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What qualifies me to help you? Vast dating experience, especially in the LDR department, even an international on with an Aussie, broke hearts, had mine broken, been engaged once before, I know what a real friend is, seen the ugly side of divorce coming from a recently broken home myself, even went as far as to tip the odds to my side and use men only to toss them aside like yesterday's garbage like they do women, I know what it's like to almost give up hope on finding the perfect man when he's really only a few boyfriends away, and I'm starting to learn the ropes of married life. I also know a vast deal about the female and male reproductive system, and all about the mental struggles with infertility. On a side note, I'm the one who gives you tough love, I'm not on here to sugarcoat it or to tell you what you want to hear. I'm going to give it to you straight up, wouldn't you rather the truth?
-TOP 5 QUESTIONS I CAN'T STAND-
#1. Does this mean my teacher likes me?
Just because they're nice to you, offer extra help, and put a little gold star on your A+ paper doesn't mean they are in love with you.
#2. Could I be pregnant?
Have you not heard of a pregnancy test? Get off this website, and go to your local drugstore.
#3. I'm 14 and I want a baby?
Really? Me too! Oh wait I'm 28 and married. You're how old again?
#4. My husband loves porn more than me!
Maybe if you didn't let yourself go into the frumpy woman you have turned into then he wouldn't have to look at porn now would he? I recommend you get your rear to the salon for highlights, manicure, pedicure, tanning, toss the baggy tees and sweat pants for a wardrobe that fits, and a little makeup goes a long way. It's called basic woman maintenance in order to keep your man's eyes on you.
#5. Will we get back together, how can I get him to love me again?
Unfortunately, my crystal ball is broke at the moment and I just gave away the last of my love potion No. 9. Sorry.
MY GENERAL RULES OF THUMB (this should be common sense)
-No means no.
-Girls can ask out ask guys, this is a new generation.
-Unless you know sign language or are telepathic, you're going to have to talk to him/her.
-My "Don't ask, Don't tell" policy as is follows: Do not by any means volunteer your own sexual history, or ask your date/partner/wife/girlfriend their magic number (how many people they've slept with). If you find yourself being prompted to answer this question, politely tell them that's none of their business.
-Your past doesn't define who you are today. We grow, mature, age, and change as time passes.
-If you have to even ask random strangers on this website if you should have sex, then you're not ready for it.
-FWBs, fuck buddies, no strings attached, whatever you want to call it..is not a relationship don't get the 2 confused. In this case, sex=sex, not love.
-No trust=no relationship.
-It is normal for your husband/boyfriend to have friends of the opposite sex, do you not have male friends?
-LDRs can work, however they're not for everyone. You've got to have trust, communication, be faithful, and a lot of hobbies to keep yourself occupied. If you have trust issues, a case of being needy, clingy, problems staying faithful and are in a LDR don't be surprised when it doesn't work. I told you so.
- An ex is an ex for a reason. If you guys couldn't hack it as a couple the first 2 times what makes you think the third time is a charm?
-Going on a "break" is a nice way of breaking up.
-If you have sex with a man and he hasn't called you, or responded to your texts in weeks sorry to say but he was just after a piece of ass.
- Now unless he's getting blown up in Afghanistan, an on call ER doctor, or lying dead in a coffin then he's got no excuse for his poor or lack there of communication.
-You have a 12% chance of your married boyfriend leaving his wife and children.
-A man who is going through a divorce is still legally married. He's about to have an ex wife and you're wanting to get into a relationship with him? That's called a rebound.
-If you're a minor who's just found out she's pregnant, do me and everyone else on this site a favor..Tell your parents.
-Just because some one stares at you, it doesn't mean they like you. They could be staring at that booger hanging out of your nose.
-If you have a lump/bump/cyst/rash that looks green, has oozing puss, and itches like hell, but kinda looks like a STD then you had better consult your doctor. They went through 6 years of schooling and have a license to practice medicine, I think they would know better than random virtual strangers.
-Don't mix business with pleasure. Why? Because if you date your co-worker and in the event things turn sour then you're still stuck facing them 9-5, Mon-Fri. Awkward.
-No matter how hard you try, you can't change a person..they have to make that transformation themselves.
-When your boyfriend/girlfriend says they want space that doesn't mean you do the opposite and bombard them with calls/texts.
