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What qualifies me to help you? Vast dating experience, especially in the LDR department, even an international on with an Aussie, broke hearts, had mine broken, been engaged once before, I know what a real friend is, seen the ugly side of divorce coming from a recently broken home myself, even went as far as to tip the odds to my side and use men only to toss them aside like yesterday's garbage like they do women, I know what it's like to almost give up hope on finding the perfect man when he's really only a few boyfriends away, and I'm starting to learn the ropes of married life. I also know a vast deal about the female and male reproductive system, and all about the mental struggles with infertility. On a side note, I'm the one who gives you tough love, I'm not on here to sugarcoat it or to tell you what you want to hear. I'm going to give it to you straight up, wouldn't you rather the truth?
-TOP 5 QUESTIONS I CAN'T STAND-
#1. Does this mean my teacher likes me?
Just because they're nice to you, offer extra help, and put a little gold star on your A+ paper doesn't mean they are in love with you.
#2. Could I be pregnant?
Have you not heard of a pregnancy test? Get off this website, and go to your local drugstore.
#3. I'm 14 and I want a baby?
Really? Me too! Oh wait I'm 28 and married. You're how old again?
#4. My husband loves porn more than me!
Maybe if you didn't let yourself go into the frumpy woman you have turned into then he wouldn't have to look at porn now would he? I recommend you get your rear to the salon for highlights, manicure, pedicure, tanning, toss the baggy tees and sweat pants for a wardrobe that fits, and a little makeup goes a long way. It's called basic woman maintenance in order to keep your man's eyes on you.
#5. Will we get back together, how can I get him to love me again?
Unfortunately, my crystal ball is broke at the moment and I just gave away the last of my love potion No. 9. Sorry.
MY GENERAL RULES OF THUMB (this should be common sense)
-No means no.
-Girls can ask out ask guys, this is a new generation.
-Unless you know sign language or are telepathic, you're going to have to talk to him/her.
-My "Don't ask, Don't tell" policy as is follows: Do not by any means volunteer your own sexual history, or ask your date/partner/wife/girlfriend their magic number (how many people they've slept with). If you find yourself being prompted to answer this question, politely tell them that's none of their business.
-Your past doesn't define who you are today. We grow, mature, age, and change as time passes.
-If you have to even ask random strangers on this website if you should have sex, then you're not ready for it.
-FWBs, fuck buddies, no strings attached, whatever you want to call it..is not a relationship don't get the 2 confused. In this case, sex=sex, not love.
-No trust=no relationship.
-It is normal for your husband/boyfriend to have friends of the opposite sex, do you not have male friends?
-LDRs can work, however they're not for everyone. You've got to have trust, communication, be faithful, and a lot of hobbies to keep yourself occupied. If you have trust issues, a case of being needy, clingy, problems staying faithful and are in a LDR don't be surprised when it doesn't work. I told you so.
- An ex is an ex for a reason. If you guys couldn't hack it as a couple the first 2 times what makes you think the third time is a charm?
-Going on a "break" is a nice way of breaking up.
-If you have sex with a man and he hasn't called you, or responded to your texts in weeks sorry to say but he was just after a piece of ass.
- Now unless he's getting blown up in Afghanistan, an on call ER doctor, or lying dead in a coffin then he's got no excuse for his poor or lack there of communication.
-You have a 12% chance of your married boyfriend leaving his wife and children.
-A man who is going through a divorce is still legally married. He's about to have an ex wife and you're wanting to get into a relationship with him? That's called a rebound.
-If you're a minor who's just found out she's pregnant, do me and everyone else on this site a favor..Tell your parents.
-Just because some one stares at you, it doesn't mean they like you. They could be staring at that booger hanging out of your nose.
-If you have a lump/bump/cyst/rash that looks green, has oozing puss, and itches like hell, but kinda looks like a STD then you had better consult your doctor. They went through 6 years of schooling and have a license to practice medicine, I think they would know better than random virtual strangers.
