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What qualifies me to help you? Vast dating experience, especially in the LDR department, even an international on with an Aussie, broke hearts, had mine broken, been engaged once before, I know what a real friend is, seen the ugly side of divorce coming from a recently broken home myself, even went as far as to tip the odds to my side and use men only to toss them aside like yesterday's garbage like they do women, I know what it's like to almost give up hope on finding the perfect man when he's really only a few boyfriends away, and I'm starting to learn the ropes of married life. I also know a vast deal about the female and male reproductive system, and all about the mental struggles with infertility. On a side note, I'm the one who gives you tough love, I'm not on here to sugarcoat it or to tell you what you want to hear. I'm going to give it to you straight up, wouldn't you rather the truth?
-TOP 5 QUESTIONS I CAN'T STAND-
#1. Does this mean my teacher likes me?
Just because they're nice to you, offer extra help, and put a little gold star on your A+ paper doesn't mean they are in love with you.
#2. Could I be pregnant?
Have you not heard of a pregnancy test? Get off this website, and go to your local drugstore.
#3. I'm 14 and I want a baby?
Really? Me too! Oh wait I'm 28 and married. You're how old again?
#4. My husband loves porn more than me!
Maybe if you didn't let yourself go into the frumpy woman you have turned into then he wouldn't have to look at porn now would he? I recommend you get your rear to the salon for highlights, manicure, pedicure, tanning, toss the baggy tees and sweat pants for a wardrobe that fits, and a little makeup goes a long way. It's called basic woman maintenance in order to keep your man's eyes on you.
#5. Will we get back together, how can I get him to love me again?
Unfortunately, my crystal ball is broke at the moment and I just gave away the last of my love potion No. 9. Sorry.
MY GENERAL RULES OF THUMB (this should be common sense)
-No means no.
-Girls can ask out ask guys, this is a new generation.
-Unless you know sign language or are telepathic, you're going to have to talk to him/her.
-My "Don't ask, Don't tell" policy as is follows: Do not by any means volunteer your own sexual history, or ask your date/partner/wife/girlfriend their magic number (how many people they've slept with). If you find yourself being prompted to answer this question, politely tell them that's none of their business.
-Your past doesn't define who you are today. We grow, mature, age, and change as time passes.
-If you have to even ask random strangers on this website if you should have sex, then you're not ready for it.
-FWBs, fuck buddies, no strings attached, whatever you want to call it..is not a relationship don't get the 2 confused. In this case, sex=sex, not love.
-No trust=no relationship.
-It is normal for your husband/boyfriend to have friends of the opposite sex, do you not have male friends?
-LDRs can work, however they're not for everyone. You've got to have trust, communication, be faithful, and a lot of hobbies to keep yourself occupied. If you have trust issues, a case of being needy, clingy, problems staying faithful and are in a LDR don't be surprised when it doesn't work. I told you so.
- An ex is an ex for a reason. If you guys couldn't hack it as a couple the first 2 times what makes you think the third time is a charm?
-Going on a "break" is a nice way of breaking up.
-If you have sex with a man and he hasn't called you, or responded to your texts in weeks sorry to say but he was just after a piece of ass.
- Now unless he's getting blown up in Afghanistan, an on call ER doctor, or lying dead in a coffin then he's got no excuse for his poor or lack there of communication.
-You have a 12% chance of your married boyfriend leaving his wife and children.
-A man who is going through a divorce is still legally married. He's about to have an ex wife and you're wanting to get into a relationship with him? That's called a rebound.
-If you're a minor who's just found out she's pregnant, do me and everyone else on this site a favor..Tell your parents.
-Just because some one stares at you, it doesn't mean they like you. They could be staring at that booger hanging out of your nose.
-If you have a lump/bump/cyst/rash that looks green, has oozing puss, and itches like hell, but kinda looks like a STD then you had better consult your doctor. They went through 6 years of schooling and have a license to practice medicine, I think they would know better than random virtual strangers.
-Don't mix business with pleasure. Why? Because if you date your co-worker and in the event things turn sour then you're still stuck facing them 9-5, Mon-Fri. Awkward.
-No matter how hard you try, you can't change a person..they have to make that transformation themselves.
-When your boyfriend/girlfriend says they want space that doesn't mean you do the opposite and bombard them with calls/texts.
-As far as ultimatums go, don't try to make your boyfriend choose between you, his female friends, or weed. You won't like the results.
