Recently broke up with boyfriend, and have feelings for my ex boyfriend!
Q. Hey guys.. im in a bit of a situation. I have recently broken up with my boyfriend john, I'm 17 nearly 18 and hes 21. I broke up with him because i felt he was getting way to serious and too much. He was just the perfect guy you couldnt fault him ...
A. 20 February 2011: Well hopefully you and ali can work on things and you can both be happy together again :-).... (read in full...)
My friend loves me too much?!
Q. Last night I was going out for a walk but my friend didn't want me to go she ran over to me and she hugged me and she was crying. I think she was scared for me to go out at night . So I had to stay home but I go for a walk every night I can't stay ...
A. 13 February 2011: Ok well you need to sit down with her and talk to her about it. Try and get her to open up to you as it sounds like she is in a vunerable and frightened place at the moment. She needs someone to talk to therefore try and get her to open up to you. ... (read in full...)
My feelings are confused about my ex and the girl I am dating
Q. Yesterday i'd joined a marriage ceremony of my friend's sister.. And it was night marriage.. Me and my two other friend reached there.. And there was present my ex girlfriend who got broke up with me for next guy.. We all had not slept whole night.. ...
A. 10 February 2011: Well its your choice on what to do, but she needs to pick end of story. Or else you will only ever be the other man. Its your choice. ... (read in full...)
My feelings are confused about my ex and the girl I am dating
Q. Yesterday i'd joined a marriage ceremony of my friend's sister.. And it was night marriage.. Me and my two other friend reached there.. And there was present my ex girlfriend who got broke up with me for next guy.. We all had not slept whole night.. ...
A. 10 February 2011: You should not be the other guy to another woman, what is it so hard about her situation that you need to understand, she either picks you or him tell her that she cannot have both and tell her you are not going to contact her until she makes up her ... (read in full...)
Recently broke up with boyfriend, and have feelings for my ex boyfriend!
Q. Hey guys.. im in a bit of a situation. I have recently broken up with my boyfriend john, I'm 17 nearly 18 and hes 21. I broke up with him because i felt he was getting way to serious and too much. He was just the perfect guy you couldnt fault him ...
A. 10 February 2011: You cant help who you want to be with. It sounds to me like John was a rebound and when he started getting really close you backed away and then realised that you still werent over your ex ali.
But i think you should give it some time before y... (read in full...)
'I'm marrying you for your great sex'. Really??!!
Q. Hello Cupids (: I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 4years and 8months, when he recently proposed to me. I said yes, and i was all happy and, as you would be, excited! Until the other night. He had been out to the pub for ...
A. 10 February 2011: I think you are over reacting here. Off course he loves you he wouldnt be marrying you if he didnt. Am pretty sure he was only joking while maybe even trying to give you a compliment at the same time. Men think in strange ways sometimes. Dont worry ... (read in full...)
How can I make friends with people my own age?
Q. I am feeling low as I'd like to make more friends with people of my own age (35 years old) and meet a man to settle down with, yet despite going out to loads of activities and events there seems to be no-one of my age around. I guess that a vast ...
A. 10 February 2011: Have you thought on maybe joining a dance class of some sort? That would be a good place to meet some friends, and once you have got to know a few your own age you could arrange nights out and meet single guys that way.... (read in full...)
We're not actually going out... but what do I get him anyway?
Q. Okay so this is how it started . This guy I met at my church has a sister who is my best friend and stuff . Well this guy has liked me for 1 year, but I didn't like him. Until a few months ago (like 3) now we are like cuties together, but I'm ...
A. 10 February 2011: There are plenty of things you could get him. Maybe make him a card and get him some chocolate and make him a cd of his favorite songs. Anything at all just use your imagination and also what things he likes. You could bake him something like ... (read in full...)
Sex Education...
Q. heres a question to all the agony aunts and uncles.... both sexes are welcome to give their opinion over this touchy mattter.... my bf and i fought today because basically i feel i dont want my daughter to be taught sex in a co-ed class, and he got ...
