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What qualifies me to help you? Vast dating experience, especially in the LDR department, even an international on with an Aussie, broke hearts, had mine broken, been engaged once before, I know what a real friend is, seen the ugly side of divorce coming from a recently broken home myself, even went as far as to tip the odds to my side and use men only to toss them aside like yesterday's garbage like they do women, I know what it's like to almost give up hope on finding the perfect man when he's really only a few boyfriends away, and I'm starting to learn the ropes of married life. I also know a vast deal about the female and male reproductive system, and all about the mental struggles with infertility. On a side note, I'm the one who gives you tough love, I'm not on here to sugarcoat it or to tell you what you want to hear. I'm going to give it to you straight up, wouldn't you rather the truth?
-TOP 5 QUESTIONS I CAN'T STAND-
#1. Does this mean my teacher likes me?
Just because they're nice to you, offer extra help, and put a little gold star on your A+ paper doesn't mean they are in love with you.
#2. Could I be pregnant?
Have you not heard of a pregnancy test? Get off this website, and go to your local drugstore.
#3. I'm 14 and I want a baby?
Really? Me too! Oh wait I'm 28 and married. You're how old again?
#4. My husband loves porn more than me!
Maybe if you didn't let yourself go into the frumpy woman you have turned into then he wouldn't have to look at porn now would he? I recommend you get your rear to the salon for highlights, manicure, pedicure, tanning, toss the baggy tees and sweat pants for a wardrobe that fits, and a little makeup goes a long way. It's called basic woman maintenance in order to keep your man's eyes on you.
#5. Will we get back together, how can I get him to love me again?
Unfortunately, my crystal ball is broke at the moment and I just gave away the last of my love potion No. 9. Sorry.
MY GENERAL RULES OF THUMB (this should be common sense)
-No means no.
-Girls can ask out ask guys, this is a new generation.
-Unless you know sign language or are telepathic, you're going to have to talk to him/her.
-My "Don't ask, Don't tell" policy as is follows: Do not by any means volunteer your own sexual history, or ask your date/partner/wife/girlfriend their magic number (how many people they've slept with). If you find yourself being prompted to answer this question, politely tell them that's none of their business.
-Your past doesn't define who you are today. We grow, mature, age, and change as time passes.
-If you have to even ask random strangers on this website if you should have sex, then you're not ready for it.
-FWBs, fuck buddies, no strings attached, whatever you want to call it..is not a relationship don't get the 2 confused. In this case, sex=sex, not love.
-No trust=no relationship.
-It is normal for your husband/boyfriend to have friends of the opposite sex, do you not have male friends?
-LDRs can work, however they're not for everyone. You've got to have trust, communication, be faithful, and a lot of hobbies to keep yourself occupied. If you have trust issues, a case of being needy, clingy, problems staying faithful and are in a LDR don't be surprised when it doesn't work. I told you so.
- An ex is an ex for a reason. If you guys couldn't hack it as a couple the first 2 times what makes you think the third time is a charm?
-Going on a "break" is a nice way of breaking up.
-If you have sex with a man and he hasn't called you, or responded to your texts in weeks sorry to say but he was just after a piece of ass.
- Now unless he's getting blown up in Afghanistan, an on call ER doctor, or lying dead in a coffin then he's got no excuse for his poor or lack there of communication.
-You have a 12% chance of your married boyfriend leaving his wife and children.
-A man who is going through a divorce is still legally married. He's about to have an ex wife and you're wanting to get into a relationship with him? That's called a rebound.
-If you're a minor who's just found out she's pregnant, do me and everyone else on this site a favor..Tell your parents.
-Just because some one stares at you, it doesn't mean they like you. They could be staring at that booger hanging out of your nose.
-If you have a lump/bump/cyst/rash that looks green, has oozing puss, and itches like hell, but kinda looks like a STD then you had better consult your doctor. They went through 6 years of schooling and have a license to practice medicine, I think they would know better than random virtual strangers.
-Don't mix business with pleasure. Why? Because if you date your co-worker and in the event things turn sour then you're still stuck facing them 9-5, Mon-Fri. Awkward.
-No matter how hard you try, you can't change a person..they have to make that transformation themselves.
-When your boyfriend/girlfriend says they want space that doesn't mean you do the opposite and bombard them with calls/texts.
-As far as ultimatums go, don't try to make your boyfriend choose between you, his female friends, or weed. You won't like the results.
