Why does he say he loves me but is willing to drop me like I'm nothing?
Q. I love him but he hurts me, Every day. What should I do? He hurts me mentally,physically,emotional. He says he loves me, but he is willing to choose the someone else who is just a "friend" over us. He is so willing to drop me like nothing. Why? ...
A. 1 October 2010: Well they obviously arent good friends if they arent going to talk to you over this, if they cared about you then they would be there for you at this difficult time and be glad that you got out of an abusive relationship, they arent worth it, just ... (read in full...)
Her mixed signals are confusing me! What should I do?
Q. Girlfriend said she wanted to break up then changed her mind. For roughly two weeks we were talking daily and taking it slow. She even said things were good between us. Then she wanted to visit me last weekend and didn't show up last minute. ...
A. 27 September 2010: Sounds like jelousy and she sounds like she is really playing with your head. I think you should cut your ties.... (read in full...)
Her mixed signals are confusing me! What should I do?
Q. Girlfriend said she wanted to break up then changed her mind. For roughly two weeks we were talking daily and taking it slow. She even said things were good between us. Then she wanted to visit me last weekend and didn't show up last minute. ...
A. 26 September 2010: Just give her some time and dont blame yourself. She may just need some time to sort her head out. There is not a lot more you can do about it, things will get better in time.... (read in full...)
Why does he say he loves me but is willing to drop me like I'm nothing?
Q. I love him but he hurts me, Every day. What should I do? He hurts me mentally,physically,emotional. He says he loves me, but he is willing to choose the someone else who is just a "friend" over us. He is so willing to drop me like nothing. Why? ...
A. 26 September 2010: Yes dont be scared to leave him, you need to do this for yourself, he doesnt deserve you and you dont deserve to be treated this way, please take everyones advice and walk away from him.... (read in full...)
I think she's the one for me ...
Q. My girlfriend and I recently broke up and it has been tough. The hardest part is knowing that I think she's the one for me. I know that she loves me too, is there anything I can do to convince her that she and I belong together?...
A. 26 September 2010: Well its obvious she doesnt want to be with you, so stop chasing her, go out and meet someone new, she will soon become a distant memory.... (read in full...)
Do I have these feelings because he was my first sexual partner?
Q. me and my boyfriend split 2 months ago and i still really care about him and get upset when i see him with another girl and it still really hurts when he has a go at me why am i feeling like this could it be because he was my first sexual partner ...
A. 25 September 2010: You will have a special bond with this guy as he was your first sexual partner and also probably your first love, i understand how you are feeling. Do you think that maybe you could talk to him and see if use could work on your relationship again? ... (read in full...)
A guy in love with another guy
Q. So there's this guy that i met 2 years ago in a class we had. We sat pretty close to eachother and became decent friends... we hung out and talked and stuff (not in a gay way but just like friends) but THEN i started to "notice" him, so i started to ...
A. 25 September 2010: This doesnt sound wrong at all. Do you think that maybe this guy could be gay? Or do you trust him enough to tell him how you feel? Try and become close friends with him again, dont let this push your friendship apart, he is not going to guess you ... (read in full...)
How can I feel more comfortable as single ?
Q. I bet many singles hate the situation , when friends and family ask you, "why are you single" ? or "How come that a good looking person like you is single" ? " How come that you turn 18 and you haven't lost your virginity yet "? The top is ,when ...
A. 25 September 2010: Yes you need to be confident as a single person before you go looking for love, just try and enjoy being single and going out with your friends you are only young you have plenty of time to find a girlfriend, it will happen on its own. Just have a ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend cries all the time
Q. My girlfriend likes to cry... a lot. When I first met her, she wasn't overly emotional at all, I mean, she still showed emotion, but she never really cried. But when we started going out and became more serious, she just became more and more em...
A. 25 September 2010: Sounds like you found yourself a very emotional girl. There as to be some underlying reason why she cries so easily over silly things. Maybe she is just unhappy with her life. Make you could suggest to her to get counselling tell her that you hate ... (read in full...)
Are my teachers trying to set us up????
Q. last year i sat next to the same guy in three lessons and we got on really well despite being kind of opposite( he was quite cocky whereas i was a bit shy) i mean we were both popular and sporty but apart from that we were pretty much opposite. ...
