Wife taking 24 condoms on holiday when she is going with 3 other women.
Q. hi my wife and i have funny kind of marrage (i think we have been married a lot of years) yes i know how many 30. each year she and 3 old (well same age girlfriends go away on holiday for a week. this year they are going on a crusie and i was...
A. 4 October 2010: Well if you are ok with your wife cheating on you then so be it.... (read in full...)
What the hell is she thinking? Am I just paranoid?
Q. My girlfriend and I have been through a lot. We've been together for 2.5 years and we're both 20. Back in May we broke up (although she thinks we broke up in April) and we were apart for three weeks. After getting back together things were ...
A. 2 October 2010: This relationship is a disaster. You need to start working on your self confidence and stop going through your girlfriends phone and computer this is really private stuff and its wrong, and to read a girls journal well that just takes the biscuit, ... (read in full...)
Is 30 days long enough to be serious?
Q. recently crossed paths with an old high school friend. our first date was over to meet the family. on last week he stated he wanted me to meet his son who is 17 years old and does not live with him. also he has told me about his financial history. ...
A. 2 October 2010: The only way for you to find that out dear is to ask him. If you dont feel ready to ask him yet just take things slowely and see what happens and time will soon tell. Goodluck... (read in full...)
Help with the family tree?
Q. im seeing this guy but im confused... my mum has a half brother called mich and he has a cousin called guy, guy has a cousin called zak. if zak is cousins with guy and guy is cousins with my mums half brother mich does that make me and...
A. 1 October 2010: Then no you are not related so dont worry. Be happy and enjoy your relationship and be glad that you'se arent related :-)... (read in full...)
I'm embarassed by my wife's flirting!
Q. My wife and I separated for sexual reasons but recently got back together. I am satisfied and am happy about it because I love her. She loves me, too, even if sometimes she thinks she doesn't (calls me a "stick-in-the-mud." My wife is very ...
A. 1 October 2010: Oh this must be really really hard on you your poor man, of course you would be embarressed its like she is making a show of you in front of your friends. You really need to tell her how this is making you feel, its not natural to be flirting all ... (read in full...)
I want to find out if she likes me without letting her know that I like her
Q. Since I've gone back to school, I've met this girl that my other friends used to hang out with in the past year. Sometimes we get phisical contact, forced by her or by me, she get excuses to grab me in the chest, stomach or arm, during classes ...
A. 1 October 2010: Without being to obvious the next time you are on your own with her ask her would she like to go and see a film with you. ... (read in full...)
Trying to be friends again after a fight, but he's not opening up
Q. Over the summer I got into a fight with someone really special to me. Now since we have been back in school me and him have talked a little bit about what happened. He doesn't seem to hate me, but he won't tell me whats wrong all that he's says is ...
A. 1 October 2010: There is nothing you really can do but wait until this guy is ready to talk and let you back in his life, maybe give him a little text and tell him you really miss him and his friendship means the world to you... (read in full...)
What does it mean when a guys says he's "smitten"?
Q. Hey, I'd like some advice on interpreting a comment from a guy, please. I've been seeing a guy from work for a few weeks after chatting for a few months. He arranged some amazing dates for us, and we slept together this week :) Today he sent me a ...
A. 1 October 2010: It means that he really likes you. So go and be happy... (read in full...)
He cheated and got her pregnant; do I give him another chance?
Q. Okay. So me and my boyfriend been together for 8 months. We are very much in love and are the best things that ever happened to each other. The whole 8months of our relationship so far we've been keeping everything faithful and we trust each other. ...
A. 1 October 2010: Aw i dont think you should trust this guy. At the end of the day he didnt even tell you he cheated on you until he found out she was carrying his child, so there could be plenty of other times he cheated and you just never found out. However if you ... (read in full...)
He cheated and got her pregnant; do I give him another chance?
Q. Okay. So me and my boyfriend been together for 8 months. We are very much in love and are the best things that ever happened to each other. The whole 8months of our relationship so far we've been keeping everything faithful and we trust each other. ...
A. 1 October 2010: Aw i dont think you should trust this guy. At the end of the day he didnt even tell you he cheated on you until he found out she was carrying his child, so there could be plenty of other times he cheated and you just never found out. However if you ... (read in full...)