-As far as ultimatums go, don't try to make your boyfriend choose between you, his female friends, or weed. You won't like the results.
-If you're 13-17, I'm sorry but you haven't a clue what love really is. You have minimal dating experience confined to the high school dating pool which are nothing but horny boys. Their facial hair doesn't make them a man. It's only till you get out into the real world, a vast dating pool is when you learn the definition of love. So, go on thinking you and 13 year old Tommy will go on to get married, have 3 kids, and a two story house with a white picket fence. I don't expect you to listen, I'm 28 and married, what do I know? There's a reason why everyone says it won't last..because it doesn't.
-The average penis size erect is 6 inches, 4.85 inches. Women like average to even a little below average. We're not going to bust out a tape measure and measure it to make sure it's up to our standards. We just want to have sex, so enough complaining about your size let's get down and dirty.
- The legal age of consent in the U.S. is 16-18 varying oer state, in Britain it's 16. I think it's safe to say most parts of the world (unless you live in a tribe with their own form of government) the legal age to consent to sex is 16. So yes, all you minors below the age of consent are committing a crime when you engage in sexual activity. The age is set that high for a reason, you are not above the law. |
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I've fallen head over heels for a woman who is 20 years younger than me!
Q. In Love With a Younger Woman? I am hoping someone might give me sound advice. I have fallen head over heals in love with a woman of 39 who is younger than me by 20 years. I have been a happily married man for 35 years with 4 grown up children...
A. 8 March 2011: No offense, really. But I highly doubt that anyone's advice will change in 5 months.
You really can't go on having BOTH women in you life. It doesn't work that way. Unless your wife would agree to let you have this other woman in you life as ... (read in full...)
I'm wondering if my teacher is in love with me?
Q. I'm in love with my teacher who is of the same sex and 15 years older than me. She pays alot of attention to me during school hours and outside school hours. She winks at me and grins at me alot and she talks to me in a different voice compared to ...
A. 28 November 2010: Just politely decline, tell her you and your mom are going shopping that day. Make up an excuse. You're already busy..she's your teacher, she knows very well that she shouldn't be asking you to "hang out" outside of school. ... (read in full...)
I'm wondering if my teacher is in love with me?
Q. I'm in love with my teacher who is of the same sex and 15 years older than me. She pays alot of attention to me during school hours and outside school hours. She winks at me and grins at me alot and she talks to me in a different voice compared to ...
A. 28 November 2010: No, you're not allowed to hang out with teachers outside of school. They are not like your friends, they are adults that are responsible for teaching you. Actually, her asking you to get coffee is inappropriate and against school policy. She could ... (read in full...)
Why is this considered cheating?
Q. hello i've posted a question before but never got a clear answer why because i failed to make it clear. now heres my situation my gf absolutely believes i cheated because of the following... 1) i was involved with 2 of my friends webcam porn. he w...
A. 27 November 2010: Her ADHD and her irregular periods have nothing to do with her insecurities. Now you're just making excuses for her. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend want's to go on a sexual fast!
Q. Before I ask any question here is my back story: I have been dating my boyfriend two years now, however after our 6 month mark he cheated, more than once, I took him back because I do love him and I really wanted to make it work. Its been about a...
A. 27 November 2010: He shows you no affection period, basically you're the bread winner and his roommate. Is the lease in your name I'm assuming? Well kick him out. ... (read in full...)
Crash course in sex!
Q. I'm sixteen, and want to please my boyfriend the best way possible. My age limits my experience, and the general knowledge of the male body. What gets you guys goin? What text messages would put you in the mood? What words do you like a woman to say ...
A. 27 November 2010: Depends what's legal in your state..the age varies from 16-18 like I pointed out.... (read in full...)
I'm wondering if my teacher is in love with me?
Q. I'm in love with my teacher who is of the same sex and 15 years older than me. She pays alot of attention to me during school hours and outside school hours. She winks at me and grins at me alot and she talks to me in a different voice compared to ...
A. 27 November 2010: Just start looking at our boys, checking them out..seeing if any of them are worth talking to. By focusing on that you'll soon get over your little crush on your teacher. ... (read in full...)
Why is this considered cheating?
