that age. Has she ever given you a reason not to trust her? Or have you been cheated on in the ... (read in full...)
His mom caught us having oral sex!
Q. okay, so, me and my ex havent been dating for two years, and we havent really talked either, were teenagers, and his moms psycho, and becuz i got caught giving him oral sex, she dosent want him to talk to me, she practically has the people at our ...
A. 12 September 2010: For one 13-15 you're too young to be engaging in oral sex. Be a kid don't worry about being a sexually charged teen..it kills me how times have changed. I didn't give first blow job till 17, even that's young. It sounds like he wanted to talk to you ... (read in full...)
I got caught by my manager kissing a co-worker!
Q. I need help I just got caught by my manager kissing a work mate of mine we been together for just under 3months omg I have no idea what to do! i'm so embarrassed. does anyone know any laws or anything that state we can't do this? I don't know... He ...
A. 12 September 2010: Got to keep the business and the pleasure separate. I would be embarrassed too. If there's no policy against dating a co-worker then you're in the clear..however if there is then start looking for another job. Regardless, I would go into the ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend parties hard and it bothers me!
Q. How can I avoid feeling so bothered and upset when my boyfriend drinks? I don't have a problem with drinking. I do have a problem when the girls at these parties take off their clothes or he starts doing something stupid. I'm not a party person, and ...
A. 12 September 2010: Well, he's at that age of partying and drinking. He won't, hopefully he does, grow out of it till 23-25. The thing is you can't tell him what he can and can't do. But I would be pretty ticked he's watching these girls get naked at these parties. ... (read in full...)
Distance broke up our relationship!
Q. I went out with a girl for 3 years. I am 29 and she's 23. The first couple of years were great, we were both very much in love with each other, then she went to Spain to finish her studies for a year. At first it was ok, we managed to see eac...
A. 12 September 2010: As if her being abroad wasn't enough space? Let me tell you LDRs are hard and not everyone can handle them. You were doing quite well, flying out to see each other every couple of months, and the communication was still kept up. It sounds to me like ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend won't talk to me.
Q. My girlfriend and I have been together for a week less than two months. We met online (we only live a few miles from each other though) and began texting each other a lot, usually until 2 to 3am. We met in person maybe a week after talking and ...
A. 11 September 2010: Oh I forgot to add one more thing I was rather appalled that one of the reasons she broke up with you because you didn't ask about your feelings! WTF, you can't read her mind..she expects way too much out of men, probably why she's divorced. Oh a ... (read in full...)
Wanting to sleep over at the boyfriend's house...
Q. I am 18 years old. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for two years now, and before that we were best friends. He used to live across the street from me, so my parents know him well. I have never asked my mom if I can sleep over his house, ...
A. 11 September 2010: Here's what I did OP, I moved out at 19 because my dad wouldn't let me spend the night at my boyfriend's house. He, similar to your mother said "My house, my rules. If you can't abide by my rules then there's the door." So I packed my things and ... (read in full...)
He's 15, I'm 19, and I'm due to have his baby any day!
Q. okay its going to sound weird that im asking this question now being in the predicament were in...here goes im 19 (girl) and my boyfriend is only 15..the reason were together is because he lied about his age for a year and when his mom told me the ...
A. 11 September 2010: Age is just a number but there is a law here that was broken. You had sex with a minor, thus committing statutory rape regardless if it was consented or not. Now, your pregnant, just hope his parents don't decide to press charges. He lied to you ... (read in full...)
I haven't had my period for almost a year
Q. hey i'm a 14 year old virgin and it has been 2 years since i had my first period. The last time i remember having it was in october or november or 2009. i don't have any money or health insurance to go see a gyneacologist but i wonder if my symptons ...
A. 11 September 2010: Good point Plexi, if you are underweight, borderline anorexia then yes you're period will disappear so to speak and it won't come back until you gain some weight!... (read in full...)