A. 10 February 2011: Am sorry but your husband sounds very immature, in fact the argument itself is very immature. My opinion is just because he has slept with lots of woman does not give him the right to think he knows how every woman in the universe thinks. In fact he ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend has thrush so he assumes I cheated on him
Q. hello there ive been seeing my bf for 4 months and yesterday he phoned me saying he got thrush which i have had in the past he was asking me ive slept with anyone else saying the doctor says i must have been ive never cheated before in my life plus ...
A. 10 February 2011: Ok first off if the doctor told him that then that doctor needs to be reported. As thrush is not a STI. Thrush is really common in woman and they can get it if they are on medication of some sort or even at certain parts of there monthly cycle. ... (read in full...)
How can I gently ask for no contact for several days?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend who studies in different city for over 7 months now. We have a very good relationship, still in a honeymoon stage. It's full of love and fun, we hardly argue. I feel very happy with him when we talk during the day a...
A. 10 February 2011: Well i think the best thing to do is not to ban contact but to come to an agreement that when you are on nights out he doesnt text you, just explain to him that you love talking to him but when you are out with your friends you just want to have fun ... (read in full...)
Past issues with my boyfriend are making me not trust him
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost two years. We argue excessively, to the point where he calls me hateful names such as 'bitch' and 'dickhead' and then accuses me of being over-emotional when I become upset. Last year, I found texts on...
A. 10 February 2011: Hunny he obviously has commitment issues, even though he may not have cheated physically he has done it emotionally and he is ruining your self esteem and confidence. No man should treat a woman like this. Just because she was blonde doent mean that ... (read in full...)
Should I be upset about my boyfriend comment about a cute girl?
Q. Do i have the right to be upset that my boyfriend was talking about his class and said "I got the lucky pick of the cutest girl to work with" He knows i have jealousy and trust issues cuz all my past bf's have cheated on me, he even cheated on me in ...
A. 10 February 2011: Well in relationships it is healthy to talk to each other about things like this. the more open he is the better. However if he knows that you have issues dealing with trust and self asteem then he shouldnt really rub it in. Tell him how it made you ... (read in full...)
Is he just unable to express his feelings or is he just not into me?
Q. I was dating this guy casually last June...however that time he wasn't into me or whatever...so i stopped trying to get close to him...the signs were there...he didn't call or message me till i did it first n he was always too busy to hang out... ...
A. 10 February 2011: Well he obviously has feelings for you if he is going to call you up out of the blue and declare his love. That takes a lot of guts and courage for a guy. So my guess is he is just not sure how to express himself. Maybe he is just genuinly busy. ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend wants to do things that single people do and I'm not happy about it
Q. Adice Needed! Okay, here's the thing. I have been dating a younger woman now for about 4 months. We have a pretty good relationship in my opinion and we have a ncie time when we are together. The issue at hand is her "guy" friends. Personal...
A. 10 February 2011: Well at the end of the day this does just boil down to one thing and that is jelousy. Everyone is different in there own way. Ok so she wanted to catch up with a friend that sounds fair enough to me, but she also added that her ex was going to be ... (read in full...)
People do not seem to like me
Q. i donot know how to start really... i am a mom of three children and happily married. my problem can be summed up in a few words. PEOPLE DO NOT SEEM TO LIKE ME. this problem goes way back since my childhood. i barely had friends and the same problem ...
A. 10 February 2011: I dont think that the problem is that people dont like you. It sounds to me like you are very paranoid and insecure and you feel that people are talking about you therefore even without you realising you are creating a barrier for those to see and ... (read in full...)
I need long distance relationship advice ASAP!
Q. Hi... So I was living in a different part of the state for work when i met this amazing girl in October 2010. We went on 3 dates and became boyfriend/girlfriend. We both did this knowing that I had to temporarly move 450 miles away for 6 months, ...
A. 10 February 2011: In my opinion your girlfriend has been very open and honest with you up until this point therefore I dont see any reason why she would cheat on you. She has grew up with a drunk as a father which can be very hard on a young girl and can affect there ... (read in full...)