Q. hello i've posted a question before but never got a clear answer why because i failed to make it clear. now heres my situation my gf absolutely believes i cheated because of the following... 1) i was involved with 2 of my friends webcam porn. he w...
A. 27 November 2010: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/she-gets-mad-at-me-when-i-tell.html
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-think-my-girl-is-paranoid-help.html
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/girlfriend-likes-to-abuse-me-and-then-says.html
A little backgr... (read in full...)
Abnormal acting teacher?
Q. I have this teacher and lately he's been acting abnormal towards me. I was staying after school and he came up to my desk in his chair and after he is done explain the concept of the question, he turned his head and looked at me, so i turned ...
A. 27 November 2010: He's waiting for your response to him explaining the question.
You're looking into his eye contact way too much..no he doesn't like you more than a student. ... (read in full...)
I cheated and lost my virginity and don't feel guilty or don't feel I need to tell my boyfriend
Q. I've been dating my boyfriend for two years and two months. The most we've ever gone is oral. This summer, I met this guy, who's 21 and he's five years older than me. Ever since we've been talking nonstop, basically I've been cheating on my ...
A. 27 November 2010: So what exactly is your question?
You cheated on you boyfriend and you don't feel guilty that you did..and you really don't care to tell him. So break up with him then? Because you don't love him, and you don't have any remorse. Nor do I see any ... (read in full...)
I'm wondering if my teacher is in love with me?
Q. I'm in love with my teacher who is of the same sex and 15 years older than me. She pays alot of attention to me during school hours and outside school hours. She winks at me and grins at me alot and she talks to me in a different voice compared to ...
A. 27 November 2010: Sorry but just because you think she favors you doesn't mean she's in love with you. She's your teacher, she's paid to be nice to you.
You should probably fall out of love, because one you're much too young to conclude you're a lesbian plus it ... (read in full...)
B/f acting weird after our argument! Does he just need time?
Q. Hello there. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 months now, and we got into a little argument today and he almost broke up with me. But he didn't and we mended everything. I need help because now he's being all weird, and i know that ...
A. 27 November 2010: Weird how? What was the argument over?
It's normal for guys to take a day to cool off and just have their time to blow off some steam. Then they can come back and talk when they're ready. Especially if it was a major argument. Now if it was some... (read in full...)
Heartbreak Lead to a Heart Attack
Q. Is it possible to suffer a heart attack from a broken heart! I can't breathe......
A. 27 November 2010: If you can't breathe then I would call 911..not typing a question for DC.... (read in full...)
Why is this considered cheating?
Q. hello i've posted a question before but never got a clear answer why because i failed to make it clear. now heres my situation my gf absolutely believes i cheated because of the following... 1) i was involved with 2 of my friends webcam porn. he w...
A. 27 November 2010: Let me start off by saying that I've read your other posts, and I know that your girlfriend has crazy, insecurities, trust issues etc..so this accusing you of cheating is nothing new.
Now, what you have described is NOT cheating. You know this, I ... (read in full...)
Crash course in sex!
Q. I'm sixteen, and want to please my boyfriend the best way possible. My age limits my experience, and the general knowledge of the male body. What gets you guys goin? What text messages would put you in the mood? What words do you like a woman to say ...
A. 27 November 2010: What gets a guy going?
Every guy is different, it ranges from wearing lingerie-kissing his neck to kissing his happy trail. You have to ask him what turns him on.
What text messages would put you in the mood?
"I'm currently not wearing underwea... (read in full...)
I giggled while fooling around!
Q. I'm a little worried. My "friend" and I were fooling around for the first time, and he loved to play with my breasts. They aren't very sensitive (he knows this), and so I just liked watching his reaction to them. I couldn't help but giggle at him. ...
A. 27 November 2010: I don't think he cared you giggled since he was already occupied.
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Am I in the wrong for getting mad?
Q. thanks for the help last time guys and girls. it helped me alot. now then i need some serious help, or advice, or whatever. last night my gf and i were talking and then she said that she texted a bunch of different people which i knew and didnt care ...
A. 27 November 2010: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/girlfriend-texting-my-best-friend.html
For our readers, and I knew you sounded familiar.
Now, you say she's texts a bunch of different people you knew but yet in your last post you got upset with her for tex... (read in full...)