I haven't had my period for almost a year
Q. hey i'm a 14 year old virgin and it has been 2 years since i had my first period. The last time i remember having it was in october or november or 2009. i don't have any money or health insurance to go see a gyneacologist but i wonder if my symptons ...
A. 11 September 2010: Are you not on your parents's insurance? I think you need to check into that, if you are then tell your mom of the issue and she'll take you to the gyno she frequents. However, if you're parents don't have health insurance, your mother can take you ... (read in full...)
After two years he contacts me! what would you do??
Q. I met a guy 4yrs ago (I was 18 and he was 20) We started "talking" for a while (3months) getting to know each other. I let him kmow I was/am a virgin waiting for marriage. He said he respected me for that and he was fine with it. For the firs...
A. 11 September 2010: Really I would decline his friend request, it's about time you put an end to him floating in and out of your life. He's doesn't need to be keeping tabs on you any longer. Plus, he's getting married and about to embark on a whole new chapter of his ... (read in full...)
I said yes to a threesome now I am second guessing this!
Q. I'm almost 15 years old and i'm with an older guy. He's 16 turning 17. We've been together for a while about afew months. We fell in love, or atleast I did. And yesterday out of the blue he asked me to join in on a threesome he wants to have with ...
A. 11 September 2010: Yes, be careful I know a married couple who invited a girl for a 3some and her husband ended up liking the other girl..thus causing some rift in the marriage. Personally, I wouldn't want my husband/boyfriend caressing another woman's breast let ... (read in full...)
I am having thoughts of having a one night stand! I'm not a cheater! why am I thinking this way?
Q. My boyfriend satisfies me very much in bed but for some stupid reason, I want a one night stand. But, I don't even have anyone in mind! I've only ever slept with my boyfriend and it makes me feel so bad that I think about this! Then, I think I want ...
A. 11 September 2010: Listen I've had my fair share of one-nighters with a fire fighter, DJ, engineer, the list goes on. All they are is just one night sex, which can be good or bad. The only one I enjoyed was the fire fighter, go figure, the rest not so much. One ... (read in full...)
How soon is too soon to get over someone?
Q. How soon is too soon to get over someone? I *just* got out of my first serious relationship (and we almost made it to our 1 year anniversary). Right now I'm feeling hurt and confused, but I'm wondering how long is it okay to be mopey? And when is it ...
A. 11 September 2010: Oh geez when I was your age it took me a matter of 1-3 months to get over it, any longer then you're just giving him too much credit when he deserves none. Start the cleansing process delete his number, Facebook profile, MSN, any chat, take a box ... (read in full...)
Is this a mid life crisis or should I leave my wife for her?
Q. Hi, I have been married to a wonderful woman for 20 years who I still think I love. Back in January I reconnected with an old girlfriend (who is unhappily married) on Facebook. We've been emailing one another and even have met for lunch a couple o...
A. 11 September 2010: You think you still love your wife?? Another woman on here, her husband left her to reconnect with an old flame on Facebook, I say it's a midlife crisis. Now, he misses his wife, buddy you can't have the wife and the old girlfriend. Often your past ... (read in full...)
Is he spending to much time playing video games? or am I being needy?
Q. I'm not sure what I want to ask... so I'll just type... I am confused and unhappy in my relationship of over 2 years. I love him and he loves me. I just feel really lonely when I'm with him often, because he likes to spend as much time as he possi...
A. 11 September 2010: If he's into World of Warcraft you're not getting him off of it. I had the same problem with my husband, WoW was affecting our marriage and time spent together..He would come home from work, get on WoW only to get off to shit, eat, and shower then ... (read in full...)
Does role play have to lead to sex?
Q. Does roleplaying have to lead to sex? I'm asking because me and my bf were disagreeing about it. He thinks that if i were to roleplay with someone it'll be cheating because he says it'll lead to having sex. I disagree, i mean i'm sure you ca...