-Don't mix business with pleasure. Why? Because if you date your co-worker and in the event things turn sour then you're still stuck facing them 9-5, Mon-Fri. Awkward.
-No matter how hard you try, you can't change a person..they have to make that transformation themselves.
-When your boyfriend/girlfriend says they want space that doesn't mean you do the opposite and bombard them with calls/texts.
-As far as ultimatums go, don't try to make your boyfriend choose between you, his female friends, or weed. You won't like the results.
-If you're 13-17, I'm sorry but you haven't a clue what love really is. You have minimal dating experience confined to the high school dating pool which are nothing but horny boys. Their facial hair doesn't make them a man. It's only till you get out into the real world, a vast dating pool is when you learn the definition of love. So, go on thinking you and 13 year old Tommy will go on to get married, have 3 kids, and a two story house with a white picket fence. I don't expect you to listen, I'm 28 and married, what do I know? There's a reason why everyone says it won't last..because it doesn't.
-The average penis size erect is 6 inches, 4.85 inches. Women like average to even a little below average. We're not going to bust out a tape measure and measure it to make sure it's up to our standards. We just want to have sex, so enough complaining about your size let's get down and dirty.
- The legal age of consent in the U.S. is 16-18 varying oer state, in Britain it's 16. I think it's safe to say most parts of the world (unless you live in a tribe with their own form of government) the legal age to consent to sex is 16. So yes, all you minors below the age of consent are committing a crime when you engage in sexual activity. The age is set that high for a reason, you are not above the law. |
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How do I tell this guy..that I don't love him! Advice?
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A. 10 December 2010: Yikes, well that's Jay's fault if he wants to turn into a "player", womanizer, man whore whatever you want to call it. That's not on you, you didn't make him that way. It's his own personal choice. He'll realize after a while that's not going to get ... (read in full...)
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Did it take you a long time to conceive?
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The ex or my new girlfriend?
Q. Ok so about 3 months ago me and my girlfriend of 6 months broke up. She said she wanted to be free cuz she has been held down by her parents for so long. Sh is 21 and so am I.so it took a while but we stopped seeing each other and tlking cuz I was ...
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A. 18 November 2010: Apparently you're doing something right to have these men falling at your feet.
One guy at a time, first take care of Jay way before he gets down on one knee. Let him down gently telling him that his gesture is sweet and you're truly flattere... (read in full...)
Office gossip about my boss and me! What should I do?
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A. 18 November 2010: What can you do about office gossip? Nothing really. Just ignore it, those gossiping hens will find something else to gossip about then you'll be last week's news. However, if you are truly concerned it could affect your job then I would bring these ... (read in full...)
Can the depo shot stop your period right from the first time you take it?
Q. So, just got my depo shot on the firtst (first time ever). And I still made the mistake of having sex before my week was up (3 days before). My period was supposed to come around this week and hasn't shown. Needless to say, I miss Aunt Flo and am ...
A. 18 November 2010: Every girl's body varies, some have no period, others have next to nothing, some bleed for the whole 3 months, and myself I bled for the whole last month. The Depo shot takes 7 days to take affect in your body..and you had sex in that 7 day window. ... (read in full...)
Insecure about my LDR!
Q. Hi to you all! This is my first time in this website but I would like very much to receive your suggestions. I am in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend. We have been together for 3 years and we have our weeding booked for 9.7.2011. ...
A. 18 November 2010: Your welcome, keep that insecurity in check..It sounds like you got a great man, and you're very lucky not to have any troubles, I can't tell you how posts we get on here with struggling LDRs. ... (read in full...)
The ex or my new girlfriend?
Q. Ok so about 3 months ago me and my girlfriend of 6 months broke up. She said she wanted to be free cuz she has been held down by her parents for so long. Sh is 21 and so am I.so it took a while but we stopped seeing each other and tlking cuz I was ...