What is a loser?
Q. I just got thinking about what people call their exes. Guys call their exes bitch, crazy bitch, or ugly. To me that means, 'she rejected me harshly', 'she's needy/clingy (doesn't feel good enough)', and 'not that good looking', respectively. Those ...
A. 27 November 2010: Loser- As in dropping out of school, not having a source of income, lives at home with his parents, lazy unmotivated, owes people money that he hasn't paid back, no goals in life, being a deadbeat father etc..
That's my definition of a loser.... (read in full...)
How do you get back out there?
Q. I'm still suffering from a shattered heart, and I know I'm not in any way ready to begin dating again, but I'm wondering how on earth you get back out there once it's time. Do you have to force yourself? Is it easier to just attend parties or ...
A. 27 November 2010: I always felt like it was jumping into the pool for the first time. You're scared because you have never done it, you know the water's going to be cold. But you take a running leap and close your eyes then jump in. Oops, you forgot to hold your ... (read in full...)
So is this him saying he wants to be friends?
Q. Ok, so there's this guy I've been talking to a lot lately- we share core interests, enjoy talking, have some mutual friends, etc. We definitely flirt w/ each other, but whether or not he likes me as more than friends puzzles me-now more than ever. T...
A. 27 November 2010: Basically he's not into you like you are him, hence why he avoided the topic altogether. He let you down nicely, gave you the old "relationships ruin things" spiel. In other words, he wants to be friends but didn't come right out and say it. No guy ... (read in full...)
I'm just afraid he will meet someone else and not tell me or that our future is effed because of how lazy he is!
Q. Okay so me and my boyfriend have been together for almost two years and here are some of our problems -He does work thirty hours a week with plenty of time to do is college work but he is currently failing. I am doing well in class but know that he ...
A. 27 November 2010: Is he a full time student and works 30 hours? Not very many people can handle a job and keep up their grades in school. I would talk to him, maybe he needs to cut back hours at work temporarily so he can focus on college more. Which is more ... (read in full...)
Do I keep... or get rid?
Q. Dear Cupid, So im dating this black boy and my parents didn't know about it cause they would kill me if they knew. Well one day my mom wanted to look at my facebook and i knew he had posted comments and things on my wall, so i confessed. well ...
A. 27 November 2010: I will say your parents are in the wrong by being racist but I won't go there.
Another thing I will point out, that you are still a minor and in their care so what they say goes. Until you're 18, have a job, car, and $ to move out. So for now,... (read in full...)
Should I fight for a LDR or be single at uni?
Q. Hi All, Okay, so the situation I'm in. I'm in a relationship with a gorgeous, successful 25 year old man who lives back home in London. He's perfect for me and I can see us making a life for eachother, we have the same goals and ideals. He makes...
A. 27 November 2010: If you feel like you can't do the long distance then you can't. LDRs are hard and they're not for everyone.
I suggest you stay single and engage in perfectly casual dating..keep it as friends with him, stay in contact. Also, explain to him that... (read in full...)
My friend's boyfriend has asked me out... help!
Q. Hi everyone, I have another problem similar to my last question. My friend's (same friend from before) boyfriend asked me out and i don't want to tell her because it will break her heart. But I am scared if I don't she will get more hurt and blame ...
A. 27 November 2010: Honey I am SO glad to hear that you value your friend very much. Boys are a dime a dozen when you're in high school. You know I couldn't tell you how many times guys will break your heart and your friend will always be there for you. Guys will come ... (read in full...)
I don't know how to approach him.
Q. Hi, I'm 20 years old and I like this guy that's in a few of my classes. I get the feeling that he's interested in me because he always sits near me and I catch him looking at me sometimes. The problem is that we're both very shy. Very very shy. This ...
A. 27 November 2010: Well unless you know sign language you're going to have to overcome your fear and talk to him. Or go on not speaking because you're both way too shy.
How about you sit next to him in class, accidentally knock your pencil off your desk in his dire... (read in full...)
Does my crush dig me?
Q. theres this kid at our school his been here for a few weeks. I kinda see em stares at me when Im walking down the hallways when i first get to school. First day i went into the lunch room because i wanted a cookie. Lol. I went into the co...