Is it reasonable to ask her to break her friendship with the guy she slept with?
Q. My girlfriend of 3 1/2 years broke up with me stating she wasnt happy anymore, we were apart for 2 weeks and got back together again for a night and hooked up and she told me she was still in love with me. But then again less than a week later she ...
A. 1 October 2010: At the end of the day if this guy is a close friend of hers then no its not ok to tell her to lose him, you cant make her do that if they were close friends. her head may have just been all over the place after the break up as she obviously didnt no ... (read in full...)
Doubting our relationship, but I'm afraid to break up
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for 8 months now and things were great. But lately I've been doubting our relationship. It's just not fun anymore, and he's starting to just annoy me. I would break up with him but some things are holding me back: 1) We ...
A. 1 October 2010: These reasons arent reasons to stay with someone if you dont want to be in a relationship.
1. if they are true friends then they wont fall out with you.
2. if your not happy then explain to him that you just need to be on your own.
3. you c... (read in full...)
Help... I don't feel like I fit in because I don't drink or go out partying!
Q. I began college a month ago (I went early, I turn 18 in a few months' time) and I'm having trouble relating properly to people because almost everyone else here is going out drinking and partying till really late and I can't. It doesn't seem like ...
A. 1 October 2010: Well firstly yes most people when they go off to college, party and drink alot this doesnt mean you are wrong in not doing it and also you shouldnt change to fit in with people, if the partying scene is not for you then if theyre friends they wont ... (read in full...)
Help me get out of this situation!
Q. I will try and explain my question as best as I can,I know its long but please help.Here goes... Me and this guy have known each other for 6 years altogether.We dated for about 10 months and then we moved in together when I was 16 to his area which ...
A. 1 October 2010: Oh how horrible for you sweetie. I agree that you need to get away from this house, i think you should ring your parents and tell them whats happened, am sure you could sleep on the couch even for a few weeks until you can get a job and a bit off ... (read in full...)
Do I dare tell him how I feel?
Q. Hi! So I just turned 18. I have a question for everyone. I would do this not as anonymous...but I kind of want no one to know who I am....ya I know that's weird. Here goes. Once again I'm 18 and I've never had a boyfriend. I've had guys like me and ...
A. 1 October 2010: Well he obviously cares alot about you to be one of your friends in the first place, so thats half the battle, and as for your weight this doesnt matter am sure he likes you for you and not what size you are. So pluck up the courage to tell him you ... (read in full...)
How do I get over his texting and our breakup?
Q. I found out that my boyfriend of two years was texting another woman he said she doesnt mean anything, yet he texted her everyday monday to friday when he was on a two week holiday with me. We broke up as I felt although the texts were vague and not ...
A. 1 October 2010: Well maybe u were a bit rash, alot of men text females doesnt mean they are going to cheat, alot of my friends call me babe and sign texts of with a kiss but you need to trust this man to be in a relationship with him and its obvious you dont. Did ... (read in full...)
Is she blowing me off to start something with this other guy?
Q. I think my ex is seeing someone else but she won't tell me that she is and its really annoying me because our break wasn't supposed to be permanent just until she found a way to deal with her problems IE severe depression and alcoholism. She said we ...
A. 1 October 2010: You no what i dont no how people can be so cruel, but i guess somewere down the line we all change, and possibly she is trying to save your feelings by not being honest with you yet she is just making it more painful and probably doesnt even ... (read in full...)
Why doesn't she answer my call or call me right back?
Q. i met some one with whom i wanna advance my relationship,got her phone number,but i doesn't replies quite regularly ,she replies after an hour or so and says that she's busy any suggestions?...
A. 1 October 2010: If she doesnt seem interested then am afraid there is nothing you can do, go and look for another women that is interested in you and wants to get to know you.... (read in full...)
In a relationship with a military man. Can anyone help me understand him?
Q. I am finding this emotion so hard to cope with and feel as if this is the only thing bad in my relationship with a wonderful man. I love him very much, and he has said he loves me too and thinks about me all the time. I have been in a 5month rela...
