Is it his love or lust or just passing time?
Q. i have a cousin who has fallen in love with me. before that we were very close to each other. he was always joking with me and me also i like him a lot.(just like a cousin) however since the past weeks while having a chat with him on the internet he ...
A. 23 September 2010: Girl he is your cousin sweetheart, this is illegal to have him as your boyfriend and it sounds like he is young and niave and is playing with your emotions. You have to tell your cousin that all he is to you is a cousin and nothing more, nothing ... (read in full...)
Annoying ex co-worker--I've started hiding from her because she always comes around
Q. Please help guys! I used to work with this girl who was very insecure and nosey. She always used to poke her nose in eveyones business, was opinionated and invited herself to everything everyone was doing. She left our company 5 months ago- than...
A. 23 September 2010: You need to be very careful how you approach this situation. A needy person can pick everything up the wrong way and am sure no matter what that you dont want to hurt this person. But am afraid to tell you honesty is the best policy, you are going ... (read in full...)
Should I tell her of my feelings or just keep them inside?
Q. Hi everyone :) So this may be a long post, for which I apologise in advance. Ok well it was late 2008 that I first met the absolute love of my young life, I shall call her L. The problem being that I was a year 9/10 student and she was my 30 s...
A. 23 September 2010: Hi i dont think you should tell mrs E your feelings at all. We all go through these crushes when we are at school and we believe that we are in love, but believe me in another few years you will look back and realise that it was simply a crush, at ... (read in full...)
Serial cheater? 3rd relationship I've cheated in
Q. I have been in a good relationship for about 9 months but in these 9 months I have managed to cheat on my partner several times, he has forgiven me for this but this is the third relationship I have done this in, I never used to do this before then, ...
A. 23 September 2010: If you have no recollection of it is this because possibly you had to much alcohol? If this is the case, stop drinking if it means destroying your relationship it is not worth it. I am a true believer that if you are truely in love then you wont ... (read in full...)
I'm worried about our future since our communication seems to be a little off. Am I right to worry?
Q. Hey Dear Cupid, My concern is about the communication between my fiance and I. We seem to have our differences and not understand each other or see each other eye to eye at times. And our communication is off balance. I feel our minor difference...
A. 22 September 2010: Your right you need communication as a couple or things just dont work out or they get worse. You need to sit down with your partner and tell him the extent as to how much this is scaring you, he may not realise how bad you think it is. I think ... (read in full...)
Difference in being friendly? and being interested?
Q. How can I tell if someone is interested? I get the random texts asking how im doing and how my day is going from time to time, i recently got invited to a sporting event with some of his friends and had a great time. And he seems interested in ...
A. 22 September 2010: Only one way to sort it out. Ask him straight out. Take the first move guys love that. If your shy just give him a text and ask him out on a date. If he says no it may dent your confidence but at least then you will have your answer and you can move ... (read in full...)
Id rather live this fake life than know no love even fake love. what do I do
Q. im lost i am young married two kids and lost i dont know what to do all of my friends have left because of my jealous husband i had so many but now i have two and we are not even that close i had a best friend but she just tucked tail and ran ...
A. 22 September 2010: Darling you are fooling yourself. You need to get out of this relationship dont make excuses just take the children and go. If you are unhappy your children pick up on it and they will be equally unhappy. You need to find the strength to leave, or ... (read in full...)
Can a guy get morning sickness on behalf of his pregnant girlfriend?
Q. dear dearest friends and family please help me with the needed advise that i seek, i am 4 days ago me and my girlfriend had an unproted sex but just right befor the moment i pull out, i am sure of didnt ejeculate in her but i think my semen might ...
A. 22 September 2010: You cannot get morning sickness maybe you have got a tummy bug. I sugest that you go and get STI tested as there may be a risk that you have caught and infection or deciese through unprotected sex. Always wear a condom and get tested reguarly.... (read in full...)
I want out... but I need some encouragement!
Q. My story is i have been in a relationship for over two years. I live with him and he is a great person. But, for the last year i would say i have been thinking of leaving him. But, i don't do it. I don't have the guts to do it. I almost left him ...
A. 22 September 2010: Erm dear you are meant to be his partner not his mother!! You need to stand up for yourself as this man is walkin all over you. I'm sure he may very well love you but he has got in to a way of life that he is living of you and this aint fair you ... (read in full...)
Not in love anymore? Break up after 8 years? What to do?
Q. Hey everyone, I'll cut to the chase. Im a 29 year old male, been with my girlfriend for 8 years, going on 9. She's 27. We've both had our ups and downs and have been through some devastating situations, trust issues, etc. I love her dearly, she'...
A. 22 September 2010: I see this happening a lot, am guessing you still love your girlfriend a lot but you just arent in love with her anymore. We fall out of love all the time it cant be helped. My advice to you would be to be honest to yourself and to your girlfriend ... (read in full...)
Getting married soon, virgins and no urge for sex?
Q. I have a problem and I am confused. I am 27 and a virgin. I had always stopped myself from having sex till I was 22yo. Coz i thought it would affect my studies in school and college. I started viewing porn in college and was really deep into...
A. 22 September 2010: I am sure you have just got bored of waiting to have sex and that is why you have lost all interest you need to spice things up big time before it is to late. Have a romantic night in take things slowely and have plenty of foreplay and massaging. ... (read in full...)