-If you're 13-17, I'm sorry but you haven't a clue what love really is. You have minimal dating experience confined to the high school dating pool which are nothing but horny boys. Their facial hair doesn't make them a man. It's only till you get out into the real world, a vast dating pool is when you learn the definition of love. So, go on thinking you and 13 year old Tommy will go on to get married, have 3 kids, and a two story house with a white picket fence. I don't expect you to listen, I'm 28 and married, what do I know? There's a reason why everyone says it won't last..because it doesn't.
-The average penis size erect is 6 inches, 4.85 inches. Women like average to even a little below average. We're not going to bust out a tape measure and measure it to make sure it's up to our standards. We just want to have sex, so enough complaining about your size let's get down and dirty.
- The legal age of consent in the U.S. is 16-18 varying oer state, in Britain it's 16. I think it's safe to say most parts of the world (unless you live in a tribe with their own form of government) the legal age to consent to sex is 16. So yes, all you minors below the age of consent are committing a crime when you engage in sexual activity. The age is set that high for a reason, you are not above the law. |
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My boyfriend said we don't click, but it's not over?
Q. My Boyfriend said we dont click, but its not over? I have been dating my bf for the past 4 years. Recently he got an apart and i have been staying once in awhile until recently that i stayed there for about 2 weeks. I went to dinner with him ...
A. 17 November 2010: If he's got a case of the "what if's" then he is seriously doubting your relationship..I say he still misses her. Ditch this guy, he has no intentions of working on this relationship with you!... (read in full...)
Can someone please explain why he keeps on being a jerk but he still keeps on contacting me?
Q. I've posted about this situation before but things keep happening and I am at a loss. So to recap, I met this guy on a dating site and we dated 2 months until he ended it with me. Things were really great at the beginning but about a month into it, ...
A. 17 November 2010: Why do you still keep in contact with him, if he's so nasty and rude to you don't give him the time of day. Block him on FB and ignore his texts. You guys just broke up, and neither can handle a friendship so it's best that you keep it at no contact ... (read in full...)
It feels like a stone in my right arm?
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A. 17 November 2010: It could be a knot in your arm, the only way to know certain is to consult your doctor. Don't jump to conclusions assuming it's a tumor. Make an appointment to see your doctor he/she will give you the correct answer. ... (read in full...)
Web cam adventure is turning into a nightmare! I'm being blackmailed!
Q. I did some stuff on cam for a guy once, he recorded it. he lives over seas. and now his threatening to send it to all my facebook contacts, his saved them. please dont say i shouldnt have done that, i know that now. but what do i do about it? if...
A. 17 November 2010: You're most likely not going to be able to go to the cops by yourself, they might not take you seriously. They go by his IP address, bring whatever evidence you have. You're going to have to tell your mom, there's no way around that. Be responsible ... (read in full...)
If I keep talking to him do I still stand a chance?
Q. So right now I'm talking to my ex boyfriend for the very third time since our breakup. Right now he is with another girl and he's talking to me about the good and bad times him and his girl have had together. I was just wanting to know that if I ...
A. 17 November 2010: Since this is your second time asking this question, I don't know what kind of advice you're looking for since you don't update. My advice still stands from your last post. Don't know can't tell the future. But since he couldn't cut it the first 2 ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend said we don't click, but it's not over?
Q. My Boyfriend said we dont click, but its not over? I have been dating my bf for the past 4 years. Recently he got an apart and i have been staying once in awhile until recently that i stayed there for about 2 weeks. I went to dinner with him ...
A. 17 November 2010: He's got till the end of tomorrow..generally it's permitted for guys to go 3 days max without contact. If he wants to work it out, he'll call, he'll show you effort. This isn't entirely up to you, he has to do his part. You shouldn't have to keep ... (read in full...)
So confused, does she want me or not?
Q. I need someone to help me. Sorry to sound desperate but I can't even describe what I'm feeling right now. This girl that I was dating for 2 months broke up with me, but she keeps calling everyday. Everyone tells me to ignore the calls but I ...
A. 17 November 2010: Actually, it sounds like she's playing games with you. She's calling in to check up on you then goes on about her business for the day. Now, she does know you still like her because you answer her calls and ask her to come over, but she plays the ... (read in full...)
I don't think I'm wrong for being with him, am I?
Q. Hello there. I'm in a LDR. I love it a lot. I'm very very happy with what we have together. He's a lovely guy! He makes me so happy and he gets who i am and all the things i do or want to do with my life. I love that about him. But there's on ...