A. 27 November 2010: Can't read his mind so i can't confirm that if he likes you or not..The only way you're going to find that out is if you ask him directly or get one of your friends to ask him, or put in a good word for you. Or you can also nonchalantly chat to one ... (read in full...)
My friend's boyfriend has asked me out... help!
Q. Hi everyone, I have another problem similar to my last question. My friend's (same friend from before) boyfriend asked me out and i don't want to tell her because it will break her heart. But I am scared if I don't she will get more hurt and blame ...
A. 27 November 2010: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-like-one-of-my-best-friends-guys.html
For a little background..
Again in your last post, you know that if you go out with this guy you will lose your friendship. Why is he even asking you out when he's not ev... (read in full...)
Should I worry or be concerned about my husband still using Facebook?
Q. Hello all. My question is should I worry or be concerned about my husband still using Facebook? Especially since thats how i found out about his affair. Also he deactivated his account but uses my son's account to log in and out. He's able to do ...
A. 27 November 2010: It depends, have you forgiven him for his affair and let him regain the trust? Did his affair stem from being on Facebook connecting with women? Have you two received marriage counseling to sort this out? If you trust your husband then you have no ... (read in full...)
I need to really convice or scare him to quit!
Q. Hii This boy i really like we really get along in class , the thing i care about him too much and the other day he told me smokes weed 3-5 times a week , I need to really convice or scare him to quit! I know under the age of 18 the brain isnt f...
A. 27 November 2010: Well that's really sweet of you to be concerned about his health..Sadly, this is one of those things that is a nasty habit kinda like smoking cigarettes. He's not going to stop until he gets caught and goes to jail or he grows out of it. Which will ... (read in full...)
He hasn't texed me or called me since we had sex.
Q. He hasn't texed me or called me since we had sex. Is he over it now that I gave him what he wanted or should I just text him. We were talking about having a relationship but one thing led to another and we had sex. I am just not sure why he hasn't ...
A. 27 November 2010: Mmm..if you guys weren't in a relationship and you already had sex and he hasn't called you back..then yes that spells out he got what he wanted so now he's gone. Especially if you guys were going strong and then discussing a relationship. All of a ... (read in full...)
She says she's just on it for fun, but it's a webcam website with guys masturbating!
Q. Ill just get straight to the point, my girlfriend goes on this webchat website with her friend. U have a web cam and it cycles threw random people who are on the site to. And she says like every one is a guy masterbating. And they say they talk ...
A. 27 November 2010: I wouldn't consider it cheating, you could say it's a form of porn because these men are doing sexual acts on camera. However, it's not like she's browsing them solo for viewing pleasure..she's doing it for shits and grins with her girl friend.
... (read in full...)
My boyfriend want's to go on a sexual fast!
Q. Before I ask any question here is my back story: I have been dating my boyfriend two years now, however after our 6 month mark he cheated, more than once, I took him back because I do love him and I really wanted to make it work. Its been about a...
A. 27 November 2010: If you're still paying bills, yes.
His behavior should tell you something. Dump him..otherwise he will keep on making you look like a fool for buying into his lies. ... (read in full...)
On her Christmas list is marriage and a baby!
Q. Hello people, I was talking recently with my girlfriend about what she wants fot christmas. ( we have been together almost 3 years and at present are both 17) She said that she wants to marry me one day and that the ultimate christmas presen...
A. 27 November 2010: That would be a grand idea if you guys were say in your 20s and almost done with university..Right now at 17, not so much. She won't even be able to go to school with you bringing home the bacon. Who's going to watch the child while she goes to ... (read in full...)
We love each other but he won't commit!
Q. I met a boy during the summer of 2009 and there was an immediate attraction that was not something I usually feel with anyone. But he has some sort of obsession with girls.. for instance, he'll go places just to meet them and then see if he can take ...
A. 27 November 2010: Depends, is that what you want to settle for a pretend "relationship"? That would be settling for less than you want which is an actual relationship. A year and half later, and he still likes his freedom of having sex with all kinds of women then ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend want's to go on a sexual fast!
Q. Before I ask any question here is my back story: I have been dating my boyfriend two years now, however after our 6 month mark he cheated, more than once, I took him back because I do love him and I really wanted to make it work. Its been about a...