A. 25 September 2010: No i wouldnt say your teachers are trying to match make at all. Just ask the guy the next time you see him does he like you and then you will no.... (read in full...)
My husband has a lot of charges against him from my family, how do I be fair about this?
Q. My story goes like this: I'm married for 10 years and is blessed with 3 kids (2 boys and a girl). My husband has no job so I am the breadwinner of the family. I have a nice paying job that I can even support the vices of my husband which is ...
A. 25 September 2010: I really hope that you can be brave enough to walk away from this man, you deserve so much better.... (read in full...)
Her mixed signals are confusing me! What should I do?
Q. Girlfriend said she wanted to break up then changed her mind. For roughly two weeks we were talking daily and taking it slow. She even said things were good between us. Then she wanted to visit me last weekend and didn't show up last minute. ...
A. 25 September 2010: Well she's not worth it if she is playing with your emotions, go out and find a women that deserves you, best of luck.... (read in full...)
I think he's flirting with me, should I look for more signs?
Q. Hey, I got a question that involves my friend. Im bi (but no one knows lol) and his straight. Im not sure if this is all in my head but im starting to think that his flirting with me a little bit. He keeps touching me, and, like, keeps hinting ...
A. 24 September 2010: Well am a girl but i have gay and bi friends and if he is hinting on to you then you are more than likely right, but before you ask him, is he a friend that you can really trust? if he is then maybe flirt back with him and see what happpens. Good ... (read in full...)
Ex-boyfriend inviting me to a party out of the blue
Q. Hi everyone, So this ex-bf of mine broke up with me about 7 months ago. I was mad and i didn't talk to him for a while and even deleted him off FB. Recently, about two weeks ago we re-connected on skype. He asked how my vacation was and told me ...
A. 24 September 2010: Its completely up to you what you want to do in this situation, do you still have feelings for this guy? maybe he realises now that he was wrong for dumping you and is trying to make things right, so this is up to you, if you would like to go out ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend keeps asking me if I want to kiss him! Help me and my boyfriend, please!
Q. hey guys, I started with my boyfriend on the 22nd of september 2010 and he keeps asking me i wanna kiss him but i dunno what to do. I`m scared if i say i`ll loss him and if i say yes i dunno what will happen because i`ve never kissed a boy be...
A. 24 September 2010: Dont worry about it darling, we all have been there worrying about our first kiss, but there really is nothing to worry about it will come naturally to both of you, if ou dont feel ready though then you should say no but if its just nerves that is ... (read in full...)
Should I say something to him or just let it go like nothing happened?
Q. So me and my boyfriend have been dating for a year and 4 months. We've had many up's and down's in the past and my friends think that I could do better but when they see that I am happy or I tell them that I am happy, they are fine with it and don't ...
A. 24 September 2010: He may have just mentioned this to the girl completely innocent but yes it occ course is going to hurt you yet maybe to him it is completely harmless, yet i think you should tell him about this as its clearly hurt you and made you suspitious and if ... (read in full...)
Why does it bother me that my mate smokes?
Q. why does it bother me tht my mate smokes? Ok i was once in love with him, still kinda am but i know that will never happen and i;ve got my own life to lead. Either way we;re still good friends and im happy for it. Thing is its upseeting me how hes ...
A. 24 September 2010: Am afraid there is'nt a lot here you can do, this guy is his own person and he needs to make his own decisions, if you try and talk him around giving up smoking it will only back fire on you. You just have to deal with it. We all at some stage are ... (read in full...)
Online dating slump!
Q. I have begun to use online dating again and It seems like every time I meet a guy I get attached to quickly. The last guy even lead me on so much to believe he was attached and really interested then told me out of nowhere I was too clingy and not ...
A. 24 September 2010: You obviously need to work on your self confidence and your independancy, maybe lay of the online dating for a while as a lot of people on this could be lying about everything including there sex and age. Start going out with your friends and ... (read in full...)
Is he acting this way because we had a baby?
Q. I have been together with him for 4 years and have a son who is 10 mths, he now seem so different in everything, he arrives latw from work, always fighting, excuses in bed and I am worried dat I am gonna lose him and I lv him so much, sometimes I ...
