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What qualifies me to help you? Vast dating experience, especially in the LDR department, even an international on with an Aussie, broke hearts, had mine broken, been engaged once before, I know what a real friend is, seen the ugly side of divorce coming from a recently broken home myself, even went as far as to tip the odds to my side and use men only to toss them aside like yesterday's garbage like they do women, I know what it's like to almost give up hope on finding the perfect man when he's really only a few boyfriends away, and I'm starting to learn the ropes of married life. I also know a vast deal about the female and male reproductive system, and all about the mental struggles with infertility. On a side note, I'm the one who gives you tough love, I'm not on here to sugarcoat it or to tell you what you want to hear. I'm going to give it to you straight up, wouldn't you rather the truth?
-TOP 5 QUESTIONS I CAN'T STAND-
#1. Does this mean my teacher likes me?
Just because they're nice to you, offer extra help, and put a little gold star on your A+ paper doesn't mean they are in love with you.
#2. Could I be pregnant?
Have you not heard of a pregnancy test? Get off this website, and go to your local drugstore.
#3. I'm 14 and I want a baby?
Really? Me too! Oh wait I'm 28 and married. You're how old again?
#4. My husband loves porn more than me!
Maybe if you didn't let yourself go into the frumpy woman you have turned into then he wouldn't have to look at porn now would he? I recommend you get your rear to the salon for highlights, manicure, pedicure, tanning, toss the baggy tees and sweat pants for a wardrobe that fits, and a little makeup goes a long way. It's called basic woman maintenance in order to keep your man's eyes on you.
#5. Will we get back together, how can I get him to love me again?
Unfortunately, my crystal ball is broke at the moment and I just gave away the last of my love potion No. 9. Sorry.
MY GENERAL RULES OF THUMB (this should be common sense)
-No means no.
-Girls can ask out ask guys, this is a new generation.
-Unless you know sign language or are telepathic, you're going to have to talk to him/her.
-My "Don't ask, Don't tell" policy as is follows: Do not by any means volunteer your own sexual history, or ask your date/partner/wife/girlfriend their magic number (how many people they've slept with). If you find yourself being prompted to answer this question, politely tell them that's none of their business.
-Your past doesn't define who you are today. We grow, mature, age, and change as time passes.
-If you have to even ask random strangers on this website if you should have sex, then you're not ready for it.
-FWBs, fuck buddies, no strings attached, whatever you want to call it..is not a relationship don't get the 2 confused. In this case, sex=sex, not love.
-No trust=no relationship.
-It is normal for your husband/boyfriend to have friends of the opposite sex, do you not have male friends?
-LDRs can work, however they're not for everyone. You've got to have trust, communication, be faithful, and a lot of hobbies to keep yourself occupied. If you have trust issues, a case of being needy, clingy, problems staying faithful and are in a LDR don't be surprised when it doesn't work. I told you so.
- An ex is an ex for a reason. If you guys couldn't hack it as a couple the first 2 times what makes you think the third time is a charm?
-Going on a "break" is a nice way of breaking up.
-If you have sex with a man and he hasn't called you, or responded to your texts in weeks sorry to say but he was just after a piece of ass.
- Now unless he's getting blown up in Afghanistan, an on call ER doctor, or lying dead in a coffin then he's got no excuse for his poor or lack there of communication.
-You have a 12% chance of your married boyfriend leaving his wife and children.
-A man who is going through a divorce is still legally married. He's about to have an ex wife and you're wanting to get into a relationship with him? That's called a rebound.
-If you're a minor who's just found out she's pregnant, do me and everyone else on this site a favor..Tell your parents.
-Just because some one stares at you, it doesn't mean they like you. They could be staring at that booger hanging out of your nose.
-If you have a lump/bump/cyst/rash that looks green, has oozing puss, and itches like hell, but kinda looks like a STD then you had better consult your doctor. They went through 6 years of schooling and have a license to practice medicine, I think they would know better than random virtual strangers.
-Don't mix business with pleasure. Why? Because if you date your co-worker and in the event things turn sour then you're still stuck facing them 9-5, Mon-Fri. Awkward.
-No matter how hard you try, you can't change a person..they have to make that transformation themselves.
-When your boyfriend/girlfriend says they want space that doesn't mean you do the opposite and bombard them with calls/texts.
-As far as ultimatums go, don't try to make your boyfriend choose between you, his female friends, or weed. You won't like the results.
