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What qualifies me to help you? Vast dating experience, especially in the LDR department, even an international on with an Aussie, broke hearts, had mine broken, been engaged once before, I know what a real friend is, seen the ugly side of divorce coming from a recently broken home myself, even went as far as to tip the odds to my side and use men only to toss them aside like yesterday's garbage like they do women, I know what it's like to almost give up hope on finding the perfect man when he's really only a few boyfriends away, and I'm starting to learn the ropes of married life. I also know a vast deal about the female and male reproductive system, and all about the mental struggles with infertility. On a side note, I'm the one who gives you tough love, I'm not on here to sugarcoat it or to tell you what you want to hear. I'm going to give it to you straight up, wouldn't you rather the truth?
-TOP 5 QUESTIONS I CAN'T STAND-
#1. Does this mean my teacher likes me?
Just because they're nice to you, offer extra help, and put a little gold star on your A+ paper doesn't mean they are in love with you.
#2. Could I be pregnant?
Have you not heard of a pregnancy test? Get off this website, and go to your local drugstore.
#3. I'm 14 and I want a baby?
Really? Me too! Oh wait I'm 28 and married. You're how old again?
#4. My husband loves porn more than me!
Maybe if you didn't let yourself go into the frumpy woman you have turned into then he wouldn't have to look at porn now would he? I recommend you get your rear to the salon for highlights, manicure, pedicure, tanning, toss the baggy tees and sweat pants for a wardrobe that fits, and a little makeup goes a long way. It's called basic woman maintenance in order to keep your man's eyes on you.
#5. Will we get back together, how can I get him to love me again?
Unfortunately, my crystal ball is broke at the moment and I just gave away the last of my love potion No. 9. Sorry.
MY GENERAL RULES OF THUMB (this should be common sense)
-No means no.
-Girls can ask out ask guys, this is a new generation.
-Unless you know sign language or are telepathic, you're going to have to talk to him/her.
-My "Don't ask, Don't tell" policy as is follows: Do not by any means volunteer your own sexual history, or ask your date/partner/wife/girlfriend their magic number (how many people they've slept with). If you find yourself being prompted to answer this question, politely tell them that's none of their business.
-Your past doesn't define who you are today. We grow, mature, age, and change as time passes.
-If you have to even ask random strangers on this website if you should have sex, then you're not ready for it.
-FWBs, fuck buddies, no strings attached, whatever you want to call it..is not a relationship don't get the 2 confused. In this case, sex=sex, not love.
-No trust=no relationship.
-It is normal for your husband/boyfriend to have friends of the opposite sex, do you not have male friends?
-LDRs can work, however they're not for everyone. You've got to have trust, communication, be faithful, and a lot of hobbies to keep yourself occupied. If you have trust issues, a case of being needy, clingy, problems staying faithful and are in a LDR don't be surprised when it doesn't work. I told you so.
- An ex is an ex for a reason. If you guys couldn't hack it as a couple the first 2 times what makes you think the third time is a charm?
-Going on a "break" is a nice way of breaking up.
-If you have sex with a man and he hasn't called you, or responded to your texts in weeks sorry to say but he was just after a piece of ass.
- Now unless he's getting blown up in Afghanistan, an on call ER doctor, or lying dead in a coffin then he's got no excuse for his poor or lack there of communication.
-You have a 12% chance of your married boyfriend leaving his wife and children.
-A man who is going through a divorce is still legally married. He's about to have an ex wife and you're wanting to get into a relationship with him? That's called a rebound.
-If you're a minor who's just found out she's pregnant, do me and everyone else on this site a favor..Tell your parents.
-Just because some one stares at you, it doesn't mean they like you. They could be staring at that booger hanging out of your nose.
-If you have a lump/bump/cyst/rash that looks green, has oozing puss, and itches like hell, but kinda looks like a STD then you had better consult your doctor. They went through 6 years of schooling and have a license to practice medicine, I think they would know better than random virtual strangers.
-Don't mix business with pleasure. Why? Because if you date your co-worker and in the event things turn sour then you're still stuck facing them 9-5, Mon-Fri. Awkward.