After sex I'm immediately turned off and just want to get dressed
Q. hey, i'm not sure why but i can only have one orgasm, yes u read the gender right haha i am female and this shouldnt happen should it?, i dont really have much of a sex drive and when i do i'm normal then once i've orgasmed im imeediatly turned off ...
A. 10 February 2011: Feel lucky that you are able to have one orgasm. Believe it or not many woman cant even reach orgasm once so i guess you should be thankful for that. Also it is common for a woman to be worn out after reaching climax and just wanting to curl up and ... (read in full...)
Is my girlfriend cheating and being sneaky?
Q. ok so me and my girl have been together goin on two years and lately she has been coming home and always says she's to tired to have sex but she gets off at 3 and then sits for 10 min, and dipss off to her moms house way in warner robins.. is she ...
A. 10 February 2011: I think you need to talk to her about how you are feeling. Her behaviour does seem a little bit odd if you ask me. Therefore the only way you are going to find out the truth is if you ask her. It sounds to me like she really does need some space. So ... (read in full...)
My friend doesn't initate conversation with my husband so he thinks she is rude
Q. I am married with two children. A few months ago my friend came to live with us. She is not disrespectul or rude but my husband thinks she has something against him, just because she doesn't initate conversation with him. She has her personal issues ...
A. 10 February 2011: Ok well you say your friend has issues with men in general. Have you explained this to your husband. If she cannot bring herself to have a conversation with him then I understand where your husband is coming from. It is his home as well as yours and ... (read in full...)
Is it stupid to fall for someone?
Q. Is it stupid to fall for someone? In the past two years I have fallen for two different girls at different time. I spent 17 months on the first girl and obviously end up with nothing. The second girl is my best friend who I just knew about two y...
A. 10 February 2011: Ok you are going through a tough time at the moment, i understand that, you have been rejected twice by two girls that you have fallen for. I know this is hard to deal with at the moment and you feel that the only way out is to end it all. But you ... (read in full...)
How much sexual history can you deal with?
Q. To all the guys out there how much sexual history would you be able to deal with about your significant other. Does it matter? What are some reasonable numbers? What numbers would make you least attracted to them?...
A. 10 February 2011: This question will have many different answers, because every guy is different and look for different things in a girl. But if am honest if a guy is wanting to settle down with you the less men you have been with the better as men tend to not like ... (read in full...)
What does take it slow mean?
Q. what does it mean, when he says,"Lets take it Slow" in a new relationship? ...
A. 10 February 2011: It just means that he wants to take his time and get to know you better before committing long term. Dont let this worry you. He may just not be ready for anything to serious yet. Therefore he just wants to take his time before committing to ... (read in full...)
8 months of dating and no sex. I'm becoming desperate!
Q. me and my girlfriend have been dating for 8 months. we are not virgins but in our relationship we havent had sex yet. but we have done everthing inbetween. We both give each other oral sex, whilst i have fingered her and had sex with her boobs. a ...
A. 10 February 2011: Ok there is nothing wrong with either of you at all. Lots of people wait for sex if they are in a relationship that they want to commit with and really care about the other person so dont panic that there is something wrong.
However you both do ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend needs to show some love!
Q. So, I’ve started dating my best friend. We’ve been dating for almost 4 weeks now and he is lovely and cares about me and looks out for me and is such a gentleman but he’s still treating me like just a friend. He doesn’t hold my hand unless I hold ...
A. 10 February 2011: Well it sounds to me like he just isnt sure on what to do. You were both really good friends and while that is a great start to a relationship it is also difficult to get out of the friend zone and in to a romantic one. It could also be that he is ... (read in full...)
Confused should I have sex? and is he serious?
Q. Well me and my bf have been together for 9 months and he spoke to my dad about 3 weeks ago, before he spoke with him i said when you speak with him we can discuss having sex, i did this just to be sure that he wants to be with me and so thay my dad ...