-If you're 13-17, I'm sorry but you haven't a clue what love really is. You have minimal dating experience confined to the high school dating pool which are nothing but horny boys. Their facial hair doesn't make them a man. It's only till you get out into the real world, a vast dating pool is when you learn the definition of love. So, go on thinking you and 13 year old Tommy will go on to get married, have 3 kids, and a two story house with a white picket fence. I don't expect you to listen, I'm 28 and married, what do I know? There's a reason why everyone says it won't last..because it doesn't.
-The average penis size erect is 6 inches, 4.85 inches. Women like average to even a little below average. We're not going to bust out a tape measure and measure it to make sure it's up to our standards. We just want to have sex, so enough complaining about your size let's get down and dirty.
- The legal age of consent in the U.S. is 16-18 varying oer state, in Britain it's 16. I think it's safe to say most parts of the world (unless you live in a tribe with their own form of government) the legal age to consent to sex is 16. So yes, all you minors below the age of consent are committing a crime when you engage in sexual activity. The age is set that high for a reason, you are not above the law. |
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Me wearing makeup is going to break us up!
Q. my boyfriend recently told me that if i kept on wearing make up(a bit of foundation: not making myself orange, blush and mascara) he would break up with me. i dont like to not wear makeup because i dont feel confident without it on. i love him s...
A. 15 July 2011: Good for you! Keep on wearing your makeup!! It's one of the best parts of being a woman.... (read in full...)
My ex girlfriend is so hot and cold it's confusing the heck out of me!
Q. So I have had a few posts on here about my ex girlfriend. I ignored her for a week, and she started to text me more and more when I had dissapeared from her life. I answered one text last night and we had a short conversation and it went...
A. 7 December 2010: There's no need to twist my words, what I said was as plain as day.
Let's review: You have a recent history of doing the same thing to another girl. You somehow managed to get over her. Now, you're doing the same thing again, not moving on, fail... (read in full...)
My ex girlfriend is so hot and cold it's confusing the heck out of me!
Q. So I have had a few posts on here about my ex girlfriend. I ignored her for a week, and she started to text me more and more when I had dissapeared from her life. I answered one text last night and we had a short conversation and it went...
A. 7 December 2010: Yes. And possibly, but the odds aren't in your favor. So that was a different girl but same pattern. ... (read in full...)
My ex girlfriend is so hot and cold it's confusing the heck out of me!
Q. So I have had a few posts on here about my ex girlfriend. I ignored her for a week, and she started to text me more and more when I had dissapeared from her life. I answered one text last night and we had a short conversation and it went...
A. 7 December 2010: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/its-been-5-months-but-i-cant-stop.html
This is her, correct? If it's really been since June, then you do need to seek some counseling on this right away. A professional who can help you get over this girl, wh... (read in full...)
My ex girlfriend is so hot and cold it's confusing the heck out of me!
Q. So I have had a few posts on here about my ex girlfriend. I ignored her for a week, and she started to text me more and more when I had dissapeared from her life. I answered one text last night and we had a short conversation and it went...
A. 7 December 2010: You CUT OFF CONTACT completely. No replying to her one text, nothing. You delete her number from your phone, change your number if you have to. Block her from Facebook, all accounts..You quit messaging her friends about the situation, in fact delete ... (read in full...)
My ex girlfriend is so hot and cold it's confusing the heck out of me!
Q. So I have had a few posts on here about my ex girlfriend. I ignored her for a week, and she started to text me more and more when I had dissapeared from her life. I answered one text last night and we had a short conversation and it went...
A. 6 December 2010: Because you keep on asking the same question over and over of how do you get her back or do you move on. When everyone has told you to move on, but apparently that's not the advice you want to here or what you're looking for. Go back and read what ... (read in full...)
Me wearing makeup is going to break us up!
Q. my boyfriend recently told me that if i kept on wearing make up(a bit of foundation: not making myself orange, blush and mascara) he would break up with me. i dont like to not wear makeup because i dont feel confident without it on. i love him s...
A. 5 December 2010: I can see how wearing too much makeup will make you look ugly, maybe slagish...but I don't see how it makes you fat.
Why wait till Monday? Dump his ass now. ... (read in full...)
Do we get married in his country or mine?
Q. my boyfriend and i are planning on getting married, but i am not sure what we are supposed to do.he is from another country, although he has been here for few years now. is it easier for us to marry here or in his country? and what is required for ...