A. 18 November 2010: The reason she broke up with you is because her parents were holding her down she needed to be free? How about she couldn't handle being in a relationship. Why did you call her and tell her you had a girlfriend? She doesn't have a right to now, she ... (read in full...)
I gotta feeling..He wants a threesome!
Q. Well i just talked to my boyfriend and he says he is perfectly happy with me and our relationship. But i kinda get the feeling that he wants to bring another girl into our relationship because he keeps talking about it. such as asking me questions ...
A. 18 November 2010: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-man-wants-a-threesome-am-i-boring.html
No you're not, simply state you will not engage in a threesome. That is not for you, and it will do more harm than good in your relationship. Don't ask him, the next tim... (read in full...)
Crabby girlfriend or this new girl?
Q. ok so for the past 3 months my gf has been a total bitch to me every time i go to kiss her or hug her she shouts at me and storms off. when i ask her she just does the same thing. now theres this other girl who aparently is nuts about me ,but i ...
A. 18 November 2010: You may love your girlfriend but you're not happy with the way she treats you. Either work on your relationship or dump her before you act upon your temptation with this new girl. ... (read in full...)
Seeking a partner?
Q. I'm a gay 14 year old with no relationship experience what so ever (except a silly bf gf thing in elementary school) I recently moved and I know not one person around. I'm also homeschooled which makes matters worse. Ive tried to be patient but its ...
A. 18 November 2010: You're pretty limited by your homeschooling and your age. There's no guys to get to know and because you're underage you can't necessarily go posting a personal on the net. Most kids your age are still exploring and figuring out their sexuality. If ... (read in full...)
We shared Facebook passwords, but he just changed his!
Q. I've been dating my boyfriend for over a year and our relationship is very good. A long time ago we shared each others facebook passwords but neither of us goes on the others account (well he says he doesn't). The other week a friend of mine w...
A. 18 November 2010: If you trust him there's no need to worry. You shared passwords a long time ago and apparently neither of you log onto each other's FB.
You said yourself you don't need his password let alone log onto his account so there's no need to ask him ... (read in full...)
We traded in a LDR for FWBs when we come home on breaks!
Q. so i began seeing this guy over the summer and he decided we shouldnt so long distance after about 2-3 months of dating and i agreed. However i know we are no longer gf and bf he asked to be friends with benefits when i come home on my breaks and ...
A. 18 November 2010: He couldn't handle the long distance relationship however he's down for nothing but casual sex when you guys are both home on break. I don't think so. FWBs is nothing but sex, it's a no strings attached, fuck buddies deal. Since he's your ex and you ... (read in full...)
The most he says to me now is "What page are we on?", what gives?
Q. The guy that sits next to me in one of my classes, we'll call him 'Joe', used to talk to me alot. But now he doesnt? I mean... We flirted and stuff, but now... He doesn't even talk to me at all anymore. and if he does, its only to ask things like ...
A. 18 November 2010: Why don't you make a move and ask him out for Friday night? That way you'll know if he likes you or not. If not then move on and ignore him in class.... (read in full...)
Insecure about my LDR!
Q. Hi to you all! This is my first time in this website but I would like very much to receive your suggestions. I am in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend. We have been together for 3 years and we have our weeding booked for 9.7.2011. ...
A. 18 November 2010: There's nothing wrong with your relationship! You already know the man you're marrying is reserved, that's who he is you can't change that about him. He doesn't have to tell you every detail about his day. Heck sometimes my days are blurs I barely ... (read in full...)
I have one flirty boyfriend!
Q. My boyfriend tends to flirt with other girls and this really bothers me. I've talked to him about it and he still flirts.And it is always the same girl he flirts with. I'm almost convinced he's cheating...he's cheated on me before. What should I do? ...
A. 18 November 2010: Since he's has a cheating track record and he's really flirty with the ladies then it's very possible he will cheat on you again. I suggest you dump him since you don't trust him. ... (read in full...)
Pull and pray!