A. 11 September 2010: Role playing meaning a woman dressing up in a skimpy nurse's outfit and the guy is your patient then yeah one thing is going to lead to another. Your asking for it by wearing that nurse's dress that shows your butt cheeks. However if you're doing ... (read in full...)
I kissed another woman, It ment nothing, should I tell my girlfriend?
Q. Me and my girlfriend have been together for about 3 years. the first year we where on and off and dating other people. We decided to be a steady couple about 2 years ago and things have been great. I love her, she is wonderful to me. through the ...
A. 11 September 2010: May I just start off alcohol doesn't give you a free pass to do as you please. If you can't handle the alcohol, then don't drink and stay away from the bars, that goes for both of you. Don't go to bars and drink then you won't put yourself in this ... (read in full...)
I can't give my husband a baby! Shoud I tell him to leave me for someone who can?
Q. I'm not sure whether or not this is allowed to go on here, but this is my story. I have been married for five months to the guy of my dreams, we met at Uni and had been going out for six years before our wedding in April. All our friends think we...
A. 11 September 2010: Wow I had to keep from bawling and crying over your post. I don't know what it's like to be infertile, but I know the anguish, frustration, and depression of trying to conceive. It's supposed to be the happiest time in your life, right? Wrong, it's ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend won't talk to me.
Q. My girlfriend and I have been together for a week less than two months. We met online (we only live a few miles from each other though) and began texting each other a lot, usually until 2 to 3am. We met in person maybe a week after talking and ...
A. 11 September 2010: Yayyy, I think you're making a break through here! So proud of you. You do have a smidgen of relationship experience but a little more couldn't hurt just to help you out of that shell. Hey, I was serious when if I was single I'd give you a ... (read in full...)
Does this make me a homewrecker? And how can I ask him....?
Q. Hello; so I'm torn literally down to my nerves. So there is this guy I've known for a year and a month, and he's graced me with my first kiss. Anyway, since about April, he got a girlfriend, which I found out about due to one of our friends posting ...
A. 11 September 2010: Nope I was in your situation, if you stay in it you end up getting hurt. Sometimes hurt beyond repair. The pros and cons list is staring you right back in the face can't argue with that. Get yourself a new tutor.... (read in full...)
Does he want to get married or is he just stalling? I am wondering if I should walk away.
Q. I've searched online for an answer for a while, but nothing ever seems to fit just right so I need to go ahead and ask this myself...is it time for me to leave? I want to get married. My BF of 4 years keeps saying, "yeah, lets just go do it" or "...
A. 11 September 2010: I see, then these are nothing but excuses. Ouch, he needs your income to support him...hell honey, you're taking care of his kids, home owners, and taking care of his kids you already sound like a wife minus the title, papers, and ring. You're 26-29 ... (read in full...)
I slapped the man I love!
Q. I slapped the man I adore to death this weekend when I was drunk, well we were both drunk. He now doesn't want to speak or talk to me. I clearly don't want this, what should I do? A bit of back round on us. Him and I have been on and off for over...
A. 11 September 2010: Ah it wasn't in the face, ok not so bad if you did it in the arm still a form of violence when your drunk but then again the cheating sticks out in my head. Sorry but just because your in Afghanistan an entirely different country and zip code, rules ... (read in full...)
She doesn't want me to give her oral... how can I change her mind?
Q. Hi, I've been going out with my girlfriend for nearly a year, i am her first sexual partner and we have sex often but she doesn't want me to go down on her because she says that she doesnt like the smell when i kiss her after, but i really love ...
A. 11 September 2010: You know if it takes a Dixie cup and a travel size mouthwash on your nightstand then so be it. Gotta do what you gotta do.... (read in full...)
Does he want to get married or is he just stalling? I am wondering if I should walk away.
Q. I've searched online for an answer for a while, but nothing ever seems to fit just right so I need to go ahead and ask this myself...is it time for me to leave? I want to get married. My BF of 4 years keeps saying, "yeah, lets just go do it" or "...