A. 5 December 2010: He's going to have to contact his embassy and find out about getting you a visa in his country if that's where you guys are going to live. Pick the country you want to live in and marry there. ... (read in full...)
Unsure of my sexual identity
Q. I am so confused and i dont know how to handle this issue.i dont know if im straight gay or bisexual and i cant ask my friends becausetim afraid of what they will think.please help i dont knw what to do.can you help?x...
A. 4 December 2010: What has happened to make you question your sexuality? Please add more details your question is too vague.... (read in full...)
18 and never been kissed
Q. I'm 18 and i've never had a boyfriend, never had my first kiss or anything. I'm off to Uni next year and am hoping to finally meet someone. Do you think guys will think my total lack of experience is weird? ...
A. 4 December 2010: Nope, we get 20 year olds on here who have never been kissed, and 30+ year old virgins. So what you're asking isn't out of the norm. ... (read in full...)
Should I lose my virginity? I hear so many horror stories.
Q. Hi, i have a questions regarding the loss of my virginity. My Girlfriend of 9 months has asked if we can have sex, she knows i have always wanted to since we first started going out, now the oppertunity is here i dont know if there is any reason why ...
A. 4 December 2010: You can't have sex for a few reasons.
1.) It's against the law. In Britain, the legal age of consent to sex is 16. You're girlfriend is of age but you are not. So unless you want to get her thrown in jail for rape, (even though it's willing)... (read in full...)
Me wearing makeup is going to break us up!
Q. my boyfriend recently told me that if i kept on wearing make up(a bit of foundation: not making myself orange, blush and mascara) he would break up with me. i dont like to not wear makeup because i dont feel confident without it on. i love him s...
A. 4 December 2010: That has got to be the stupidest reason I have heard someone dump another over.
You're boyfriend sounds extremely controlling. Next he'g going to tell you what you can and can't wear. He is NOT your father, he cannot tell you what you can and ... (read in full...)
I don't think my girlfriend finds me attractive!
Q. I've been in a terrific, successful relationship for the past 7 months, 5 of which were spent in a long-distance scenario (no more than 1 visit per month). My girlfriend and I have fantastic chemistry together, and I can honestly say that I've never ...
A. 4 December 2010: She made a general statement "looks aren't everything" you're twisting her words around to make it sound like she's saying you aren't attractive as her other boyfriends. Now, if she came right out and said she's not attracted to you then I can't ... (read in full...)
Any tips on getting my dyed blonde hair to stay brighter?
Q. This is a question to do with my hair really, any advice if you can please :) I am naturally brown, but for the past year (I think!) I've always gone to the hairdressers and had the top half of my hair dyed blonde. I don't want to go back to being...
A. 4 December 2010: No sweetie, they're there to make money, they want you to use their services. Giving you home tips would mean they would lose a little bit of your business. ..they're not going to tell you of any home dying tips. Which the only one would be to get ... (read in full...)
I don't want to be rejected and give up on men for good!
Q. I have this guy friend. We are pretty good friends. we met our first year in college and found out we had several mutual friends, so we became friends instantly. We flirted and hung out for a year. I dropped out of that school and went to a ...
A. 4 December 2010: You just tell him and take that risk. I'm guessing you have reason to believe he likes you?
EVERYONE faces rejection in their life, whether it's from a guy, girl, college, job interview..we all go through it. You learn how to deal with it, and ... (read in full...)
Even though we broke up..do you think he still likes me?
Q. My boyfriend and i broke up a few days ago but we only broke up because he and i weren't able to see each other as much and actually get to hang out and talk the way we used to. When we hung out we would always be in contact. He'd always want to ...
A. 4 December 2010: I'm confused, did all this kissing happen before or after the break up? Also, if you guys broke up because you 2 didn't get to see each other that much, why is he biking over to your house? Doesn't make sense.
It sounds like he does, but I'm no m... (read in full...)
I love him too much to see him go
Q. I've recently found out my boyfriend's being forced to move to America because his dad's got a new job. I live in England and our relationship is already long distanced, he lives in Newcastle and I live in East Yorkshire. I don't want him to go, ...
A. 3 December 2010: Unless either of you have enough money or can pool it together to get a flat then there's nothing you can do. Now you must choose to either continue this relationship or break it off because now it's thousands of miles and an ocean is standing in ... (read in full...)