-If you're 13-17, I'm sorry but you haven't a clue what love really is. You have minimal dating experience confined to the high school dating pool which are nothing but horny boys. Their facial hair doesn't make them a man. It's only till you get out into the real world, a vast dating pool is when you learn the definition of love. So, go on thinking you and 13 year old Tommy will go on to get married, have 3 kids, and a two story house with a white picket fence. I don't expect you to listen, I'm 28 and married, what do I know? There's a reason why everyone says it won't last..because it doesn't.
-The average penis size erect is 6 inches, 4.85 inches. Women like average to even a little below average. We're not going to bust out a tape measure and measure it to make sure it's up to our standards. We just want to have sex, so enough complaining about your size let's get down and dirty.
- The legal age of consent in the U.S. is 16-18 varying oer state, in Britain it's 16. I think it's safe to say most parts of the world (unless you live in a tribe with their own form of government) the legal age to consent to sex is 16. So yes, all you minors below the age of consent are committing a crime when you engage in sexual activity. The age is set that high for a reason, you are not above the law. |
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I've fallen head over heels for a woman who is 20 years younger than me!
Q. In Love With a Younger Woman? I am hoping someone might give me sound advice. I have fallen head over heals in love with a woman of 39 who is younger than me by 20 years. I have been a happily married man for 35 years with 4 grown up children...
A. 8 March 2011: No offense, really. But I highly doubt that anyone's advice will change in 5 months.
You really can't go on having BOTH women in you life. It doesn't work that way. Unless your wife would agree to let you have this other woman in you life as ... (read in full...)
He's shy and won't call me.
Q. how long should a girl wait for a guy to call her before she loses hope in him. I told a guy to csall me abut 3 days ago, hes really shy and will IM me but not call yet....so when shud i wait til until i kno hes just nt htat interested.?...
A. 26 November 2010: Initiate conversation then. I'm starting to think he's not all that shy, but his a problem with communication. If a guy likes you he will muster up the courage to call you. It doesn't make sense that he will talk to you online, but not on the phone. ... (read in full...)
I've fallen head over heels for a woman who is 20 years younger than me!
Q. In Love With a Younger Woman? I am hoping someone might give me sound advice. I have fallen head over heals in love with a woman of 39 who is younger than me by 20 years. I have been a happily married man for 35 years with 4 grown up children...
A. 26 November 2010: What I'm understanding is that you want advice on how to keep the both of them and live in harmony..
You love your special wife and want to keep her but you love this treasure which you are hanging onto. Although you're not 100% certain her feel... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has pushed me and punched me but now he wants me back what should I do?
Q. write im 14 and the other day i was with m boyfriend and we started arguin about something stupid and he called me a slag so i pushed him backwards (which didnt move him anyway) then he punched me in the stomach and pushed me over i started crying ...
A. 26 November 2010: Doesn't matter if you're pregnant, you don't have to be with this abuser. If you stay with him, he will end up pushing you down so hard it can cause you to lose your baby. Protect you and your baby, get out of this relationship and tell your parents ... (read in full...)
What kind of dirty talk do guys like during sex?
Q. So this is gonna sound kind of dumb, buttt when you're talking dirty during a blow job or sex or whatever, what exactly do guys like to hear?...
A. 24 November 2010: Hahaha, you shouldn't be talking dirty during a blow job!
Anyways, I vote for silence..men like to hear heavy breath, their woman moaning, and the movement of intertwined bodies. ... (read in full...)
Wait to get back together with ex or try a new path?
Q. hi I want to get back with my ex, my ex wants to get back with me after i have made clear changes in my life, she has made effort to try and fix some problems with herself. There are a few things in the way, everyone is telling me she is no...
A. 24 November 2010: Why go down a path you've already been down before? You already know what will happen. Everyone telling you she is no good, should tell you something. She also doesn't know if her feeling for you are genuine..Pay attention to the warning signs! ... (read in full...)
Why wont he date me?
Q. I am seeing this guy but we are not dating. We have been seeing eachother for about 3 months now and recently talked about dating. He does not have a job and is on parole. He says he isn't stable enough for a relationship for those reasons. I have ...
A. 24 November 2010: Perhaps you're not ready for a relationship either..Goodness.
If he says he's not ready for a relationship for those valid reasons then he means what he says. The man just left the big house of where he hasn't seen the light of day and lived in... (read in full...)
Is she hinting at something?
Q. today i was hanging out with this girl watching TV at her house when this Kays jewelry commercial comes on and as soon as it says "get that special someone a special gift for christmas" or whatever and then they sing "every kiss begins with KAY!" ...