A. 9 February 2011: Ok well your post started of great but by the end i lost a little bit of respect for your boyfriend.
Ok so here are the facts. Yes he does care about you, no other boy would walk 4 hours if he didnt, he has stayed with you for nine months, ... (read in full...)
Sometimes I just wish my boyfriend would cheat on me! It would make things so much easier
Q. I can't stop thinking about an online friend. I have thought about other people previously but never acted on it. I am nearly 25 years old and have been with my partner for nearly 8 years. Before him I had 1 other boyfriend of a few months whom ...
A. 9 February 2011: Ok wishing that your boyfriend would cheat on you is a very very bad sign. If you truely wish that then you cant love him enough to want to spend the rest of your life with him, and if that is the case you need to let him go now before you end up ... (read in full...)
She doesn't know that I know about the kiss
Q. i kknow my girlfriends kissed anotehr person but she doesnt know i know. What do i do now...?...
A. 9 February 2011: Well it is up to you how you go around this. She has cheated on you therefore you need to ask yourself can you trust her or not and does she deserve a second chance. These are questions only you can answer.
I am assuming that she has not been hon... (read in full...)
Should I ask my uncle to help us out?
Q. I dont know what to do anymore???? Ok I have been with my boyfriend 2 years in May!! When I first met him he was working hard always workin extra hours if he could! We got together and we moved to his moms to a very small town! There was NOTHING ...
A. 9 February 2011: No dont ask your uncle for money, it is not his responsibilty to help you and your boyfriend out and it will just give him an excuse not to look harder for work. You need to sit down with him and first off say sorry for nagging him all the time but ... (read in full...)
Should I ask my uncle to help us out?
Q. I dont know what to do anymore???? Ok I have been with my boyfriend 2 years in May!! When I first met him he was working hard always workin extra hours if he could! We got together and we moved to his moms to a very small town! There was NOTHING ...
A. 9 February 2011: No dont ask your uncle for money, it is not his responsibilty to help you and your boyfriend out and it will just give him an excuse not to look harder for work. You need to sit down with him and first off say sorry for nagging him all the time but ... (read in full...)
How can I break it to him that I'm pregnant?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for 6 months and we love each other very much. He is 20 years older than me and because of this I think he is embarrassed to bring me around his family. I'm pretty sure they don't even know he has a girlfriend. Mine on ...
A. 9 February 2011: Ok first off just remember that no matter what happens you have a family there to support you. At least they have accepted him and thats good.
It sounds to me very suspitious that he has not told any of his family, even though some people f... (read in full...)
About to have a date with my ex after 2 years... how should I play it?
Q. basically im going out with my ex again , ive had 2 relationships that heve never ever worked out and I used to constantly think about him even after 2 year. me and him started going out when we were 14-16 and now we are 18 and ready to go on a dat...
A. 9 February 2011: Yes it is perfectly ok to go out and meet each other and see what happens. But do not build up your hopes in anyway at all. Just think about it like you are meeting up with an old friend to catch up and take it from there. See how you both get on as ... (read in full...)
Does he truly love me despite him cheating?
Q. He cheated on me with a girl that treats him like shit. But he keeps coming saying he misses me and he knows that I'm the one. Recently, we got back together and that one girl he cheated on me with wants to be back with him. I didn't cry as he's ...
A. 9 February 2011: It sounds to me like your man is very confused indeed. Ok well first off he was honest with you therefore I will give him credit for that, however cheating on you just because he is close to the womans child is really no excuse what so ever. I think ... (read in full...)
How can he say he loves me...???
Q. Hey guys, me and my boyfriend have been going out for about two months. At first it was pretty complicated as he didn't want his rather controlling parents to find out. Anyway after about three weeks he told them, so everything was good for a ...
A. 9 February 2011: No its not wrong that it bothers you. But you need to remember that Autism is a very severe thing to have and it is possible that he feels the only way to love someone is that you need to learn how to do it. Maybe research the subject on love with ... (read in full...)
Help!!! What can I do or say to make him more confident with flirting with me?