My ex girlfriend is so hot and cold it's confusing the heck out of me!
Q. So I have had a few posts on here about my ex girlfriend. I ignored her for a week, and she started to text me more and more when I had dissapeared from her life. I answered one text last night and we had a short conversation and it went...
A. 3 December 2010: Dirtball sums it up pretty nicely. I'm going to add I've read your other posts about her. It's been how many weeks now and you're still trying to get her back? She's not coming back, you guys had a pretty short lived 4 month relationship. You've ... (read in full...)
There wasn't alot of chemistry on our 1st date, should we try again?
Q. 2 days ago I had a first date with a guy I met online. the date, while not a complete disaster, was not the best. i think we were both a bit nervous. At the end of the first part of the date, he asked me out to dinner (he like purposed doing ...
A. 3 December 2010: If you're not that into him why waste your time and his on a 2nd date? There was no chemistry, connection, liking on your part then I would call him the next day and tell him you'd rather keep it as friends. Or don't call him at all, he'll get the ... (read in full...)
Which one should I marry?
Q. I have two marriage proposals. one girl with average beauty and professionaly just good another is very ugly but professionaly very good my confusion is whom to marry? I have no thoughts at all regarding my future plans...
A. 3 December 2010: Both these women proposed to you? As in dropped down on one knee, engagement ring and all? Seems kind of ass backwards but whatever works. If you have no future plans, and you failed to mention anything about loving these women then I suggest you ... (read in full...)
Revealing too much at the swimming pool
Q. There is this girl at the gym who wears a bathing suit that is way too revealing! It only covers half of her breasts and only a quarter of her ass. It is almost seethru, and she always has T.H.O.'s. She makes a point to walk slowly around the pool ...
A. 3 December 2010: Now, if this chick has a decent bod, then just look away you don't have to stare at the attention getter. If you got it, flaunt it! Right? Well, if she's not so skinny, has a little too much cellulite, and her top barely covers her saggy boobs, ... (read in full...)
Would you consider his magic number high for his age?
Q. Is 22 sexual partners for a 27 year old male a lot?...
A. 3 December 2010: In my opinion, no. Why are you inquiring about his sexual past? All that should matter is you. ... (read in full...)
She's the girl all the bad guys want!
Q. Yeah I know that I shouldn't be depressed because in the end I will find the one I ultimately love. I met this girl in town through Facebook actually. We talked for a good week and she wanted to hang out. I never EVER get nervous about meeting ...
A. 3 December 2010: It's like a bad movie,
She is lookin through me,
If you were, then you'd be screaming" Someone shoot me!",
As I fail miserably,
Tryin to get the girl all the bad guys want.
Thought I'd sing to you..now in that song Bowling for Soup didn't ... (read in full...)
I want to get under the covers and play again like when we were 6!
Q. I have a family friend that i have been attracted to for a long time now. she is beautiful. we have been close since birth. when we were 5 or 6 we used to kiss. we would get under the covers in my bed and just play around for hours, nothing down ...
A. 2 December 2010: This family "friend" is your cousin. Please go back and read the new answers you don't seem to agree with in your other post. ... (read in full...)
Is there a way out of the friend zone?
Q. hi been getting on really well with a women and enjoy spending time with her i really like her and told her i like her she said am like a brother to her i walked her home and walked away, she rang me down the road saying she could not open f...
A. 2 December 2010: I second that, once a woman places you in the friend zone there's no getting out of it. You're there for good. She doesn't look at you in the way you want her to. Sorry, but move on to a woman who doesn't consider you to be her brother.... (read in full...)
Any tips on getting my dyed blonde hair to stay brighter?
Q. This is a question to do with my hair really, any advice if you can please :) I am naturally brown, but for the past year (I think!) I've always gone to the hairdressers and had the top half of my hair dyed blonde. I don't want to go back to being...
A. 2 December 2010: Of you're a natural brunette your roots are going to show really fast, and you're also going to have to go back to the hair dresser for a root touch-up every month to 2 months even that's stretching it. To get rid of that orange, brassy look use a ... (read in full...)
Sexual fantasies about my cousin...
Q. For the past few years, I have had sexual fantasies of my sexy cousin. I have wanted to do anything and everything to her. I don't care if she is blood, she is so sexy. I want to have sex with her, and i am not sure as to how i should tell her. ...