A. 11 September 2010: Hmmm, does he share the same views on marriage, or is he been there done that and I got 3 kids out of it deal? I don't understand him saying "yeah let's do it" is he serious as in let's drive down to the court house now? And "I can't afford a ring ... (read in full...)
I'm 43, she's 18 & pregnant and I didn't know she wanted more than sex. I don't want this!
Q. im 43 and slept with an 18 year old and now shes pregnant but thats not the only problem she said that she fort we was going out when we slept together i knew she gets very close to people too fast but i didnt realise she wanted more than sex i fort ...
A. 11 September 2010: @ ANON, You must have missed the part that this 18 year old is special needs so she may not have understood that he was just having casual sex with her. If you were a 43 year old man would you have sex with a special needs 18 year old? Depending ... (read in full...)
I have feelings for my science teacher...
Q. okay so this is my sisters account but i really need help okay well i am 2 years younger than my sister i am in the U.K i am at the legal age of consent .. okay so dont say it is just in my head because i know it's not okay so i have feelings ...
A. 11 September 2010: You're his student and he's your teacher. One you could get him fired and he could never teach for another school again, also have trouble finding another job. However, you already know all of this. Two, that's not enough proof to tell he's into ... (read in full...)
Help!!! We broke up but I still love him very much...
Q. I broke up with my boyfriend n I still love him so much. He went back to his home town for a week he used to call me every day and when he came back ,the first thing he did was to tell me that he was back home safe after he came back, he was ...
A. 11 September 2010: Why did you break up with him? I don't understand if he went back to his home town given it's probably a little far from you what's wrong with him seeing you twice a week? ... (read in full...)
He's bored with our sex life!
Q. My boyfriend and i have been together for 6 months now, and he expressed to me a few days ago that he's essentially bored with our sex life, after about 2 months of our frequency of having sex decreasing more and more. So I suggested that we try new ...
A. 11 September 2010: Are you saying he wants a threesome with another man, or that he wants to mess around with a dude solo?? Shed some light on that dear..Have you taken the sex all over the place? The backseat of a car, beach, park late at night, throwing a mattress ... (read in full...)
Wanting to sleep over at the boyfriend's house...
Q. I am 18 years old. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for two years now, and before that we were best friends. He used to live across the street from me, so my parents know him well. I have never asked my mom if I can sleep over his house, ...
A. 11 September 2010: How do his parents feel about it? She's not comfortable with you sleeping over there due to the fact, you two aren't engaged or married. I give you props for asking her..I'm a little confused that she already knows you guys have sex and there's ... (read in full...)
She doesn't want me to give her oral... how can I change her mind?
Q. Hi, I've been going out with my girlfriend for nearly a year, i am her first sexual partner and we have sex often but she doesn't want me to go down on her because she says that she doesnt like the smell when i kiss her after, but i really love ...
A. 10 September 2010: Lol, well unless you have a little mouthwash by your bed to swish real quick after giving her oral, then it may be a little while before she changes her mind. As gross as it sounds, we let our men give us oral then continue kiss them afterwards. ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend won't talk to me.
Q. My girlfriend and I have been together for a week less than two months. We met online (we only live a few miles from each other though) and began texting each other a lot, usually until 2 to 3am. We met in person maybe a week after talking and ...
A. 10 September 2010: Good, good. It sounds like she's possibly wanting to work on being friends. Drop the relationship talk..just focus on normal routine. What do you think I'm going to say?? Don't text her like she didn't text you..she wants you to keep up the ... (read in full...)
I'm 43, she's 18 & pregnant and I didn't know she wanted more than sex. I don't want this!
Q. im 43 and slept with an 18 year old and now shes pregnant but thats not the only problem she said that she fort we was going out when we slept together i knew she gets very close to people too fast but i didnt realise she wanted more than sex i fort ...