-No matter how hard you try, you can't change a person..they have to make that transformation themselves.
-When your boyfriend/girlfriend says they want space that doesn't mean you do the opposite and bombard them with calls/texts.
-As far as ultimatums go, don't try to make your boyfriend choose between you, his female friends, or weed. You won't like the results.
-If you're 13-17, I'm sorry but you haven't a clue what love really is. You have minimal dating experience confined to the high school dating pool which are nothing but horny boys. Their facial hair doesn't make them a man. It's only till you get out into the real world, a vast dating pool is when you learn the definition of love. So, go on thinking you and 13 year old Tommy will go on to get married, have 3 kids, and a two story house with a white picket fence. I don't expect you to listen, I'm 28 and married, what do I know? There's a reason why everyone says it won't last..because it doesn't.
-The average penis size erect is 6 inches, 4.85 inches. Women like average to even a little below average. We're not going to bust out a tape measure and measure it to make sure it's up to our standards. We just want to have sex, so enough complaining about your size let's get down and dirty.
- The legal age of consent in the U.S. is 16-18 varying oer state, in Britain it's 16. I think it's safe to say most parts of the world (unless you live in a tribe with their own form of government) the legal age to consent to sex is 16. So yes, all you minors below the age of consent are committing a crime when you engage in sexual activity. The age is set that high for a reason, you are not above the law. |
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Is 4 weeks without any contact a sign that its totally over???
Q. Hey: My girlfriend of two years broke up with me roughly 10 weeks ago and we have been NC for just shy of 4 weeks. She broke up with me because I was studying and working full time for my med boards for the 5 months prior and wasn't able to g...
A. 14 December 2010: That's up to you, if you're doing great at dating and moving forward but yet still have deep feelings for her, I'd let it go...stick with the NC. Just because she contacts you, it doesn't mean she wants to get back together. Basically, she's ... (read in full...)
Thinking of leaving my family for another woman.
Q. Should I do it? Here's the background: I'm a married man, 40 years old, with 2 kids. Had an affair with a 52 year old woman. Fell in love. We broke it off because the wife was getting suspicious and the other woman was very concerned about ...
A. 1 December 2010: Stay married because you LOVE your wife...not because you think staying will benefit the children. Trust me it doesn't, I should know. Ultimately, you're going to make your own decision just beware every action has a consequence, this one will have ... (read in full...)
Why is it so bad someone my age has sex?
Q. Hi, I was thinking today, why is it so bad someone my age has sex? I assure you I haven't but I was talking to my mom and she said as long as you are responsible(using multiple forms of birth control) and had sex with someone you trusted and knew ...
A. 1 December 2010: If it is more power to you. Like I said not trying to knock you down or argue with you, but you will get what I mean when you're in your 20s. I don't expect you to understand me. But you are mature for your age..and it's nice to hear of a 13-15 not ... (read in full...)
Why is it so bad someone my age has sex?
Q. Hi, I was thinking today, why is it so bad someone my age has sex? I assure you I haven't but I was talking to my mom and she said as long as you are responsible(using multiple forms of birth control) and had sex with someone you trusted and knew ...
A. 30 November 2010: There's a big difference between being in love with someone versus infatuation. At your age and limited dating experience, it's when you get a taste of the real world and the bigger dating pool is when you get an understanding of real love. Right ... (read in full...)
13, pregnant and don't know what to do...
Q. hi I'm 13 and pregnant, I'm scared, dunno what to do and not sure who the dad is! Only my best friend knows, not sure what to do... its been 2 months now I'm scared HELPPPP...
A. 30 November 2010: If you want to have an abortion on the NHS, you might find it beneficial to discuss options with a health professional. You will need a referral from two doctors who have to agree that the requirements of the Abortion Act 1967 have been met.
U... (read in full...)
My curfew is causing problems!
Q. What is going on? Should I break up with him? We have been dating for nearly 5 months. I don't want to say that our relationship is perfect but we hadn't been through any dramas or fights. He is a year older than me, much more mature but has a...
A. 30 November 2010: What's really the problem here? Is it the communication, the fact that you feel like you're putting more in than you're getting in return? From your post it sounds like much more than just a strict curfew.