A. 17 November 2010: Your friends are rather harsh, they know nothing of this man other than what you tell them..Then again they're looking out for your best interest, although they could keep their comments to themselves. Have you ever met this guy? Maybe that's what ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend said we don't click, but it's not over?
Q. My Boyfriend said we dont click, but its not over? I have been dating my bf for the past 4 years. Recently he got an apart and i have been staying once in awhile until recently that i stayed there for about 2 weeks. I went to dinner with him ...
A. 17 November 2010: Oh wow..I'd say it's out of curiosity. However, I would be questioning if he's actually over her. That's a big piece of the puzzle. I would say this is the last straw. If you don't see an improvement or any effort whatsoever from him in keeping this ... (read in full...)
To keep her cut out of my life or to go back and mend it?
Q. about 9 months ago i decided to cut the girl i loved out of my life completly becuase i couldnt cope with seeing her all the time and knowing that she didnt feel the same way about me. i had hoped that this would help me forget about her and move on ...
A. 17 November 2010: Keep on the path you are on now, don't back track. You're trying to move forward, it's easy to second guess it when you're not over this girl. Remember why you broke it off, keep that in the back of your mind and don't look back. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend said we don't click, but it's not over?
Q. My Boyfriend said we dont click, but its not over? I have been dating my bf for the past 4 years. Recently he got an apart and i have been staying once in awhile until recently that i stayed there for about 2 weeks. I went to dinner with him ...
A. 17 November 2010: How long has your relationship been on the rocks? Every relationship has it's ups and downs. I wouldn't necessarily take his comment as a break-up, more like "if we keep going the way we are then it's going to result in that". Well if it's ... (read in full...)
Did I kill his love for me?
Q. Hi, so hopefully you can give me some advice... When me and my boyfriend first got together we were absolutely crazy in love and I honestly still am, i would die for him... Wed known each other a while before and there was a rumor going round about ...
A. 17 November 2010: So what happened with this nutcase? I'm not exactly understanding how he could get upset with you and have trust issues over a guy that stalked you in the past.
Need more information.
From his actions, he's not over what happened in your past... (read in full...)
Working with boyfriend & his family became too much..destroyed our relationship
Q. Don't know how to continue in a relationship. Been together over 4 yrs. 2.5 years ago was asked to join his family business to help out. Didn't know how controlling and verbally abusive his parents (the bosses) were. Always shouting and scoldin...
A. 17 November 2010: Woah, who cares if their ego gets hurt? From you're post they're extremely verbally abusive to you and your boyfriend. If his parent's business is stressing the both of you and putting a major strain on your relationship then it's time for the both ... (read in full...)
Should I go to a strip club to lose my virginity?
Q. Well first off im an 18 years old and im still a virgin. Everyone say to me that im lucky because I can share that experince with someone I truely care about but im having second thoughts. That maybe I should go to strip club and pay for it. So do ...
A. 17 November 2010: You could go to a strip club and ask a stripper if they'll have sex with you..but let me tell you it will be for a hefty price and you'll have to wait till they get off of work...Your asking them to prostitute themselves, so I'm sure you're going to ... (read in full...)
How should a single guy's bedroom look?
Q. Women, if you were at the house of a guy you liked and peeked in his bedroom, what would make a better impression on you: if it looked as though he entertained females there occasionally (candles, incense sticks, queen-size bed, tiny bottle of ...
A. 17 November 2010: More pillows, you can never have too many pillows on a bed. One pillow on a queen size bed looks odd.... (read in full...)
Web cam adventure is turning into a nightmare! I'm being blackmailed!
Q. I did some stuff on cam for a guy once, he recorded it. he lives over seas. and now his threatening to send it to all my facebook contacts, his saved them. please dont say i shouldnt have done that, i know that now. but what do i do about it? if...
A. 17 November 2010: How do yo know he has these videos saved? Legally, if he sends them to everyone on your Facebook list then he would be exploiting a minor. So yes he can get arrested for it. I would tell him you will report him to the authorities for exploiting ... (read in full...)
I love him, but my relationship is SO BORING (the sex too)
Q. I'm 18, my boyfriend is 19, and we've been together for a year. I truly do love him, don't want to leave him, and really can't picture myself with another guy. I've even tried talking to other guys (when we were on a two week break), really cute ...
A. 17 November 2010: Tell him you refuse to see another movie, that's all you guys do and you're not trying to turn into a boring old married couple at 18. Then tell him where you want to go. Take over on arranging the activities otherwise it's going to be the same old. ... (read in full...)