A. 27 November 2010: Ha, he's on this sex fast but yet he still asks for nude pics from these girls...so far he's failed God.
Let's see he's cheated more than once that you know of, he flirts with other girls, and continues to ask them for nude pictures, you guys don... (read in full...)
Should I message her again now that her account is reactivated?
Q. On an online dating site I messaged a girl a few months ago, she never replied and then de-activated her account. Her account is now active again. Should I message her again or just leave it alone? My gut says leave it alone but I don't know....
A. 27 November 2010: It couldn't hurt to shoot her one more message, if she doesn't answer then you know she's not interested. ... (read in full...)
Is he cheating in our LDR?
Q. My friend and I have been exclusively dating in a long distance relationship for the past four months. We've been close friends for the past 10 years. Since the drive is only two hours, we've been able to see each other most of the time every ...
A. 26 November 2010: There's not enough evidence pointing to him cheating. I would consider him hanging out with his ex even though they very well could be friends a red flag too. Yeah, it's something you're not going to randomly ask, but he could volunteer the ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend refuses to let his ex-wife move out!
Q. I've been dating a guy who's recently divorced. He still lives with his ex and has no plans for her to move out because he cannot afford the mortgage on his own. I'm not an option at the moment for various reasons and he refuses to sell the house at ...
A. 26 November 2010: Were you dating him before he was divorced? Why doesn't he have her move out and you move in? Also if he can't afford the mortgage, the proper solution would be to sell the home and move into something he can afford.
I feel that he's trying t... (read in full...)
I don't like the idea of anal sex!
Q. My boyfriend wants to try anal sex, but i just don't like the idea of it. Is it uncomfortable, or anything? Or should i just not bother trying it :/...
A. 26 November 2010: It hurts like hell. Not going to lie or sugarcoat it for you dear. Even if you do use lube and all the tubes of KY Jelly or Anal-eeze aren't going to make a difference on the level of pain you're going to experience.
Now if someone could come up ... (read in full...)
She gave me her number, what's the next step?
Q. I have started a course a couple of weeks ago and there is a girl on it who I really like. I want to ask her out but I'm shy to do that so what I did was I talked to her during the breaks on the course to get to know her and see what we have in ...
A. 26 November 2010: Well veryshyguy if she already volunteered the info of no children and the fact she's very single then she's wanting you to take her out on a date. Not a friendship.
Take her number and give her a ring..ask her out for friday or saturday night. F... (read in full...)
He's shy and won't call me.
Q. how long should a girl wait for a guy to call her before she loses hope in him. I told a guy to csall me abut 3 days ago, hes really shy and will IM me but not call yet....so when shud i wait til until i kno hes just nt htat interested.?...
A. 26 November 2010: Initiate conversation then. I'm starting to think he's not all that shy, but his a problem with communication. If a guy likes you he will muster up the courage to call you. It doesn't make sense that he will talk to you online, but not on the phone. ... (read in full...)
We have this secret relationship she won't bring out into the open!
Q. Me and girlfriend been dating for almost 4 years now. I live on my own, she lives with parents. For first year it was great, we got on so well, you couldn’t keep us apart, we were so happy. Then she left me when I was accused of stealing from work ...
A. 26 November 2010: How old is your girlfriend? I'm going to assume she's younger because she lives with her parents, and that they would disown her if they found out about you. Or is it still about the accusations against you? Please clarify.
It sounds like this rel... (read in full...)
I can't drive yet and he doesn't have his license, so how do we see each other?
Q. Okay, so i am 14 and my boyfriend is 17. We live about 20 minutes apart. We live in the same district, but different towns. Lately, our arguments have mainly been about seeing each other. Unfortunately, i can't drive yet, and he doesn't have his ...
A. 26 November 2010: First of all, you're not going to like this but, your boyfriend is too old for you. You're not even of legal age of consent for sex.
What's wrong with either of you using public transportation? Seeing as you aren't even of age to get your lic... (read in full...)
Allergic to cat hair but not dog hair?
Q. i have bad allergies when it comes to cats..it will affect my breathing for atleast a day and a half. Alot of people i know have them so it was hard to avoid. I have a poodle which doesn't shed and have no allergies at all. My brother and ...