Seeing as your 18-21, 6 and 9 on the week... (read in full...)
Uh, just ask me out already!
Q. Okay, I've liked this guy for months now, and I'm positive he likes me back. We have a few classes together and the same extra curriculars, and we're pretty good friends. Here's why I think he likes me: I always seem to catch him staring at me. He ...
A. 30 November 2010: If you think he likes you then why don't you take charge and ask him out yourself? Don't you think if he liked you, he would have asked you out months ago? Just a thought.... (read in full...)
Engagement ring for Christmas..good or bad idea?
Q. So I am considering giving my lady an engagement ring for christmas, is this a good or a bad idea. I am sure she will say yes, but didn't know if this was an acceptable gift or not. If I do, I will wrap the ring box, and inside the box put a li...
A. 30 November 2010: That sounds sweet and very creative. An engagement ring for Christmas is never a bad idea!... (read in full...)
She's been moody and now isn't texting me back. Help me please!
Q. need help here guys. there is this girl that i like. we are both in college levels but in different schools. she is pure korean and im half chinese. we always talk a lot everyday text and call. and we've been on a date. watching movies and having ...
A. 30 November 2010: Instead of constantly asking her what's wrong when she clearly doesn't want to talk about it, then it's a good idea for you to back off of her. I know you have good intentions and want to cheer her up, but that's the last thing she wants right now. ... (read in full...)
Why is it so bad someone my age has sex?
Q. Hi, I was thinking today, why is it so bad someone my age has sex? I assure you I haven't but I was talking to my mom and she said as long as you are responsible(using multiple forms of birth control) and had sex with someone you trusted and knew ...
A. 30 November 2010: Sex isn't wrong nor is it a sin. The reason why someone your age cannot consent to sex is because of the laws intact. Legal age of consent is 16-18 varies per state. At your age you are considered a child, a minor who's parents are held responsible ... (read in full...)
Thinking of leaving my family for another woman.
Q. Should I do it? Here's the background: I'm a married man, 40 years old, with 2 kids. Had an affair with a 52 year old woman. Fell in love. We broke it off because the wife was getting suspicious and the other woman was very concerned about ...
A. 30 November 2010: Ask your wife for a divorce..you don't love her, counseling was a failed attempt. Basically, you're only bound to her by your children. You're children are too young to understand a divorce and it will be better for them in the long run to grow up ... (read in full...)
Need advice about pictures to send to boyfriend or not???
Q. I have a problem because i'm rather inexperienced in this issue. My boyfriend lives overseas, and his birthday is coming up. I want to send him something personal. So pictures. But i don't know what the pictures should be of, or poses, like i do...
A. 30 November 2010: It's a good idea to keep your clothes on...Nude pictures are a bad idea, and in the wrong hands they can leak out onto the internet for all to see. Let's not take that risk. I say go for the pin-up, burlesque look. That is a very sexy, a little ... (read in full...)
Crushing on my dentist!!!
Q. i went to a dentist, he is very beautiful and i am feeling that i am attracted to him. I am 15 years old, i am too young he is older than me by at least 10 years. But his nurse told me that i am the only one he jokes with . I am telling myself that ...
A. 30 November 2010: You have a crush on him so that's why you're paying attention to every little detail, making something of nothing. He's your dentist, he's making conversation. Your friends are 13-15, I doubt they have loads of experience with doctors. No, your ... (read in full...)
My roomate's suggestion makes me really uncomfortable! How do I deal with this?
Q. Hi. I have a random question not related to love. My roommate has a boyfriend and she has asked me if he could stay in the room with us (she said they would not do anything.) At first I told her I was ok with it, but then I told her honestly it ...
A. 30 November 2010: MMM..You already agreed he could stay. If she already told him he could stay, it would be rather inconvenient to take that back. Is it just for the weekend? Hotels may be expensive in your area, and he may not want to spend the money. At least she's ... (read in full...)
Girls, what turns you off?