A. 1 October 2010: Are you sure this man loves you? Him keeping his family very private and hardly making an effort shows different am afraid. You cant keep living like this, it will only tear you up to pieces. Explain to him that you want to be more involved in his ... (read in full...)
Met a great guy in Turkey but not sure how to proceed
Q. I have just come back from Turkey in July and met a really nice Turkish man who is aged 22 we got on really well and with my son and family. We have spoken everyday and we are now in love and would love to get married one day. He wishes to move here ...
A. 1 October 2010: Well then get him to research jobs online and to move over to you, best of luck... (read in full...)
He's not in to sexy text-talk any more?
Q. My bf of two years used to love sexy talk via texts. Now he doesn't really engage in it. Is there a reason for this change? He still enjoys sex and gets turned on, so I don't quite understand the change. ...
A. 1 October 2010: am sure you are worrying over nothing, if you still have a healthy sex life and a good relationship then maybe he just prefers to be with you physically than texting you. ... (read in full...)
Anniversary tomorrow and don't know what to do!!!! Help!
Q. Eek! Its our 2 year anniversary tomorrow (since we met) and weve been so busy that we havent thought about booking anything we would like to do. I wanted to see a show in London or go to a spa but 1. Its too late to book, and.. 2. We can only se...
A. 1 October 2010: Well you have cancelled out a lot of things that you dont want to do. But it shouldnt matter what you do as long as you are together, why not do something fun like go bowling? Or ice skating?... (read in full...)
He wants to be single?
Q. i was with this guy for 9 months he was my first love and i lost my virginity to him.everything was great until he said to me he wants to be single. i dont understand why he wants to be single or if i done anything to him ? he said to me yesterday ...
A. 1 October 2010: Am afraid nobody can help you hear, if he doesnt want to be with you then you cant change that am afraid. Am sure it wasnt anything you done, you are only young and am afraid to say more than likely you will get your heart broken again its all part ... (read in full...)
Should I tell her who I don't like?
Q. Okay, so my friend and I were talking about other people that thought we liked them but we just acted that way to be nice. There is this person that used to be really mean to me and now I don't like them but they think I'm their best friend. I ...
A. 1 October 2010: Ok well first of, why are you friends with someone you dont like? you are fooling yourself and bein false and two faced if you dont like someone dont be friends with them simple as, as for the girl that you like dont lie to her, you should never lie ... (read in full...)
My friend never laughs at all
Q. my freind is a girl and i dont think she has a funny bone in her. what i mean is that she never laughs at all.. for EXP: my fat asain funny guy (we all know one)was with me when i was with her, while we were talking about knotts, and he said "im ...
A. 1 October 2010: Dont be worrying about making people laugh maybe this girl is just quiet and doesnt have much of a sense of humour i wouldnt say its your fault, as you will grow older you will learn to just be yourself and not try to be someone different to impress ... (read in full...)
Tips for Phone Sex
Q. Ok so im in a long distance relationship with my GF and was wondering if i could get any tips for phone sex. When we were together we had sex quite a bit and when we talk on the phone we reminisce on the times spent together. So yea any help or ...
A. 1 October 2010: Just do whatever you feel comfortable with, everyone is differnt and theres no real tips on this subject just be yourself and ask each other things that are private to you'se and talk about old times to get you'se in the mood... (read in full...)
My girlfriend hates my mother!
Q. Hey everybody, Well here it goes. I currently been with my gf for 3 years now and we have had a ton of ups and downs. In my opinion high school drama. But we had a kid together shes the best thing that ever happened to me. shes 17 months now and j...
A. 1 October 2010: What a horrible situation to be in you poor fella. Well first of you need to sit down with your gf and explain to her how you feel, tell her you understand why she doesnt like your mum but at the end of the day she is your mum and that your gf is ... (read in full...)
Is she blowing me off to start something with this other guy?
Q. I think my ex is seeing someone else but she won't tell me that she is and its really annoying me because our break wasn't supposed to be permanent just until she found a way to deal with her problems IE severe depression and alcoholism. She said we ...
A. 1 October 2010: Its hard to tell, but hun if you keep contacting her you are just going to push her away from you completely, i agree that it is totally unfair the way she is treating you at the minute, she should just be honest with you and i no this must be so ... (read in full...)