A. 24 November 2010: If you guys have been dating for a year or 2 then I'd say yeah she's trying to tell you what's on her Christmas list. Seeing as you guys aren't even together, NO it's not a sign she's thinking about the future. Women may move fast but not that fast. ... (read in full...)
I don't want to be jealous of him texting other girls anymore, how do I stop this?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years. He has a very productive life and works around a lot of girls. He was caught at the begining of our relationship texting girls innapropriately, and he continues. All we do is argue, but i don't ...
A. 24 November 2010: He may have stopped the inappropriate texts now, but you're going mad looking at his phone to see if he's going to start up again. Due to his untrustworthiness, you now have trust issues. There's no compromise, either he says he's going to stop ... (read in full...)
How do I approach my mum about going onto birth control?
Q. i want to ask my mam to go on bithcontrol how can i aproch her ? xx...
A. 24 November 2010: Why do you want birth control? I applaud you for being responsible, however you are under the age of legal consent to sex/sexual activity in UK. It's 16, so it's illegal for you to have any kind of sex. I suggest waiting till you are of age which is ... (read in full...)
What happens in Vegas, stays in Vegas!
Q. My boyfriend is going to Las Vegas this upcoming Thanksgiving weekend. He has only gone on a few trips without me,but NEVER to a place like Las Vegas." Whatever happens in Vegas,stays in Vegas." I am horrified of this quote. He is going with his ...
A. 24 November 2010: There's nothing you can do about it, he's going with his older sister and her husband plus some of his friends will be there. It doesn't mean he's going to be hanging out with them at all times. If you trust your boyfriend then there should be no ... (read in full...)
I read his email, found out he cheated and now he says he doesn't trust me!
Q. My boyfriend was away on course for 2 months in a different city. He was drinking a lot, very stressed and meet an old female friend he know 6 years ago on the course. When he arrived home, he very distance too me. My gut told me something happen .I ...
A. 24 November 2010: Call me crazy but I think the fact that he cheated would hurt worse and that would make it easier to walk away.
Just because he was drunk and stressed doesn't give him the green light to have an affair. He's the one who should be apologiz... (read in full...)
Is there any way to make her prefer me over him?
Q. Hi I have just been through the single most painful rejection of my life. The girl who rejected me has been a good friend since I moved here. She has been the only person that I have been able to open up to and has helped me through some tough ...
A. 23 November 2010: Unfortunately there's no way to her persuade her...She was honest and let you down as gently as she could. There's nothing you can do or say except for yo keep it together and continue being her friend. Everyone gets rejected in life, whether it's ... (read in full...)
Should I get mum and dad tattooed onto my inner wrist
Q. should i get my mum and dads name tattooed onto my inner wrist okay i was thinking mum on my right wrist and dad on my left do you think this will look okay ? or do you think it would look better with mummy and daddy ?...
A. 23 November 2010: Generally, it's not a good idea to get anyone's name tattooed on you. One of my friend's has a portrait of her deceased mother on her shoulder. You also might want to rethink the location of your tattoos, when you get older some some jobs aren't ... (read in full...)
What cologne should I get my boyfriend for christmas?
Q. Not really a relationship question as such but something most people will have an opinion on I hope. I want to get my boyfriend some cologne as part of his xmas present, but I'm completely clueless when it's comes to male fragrance and was hoping ...
A. 23 November 2010: You can't go wrong with anything Armani..but take a friend with you so you're not huffing too much perfume by yourself. To add to Konstantine's post if you're going to go the Abercrombie route..pick Fierce that's what they spray around the store.... (read in full...)
I can decide what gift to get boyfriend for Christmas!
Q. HELP ME!! Me and my boyfriend have been going out for about a month and i have no idea of what to get him for christmas. He loves to read but I dont want to get him a book because i dont know if he's already read it or even if he's heard of it. He ...
A. 23 November 2010: Then get him a couple of zombie movies. I like Dawn of the Dead, 28 days later, and 28 weeks later. Also it couldn't hurt to ask him what he wants for Christmas! Sounds like a bright idea to me.... (read in full...)
Was what I did as bad as what she did?
Q. Ok, So I am struggling with my emotions on this issue. So me and my girlfriend are both Christians and we have been dating in an exclusive committed relationship for 3 years. About about a 1 year ago or so I went to an Asian massage parlor and g...
A. 23 November 2010: YES! The only difference is you paid for a sexual favor with a little feeling up, while she didn't have to pay for sex. What you did is called prostitution..I'm sure for a hefty price you could have had sex with her on the massage table.