Q. Girls what is a major turn off about a guy? Is it appearance? Smell? What?...
A. 30 November 2010: 11. Has bad manners in general. I don't expect him to remember to keep his elbows off the table but I expect him to say "please and thank you".... (read in full...)
Girls, what turns you off?
Q. Girls what is a major turn off about a guy? Is it appearance? Smell? What?...
A. 30 November 2010: Not in any particular order...
1. Jacked up crooked teeth
2. Bad breath
3. Bad hygiene in general
4. Chews with his mouth open.
5. Too much hair gel to where it's flaking off or has that crusty look.
6. Rudeness
7. Smokes or chews tobacco.
... (read in full...)
13, pregnant and don't know what to do...
Q. hi I'm 13 and pregnant, I'm scared, dunno what to do and not sure who the dad is! Only my best friend knows, not sure what to do... its been 2 months now I'm scared HELPPPP...
A. 29 November 2010: For Britain, you have until the 18th week to have an abortion that's for the approved methods. Obviously the sooner the better..
Now, if your thinking abortion..they are costly so are you going to pay for it? They're not free. Also the age is 1... (read in full...)
Should I get my ex a Christmas and a birthday gift?
Q. I was just wanting an opinion about getting an ex girlfriend a present for her birthday and gift for Christmas (her b-day is early in the month and then I was just thinking getting her something small for Christmas). She has a boyfriend and I ...
A. 29 November 2010: Bad idea. You didn't like it when guys sent her gifts when you were with her, so it would be hypocritical for you to do that. I suggest you skip her on your Christmas list, and spend the extra money on a gift for yourself. Also, it couldn't hurt to ... (read in full...)
13, pregnant and don't know what to do...
Q. hi I'm 13 and pregnant, I'm scared, dunno what to do and not sure who the dad is! Only my best friend knows, not sure what to do... its been 2 months now I'm scared HELPPPP...
A. 29 November 2010: We just told you what to do OP, you're a minor and in your parents care. How do you know how far along you are, you don't know who the father is, and you haven't received any prenatal care? You HAVE to tell them your are pregnant! What about your ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend proposed a day after my 16th birthday!
Q. please help i am a 16 year old school girl in the uk so i am in a relationship with my boyfriend of 2 years who is 4 years older that i am. any ways my parents have known about us since the start but for my 16 th birthday he told me he wanted to...
A. 28 November 2010: If you have to ask those questions then you're not ready for marriage. Everyone is different. You don't even know if this is the guy you want or are going to be with for the rest of your life.The age I recommend is when you're completely finished ... (read in full...)
I always fall into the friend zone!
Q. I have a lot of close female friends. The problem is that I meet them, like them, and then we become really close friends and nothing more. It rarely fails. Although I'd like something more than friends in the beginning, I wouldn't change my ...
A. 28 November 2010: Once women place you in the friend zone, you can't get out of it. I can't exactly tell from your post alone what you're doing to be placed in it..Women place guys in the friend zone for numerous reasons:
-they're not attracted or interested but you'... (read in full...)
Was she too loose from the booze?
Q. I'm recently divorced. I was at a party in which a former woman friend of my x wife and I was there. This woman became drunk. I drove her home and helped her to the front door of her house. She started kissing and groping me. I told her she was too ...
A. 28 November 2010: Since her judgement was impaired you can't really conclude that she's into you. If she has come on to you when she is sober, then yes I would say she's interested.... (read in full...)
I feel like this girl is going to take him away from me!
Q. so this boy likes me and i like him. we both know that we like each other, but this girl that he dated before, keeps on bugging our "starting relationship" periods, and when she is around, i feel like she will take him away from me, what should i ...
A. 28 November 2010: Have a nice little chat with her and tell her to back off. Then step your game up if she keeps on interfering. However, if you guys have been talking a while and he hasn't made it official and this girl keeps coming about then you have to ask ... (read in full...)
I have feelings for my manager, does he like me too?
Q. I work in a bookshop, and I've developed a real crush on the assistant manager there. He's 35, so 10 years older than me (although I'm mature for my age and tend to like older people) and also my immediate superior so I don't know if it would be a ...