A. 2 December 2010: Well which is it, do you want a fuck buddy or do you want to know if she has feelings for you? Last time I checked, feelings aren't an option when it comes to fuck buddies.
Unless you know both know sign language or you're telepathic then it ... (read in full...)
Secrets to a successful LDR, anyone care to share tips?
Q. How do you maintain the spark in a LDR? I mean...if you don't get to meet often...how long can you survive and overcome the physical longing and loneliness?...
A. 2 December 2010: LDRs like Dirtball said aren't for everyone. That's why a lot of them don't work because people think they're easy when they're really not.
Trust and communication with a little travel is necessary to keep the fire ignited. You keep up that spa... (read in full...)
Pros & cons of friends with benefits relationship
Q. Do you think its wise to have a friends with benefits type of relationship with a stranger to get over your ex? Not looking for any serious committed relationship right now. But I don't want to get hurt again as this would be the first time I would ...
A. 2 December 2010: I don't think FWBs are a wise idea to begin with. Women often associate love with sex, this isn't the case in FWBs there's absolutely no feeling involved. That's why they say no strings attached. Emotionally, most women can't handle friends with ... (read in full...)
Do we get married in his country or mine?
Q. my boyfriend and i are planning on getting married, but i am not sure what we are supposed to do.he is from another country, although he has been here for few years now. is it easier for us to marry here or in his country? and what is required for ...
A. 2 December 2010: He has been in America for a few years so does he already have an American citizenship or a visa? If so then I would get married here if this is where you guys are going to live. When are you guys going to get married? I would call your local county ... (read in full...)
I want to be with my ex but I'm stuck with my husband!
Q. Okay. So, I have been married to my husband for about a month, and so far it has been horrible.We dated our Junior and Senior year of high school and then we broke up. I ended up dating someone else for a year and I was absolutely in love with him. ...
A. 2 December 2010: Why wait? You know it's not going to change in a month. Change takes a hell of a lot longer than that. It's in your best interest to get a divorce or this marriage annulled..only I'm unsure of the terms in which they'll grant you one. Something to ... (read in full...)
My ex-boyfriend keeps bugging me for sex when I have a girlfriend!
Q. Hi. I'm bisexual and recently got into a relationship with my first ever girlfriend. The problem is that my ex-boyfriend texts me all the time asking for sex and even when I say no, he suggests other things like oral sex or sexual contact. I ke...
A. 2 December 2010: Don't answer his texts or calls when he talks or asks specifically about sex. Or you're going to have to get firm and tell him off so that he'll get the idea. Does he not have other women he can make booty calls to?... (read in full...)
We broke and made up, then he's canceled our date all in 2 weeks!
Q. Well me and my friend "josh" have known each other since we were little. We are currently in highschool. At the beginning of November i asked him out and he said yea. But a day later he changes his mind and breaks up with me. He avoids me for a week ...
A. 2 December 2010: In a nutshell. Break up with him this time. ... (read in full...)
Do I really not have adult rights at 18?
Q. Do I really not have adult rights at eighteen? I went to the ER and they told me they needed my mom's signature. Then my mother told me she made an appointment at the gynecologist because I have irregular periods and told me the doctor will need to ...
A. 2 December 2010: Odds is correct when it comes down to being under your parent's health insurance you don't exactly have a choice. No one is trying to go against your constitutional rights. You're in your parents home so it's their house their rules..In fact not ... (read in full...)
Love Triangle, Mr. Big vs. Aidan. Who Should I Choose?
Q. I'm in a Love Triangle, which you could compare to Sex and the City's Carrie-Mr.Big-Aidan. And I don't know who to chose. In my case I've been in a relationship with Aidan for a year. He's the sensitive type that would do anything for you.He's down ...
A. 2 December 2010: Well if you're an avid SATC fan then you would have been rooting for Aidan the whole time..He's exactly what Carrie wants successful, down to earth, sweet, considerate, but yet she gives him up to cheat with Big. Big who tosses her around, Carrie ... (read in full...)
After having a little too much to drink one of my oldest friends and I ended up having sex.
Q. Ok, so I'm a little confused about how to deal with a situation I have found myself in... I am currently studying in university, away from home as are the rest of my friends from home (we are right across England) and one of my friends invited us ...
A. 1 December 2010: It was just drunken sex, it doesn't lead to a relationship. So you both had bad judgement, and it's possible it's been a while since you both have had sex. Neither of you were in a relationship, no one got hurt emotionally, and there are no feelings ... (read in full...)