A. 10 September 2010: One, you should have used protection and she should have been on birth control. Secondly, she has special needs did you even specify you were using her for sex? Thirdly, how could you be so low and use her like that? Lastly, she's just a mere 18 and ... (read in full...)
Does this make me a homewrecker? And how can I ask him....?
Q. Hello; so I'm torn literally down to my nerves. So there is this guy I've known for a year and a month, and he's graced me with my first kiss. Anyway, since about April, he got a girlfriend, which I found out about due to one of our friends posting ...
A. 10 September 2010: Oh this situation never turns out good. No, you're not a homewrecker that's only if the guy is married to her and has a family. All you are is the other girl, which you don't wan't to be. I've been where you are, it sucks because the guy is going ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend won't talk to me.
Q. My girlfriend and I have been together for a week less than two months. We met online (we only live a few miles from each other though) and began texting each other a lot, usually until 2 to 3am. We met in person maybe a week after talking and ...
A. 10 September 2010: Reply to her but be vague....especially don't text her right after she texts you. If she wants you she will come to you. We're women we jump when we get a text, or a phone call. And usually it's hard for us to keep our little fingers off the ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend won't talk to me.
Q. My girlfriend and I have been together for a week less than two months. We met online (we only live a few miles from each other though) and began texting each other a lot, usually until 2 to 3am. We met in person maybe a week after talking and ...
A. 9 September 2010: Go without texting/ talking to her for 2-4 weeks..then send her a friendly text nothing more, nothing less than "Hi, how are you". Leave it at that, work on giving her a lot of space. The worst you could do is bombard her with texts, calls, and ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend won't talk to me.
Q. My girlfriend and I have been together for a week less than two months. We met online (we only live a few miles from each other though) and began texting each other a lot, usually until 2 to 3am. We met in person maybe a week after talking and ...
A. 9 September 2010: 3 days isn't enough space to give her to think. I really think she's trying to find excuses to nitpick at you. She needs to understand that the economy blows and that jobs aren't a dime a dozen anymore. As long as you're looking then I see no ... (read in full...)
I slapped the man I love!
Q. I slapped the man I adore to death this weekend when I was drunk, well we were both drunk. He now doesn't want to speak or talk to me. I clearly don't want this, what should I do? A bit of back round on us. Him and I have been on and off for over...
A. 8 September 2010: Now I don't want you to get the wrong impression of me Romany. I don't go around bitch slapping guys for no apparent reason, plus the last time i did so was in my late teens. However, I do think if a guy calls you a foul word such as a cunt, told ... (read in full...)
I slapped the man I love!
Q. I slapped the man I adore to death this weekend when I was drunk, well we were both drunk. He now doesn't want to speak or talk to me. I clearly don't want this, what should I do? A bit of back round on us. Him and I have been on and off for over...
A. 8 September 2010: Why did you slap him? Well, after cheating on you with four women and talking to another I think a slap in the face was much deserved. There's nothing men hate more than a woman just bitch slapping them in the face..It's about equivalent to kicking ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend won't talk to me.
Q. My girlfriend and I have been together for a week less than two months. We met online (we only live a few miles from each other though) and began texting each other a lot, usually until 2 to 3am. We met in person maybe a week after talking and ...
A. 7 September 2010: That issue is part of who she is..something only she can work on..If you leave things bottled up for so long they always come exploding out and not in a good way. I know women like this and they are often divorced or bounce from relationship to ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend won't talk to me.
Q. My girlfriend and I have been together for a week less than two months. We met online (we only live a few miles from each other though) and began texting each other a lot, usually until 2 to 3am. We met in person maybe a week after talking and ...
A. 4 September 2010: She was at least separated when you guys started to date, right? Here's the thing about this situation..
1. This woman is going through a divorce and what I'm reading about her this relationship/dating has progressed pretty fast.
2. She's not read... (read in full...)
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