A. 28 November 2010: If you're mature for your age then you already know it's a BAD idea to come on to your assistant manager and fraternize with them outside of the work place. Each company/work place has it's own set of rules. Even though it may be a small bookshop ... (read in full...)
How many texts/calls a day is considered too needy or clingy?
Q. What is considered too needy or clingy? How many phone calls/texts a day? And how much can we expect phone calls/texts/communication back from a person without expecting too much?...
A. 28 November 2010: I do it in 3's. If I text a guy, and he doesn't get back to me but a hour later(hate that)...I send no more than 3 texts in a row..Just a little friendly reminder, that hello I'm trying to keep up a texting conversation. No more than 3 calls a day. ... (read in full...)
I'm wondering if my teacher is in love with me?
Q. I'm in love with my teacher who is of the same sex and 15 years older than me. She pays alot of attention to me during school hours and outside school hours. She winks at me and grins at me alot and she talks to me in a different voice compared to ...
A. 28 November 2010: Just politely decline, tell her you and your mom are going shopping that day. Make up an excuse. You're already busy..she's your teacher, she knows very well that she shouldn't be asking you to "hang out" outside of school. ... (read in full...)
Why does my step mom hate me?
Q. Why does my step mom hate me? She's been married to my dad for almost five years and they have been together since I was nine. Up until I was thirteen she seemed to be okay with me, but after that she began to get real horrid. Continuously now she ...
A. 28 November 2010: Cinderella, Cinderella...you've got an evil stepmother.
She's probably not that bad, just trying to do her motherly duties in staying on your bum. It also sounds like she wears the pants in the marriage, if your father is letting her parent y... (read in full...)
Could this be a STD rash?
Q. I have a small purple bruise lookin rash on my penis I'm worried it's an STD me and my gf r each others first should I be worried or is it nothing?...
A. 28 November 2010: Maybe an allergic reaction maybe from a condom, or lubrication if you have used those..It's best to consult your doctor so they can take a look at it.... (read in full...)
What does his sister have against me? She's never even met me!
Q. I met my boyfriend back in August. We are 20 years apart. One night back in the summer when we were supposed to hang out, he was with his sister and I guess told her he had plans and she asked with who and he told her about me and she now hates me. ...
A. 28 November 2010: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-know-this-sounds-stupid-but-i-would.html
I knew you sounded familiar. However, in your last post you said you were 10 years apart not 20 years apart. So which is it? So I'm going to guess that's what she has ... (read in full...)
I'm wondering if my teacher is in love with me?
Q. I'm in love with my teacher who is of the same sex and 15 years older than me. She pays alot of attention to me during school hours and outside school hours. She winks at me and grins at me alot and she talks to me in a different voice compared to ...
A. 28 November 2010: No, you're not allowed to hang out with teachers outside of school. They are not like your friends, they are adults that are responsible for teaching you. Actually, her asking you to get coffee is inappropriate and against school policy. She could ... (read in full...)
13, pregnant and don't know what to do...
Q. hi I'm 13 and pregnant, I'm scared, dunno what to do and not sure who the dad is! Only my best friend knows, not sure what to do... its been 2 months now I'm scared HELPPPP...
A. 27 November 2010: No one can answer that question for you, it's your decision. That's why you need to tell your parents right away so they can discuss your options and help you make the right decision for you.
No where in Cerebus's did he say he thinks you shou... (read in full...)
Why is this considered cheating?
Q. hello i've posted a question before but never got a clear answer why because i failed to make it clear. now heres my situation my gf absolutely believes i cheated because of the following... 1) i was involved with 2 of my friends webcam porn. he w...
A. 27 November 2010: Her ADHD and her irregular periods have nothing to do with her insecurities. Now you're just making excuses for her. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend want's to go on a sexual fast!
Q. Before I ask any question here is my back story: I have been dating my boyfriend two years now, however after our 6 month mark he cheated, more than once, I took him back because I do love him and I really wanted to make it work. Its been about a...
A. 27 November 2010: He shows you no affection period, basically you're the bread winner and his roommate. Is the lease in your name I'm assuming? Well kick him out. ... (read in full...)
I only asked her out on a date because it was a bet, now I'm having trouble brushing her off!