I have feelings for my 16 year old student.
Q. hi.. i am a teacher who teache to 11th and 12th std studets. one of my students is intrested in me for friendship. she didnt expressed it but her body langue suggests that she is intrested in me. she is just 16years of and i am 34 years of age. my ...
A. 1 December 2010: How are you confused? You're a teacher not to mention an adult that teaches these students. In your position of power, you are not to engage in a relationship with this student.. Parents, admin, and these students trust you with their lives each ... (read in full...)
I want to have sex even though we're not in a relationship
Q. theres this guy i really like and at the moment were just friends we have has one or two drunken kisses before but i want to have sex with him. But i'm worried what everyone will think of me because were not together and will that just make it wierd ...
A. 1 December 2010: I won't give you that speech, but I will give you the you're a minor speech aka too young to have sex.
You're 13-15 too young to consent to sex. The legal age of consent for sex is 16 which you are not. It's illegal for you to engage in sexual a... (read in full...)
Tis the season...
Q. Hello Everyone. Here at Dear Cupid we receive many requests for help. Some are serious relationship problems, others aren't quite so serious. One such question is "What should I get my significant other for Christmas?" I intend to give you some ...
A. 1 December 2010: I'd like to add if you've only been with your boyfriend say a few months, then it's rather silly dropping a lot of $ on gift. What happens if you get him that awesome new iPod nano and he gets you a $30 gift certificate to the mall? Doesn't add up. ... (read in full...)
Thinking of leaving my family for another woman.
Q. Should I do it? Here's the background: I'm a married man, 40 years old, with 2 kids. Had an affair with a 52 year old woman. Fell in love. We broke it off because the wife was getting suspicious and the other woman was very concerned about ...
A. 1 December 2010: Stay married because you LOVE your wife...not because you think staying will benefit the children. Trust me it doesn't, I should know. Ultimately, you're going to make your own decision just beware every action has a consequence, this one will have ... (read in full...)
Sex toys: what is a dolphin ring?
Q. Hey, my bf said he'd like to use a dolphin ring? (i think) sex toy when we're in bed sometime...what is one of these?? he said he broke his last one!!...
A. 1 December 2010:
http://www.xandria.com/index.php?getpage=store&getsec=catalog&page=item&xpage=category&itemid=1106&theme=7&sess_id=533ef4342fe33f13b3c9daff51288ff0
http://www.theadulttoyshoppe.com/13053.htm
The first one is what you're talking about..howev... (read in full...)
Why is it so bad someone my age has sex?
Q. Hi, I was thinking today, why is it so bad someone my age has sex? I assure you I haven't but I was talking to my mom and she said as long as you are responsible(using multiple forms of birth control) and had sex with someone you trusted and knew ...
A. 1 December 2010: If it is more power to you. Like I said not trying to knock you down or argue with you, but you will get what I mean when you're in your 20s. I don't expect you to understand me. But you are mature for your age..and it's nice to hear of a 13-15 not ... (read in full...)
For girls, what's your taste in guys?
Q. I know every girl has diffrent taste in guys but these are just a few questions I can think of off the top of my head that I want to know the answer to 1.Do girls like guys with long hair? 2.Do girls like guys who call them babe or baby? (I d...
A. 30 November 2010: A nice change from the usual roundup! Keep in mind I'm 25 but I remember 16-17.
1. Actually, I'm put off by long hair, the whole in a ponytail Steven Seagal look just doesn't do it for me. If it's longer than mine I'd be a little jealous. I prefer... (read in full...)
Why is it so bad someone my age has sex?
Q. Hi, I was thinking today, why is it so bad someone my age has sex? I assure you I haven't but I was talking to my mom and she said as long as you are responsible(using multiple forms of birth control) and had sex with someone you trusted and knew ...
A. 30 November 2010: There's a big difference between being in love with someone versus infatuation. At your age and limited dating experience, it's when you get a taste of the real world and the bigger dating pool is when you get an understanding of real love. Right ... (read in full...)
13, pregnant and don't know what to do...
Q. hi I'm 13 and pregnant, I'm scared, dunno what to do and not sure who the dad is! Only my best friend knows, not sure what to do... its been 2 months now I'm scared HELPPPP...