A. 24 September 2010: Maybe he got a little scared and doesnt want to think of himself as settled down for the rest of his life, or maybe he is stressed at work and doesnt want to tell you and there fore is taking it out in anger and frustration. There is only one way ... (read in full...)
My husband has a lot of charges against him from my family, how do I be fair about this?
Q. My story goes like this: I'm married for 10 years and is blessed with 3 kids (2 boys and a girl). My husband has no job so I am the breadwinner of the family. I have a nice paying job that I can even support the vices of my husband which is ...
A. 24 September 2010: I really think you need to stay away from this man, if not for your sake then for your children. He is treating you really badly the way he has acted with your sisters and stealing there money is really wrong. I think you should end your marriage ... (read in full...)
Should I still trust my instincts this time or should I let go?
Q. I have met this guy who is in his early 40s in a dinner arranged by a friend. As we are both single, we were asked to sit together. The guy has showed his interest throughout the night. It ended with him telling me that he hopes to invite ...
A. 24 September 2010: I dont think you should wait for him, he made himself perfectly clear, i think you should go out and meet someone else. Maybe you fell for this guy two quick?? three dates isnt enough for you to realise that he is your soulmate and you may scare him ... (read in full...)
Her mixed signals are confusing me! What should I do?
Q. Girlfriend said she wanted to break up then changed her mind. For roughly two weeks we were talking daily and taking it slow. She even said things were good between us. Then she wanted to visit me last weekend and didn't show up last minute. ...
A. 24 September 2010: It sounds like your not to pushed about never talking to your girlfriend to me, there is no will in you to fight for her so it's probably best if you ring her before friday and tell her that you want to finish it and move on. Good luck.... (read in full...)
How can I tell my dad about my long distance relationship?
Q. About 5 years ago, I met this guy online on a social networking site. We e been speaking to each other for, like I said, 5 years and we confessed that we love eachother last October. He's like my Kherson half! We have so much in common and his ...
A. 24 September 2010: oh i totally understand just be honest with your dad.... (read in full...)
Why must you ignore me?
Q. My crush finally asked me out.. We are trying to keep it a secret for now because we don't want are friends getting in the way. I am super busy so it is difficult for me to go out with him no matter how much I want to. We were suppost to go to the ...
A. 24 September 2010: He is only young and maybe he is not ready for a relationship. Try and get your friendship back and talk to him and see how he feels. If he is not ready to be in a relationship then be his friend he may just be scared that his friends might start ... (read in full...)
I'm starting to resent my mum......
Q. I am starting to resent my mom. I am in my mid twenties and still live at home in my tiny room. I just feel suffocated at times and i know she loves me and wants me to be happy but sometimes i think she must want me to be alone and just live in that ...
A. 24 September 2010: Plain and simple you need to stand on your own two feet and move out. Either that or you will always be attached to your mum's apron strings and you will only resent her more until you hate her. You need to find a place of your own or with a mate ... (read in full...)
Sex in a pool?
Q. If l have sex in a pool will water enter into my girlfriend and if it does can it affect her vagina....
A. 24 September 2010: No it is quite safe to have sex in a pool just ensure that you were a condom to prevent either of you catching an STI and make sure you'se do it privately and not in public. Good luck.... (read in full...)
How can I tell my dad about my long distance relationship?
Q. About 5 years ago, I met this guy online on a social networking site. We e been speaking to each other for, like I said, 5 years and we confessed that we love eachother last October. He's like my Kherson half! We have so much in common and his ...
A. 24 September 2010: Your only young you should be out meeting people your own age and not online. You might get on great talking but it might be completely different when you meet each other. You'se might not be compatible at all. I think the best advice here is for ... (read in full...)
Having sex for the second time but I'm worried I'm not going to be able to get it up!
Q. hey im 18 and i lost my virginity to some girl a month ago. tomorrow night im going to do it again and i had a hard time getting getting up my first time , tomorrow night will be my second time and i just want a good erection any tips on how to get ...
A. 24 September 2010: The reason for this is you are nervous, this prevents you getting an erection. Are you sure you are ready to do this again? Is it with a girl that you trust and have feelings for? if it is then try not to get nervous dont think two much about it ... (read in full...)