I don't think I love my boyfriend anymore
Q. ok so im not sure if i love my boyfriend anymore im .t years still living with my parents a college student and i have a part time job. I have been dating my bf for almost 3 years n im not sure wether or not i still love him..hes the only guy i have ...
A. 1 October 2010: i guess the only way to know how you feel is to take a break from the relationship, tell him you need some time to sort out your head and agree on a time limit, say maybe a month? Then make a promise that neither of you contact each other within ... (read in full...)
Does she like me? She smiles and her face turns red
Q. ok im a guy lesbian and i like this girl but we are just friends because she has a boyfriend but everytime im around her she smiles at me and her face turns red so does this mean that she likes me...
A. 1 October 2010: its hard to tell, and its a very difficult topic among teenagers to admit that they are gay or lesbian. i guess time will tell, does this girl know that you are a lesbian? maybe she just feels self concious around you. maybe take time to talk to her ... (read in full...)
He says lets take it slow but I don't see much effort
Q. i moved outfrom my husband last year,because someone told me he was messing with their sister. during that time i started daing someone from my past. my husband tried to come back and i wouldn't let.then the girl told me 3 mths ago that she lied an ...
A. 1 October 2010: Firstly you shouldnt have finished with your husband so quickly without getting the full story do you realise how much you must have hurt him by doing this??
Well i would say your husband has a barrier up as he doesnt want you to hurt him again an... (read in full...)
Does he still like me? How can I move on. Please help
Q. Hi All, Please can you advise!! I have recently split with a short term BF. I really really loved him, and am finding it very hard to get over him. He had to change his number, and when I asked he gave me the new one, also, I have been very foolish, ...
A. 1 October 2010: Well you are only prolonging the pain even more darling by continuesly contacting him, once a relationship has broken up you need a gap from that to talking again as friends, you need to give yourself time away from this man and you need to lose ... (read in full...)
Things are not the same and I feel he may have another girl
Q. hi cupid.. ilove this guy so much..but whenever he talks on the phone..i feel he has another girl..lately things are not the same.. he does show me love at times he seems less interested and doesnt even call me every now and then like he used ...
A. 1 October 2010: Well first of, what makes you feel like he has another girl? He must be saying something to you to make you feel this way, if he is not calling you as much then maybe it is simply because he has not much to say to you, do you spend a lot of time ... (read in full...)
An old flame is still in my life, and now I have re-married I hate that I still have feelings for him!
Q. Creep or love connection?? 17 years ago I was raising 3 great kids, but married to an alcoholic.. Not in a happy place. I worked at a resturaunt/store, and a local buisness owner who alway's treated me very nicely began really notcing me. Fast...
A. 1 October 2010: Well first of no matter what your first husband was like you should never ever have cheated on him, especially with a married man, that was just really wrong, and karma goes what comes around goes around, and quite possibly now that you are happily ... (read in full...)
Can we love two individuals at one time?
Q. Its been almost three years for my arranged marriage. I was just 25 when I tied a knot with the girl who is three years younger to me……I was very happily working and was enjoying every single moment of my marriage life….Before my marriage I was in...
A. 1 October 2010: You are playing with two lives and it is very very wrong, you are going to end up really hurting one of these women is that what you want? first of, you should never have gave this girl your number you said you are happily married so why did you ... (read in full...)
My friend is homesick now we are at Uni and she is making me miss out on the things I want to do....
Q. Hey. I'd like some advice regarding my friend. Last Saturday, I started uni. One of my best friends has also come to the same uni as me, same accommodation but different course. I didn't think going to the same uni would be a problem as we di...
A. 1 October 2010: Well yes try and support this girl if she is homesick it cant be easy, try talking to her and advising her to maybe talk to some of the girls on her course, tell her that it would be easier for her if she made friends on the same course as her and ... (read in full...)
Wife taking 24 condoms on holiday when she is going with 3 other women.
Q. hi my wife and i have funny kind of marrage (i think we have been married a lot of years) yes i know how many 30. each year she and 3 old (well same age girlfriends go away on holiday for a week. this year they are going on a crusie and i was...