How d... (read in full...)
I took time off work to be with her, but she wants to be elsewhere
Q. my girlfriends birthday is coming up and we made plans to hang out on the weekend before it a month ago. Her friend invited her to go to the beach free of charge and they would be leaving the day before thanksgiving and coming back the sunday after. ...
A. 23 November 2010: Why can't you go with them? I would remind her you guys made prior engagements a month ago..also you would like to spend time with them and your family on Thanksgiving. It's an important holiday that should be spent with family. Or you could let her ... (read in full...)
His controlling female best friend is finally out of the picture, but I'm not sure if I trust him!
Q. My boyfriend had a best friend that is a girl he has been friends with since high school. Although they never dated he told me that he was once in love with her and she is really important to him. She is from his hometown and I have never met her ...
A. 23 November 2010: Let your boyfriend REGAIN the trust..your past has nothing to do with him. This is now, and with him. She's gone and out of the picture. Work on giving him the benefit of the doubt! There's no secret for overcoming trust issues except for to let it ... (read in full...)
He has a girlfriend, yet he sent me a picture of his member!
Q. So, theres this guy i like. We met two years ago, and three weeks ago we started talking again. He said he was interested in me. He was having problems with this girl he was with for 10 months. They broke up and he wanted me to be his ...
A. 23 November 2010: He sent you a pic of his penis? How tacky. No, he's taken. Don't put yourself in the "other girl" position. Because that's all you'll ever be. Move on to a man who wants to date you and not use you for sex.... (read in full...)
I don't know if I should believe my boyfriend or not?
Q. Hello every one well my boy friend and I have been for two years and we have a baby together and I found out that he hAs twitter and facebook and etc... Well he tells me that he doesn't get in it but I don't believe him so what should i do should I ...
A. 23 November 2010: So what if he has Facebook and Twitter accounts? I have a Twitter but don't know my password, but I'm an avid Facebook user. He could very well be telling the truth. Take his word for it. ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend says I need "more edge". What does this mean?
Q. My gf and i got together its been a month. We got along great and all but something has been bothering her. She hinted that I "need more edge". What exactly does this mean? I guess you can say I'm a nice guy, I treat her super well. So when she told ...
A. 23 November 2010: It could be you're not what she wants. Although at that age girls hardly know what they want. The bad boy looks so appealing but he's the one who breaks hearts and treats girls badly. Be yourself, women want the nice guy.... (read in full...)
She I ask for her back at her housewarming party?
Q. I broke up with my ex 4 months ago. We had been together three years and were very close - being each other's first loves. I decided to end it as I was moving town for a year (2 hours away) and was thinking I'm too young to be in somethingthis ...
A. 23 November 2010: So sorry posters I mean "Should" instead of "She".
Since you guys broke up on good terms there's no reason as to why you two can't get back together. You have to take it slow, it's not just going to go back to how it was in a snap. Ease back int... (read in full...)
Does a girl always fall in love with the guy she loses her virginity to?
Q. is it true that when a girl loses her virginity that the boy/man she loses it to she kind of falls in love with him?...
A. 23 November 2010: No..as for the unfortunate rape victims that's a "hell no". For the rest of the women/teens you have a sort of attachment to your first. They will always be the one who took your virginity. ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend says I need "more edge". What does this mean?
Q. My gf and i got together its been a month. We got along great and all but something has been bothering her. She hinted that I "need more edge". What exactly does this mean? I guess you can say I'm a nice guy, I treat her super well. So when she told ...
A. 23 November 2010: Sounds like she's asking you to be a bad boy, or take risks, be a little daring than playing it safe at all times.
I say stay as you are, don't try to be someone you're not. If you want to wait to have sex, then wait that's your choice. If you'r... (read in full...)
What can I do to stay occupied while he's in jail?
Q. My man went into jail today for 30 days. I have no clue what to do to keep my mind occupied. We did just start dating but we hit it off really well and we are really into each other. I am trying to think of things to do so i wont regret doing ...
A. 23 November 2010: Go visit his mom..keep each other company. Take up hobbies, extra hours at work, offer to baby sit nieces/nephews, cousins, sign up for school...etc. ... (read in full...)
What cologne should I get my boyfriend for christmas?
Q. Not really a relationship question as such but something most people will have an opinion on I hope. I want to get my boyfriend some cologne as part of his xmas present, but I'm completely clueless when it's comes to male fragrance and was hoping ...