I still have feelings for him but I'm struggling to get over his sleeping around while we were not together
Q. First of all thank you for any advice you can give me. I have a 3mth old baby and her dad and i arent together.but recently we started talking again after sooooo many downs and i think were cool now. But he told me he slept with different girls all ...
A. 24 September 2010: Aw it sounds like yes he did act very selfishly while you were raring your child, but darling he may have just got scared of fatherhood you would be surprised how many men get cold feet mind you this isnt any excuse, but he never cheated on you he ... (read in full...)
Pain during sex and unable to reach an orgasm.....what is wrong with me?
Q. i am a lady aged 28 and am having problems with my boyfriend when it come to sex. when having sex i feel pain on penetration and i dont reach my orgasm. what can i do because i am not sexually active and i dont even think of having sex when i am ...
A. 24 September 2010: no medication i am afriad. Your boyfriend just needs to spend more time on foreplay and making you feel like you want sex he needs to warm your body up and use plenty of lubrication so that it makes things easier and less painful, as for orgasm most ... (read in full...)
He doesn't understand me!
Q. Hi. I have been together with this boy for 1 and half years. I love him truly with all my heart. However, I feel so hurt at times because I feel that nowadays, his friends are more important than me. He misses me a lot only when he is alone. I refer ...
A. 24 September 2010: You are only young and you should never stop spending time with friends for a boyfriend as your friends come first at this age as you will go through many more boyfriends before you find mr. right. So start getting out there and making new friends ... (read in full...)
Am I being over sensitive and paranoid?
Q. Hi, i moved from England to Australia a year ago to live with my partner, who is english, but has worked here for several years and is already established. I gave up a good job, apartment and an independant life to start a new life here. i can hear...
A. 24 September 2010: It sounds like maybe your mind is going in to over drive most people keep there work and private life seperate so i wouldnt let this worry you. I can totally understand though how you must be feelin with no friends and family around you, if you cant ... (read in full...)
How can you convince your girlfriend to give you oral?
Q. Do most women like giving BJs? How can you convince your girlfriend to give them to you?...
A. 24 September 2010: You cant plain and simple. Every girl is different and some like it and some dont. If she is not comfortable with it then please dont keep going on to her about it because you will make her resent you. Maybe she has never done it before and is ... (read in full...)
Why does he say he loves me but is willing to drop me like I'm nothing?
Q. I love him but he hurts me, Every day. What should I do? He hurts me mentally,physically,emotional. He says he loves me, but he is willing to choose the someone else who is just a "friend" over us. He is so willing to drop me like nothing. Why? ...
A. 24 September 2010: Darling if he is hurting you physically emotionally and mentally then he doesnt love you especially if you arent coming first in his eyes, and physical violence is a no no, get out of this relationship now its a sham and you are onyl going to get ... (read in full...)
I think she's the one for me ...
Q. My girlfriend and I recently broke up and it has been tough. The hardest part is knowing that I think she's the one for me. I know that she loves me too, is there anything I can do to convince her that she and I belong together?...
A. 24 September 2010: This is hard to answer because you give no background on your relationship or went wrong so its hard to say what went wrong. you need to give more details, if you wish not to then sit your ex down sort out your problems and tell her she is the one ... (read in full...)
I was trying to change but he's not listening
Q. I need help getting over my ex. He just broke up with me. He was my first everything. But its my fault because I was stupid and constantly accused him of cheating when I had no reason to. I didn't clean or cook cause I didn't know how to and I ...
A. 24 September 2010: I'm afraid you have pushed this man away from you with being to clingy. You need to prove to him over time that you have changed by keeping the place clean, cooking and only contacting him when it concerns your child. Dont worry its unlikely he will ... (read in full...)
I like her but she's trying to set me up with her friends!
Q. I like a girl a lot, shes been a close friend of mine for awhile. But I want more, over the summer we had a fling. Then it ended until school started. Now we are back to being friends the same way we were before, back when she liked me. The first...
A. 24 September 2010: Yes you could ring her up and ask her maybe to go out for a walk or maybe out for lunch. ... (read in full...)
I messed up! How do I get my family back?
Q. my girlfriend has finished me after 5 months she is 3 months pregnant it was my fault she left i was arguing with her she says its over and has barred me from phoning her im sorry i know it was my fault i hold my hands up . i have a little boy with ...