My best friend just dropped me! What do I do?
Q. hi i have a friendship problem this is going to be quite long so please bare with me. i have been best friends with my best friend for 12 years we have been like siseters she was part of my family. i have been in a relationship for the past year ...
A. 22 September 2010: Aww girls will be girls and friendships are very vunerable. You say you never noticed that you had done anything to her yet i bet it was eating her up inside for ages and she just exploded inside. I had a friend that done the exact same. Im sure it ... (read in full...)
I'm caught between two guys! How do I stay with the right one?
Q. Dear Cupid.... I'm dating this guy who I realy like...we have been dating for 4 months...we broke up after the first 3 months...and dated again... then we broke up, because he kissed another girl in a club...but he said that it wasn't his fault...
A. 22 September 2010: Darling you are way to young to have yourself caught up in situations like these, you should be out enjoying yourself and meeting new people. Here is my advice. Dont mess these two boys around because you may lose both of them. You say your friends ... (read in full...)
I could use some gift buying advice!
Q. Me(16) and my boyfriend(17 almost 18) have been on and off for 4 years now. Now that we're older we have been together for 11 months straight! :) He always gets me the best presents, but i have no idea what to get him for his 18th birthday! He is ...
A. 22 September 2010: if you dont have much money maybe you could think on making him something creative, maybe a collage of photos of you'se together or else you could maybe make him a quilt with his favorite football team on it. believe me home made things that come ... (read in full...)
How can he change his feelings so quickly?
Q. I was with my ex for 7 yrs. and engaged for 2 of those yrs. We had plans to marry July 4th weekend 2010 but, 1 mth. before that my ex broke it off with me only stating that he was not happy and needed a break. I of course pleaded with him to ...
A. 22 September 2010: Hi to be honest this sounds as if your fella just got cold feet and freaked out a little bit. You would be surprised at how many men cheat on there partners before a wedding due to them being scared of commitment. But you need to be honest with ... (read in full...)
His love for his mistress ruined our marriage!
Q. Hi guys I am 37 years and have been married with my husband for 14 years. About 3 years ago he cheated on me with another woman and the relationship lasted a long time because of his drinking and drug abuse. He left me in 2009 to move in with her ...
A. 22 September 2010: Taking cheating parterns back never work, especially if there is voiolence in the relationship. I can understand why you are completely heartbroken you done everything for this man only for him to let you down again, if he ever comes knocking on ... (read in full...)
We need eachother to move on, opinions please!
Q. me and him are just likely as a friend, coincidentally, both of us just get dump by our boyfriend/girlfriend.. so we think we need each other to move on.. after knowing him for about a week n days, on the few time(2 or 3) of our meeting,we alrea...
A. 22 September 2010: it can be quite risky when both of use have just come out of a relationship. Dont get in to anything serious just get to no each other and have fun keep it simple until both of use are over your ex's and ready to commit to each other.... (read in full...)
Should I just tell him to go be a slob somewhere else? I don't know what to do anymore!
Q. help! i'm not sure what to do. I've been in a relationship now for 3-4 years with my kids' dad. Right now i cant even look him in the eye. here goes. I am a stay at home mom. He works night shift. when he gets home from work in the morning, ...
A. 22 September 2010: you have told him time and time again that he needs to change but he is not listening properly as he knows they are just empty threats. you cant live your life this way. if your unhappy your children will pick up on this no matter how hard you put a ... (read in full...)
Please help.. cheating boyfriend, what do I do?
Q. I really need some help. My partner of 8 years told me two days ago that he chated on me three years ago when I was living in Russia for 6 months. He was lonely, and resentful and had been drinking and had taken some drugs and so he called a pros...
A. 22 September 2010: well at least he is getting help that is a start. His past has obviously messed his head up but this is no excuse to cheat on you. you need to sit down and tell him how you feel he has to earn your trust back and he needs to no that. its not easy ... (read in full...)
My wife decieved me about having an abortion and an STD in the past, and now I am struggling to forgive and forget.
Q. When my wife and I were still dating she told me she had been with lots of guys. I asked her if she had ever had a STD or been pregnant before, she said no. Two weeks later the told me she had herpes, one week later she found out she was pregnant. ...
A. 22 September 2010: I can totally understand your point of view on this, everyone has different beliefs. but just take a minute to accept that your wife was young and nobody is perfect we all make mistakes. maybe this is eating her up as well maybe take time to think ... (read in full...)
Am I weak or I am I just really cursed with bad luck?
Q. There is everything wrong in this moment in my life. At the last 10 years was an unstoppable downward spiral. What destroyed me greatly.I m unable to give all details, because, its too easy to recognise them. I can tell you generally. Every...
A. 21 September 2010: Sounds like your having a really bad time. Am sure your not cursed though we all have bad spells from time to time. You need to gain more self confidence as you are very down on yourself and your very negative at the moment. Take time to get to know ... (read in full...)
Hard breakup
Q. So here's the situation. My girlfriend and I recently broke up, and it's hurting really bad. We were in a long distance relationship of 1 year and things started out fantastic. But towards the end of the relationship she started to pay less ...
A. 21 September 2010: Hi that sounds really awful on you. relationship breakdowns are hard but we all finally move on. i guess your ex just couldnt cope with the strain of long distance as this can be hard to tackle. and as for the age gap i am a firm believer that age ... (read in full...)
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