Q. I've gotten myself into a fix and I need help as soon as possible. A few months ago, a friend and I made a bet. She told me that if I could get this girl's attention and ask her out on a date, I would win some money from her. Let's call this ...
A. 27 November 2010: Destroy your friendship? You can't stand the girl and you used her for a way to get cash. Not a very good friend you are. So your bet backfired, I bet you'll never play with people's emotions again.
Now, in order to brush her off you're going to... (read in full...)
Need a good honest opinion of what to do now.
Q. My girlfriend of 9 months told me from the beginning of the relationship to never ask her about her past sexual experiences and it bothered me having to be so mysterious.... last night she was extremely drunk and we were having sex and I asked her ...
A. 27 November 2010: Here's the link of retrograde jealousy DenimandLace44 was referring to:
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/retrograde-jealousy.html
Wow, her magic number is 570+? Hopefully, she is clean and STD free. Perhaps she is a sex addict. I also quest... (read in full...)
Crash course in sex!
Q. I'm sixteen, and want to please my boyfriend the best way possible. My age limits my experience, and the general knowledge of the male body. What gets you guys goin? What text messages would put you in the mood? What words do you like a woman to say ...
A. 27 November 2010: Depends what's legal in your state..the age varies from 16-18 like I pointed out.... (read in full...)
Can't stay if it don't change soon!
Q. Dear Cupid, I'm In a relationship with who I think is the man of my dreams. He has children and I also have children. We live together, 3 of my children live with me and 1 of his. Its like when his other children come over for the weekend he c...
A. 27 November 2010: So what's your question?... (read in full...)
I'm in love with the cashier at my local grocery store.
Q. I'm in love with the cashier at my local grocery store. The first time I saw her I was so thunderstruck and giddy, as soon as I got home I blurted out to my wife about the beautiful the girl I just saw. I usually think before I speak. A little ...
A. 27 November 2010: I was going to say you're too young to have a midlife crisis. Your problem is you lack prior dating experience...you married your wife because she was your first everything. It's normal to find women striking and a pleasure to look at. But this is ... (read in full...)
Do you think I got over him too fast? Do you think he was jealous about me going ot to the movies?
Q. My boyfriend broke up with me last thursday right before thiis really awesome foot ball game. At the game there were a lot of cute guys there but for some reason I couldn't get my mind off of him. I got over him on saturday and ended going to this ...
A. 27 November 2010: What's his problem, he's the one that broke up with you! You guys only went out for a month, there's no need to spend all weekend crying over a short lived relationship. Sweetie, I've gotten over guys in 24 hours! Good for you for moving on so ... (read in full...)
Is 4 weeks without any contact a sign that its totally over???
Q. Hey: My girlfriend of two years broke up with me roughly 10 weeks ago and we have been NC for just shy of 4 weeks. She broke up with me because I was studying and working full time for my med boards for the 5 months prior and wasn't able to g...
A. 27 November 2010: a.) There's no way to tell. But most likely not, if she's not contacting you.
b.)Yes, it's time to move on and accept that this is over. I'm sorry it came down to this. If it was meant to be she wouldn't have chose her job over you. You're a... (read in full...)
He's betrayed my trust by going on facebook to another girl!
Q. Me and this guy were not officially a couple but have been very close for a number of months and were planning to be together once we'd tied up a few loose ends, like he was still living with his ex partner etc. However, me being nosey and insecure ...
A. 27 November 2010: Red Flag #1. You never date a guy who is still living with his ex, for some reason it's extremely difficult for them to move out. When it really shouldn't be. I forecast it's going to be quite a while before he actually does leave, or if she kicks ... (read in full...)
I'm wondering if my teacher is in love with me?
Q. I'm in love with my teacher who is of the same sex and 15 years older than me. She pays alot of attention to me during school hours and outside school hours. She winks at me and grins at me alot and she talks to me in a different voice compared to ...
A. 27 November 2010: Just start looking at our boys, checking them out..seeing if any of them are worth talking to. By focusing on that you'll soon get over your little crush on your teacher. ... (read in full...)