My friend's boyfriend is going to dump her, he may ask me out next!
Q. Hey Guys! Okay so my friend has been going out with this guy for a little more than 4moths. Me and my friend aren't really that close we have 1 class together. We talk but where not that close so yesterday there was a sub for my social studies class ...
A. 16 November 2010: You're jumping ahead of yourself, you don't even know for a fact he's going to dump her let alone ask you out next. If you don't want to hurt her then don't. Your friend is going to be rather distraught if he does break up with her, then you will ... (read in full...)
Did I mess up so badly that I lost my best friend?
Q. I did a stupid thing and lied to my best friend. First I lied about getting free clothes from a store for him, when I really bought them for him as gifts. He eventually found out, about 6 months later. He got very upset at me and refused to talk ...
A. 16 November 2010: So you said these clothes were free but really you bought them for him, he's mad about that why? Then you were going to get him a dog, but failed to mention it wasn't going to be later..and now he's mad about that, how petty. What kind of gifts has ... (read in full...)
Help!!! He wants to be with me but doesn't want to put a label on it. What does this mean?
Q. so i have been seeing this guy for a few months and we are planning on moving in together (his idea). but last night we were talking and the labelling subject came up and he said He doesn't like labelling relationships. basically it is what it is ...
A. 16 November 2010: Not necessarily..but I would ask him about commitment. Fine, he doesn't like labels, but you need to be on the same page. Are you guys exclusive or are you keeping this open? Is he going to be committed to you? These are questions you need to have ... (read in full...)
Not sure where to start on de-virginizing her?
Q. My girlfriend and I have been dating steadily for over 5 months now. She's already told me she wants to lose her virginity to me, but I'm not sure how to start... I want to make her first time as amazing as possible, but I've heard that a girl's f...
A. 16 November 2010: It does hurt, for some it's a small pain..mine on the other hand was agonizing. But every girl is different. I would go all out and make it as romantic as possible. I'm talking rose petals scattered on fresh sheets and on the floor, a candlelit ... (read in full...)
She's hot and she's cold. She's yes and she's no..
Q. theres women i work with who i have grown to like alot we hang around together at dinner seen her a few times out of work. loads of people tell me they can she likes me and i think she does too thing is she has bf and never made a move, i told...
A. 16 November 2010: Did it ever occur to you that she's being nice to you? If she liked you don't you think she would have dumped her boyfriend for you by now?
I suggest you ignore what your co-workers it's nothing but office garb, respect the fact this woman ha... (read in full...)
How can I help him get through our breakup?
Q. me and my ex were together for a year and 8 months. I really cared for him but was slowly starting to realize that I didn't care for him as a solemate type. Then, I was with a guy who i was very infactuated with before me and my ex started dating ...
A. 16 November 2010: You can help him by cutting off contact with him. Think about it, if a guy dumped you would you want him to stick around and help you get over him? Heck, no! He needs to move on, on his own...he doesn't need your help. I know you have good ... (read in full...)
Do red-headed men dig dark skinned women?
Q. i like this red-headed guy but i don't know if he would like me because i am dark complected.so my question is do red headed guys like dark complected girls?...
A. 16 November 2010: It depends on their personal preference. Your answer is going to vary. Why do you ask?... (read in full...)
How do I lightly confront him over this text?
Q. Ok so how do I confront my boyfriend about a text that I found on his phone...well he has a password on it...The thing is I feel bad for going through his phone but I don't like what I saw. How do I talk to him? and how do I even start it...HELP ...
A. 16 November 2010: I believe I just answered your question but I'm guessing my advice wasn't what you're looking for. Still stand by what I said. There's no light way of asking this, if you ask he'll dump you or cause more problems than there already are in this ... (read in full...)
Is this normal, not to be able to climax this way?
Q. does anyone out there have any trouble reaching orgasm's ??? I don't understand why I have this problem..My boyfriend will go down on me and it feels good but i rarely reach orgasm this way or any way..I think my urges and sensitivity in that area ...
A. 16 November 2010: Keep working on the solo acts..if not like I said look into decent vibrators. Before I used them I never had an orgasm, then after a while they're all I used. Who needs a man, then? After a while, I stopped using them then tried the good old manual ... (read in full...)
I just don't find her sexually desirable!
Q. So after being horribly abused and used by two different women (I won't go into details, but the end result was me having a complete mental breakdown), I had finally rebuilt myself from the ground up, and I was feeling confident in who I was. After ...