A. 23 November 2010: Any cologne by True Religion, Lacoste. I also love Armani Code, mmmm.
Some guys like Acqua di Gio but I think it reeks. ... (read in full...)
What's the reasoning behind guys being players?
Q. There's this guy. From the first time girls started paying him attention he's had multiple female "friends" who he's treated as much more than friends. Throughout all this time he also had long-term girlfriends, the first one almost three years and ...
A. 23 November 2010: Or there's the players that have been previously burned so badly by women, or that one girl and will go on taking out their revenge on any women that cross their path from here on out. Having lots of one night stands, and not taking names or call ... (read in full...)
How should I react to this?
Q. I looked up my boyfriend's surfing history before and found out he did things he promised not to and swore he wasn't doing. After I confronted him about it he simply made sure all the surfing history is never stored and said it was "to avoid the ...
A. 23 November 2010: Why were you going through his surfing history in the first place?
If it's not there for you to go through, then what's the problem? Out of sight, out of mind. Why not give him the benefit of the doubt?... (read in full...)
Would you cheat on a guy you were falling for just to have some "closure sex?"
Q. I'm curious what goes on in a woman's mind when she is dating a guy she claims to love, but still has feelings for a former lover whom she only had sex with and maybe a slight friendship. I've had several relationships where I found out some time ...
A. 23 November 2010: I don't do closure sex..it just messes with your emotions and mine. It's a caught up heat of the moment former lovers piece of rear at that time. All it is is just sex with confused emotions. For the women that engage in that, it's easy for them to ... (read in full...)
I caught my sister masturbating
Q. I walked into my younger sisters room to get her downstairs for lunch nd i saw her in her bed nude masturbaiting with a gel bottle and i dont know if i should tell mum and dad?...
A. 23 November 2010: I bet she locks her door from now on..Do knock on your sister's door, you don't want to walk in on that again or her changing. ... (read in full...)
He's shy and won't call me.
Q. how long should a girl wait for a guy to call her before she loses hope in him. I told a guy to csall me abut 3 days ago, hes really shy and will IM me but not call yet....so when shud i wait til until i kno hes just nt htat interested.?...
A. 23 November 2010: Drop by Saturday..see what happens and his valid reason (if he has one) for not calling. ... (read in full...)
We were going strong until I got her pregnant!
Q. My girlfriend and i have being going strong for about 2 years now and i just got her pregnant. her parents know but mine don't and they are kinda strict on the opposite sex topic...and we also kept it a secret from all of our friends. what can i do?...
A. 23 November 2010: In that case you can tell them together...since she's already told her parents.... (read in full...)
We were going strong until I got her pregnant!
Q. My girlfriend and i have being going strong for about 2 years now and i just got her pregnant. her parents know but mine don't and they are kinda strict on the opposite sex topic...and we also kept it a secret from all of our friends. what can i do?...
A. 23 November 2010: You had better tell your parents before she starts showing..Let her tell her own parents, so her father doesn't try to strangle you. That way they can help her discuss her options. Urge her to tell her parents right away, they'll know once she ... (read in full...)
I've fallen head over heels for a woman who is 20 years younger than me!
Q. In Love With a Younger Woman? I am hoping someone might give me sound advice. I have fallen head over heals in love with a woman of 39 who is younger than me by 20 years. I have been a happily married man for 35 years with 4 grown up children...
A. 23 November 2010: After 35 years of marriage what is it lacking for you to look at this younger woman?
If you don't want to hurt your wife then don't..Don't take this friendship any further, it can never go any further if you want to keep your special wife. Wh... (read in full...)
One guy, two friends..who gets him?
Q. I don't know what to do! like the same guy my best friend likes. I always flirt with him and he flirts back. Also, my friend wants my help to have him ask her out. I don't know what I'm getting myself into? Help?...
A. 23 November 2010: Well you both like the same guy, it happens. How much do you really like this guy, enough to tear your friendship apart?
Let's see what could happen..
You help ask out this guy for your friend and he turns out to like her, they go out. Or you ... (read in full...)
Would this be considered cheating?
Q. Ok there is this guy i really like but he says he want to be just friends. I understand that, he takes up most of my life and we do "stuff" together and he says i am free to date who i want. So i met this dude online and he is coming to visit me ...
A. 23 November 2010: Easy, sometimes all you have to do is ignore his calls and they get the idea if you don't feel like being confrontational. Although, you may have a guy who doesn't get it so it's best to be clear..that you're just not interested. ... (read in full...)
I want to make a sex tape!