Q. He said he pulled out befor anything happened.. is that effective? what does that even mean? ...
A. 18 November 2010: NO, it's not an effective means of contraceptive. It means get yourself to Wal-mart or Walgreens pharmacy and tell the technician you need to purchase Plan B, or the morning after pill. It's an emergency abortion pill you take after a night of ... (read in full...)
He flirts with me, but has this girl he's kinda involved with!
Q. I can't tell if he's interested in me or not.... I met this guy over the weekend through a mutual friend. Our friend asked me if I thought he was cute because apparently I was flirting with him, and he was flirting with me, but I'm really obliv...
A. 18 November 2010: This boy is interested, he's going beyond being friendly..I would get a little more back ground info from your mutual friend on this "kinda girlfriend". Just to see how serious it is, how long have they been together if they're even together, is it ... (read in full...)
Should I go on a date with her and her mom!
Q. Background- It has been almost 8 months since my last relationship and I am at the point where I am ready to be with someone again. I go to a smaller school and I met someone in my class that is really cute, funny, good looking, and has a great...
A. 18 November 2010: Q1. Act yourself but omit curse words, be a real gentleman, holding the door open, offering to purchase popcorn and drinks for everyone, maybe even the tickets. Leave a lasting impression on her mother.
Q2. Simple, you ask her out on a date. Th... (read in full...)
Need critique on my love letter!
Q. Hi, I have been talking with a good friend of mine for a few weeks. We met about 3-4 years ago in college, where we hung out amongst a few friends for a couple of years. It was about half way through that I developed a crush on her, but she had...
A. 18 November 2010: Might I add a suggestion, omit the second paragraph. Don't put in there you're uncertain if she harbors the same feelings, that's the point of the letter. Plus, you don't want to make this letter awkward. Instead add it to the third paragraph, " ... (read in full...)
We're back together and he's dating other women too!
Q. My boyfriend is dating other women. We've been together (on and off) for 6 years now. He told me that he's involved with others a few months after our relationship started and I always thought that when we'll get to know each other he'll stop. He ...
A. 18 November 2010: Hon what are you confused about? He's dating other women in addition to be with you that's called cheating, wanting you to do threesomes, asking for money which he probably won't pay you back and expensive gifts..This man is taking you for a ride! ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend goes clubbing with his bros while I stay at home.
Q. Is it ok for your boyfriend to go to the clubs with his friends without you? I trust him and I didn't care untill one of my friends was like I shouldn't let him? I don't know what to do? ...
A. 17 November 2010: Yes, If you trust him then there should be no problem. You make the decisions in your relationship, not your friends. ... (read in full...)
On my father's dating profile he said he was married but with no children!
Q. I HATE my dad. (and i understand the concept of hate being a particularly strong word) He emotionally abuses everyone in the family. Behind closed doors he makes us all think that we're useless but when we're in public he acts like he's the world's ...
A. 17 November 2010: Why does he have a dating profile when he's married? You could tell your mother but it doesn't sound like it would do any good seeing as she's caught in his web of emotional abuse. Plus it's your word against your father's, he could go back and ... (read in full...)
Long lost love child.
Q. when my husbands father passed I found out he had a 19 yr old daughter. I have two small children with him, and my parents and my whole family think these are his first kids. Whats worse is being around his family after the fact. Nobody has said ...
A. 17 November 2010: The only person he needs to come clean to is your children, your own family they deserve to know about their half sister..maybe his because that's another grandchild. But I don't understand why he has to tell your side of the family. It's not their ... (read in full...)
One week she's ogling over rings the next week she's moving out!
Q. OK here goes Me n my girlfriend unexpentedly split four weeks ago, she just started crying and said she could not go on like this and left before i had time to even let it sink in. She moved all her stuff out the next day while i was at work and ...
A. 17 November 2010: You honestly don't know the nature of the break up? I would be racking my brain for answers. It's possible it's a personal problem, however it sounds like your relationship has been pretty rocky because of her bad memories comment. There should be ... (read in full...)