I don't know what to get for my boyfriend for christmas?
Q. Im in a sticky situation, me and my boyfriend have been going out for 6 months now (we are both 18)and I don't know what to get him. I know there are options like shirts, or hats. But I want to get him something meaningful, something special to him. ...
A. 27 November 2010: http://www.mtv.com/photos/the-ultimate-holiday-gift-guide-2010-mtv-style/1652403/5426660/photo.jhtml... (read in full...)
Why is this considered cheating?
Q. hello i've posted a question before but never got a clear answer why because i failed to make it clear. now heres my situation my gf absolutely believes i cheated because of the following... 1) i was involved with 2 of my friends webcam porn. he w...
A. 27 November 2010: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/she-gets-mad-at-me-when-i-tell.html
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-think-my-girl-is-paranoid-help.html
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/girlfriend-likes-to-abuse-me-and-then-says.html
A little backgr... (read in full...)
Girlfriend cheated and I am pissed!
Q. my girl friend told me awhile ago that she cheated on me twice with two diff. people.. she cried alot and i cud tell she fells really bad about it but im pissed. we had minor problems things that cud of been fixed but she chose to cheat...at the ...
A. 27 November 2010: Let's see she broke a promise twice, yeah that's gotta hurt pretty bad. In fact it looks like the trust is gone in this relationship.
Can you bring yourself to forgive and trust her again? I would take a break from this relationship to figure t... (read in full...)
Abnormal acting teacher?
Q. I have this teacher and lately he's been acting abnormal towards me. I was staying after school and he came up to my desk in his chair and after he is done explain the concept of the question, he turned his head and looked at me, so i turned ...
A. 27 November 2010: He's waiting for your response to him explaining the question.
You're looking into his eye contact way too much..no he doesn't like you more than a student. ... (read in full...)
I'm wondering if my teacher is in love with me?
Q. I'm in love with my teacher who is of the same sex and 15 years older than me. She pays alot of attention to me during school hours and outside school hours. She winks at me and grins at me alot and she talks to me in a different voice compared to ...
A. 27 November 2010: Sorry but just because you think she favors you doesn't mean she's in love with you. She's your teacher, she's paid to be nice to you.
You should probably fall out of love, because one you're much too young to conclude you're a lesbian plus it ... (read in full...)
Why is this considered cheating?
Q. hello i've posted a question before but never got a clear answer why because i failed to make it clear. now heres my situation my gf absolutely believes i cheated because of the following... 1) i was involved with 2 of my friends webcam porn. he w...
A. 27 November 2010: Let me start off by saying that I've read your other posts, and I know that your girlfriend has crazy, insecurities, trust issues etc..so this accusing you of cheating is nothing new.
Now, what you have described is NOT cheating. You know this, I ... (read in full...)
Crash course in sex!
Q. I'm sixteen, and want to please my boyfriend the best way possible. My age limits my experience, and the general knowledge of the male body. What gets you guys goin? What text messages would put you in the mood? What words do you like a woman to say ...
A. 27 November 2010: What gets a guy going?
Every guy is different, it ranges from wearing lingerie-kissing his neck to kissing his happy trail. You have to ask him what turns him on.
What text messages would put you in the mood?
"I'm currently not wearing underwea... (read in full...)
My boyfriend want's to go on a sexual fast!
Q. Before I ask any question here is my back story: I have been dating my boyfriend two years now, however after our 6 month mark he cheated, more than once, I took him back because I do love him and I really wanted to make it work. Its been about a...
A. 27 November 2010: If you're still paying bills, yes.
His behavior should tell you something. Dump him..otherwise he will keep on making you look like a fool for buying into his lies. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend want's to go on a sexual fast!
Q. Before I ask any question here is my back story: I have been dating my boyfriend two years now, however after our 6 month mark he cheated, more than once, I took him back because I do love him and I really wanted to make it work. Its been about a...
A. 27 November 2010: Ha, he's on this sex fast but yet he still asks for nude pics from these girls...so far he's failed God.
Let's see he's cheated more than once that you know of, he flirts with other girls, and continues to ask them for nude pictures, you guys don... (read in full...)
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