Q. Would my boyfriend think its weird if i bring up us having sex an video tapeing it for us to watch some time? Also is it weird to watch your self have sex or will he think its weird watching it? Thanks....
A. 23 November 2010: I don't think it's weird and I don't think he'll be against it (he's a guy). With that being said, I don't think it's a good idea. Sex tapes have a tendency of getting out leaking onto the internet etc., so I suggest if you do make one..keep the ... (read in full...)
My friend's in a LDR but she had anal sex with a stranger!
Q. hello everyone. a friend of mine has a question. she is in a long distance relationship. she didn't want to go out and have vaginal sex with a stranger so instead she had anal sex with a condom. it didn't mean anything so she is wondering if she ...
A. 23 November 2010: Regardless if it was protected anal or if meant nothing, that doesn't justify the fact that she cheated. She obviously cannot handle a LDR if she decided to cheat with a random stranger. I suggest that she come clean to her boyfriend and let him ... (read in full...)
Why won't he apologize for cheating?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for 4 1/2 years. Eight months into our relationship he cheated on me and I forgave him. Shortly after that we moved in together and everything was good until 4 months ago.I found out he cheated again. He will not talk ...
A. 23 November 2010: Because he's not sorry. He wasn't sorry the first or the second time. I suggest you break up with him so there won't be a third time.... (read in full...)
Is there any chance in me being with this girl?
Q. So i have preety hard one I like one girl in my class in the university. She is very very beautiful. So now my real problem. I am very very shy and i realy hardly begin a conversation of any kind. It s not that i am a computer geek or somethi...
A. 23 November 2010: You stand a chance if you try to talk to her. Gotta overcome that shyness, and start with "hi". Sit next to her in class, in the common area, library etc..follow her around a bit so you can see her schedule and "accidentally" bump into her. ... (read in full...)
Would this be considered cheating?
Q. Ok there is this guy i really like but he says he want to be just friends. I understand that, he takes up most of my life and we do "stuff" together and he says i am free to date who i want. So i met this dude online and he is coming to visit me ...
A. 23 November 2010: You're 18-21 an adult that is perfectly capable of making her decisions. That is your stepfather's belief, not yours. He doesn't need to be up to date on your love/sex life.... (read in full...)
Would this be considered cheating?
Q. Ok there is this guy i really like but he says he want to be just friends. I understand that, he takes up most of my life and we do "stuff" together and he says i am free to date who i want. So i met this dude online and he is coming to visit me ...
A. 23 November 2010: No because you're not bound in a FWBs. FWBs is just sex with no strings attached..no emotion, no obligations to each other. You're free to do and see whomever you please. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has pushed me and punched me but now he wants me back what should I do?
Q. write im 14 and the other day i was with m boyfriend and we started arguin about something stupid and he called me a slag so i pushed him backwards (which didnt move him anyway) then he punched me in the stomach and pushed me over i started crying ...
A. 23 November 2010: Don't accept his apology and report him right away to your guidance counselor or teacher. That is called PHYSICAL ABUSE. He is not sorry and he WILL hurt you again.... (read in full...)
How do you end a long distance relationship?
Q. I've been fighting with my at-home boyfriend like cats and dogs for a week now, and i really don't think i want to be with him anymore. Like he's coming to visit tomorrow for ten days and I really don't want him too. But how do i end it?? he's a ...
A. 23 November 2010: Tell him tonite it's over, otherwise it will be harder to do it to his face. Break up with him over the phone, in a text, email, even change your status on Facebook (that one cracks me up)..the sooner you tell him it's done the better. Then proceed ... (read in full...)
He's shy and won't call me.
Q. how long should a girl wait for a guy to call her before she loses hope in him. I told a guy to csall me abut 3 days ago, hes really shy and will IM me but not call yet....so when shud i wait til until i kno hes just nt htat interested.?...
A. 22 November 2010: Agreed no call in 3 days, then I give up..Not without making at least one phone call myself. Call him, he may want to call you but isn't sure what to say. ... (read in full...)
His controlling female best friend is finally out of the picture, but I'm not sure if I trust him!
Q. My boyfriend had a best friend that is a girl he has been friends with since high school. Although they never dated he told me that he was once in love with her and she is really important to him. She is from his hometown and I have never met her ...
A. 22 November 2010: Agreed she needed to go, that was an unhealthy friendship they had. I wonder what he meant by that if he could go back he would do it differently.
Anyways, why don't you trust him? Because he was once in love with her and she's important to him o... (read in full...)
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