A. 30 November 2010: If you want to have an abortion on the NHS, you might find it beneficial to discuss options with a health professional. You will need a referral from two doctors who have to agree that the requirements of the Abortion Act 1967 have been met.
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24 reasons of why I should break up with him?
Q. Ok so I've listed the things my ex has done during our 6 month relationship. What would others say/do in response to this kind of behaviour? 1. Leaving me outside in the cold waiting for him while he continued to drink with mates and ignore me...
A. 30 November 2010: These 24 crappy things he has done to you are 24 reasons reminding you why you broke up with him. Move on, there's no need to take him back and 24 more to the list. ... (read in full...)
Long distance relationship advice sought...
Q. I really need some advice about my LDR. My bf is coming back for a month at xmas (he works in south America and i live in the UK) but only wants to see me for about a week. I don't want to be unreasonable cos I know he has to see his friends and ...
A. 30 November 2010: Are we talking a week straight? I think he could take on another week in order to be fair. But you also have to compromise with time spent with his friends and family. Just ask if he would possibly add on a another week or half of a week..Tell him ... (read in full...)
Ladies, what turns you on?
Q. My girlfriend just got back from California and I kind of wanted to make her feel good about being back. i also wanted to turn a small welcome back kiss, into... something more. I guess I'm asking for a list of things that would turn you on......
A. 30 November 2010: That's going to very from woman to woman. I wouldn't necessarily jump her bones the day she gets back, unless she totally initiates it. Be sweet and romantic..have a nice bouquet of flowers in your hand, a nice dinner planned out, a bubble bath ... (read in full...)
My curfew is causing problems!
Q. What is going on? Should I break up with him? We have been dating for nearly 5 months. I don't want to say that our relationship is perfect but we hadn't been through any dramas or fights. He is a year older than me, much more mature but has a...
A. 30 November 2010: What's really the problem here? Is it the communication, the fact that you feel like you're putting more in than you're getting in return? From your post it sounds like much more than just a strict curfew.
Seeing as your 18-21, 6 and 9 on the week... (read in full...)
Why is it so bad someone my age has sex?
Q. Hi, I was thinking today, why is it so bad someone my age has sex? I assure you I haven't but I was talking to my mom and she said as long as you are responsible(using multiple forms of birth control) and had sex with someone you trusted and knew ...
A. 30 November 2010: Sex isn't wrong nor is it a sin. The reason why someone your age cannot consent to sex is because of the laws intact. Legal age of consent is 16-18 varies per state. At your age you are considered a child, a minor who's parents are held responsible ... (read in full...)
Thinking of leaving my family for another woman.
Q. Should I do it? Here's the background: I'm a married man, 40 years old, with 2 kids. Had an affair with a 52 year old woman. Fell in love. We broke it off because the wife was getting suspicious and the other woman was very concerned about ...
A. 30 November 2010: Ask your wife for a divorce..you don't love her, counseling was a failed attempt. Basically, you're only bound to her by your children. You're children are too young to understand a divorce and it will be better for them in the long run to grow up ... (read in full...)
13, pregnant and don't know what to do...
Q. hi I'm 13 and pregnant, I'm scared, dunno what to do and not sure who the dad is! Only my best friend knows, not sure what to do... its been 2 months now I'm scared HELPPPP...
A. 29 November 2010: For Britain, you have until the 18th week to have an abortion that's for the approved methods. Obviously the sooner the better..
Now, if your thinking abortion..they are costly so are you going to pay for it? They're not free. Also the age is 1... (read in full...)
13, pregnant and don't know what to do...
Q. hi I'm 13 and pregnant, I'm scared, dunno what to do and not sure who the dad is! Only my best friend knows, not sure what to do... its been 2 months now I'm scared HELPPPP...
A. 29 November 2010: We just told you what to do OP, you're a minor and in your parents care. How do you know how far along you are, you don't know who the father is, and you haven't received any prenatal care? You HAVE to tell them your are pregnant! What about your ... (read in full...)
13, pregnant and don't know what to do...
Q. hi I'm 13 and pregnant, I'm scared, dunno what to do and not sure who the dad is! Only my best friend knows, not sure what to do... its been 2 months now I'm scared HELPPPP...
A. 27 November 2010: No one can answer that question for you, it's your decision. That's why you need to tell your parents right away so they can discuss your options and help you make the right decision for you.
No where in Cerebus's did he say he thinks you shou... (read in full...)
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