A. 16 November 2010: Then why are you with her? If she's that sightly and you don't want to have sex with her...you have yourself a friendship. Even if she lost weight, you don't even know if that would be enough. Dump her because she's not want you want. ... (read in full...)
Is 14 too old to have your first kiss?
Q. okk this sonds sooo stupid /: but im 14 and well ive never actually kissed a boy properly ( in which i mean tongue ) and i feel stupid because my bestfriend has and i feel stupid i dont want to be like a 40 yr old person and never kissed a guy lol ...
A. 16 November 2010: This question reminds me of that Drew Barrymore film "Never Been Kissed".
Let's see if I can think back that far, I was 14 or 15..Mine was to my first boyfriend in high school who just died weeks ago in car accident. So I would have to say mine... (read in full...)
Just how detrimental is friends with benefits?
Q. I'm feeling really confused. I've been friends with this guy for many many years now, and it's really special what we have together. He was my first crush, and I believe at different points in our friendship we both got confused feelings for each...
A. 16 November 2010: FWBs will end up hurting you in the end because you are already emotionally invested. In FWBs, it's a no strings attached, no feelings, just sex and that's it. He's not looking for a relationship or love, he's just looking for casual sex. If he ... (read in full...)
Who is this other girl?
Q. When I met my current boyfriend, 2 years ago, he was kind of a ladies man, and i accepted it. He was always honest with me, while we were still just friends. He started to develop feelings, as did i. SO we finally gave it the title. My best ...
A. 16 November 2010: Oh dear, you never go out with the ladies man he's just not boyfriend material. You knew he was one from the get go but you still proceeded. I avoid them like the plague.
The thing is you can't really forgive him because there is no trust an... (read in full...)
My husband is old school!
Q. My husband is from "the old scjhool", who beleives giving a male (a kid)co-worker a ride home (because his car broke down), is a breech of trust and that, I, as a married woman, should not be "driving around town with men in my car". First ...
A. 16 November 2010: I thought borrowing a cup of sugar (substitute with the dish soap scenario) is old school? Sure it's generally the female that asks but times have changed. Has anything happened in your marriage that would fuel these insecurities? Because if he's ... (read in full...)
Should I accept her back in my life or just be done with her?
Q. 11 days ago my fiancee broke up with me, she wanted to be with another guy. After all the break-up arguments were over she has been texting me and hinting about getting back together. I do love her but I don't enjoy the way she has treated me ...
A. 16 November 2010: I would be questioning what happened with this other guy to make her come crawling back to you. If she truly loved you and was ready to marry you then she wouldn't have broke it off to be with this other guy for 11 days. You just don't take time off ... (read in full...)
She was pressured into doing something with another guy, should I end it or stay?
Q. my girlfriend was pressured in to sucking another boy's d**k, she lied to me when i asked about it but she has now told me the truth and i dont know what to do. shoud i end it or stay?...
A. 16 November 2010: Let her parents deal with her suicide attempts and threats. It's out of your hands now, I suggest you give her a little space. Hopefully, her parents get her the psychological help she needs. ... (read in full...)
I have made some mistakes within the relationship that she doesn't know about. Do I tell her before I ask her to settle down?
Q. I'm ready to make a life-long committment to my girlfriend and plan on proposing to her. Let's just say that I have struggled through committment "issues" for a while, but now I feel that I am ready and love her deeply. Can't imagine a better ...
A. 16 November 2010: If you value honesty then it's best you hold true to your values, wouldn't you agree? No matter how big or small these mistakes are, if this is the woman you want to spend the rest of your life with it's best you start this proposal off right by ... (read in full...)
I put my big foot in it... help!
Q. hi there, i knew my best friend saw her ex a few times at the beginning of her relationship with her boyfriend, its been 5 months now and she stops me speaking to her boyfriend because shes overprotective and doesnt like it, but im really good mates ...
A. 16 November 2010: Too late it's already slipped out of your mouth, he's going to confront her sooner or later. One, you went against her wish of not talking to him anymore. Which I think is rather silly, but I suppose she was trying to cover her ass. Two, you let her ... (read in full...)
I'm way more pleased with myself than guilty!
Q. This morning i cheated on my fiance with someone I met online. I have been with my fiance for 8 years...my question is why don't i feel guilty? I try to make excuses like i did it for an ego boost because i have low self esteem or that it was nice ...
A. 16 November 2010: Easy dump your fiance..you've been together 8 years and it hasn't gone anywhere yet. It's especially not going to because of your indiscretion. Do the man a favor and let him go, then proceed on with this online rendezvous if you wish.... (read in full...)