A. 23 September 2010: First off no matter how angry are with your partner you should never never shout at a child. You need to prove to her that you are not going to do this again. Give her time. Join an anger management class and find out were the anger outbursts come ... (read in full...)
What is needy behavior that turns men off?
Q. Hey all! I just got broken up with after a year plus relationship. The reasons given where that I am too demanding and most of all I am too needy. Not things a girl wants to hear but I am starting to think that maybe there is some truth in th...
A. 23 September 2010: Well its kind of hard to solve your problem when you arent sure yourself where in the relationship you are needy, most of the time when men say needy they feel smothered, could it have been possible that maybe you wanted to spend every minute with ... (read in full...)
I feel like having sex with another guy and then going back to my ex is wrong!
Q. Hi everyone I hope i get some replies from this because I really need help. So I've been dating this guy(Guy A)for about 2 years. The first year was great everything was fine but there was always this girl that would cause conflicts with o...
A. 23 September 2010: sweetie yor boyfriend as treated you really badly, if i were you i wouldnt have taking him back, him grinding up girls while with you is wrong and you should stand up for yourself. Plus yes you did have sex with this other guy but you were single ... (read in full...)
My mother emailed this friend and told him I loved him and now he's uncomfortable!
Q. I'm sure this sounds unusual, especially being I'm 31 yrs old and my mother's 50, but the guy I love knows I love him, because my mother told him. I'd already told him I like him, but not that I love him, until after my mother did. We were ...
A. 23 September 2010: Hi darling, aw i would love to say to you that aw it would be great if this guy wasnt uncomfortable and you could just go on being no more than platonic friends but this just doesnt happen in the real world. I understand that you love him and that ... (read in full...)
He's suddenly ignoring my texts! What should I do?
Q. hi to everyone here..i had a problem..well,thereis a guy n i m having a trong crush over him.in starting,for 2-3months we jus met at work daily for 4-5mins,he use to talk to me,i thought he was interested in me.then,later,i also got ...
A. 23 September 2010: Hi maybe lay of the texting for a while and cool things off. You said if he didnt reply you would text him the same thing maybe 3 or 4 times? Well this could come across as quite obsessive and maybe it scared the man of a bit. So for now stop ... (read in full...)
Is he dreaming of having sex with the other woman?
Q. Hello again.... I have a second or shall I say third delima. Now since my husband and I are tring to work on our marriage......we dont have sex anymore like we use to. Since I found out about this affair and the possible baby we have had sexmaybe ...
A. 23 September 2010: Nobody but him can answer this question darling. You need to be able to trust this man if you are wanting this marriage to work, in saying that this man needs to earn your trust back after being unfaithful and it doesnt sound like he has done that ... (read in full...)
I like her but she's trying to set me up with her friends!
Q. I like a girl a lot, shes been a close friend of mine for awhile. But I want more, over the summer we had a fling. Then it ended until school started. Now we are back to being friends the same way we were before, back when she liked me. The first...
A. 23 September 2010: This is a really difficult situation to be in for both of you. Me talkin from past experience one of my best friends really liked me when we were at school and deep down i liked him as well, but i always tried to hide it well. I dont no why us girls ... (read in full...)
She's 16 but lied and told me she was 18 and now I have feelings for her!
Q. 11 months ago i met a girl. At the time she told me she was 18. Months later the truth came out that she was 16. i am 22 years old. It wasnt hard to believe that she was older than her real age. Her friends are all around my age. Her Ex bf is a mon...
A. 23 September 2010: If you really love this girl and its not sexual then everyone deserves a second chance, possibly she just lied to you knowing that she was only young. You need to be able to trust her though. But age is only a number so if you'se love each other ... (read in full...)
Is it his love or lust or just passing time?
Q. i have a cousin who has fallen in love with me. before that we were very close to each other. he was always joking with me and me also i like him a lot.(just like a cousin) however since the past weeks while having a chat with him on the internet he ...
A. 23 September 2010: Girl he is your cousin sweetheart, this is illegal to have him as your boyfriend and it sounds like he is young and niave and is playing with your emotions. You have to tell your cousin that all he is to you is a cousin and nothing more, nothing ... (read in full...)
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