Is she testing me?
Q. Hi guys. Wondering if you can help me on something that confused me as hell. The other day me and a few friends from work met up and went to a restaurant. While there I caught sight of one really sexy woman. She was a waitress at the restaura...
A. 17 November 2010: Hmmm how much of a nice tip did you leave her? She may have just flirted for the big tip and free drink. I actually have friends who are waitresses and bartenders who use that tactic. Then again, it's possible it was bad timing and her ex beat you ... (read in full...)
Long lost love child.
Q. when my husbands father passed I found out he had a 19 yr old daughter. I have two small children with him, and my parents and my whole family think these are his first kids. Whats worse is being around his family after the fact. Nobody has said ...
A. 17 November 2010: Okay so his father has a hidden 19 year old daughter, or is it your husband? Are you expecting your husband to explain to your children of their long lost aunt?
Please clarify, your post is confusing.... (read in full...)
Why does his ex have his new phone number?
Q. my boyfriend got a new phone why does his ex girlfriend have the number she texts him and call like they still together she called one day and i answered he got mad i know they still messing around and when we watching television together she texts ...
A. 17 November 2010: You said in your post you know they are still messing around, so you answered your own question. In fact how do you, do you have any evidence? Has he cheated on you before with her? It's possible they are friends. Unless you have proof they're ... (read in full...)
Sweet dreams are made of these..
Q. I normally don't dream anything normal. But this black and white one was very close to real.br / I have been crushing on a beautiful person who helps me unconditionally when I ask for it. Yes, he does go the extra mile for me during my stressfu...
A. 17 November 2010: It just means your crush is on your mind. They're dreams there's no hidden meaning behind it. ... (read in full...)
Should I ask him out again?
Q. Ok so I've been dating (not bf/gf just dating) for 7 months now (yeah..i know) and everything is good..we normally spend Fridays together hang out, movies, bowling..whatever! Recently like within the past 2 weeks he's been acting a bit different ...
A. 17 November 2010: One thing I notice, is you guys have been in "dating" mode for 7 months..meaning you're not boyfriend/girlfriend, not obligated to each other..So it's possible he could be seeing other girls. Also, that tells me because you two haven't made it ... (read in full...)
I saw something I shouldn't have seen!
Q. I saw my mate's boyfriend, kissing another one of my friends in the park the other day. They both saw me but carried on anyway, a few hours later they knocked on my door and begged me not to tell my mate. I'm confused, as i don't want to be the g...
A. 17 November 2010: Ouch caught in the middle..you don't want to be the one to tell her, because what if she doesn't believe you or her boyfriend denies the allegations. Or if you don't tell her, then this secret is weighing down on you, and if the roles were switched ... (read in full...)
Is this a reaction to my birth control?
Q. ok, not a sex question, cause i am a virgin...but, i started to take birth control a few days ago, and my vagina has been...well...itchy? then this morning i took a look (which is very awkward for me) and noticed that the entrance is white...like ...
A. 17 November 2010: It sounds like a yeast infection..In which, that isn't one of the side effects of birth control. I could be wrong, it's best to consult your doctor.... (read in full...)
Christmas gift for my older man?
Q. Okay well I'm usually really good at picking out Christmas gifts for people but I can not figure out what to get my boyfriend. Any ideas would be appreciated. He's 38 by the way. Thank you. :)...
A. 17 November 2010: Gift certificate to Home Depot or Lowe's..or tickets to up and coming concerts or sporting events, comedy tours. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend said we don't click, but it's not over?
Q. My Boyfriend said we dont click, but its not over? I have been dating my bf for the past 4 years. Recently he got an apart and i have been staying once in awhile until recently that i stayed there for about 2 weeks. I went to dinner with him ...
A. 17 November 2010: If he's got a case of the "what if's" then he is seriously doubting your relationship..I say he still misses her. Ditch this guy, he has no intentions of working on this relationship with you!... (read in full...)