He's browsing women's sexy clothing websites!
Q. Hi everyone, I'm the girl that had the boyfriend who wanted a break. Well things haven't gone as far as that but I have found that he has been checking out girls wearing sexy clothes online. He is no way looking at pornography, just girls weari...
A. 16 November 2010: Some people would say that's a lesser form of porn, I don't believe it is. Panty hose and skirts may be a serious turn on for him, and a heck of a lot cheaper, not to mention virus free than browsing porn. Or maybe he's shopping around for clothing ... (read in full...)
He's texting other women and I don't know what to do!
Q. Hey there... I am so confused I don't know what to do! My boyfriend is very up tight about his phone and so he has a password on it and doesn't even want me to touch his phone. And so I went through his texts and I saw 3 texts that stood out to me. ...
A. 16 November 2010: You could confront him but why waste your time? This relationship lacks trust, and he's clearly hiding something why else put a passcode on your phone, not to mention you have found incriminating texts. You're going to confront him, he'll lie to you ... (read in full...)
Trying for a baby is destroying our sex life!
Q. Ive been with my girlfriend now for 2.5 years and 9 months ago we started trying for a baby. Since then the sexual side of the relationship has gone downhill for me totally. Once she has ovulated, i can forget sex, as she is worried about 'u...
A. 16 November 2010: From a woman's perspective, trying to conceive is a nightmare! We're so obsessed with wanting a child and everything including timing, sex has to be absolutely perfect in order to get what we want. She's got tunnel vision and is losing site of your ... (read in full...)
How should a single guy's bedroom look?
Q. Women, if you were at the house of a guy you liked and peeked in his bedroom, what would make a better impression on you: if it looked as though he entertained females there occasionally (candles, incense sticks, queen-size bed, tiny bottle of ...
A. 16 November 2010: No woman wants to peek in and see massage oils, candles a leopard print bed spread, and Marvin Gaye playing on your stereo. That would say you're nothing but a womanizer, you don't want to give off the wrong impression. I say make it your own, women ... (read in full...)
Help!!! He wants to be with me but doesn't want to put a label on it. What does this mean?
Q. so i have been seeing this guy for a few months and we are planning on moving in together (his idea). but last night we were talking and the labelling subject came up and he said He doesn't like labelling relationships. basically it is what it is ...
A. 16 November 2010: Sounds like you're basically in a relationship if you're already shacking up especially since you've only been together for a few months. I have come across these guys before, they don't want to feel like they have to label this relationship that ... (read in full...)
He doesn't like my flat bustline...help!
Q. My partner and I have been together 3 yrs and I thought our relationship was ok. Out of the blue he said that when he made love to me it was like doing it with a little boy. He wont explain what he means, I've had 4 kids and havent got much of a ...
A. 16 November 2010: 3 years later and all of sudden he's complaining about your bust line? Sounds like there's more to the story than what you have given us. Yeah, he said it to be nasty and is taking a stab at your insecurity, hitting you where it hurts. Did he even ... (read in full...)
She was pressured into doing something with another guy, should I end it or stay?
Q. my girlfriend was pressured in to sucking another boy's d**k, she lied to me when i asked about it but she has now told me the truth and i dont know what to do. shoud i end it or stay?...
A. 10 November 2010: This isn't Romeo and Juliet, honey. If she's cutting her wrists, that's very serious meaning she's contemplating suicide..in which you need to tell her parents immediately. ... (read in full...)
Is this normal, not to be able to climax this way?
Q. does anyone out there have any trouble reaching orgasm's ??? I don't understand why I have this problem..My boyfriend will go down on me and it feels good but i rarely reach orgasm this way or any way..I think my urges and sensitivity in that area ...
A. 9 November 2010: It took me 8 years to achieve an orgasm thru penetration with my husband. Before that I was doing solo acts...clitoral stimulation, sometimes used a vibrator. I recommend the silver bullet, you can even get colorful sleeves to go over it. As far as ... (read in full...)
She was pressured into doing something with another guy, should I end it or stay?
Q. my girlfriend was pressured in to sucking another boy's d**k, she lied to me when i asked about it but she has now told me the truth and i dont know what to do. shoud i end it or stay?...
A. 9 November 2010: If this is truly the case then you need to tell her, she needs to get down to the police station right to report a rape. However, if she obliges then that tells me she was more than willing to give that other guy a blow job.
She refuses to repor... (read in full...)
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