A. 1 October 2010: Erm unless i have competely mistaken the point here, but why the hell would you be ok with this??? She is your wife and you should both ALWAYS be faithful by the looks of it if she has 24 condoms going on holiday with her then its on her mind to ... (read in full...)
Is this marriage a waste of time?
Q. hello hope everyone is doing well.heres my problem,problems I should say.I have repeatly told my husband that It upsets me when the first thing in the morning he turns on the computer,as if it's the most imporant thing in his life,yet every morning ...
A. 1 October 2010: Maybe he has an addiction problem to the computer? Its became routine now to him and its probably very hard to break. Maybe he needs to get help with it, you need to ask him why he keeps disobeying you and hurting your feelings tell him how stronly ... (read in full...)
He just wants to be friends but I'm pregnant with his baby.....how do I get him back?
Q. i want my boyfriend back but he wants to be just friends but i'm having his child. he broke up with me before summer. how do i get him back......
A. 1 October 2010: I'm afraid if his mind is made up then there is nothing you can do to change it, you just have to put your mind in to preparing for your baby's arrival and hope that he will financially support you, sorry that you are in this perdicament but nobody ... (read in full...)
After our 3some and 4some I am wondering if I should continue the relationship?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 6 months and recently had a foursome (MMFF) and a few weeks after that had threesome with the girl we had a foursome with. My boyfriend wanted to do it because he has never had a threesome or foursome ...
A. 1 October 2010: i think you should cut your ties hunny and go find a man that deserves you.... (read in full...)
Why am I so confused?
Q. Okay, so I started talking to this guy Travis last year around february. He was in one of my classes and was really into me. We hung out on the weekends almost every night going to parties and stuff. We also studied together for class a lot. ...
A. 1 October 2010: just approach it as gently as you can, ask him what does he see you as if he would ever see himself in a relationship with you or are you just a bit of fun to him. ... (read in full...)
Why does he say he loves me but is willing to drop me like I'm nothing?
Q. I love him but he hurts me, Every day. What should I do? He hurts me mentally,physically,emotional. He says he loves me, but he is willing to choose the someone else who is just a "friend" over us. He is so willing to drop me like nothing. Why? ...
A. 1 October 2010: Well they obviously arent good friends if they arent going to talk to you over this, if they cared about you then they would be there for you at this difficult time and be glad that you got out of an abusive relationship, they arent worth it, just ... (read in full...)
Why am I so confused?
Q. Okay, so I started talking to this guy Travis last year around february. He was in one of my classes and was really into me. We hung out on the weekends almost every night going to parties and stuff. We also studied together for class a lot. ...
A. 29 September 2010: You have your advice right there in your question, the only way to resolve this is to sit him down and ask him were you stand, and this needs to be done when he is sober, there is no other way. good luck... (read in full...)
After our 3some and 4some I am wondering if I should continue the relationship?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 6 months and recently had a foursome (MMFF) and a few weeks after that had threesome with the girl we had a foursome with. My boyfriend wanted to do it because he has never had a threesome or foursome ...
A. 27 September 2010: This was a really bad path to go down, having 3somes and 4somes in relationships are not good for the simple fact is its very hard to recover from them, jelousy sets in and its hard to get the image out of your head, as for the ecstasy i dont agree ... (read in full...)
Why does he say he loves me but is willing to drop me like I'm nothing?
Q. I love him but he hurts me, Every day. What should I do? He hurts me mentally,physically,emotional. He says he loves me, but he is willing to choose the someone else who is just a "friend" over us. He is so willing to drop me like nothing. Why? ...
A. 26 September 2010: Yes dont be scared to leave him, you need to do this for yourself, he doesnt deserve you and you dont deserve to be treated this way, please take everyones advice and walk away from him.... (read in full...)
Why does he say he loves me but is willing to drop me like I'm nothing?
Q. I love him but he hurts me, Every day. What should I do? He hurts me mentally,physically,emotional. He says he loves me, but he is willing to choose the someone else who is just a "friend" over us. He is so willing to drop me like nothing. Why? ...
A. 24 September 2010: Darling if he is hurting you physically emotionally and mentally then he doesnt love you especially if you arent coming first in his eyes, and physical violence is a no no, get out of this relationship now its a sham and you are onyl going to get ... (read in full...)
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