A. 26 November 2010: The aunts are spot on..
In fact you sound just like me, deathly allergic to cats and long haired dogs that shed..But short haired dogs you're just fine. We should have been kept in giant bubbles as kids!
That German shepherd will shed like n... (read in full...)
Husband got girl pregnant twice!!
Q. What would u do if your husband had 1 baby while yall was not together and you let him come back home and you find out he got another one on the way by the same girl...
A. 26 November 2010: See I would have slapped him with divorce papers the first time. But since you gave him a "get out of jail free" card and he messed that up then the third time is not a charm..Draw up divorce papers, and take him for every cent. But leave a few ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend still shares a bed with her ex! What should I do?
Q. Hi. Well I got a problem. My girlfriend and I live miles away from each other. I live alone, and she lives with her 5 bestfriends. 3 of them are guys, one of them is her ex. I'm a really jealous kind of guy, and she knows that. I really dont like it ...
A. 26 November 2010: I echo the rest of the aunts in dumping her.
Any loving girlfriend wouldn't be playing slumber party with her ex boyfriend. Also playing off your jealousy by constantly reminding you of it. She doesn't have to sleep in the same bed with him, she... (read in full...)
I've fallen head over heels for a woman who is 20 years younger than me!
Q. In Love With a Younger Woman? I am hoping someone might give me sound advice. I have fallen head over heals in love with a woman of 39 who is younger than me by 20 years. I have been a happily married man for 35 years with 4 grown up children...
A. 26 November 2010: What I'm understanding is that you want advice on how to keep the both of them and live in harmony..
You love your special wife and want to keep her but you love this treasure which you are hanging onto. Although you're not 100% certain her feel... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has pushed me and punched me but now he wants me back what should I do?
Q. write im 14 and the other day i was with m boyfriend and we started arguin about something stupid and he called me a slag so i pushed him backwards (which didnt move him anyway) then he punched me in the stomach and pushed me over i started crying ...
A. 26 November 2010: Doesn't matter if you're pregnant, you don't have to be with this abuser. If you stay with him, he will end up pushing you down so hard it can cause you to lose your baby. Protect you and your baby, get out of this relationship and tell your parents ... (read in full...)
What kind of dirty talk do guys like during sex?
Q. So this is gonna sound kind of dumb, buttt when you're talking dirty during a blow job or sex or whatever, what exactly do guys like to hear?...
A. 24 November 2010: Hahaha, you shouldn't be talking dirty during a blow job!
Anyways, I vote for silence..men like to hear heavy breath, their woman moaning, and the movement of intertwined bodies. ... (read in full...)
He's shy and won't call me.
Q. how long should a girl wait for a guy to call her before she loses hope in him. I told a guy to csall me abut 3 days ago, hes really shy and will IM me but not call yet....so when shud i wait til until i kno hes just nt htat interested.?...
A. 23 November 2010: Drop by Saturday..see what happens and his valid reason (if he has one) for not calling. ... (read in full...)
I've fallen head over heels for a woman who is 20 years younger than me!
Q. In Love With a Younger Woman? I am hoping someone might give me sound advice. I have fallen head over heals in love with a woman of 39 who is younger than me by 20 years. I have been a happily married man for 35 years with 4 grown up children...
A. 23 November 2010: After 35 years of marriage what is it lacking for you to look at this younger woman?
If you don't want to hurt your wife then don't..Don't take this friendship any further, it can never go any further if you want to keep your special wife. Wh... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has pushed me and punched me but now he wants me back what should I do?
Q. write im 14 and the other day i was with m boyfriend and we started arguin about something stupid and he called me a slag so i pushed him backwards (which didnt move him anyway) then he punched me in the stomach and pushed me over i started crying ...
A. 23 November 2010: Don't accept his apology and report him right away to your guidance counselor or teacher. That is called PHYSICAL ABUSE. He is not sorry and he WILL hurt you again.... (read in full...)
He's shy and won't call me.
Q. how long should a girl wait for a guy to call her before she loses hope in him. I told a guy to csall me abut 3 days ago, hes really shy and will IM me but not call yet....so when shud i wait til until i kno hes just nt htat interested.?...
A. 22 November 2010: Agreed no call in 3 days, then I give up..Not without making at least one phone call myself. Call him, he may want to call you but isn't sure what to say. ... (read in full...)
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