Is it a turn off to see the guy you fancy chewing tobacco?
Q. Just some quick question for the girls. If you saw a guy that you found attractive would it turn you off if you saw him chewing tobacco? If he asked you out would you say no or see him differently because of this? And yes i am fully aware of the ...
A. 17 November 2010: Yes, it's very unattractive to see a guy spitting in a cup or bottle with brown garb..After a while, when a female goes to kiss you your breath isn't so fresh and that dip cup can put off a smell after awhile. I understand it's a habit for some men ... (read in full...)
How come she doesn't make me feel special anymore?
Q. I need some serious advice. I'm down in the dumps by my own doing and feel like I can't seem to get going anymore. I treating my ex gf like crap and was such a selfish asshole that I think I have lost her for good. I regret my ignorance. I broke up ...
A. 17 November 2010: She said you guys could be FRIENDS, this means friends and not back together. All those things that she did for you were during your relationship as boyfriend/girlfriend, now that she's your friend she doesn't owe you anything. You driving by her ... (read in full...)
He didn't acknowledge my existence!
Q. my friend found out that the guy i liked, liked me back.but when i texted him he never texted back and he didnt talk to me when i saw him. im 14 and dont really have lots of experience with guys. what is up with him!?!...
A. 17 November 2010: Who knows? It could be a number of reasons from he's shy, he was busy, or he's not sure about his feelings for you. Why don't you talk to him instead of sitting here wondering? That's the only way you're going to know what is actually up with him.... (read in full...)
My ex and my wife.
Q. 2001 i got with my wife she had been cheating on me the whole time i got mad and in 2003 got even i know 2 wrongs don't make a right. but I met this girl in 2003 we dated for a week slept togther 2 times she moved in and i was confused and asked her ...
A. 17 November 2010: So you've been married twice, or is this the same woman all along? I'm with your wife. I don't believe it's a good idea to befriend your past affair. It can potentially cause problems in your current marriage. If you love your wife then leave this ... (read in full...)
Can someone please explain why he keeps on being a jerk but he still keeps on contacting me?
Q. I've posted about this situation before but things keep happening and I am at a loss. So to recap, I met this guy on a dating site and we dated 2 months until he ended it with me. Things were really great at the beginning but about a month into it, ...
A. 17 November 2010: Why do you still keep in contact with him, if he's so nasty and rude to you don't give him the time of day. Block him on FB and ignore his texts. You guys just broke up, and neither can handle a friendship so it's best that you keep it at no contact ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend said we don't click, but it's not over?
Q. My Boyfriend said we dont click, but its not over? I have been dating my bf for the past 4 years. Recently he got an apart and i have been staying once in awhile until recently that i stayed there for about 2 weeks. I went to dinner with him ...
A. 17 November 2010: He's got till the end of tomorrow..generally it's permitted for guys to go 3 days max without contact. If he wants to work it out, he'll call, he'll show you effort. This isn't entirely up to you, he has to do his part. You shouldn't have to keep ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend said we don't click, but it's not over?
Q. My Boyfriend said we dont click, but its not over? I have been dating my bf for the past 4 years. Recently he got an apart and i have been staying once in awhile until recently that i stayed there for about 2 weeks. I went to dinner with him ...
A. 17 November 2010: Oh wow..I'd say it's out of curiosity. However, I would be questioning if he's actually over her. That's a big piece of the puzzle. I would say this is the last straw. If you don't see an improvement or any effort whatsoever from him in keeping this ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend said we don't click, but it's not over?
Q. My Boyfriend said we dont click, but its not over? I have been dating my bf for the past 4 years. Recently he got an apart and i have been staying once in awhile until recently that i stayed there for about 2 weeks. I went to dinner with him ...
A. 17 November 2010: How long has your relationship been on the rocks? Every relationship has it's ups and downs. I wouldn't necessarily take his comment as a break-up, more like "if we keep going the way we are then it's going to result in that". Well if it's ... (read in full...)
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