Q. Last year, I started dating my best friend. He was amazing and such a gentleman but sometimes he was just too nice?! He was so careful with me and we never even kissed so we ended up just staying good friends. Over time, his confidence around me ...
A. 9 February 2011: Well I guess he probably doesnt know what to do as you both are not together anymore, and maybe he is shielding himself from getting hurt. Ok so you admit he has become more confident which is great. But he cant read your mind therefore he has no ... (read in full...)
My friend loves me too much?!
Q. Last night I was going out for a walk but my friend didn't want me to go she ran over to me and she hugged me and she was crying. I think she was scared for me to go out at night . So I had to stay home but I go for a walk every night I can't stay ...
A. 9 February 2011: Was it just the both of you on your own? Maybe she didnt like the idea of being left on her own. You need to sit down with her and ask her what her reason was, its the only way you will get to the bottom of it. Goodluck... (read in full...)
I like him, she likes him, what to do?
Q. I started like liking this guy whole I had a boyfriend and I didn't tell anyone now I finally broke up with him and I told my best friend and I've been trying to get her to like this guy for a while but she said ehh..etc so finally I keep liking him ...
A. 9 February 2011: I think the both of you need to agree that your friendship is worth more than this guy therefore I think the best outcome would be both to make a pact that neither of you will get with the guy and stick to it and both of you move on. Remember a ... (read in full...)
My feelings are confused about my ex and the girl I am dating
Q. Yesterday i'd joined a marriage ceremony of my friend's sister.. And it was night marriage.. Me and my two other friend reached there.. And there was present my ex girlfriend who got broke up with me for next guy.. We all had not slept whole night.. ...
A. 9 February 2011: First off you now need to accept the face that your ex partner does not want to be with you anymore. So stop listening to the song that reminds you of her as this will only keep hurting you more, you need to leave her in the past now and accept that ... (read in full...)
Looking for love, don't know about the rest ...
Q. Hello all. I have a pressing question but don't know quite how to word it, so I guess I'll just shoot from the hip. I'm still a virgin. I would like to find someone to spend the rest of my life with, but, I don't know about sex. I keep vac...
A. 8 February 2011: Ok first off, you are wrong I was badly bullied when I was younger over the colour of my hair and because I was born in a different country. I know what it is like to be called awful names, I also know what it is like to be excluded and physically ... (read in full...)
I prefer lesbian porn over heterosexual.
Q. I like to watch lesbian porn and whenever my boyfriends at work and I'm on my own I go on the internet and watch it. I love my boyfriend so much and I've been with him nearly 2 years but I don't understand why I like this more than heterosexual ...
A. 4 February 2011: Hi no this does not mean that you are a lesbian or bisexual. So try not to worry. You are not doing anything wrong therefore it is up to you if you wish to tell your boyfriend or not.
Ok im guessing that you like watching this as even though y... (read in full...)
My ex wrote me a letter and told me to go on with my life!
Q. I am in such a pickle here and don't know what to REALLY do. I am torn between how I feel about this man and intellectually knowing what to do. So I would appreciate any and all advice/suggestions anyone might have. The man i have been inv...
A. 4 February 2011: I think he was using you, well thats what it sounds like anyway, he comes and goes when he pleases, and although it is very sad that his father took a stroke it still doesnt mean that he should get out of explaining his behaviour.
You can do bette... (read in full...)
Me and my boyfriend wish to remain neutral in this situation!
Q. hi! I'm a little stuck because my bf's best mate (lets call him J) and my best mate (lets call her K) were going out but then K broke-up with J and know I'm in the middle because each time I wanna talk with my bf-J will be there and J just will not ...
A. 4 February 2011: You and your boyfriend just spend some quailty time on your own together and dont worry about each of your friends. Its there problems so if they both dont want to be in each others company then its up to one of them to leave. Dont you stress about ... (read in full...)
Should I go with the original life goes on plan?
Q. So I had been seeing this guy since September, so for about four months, we go to the same college and last semester we even had some classes together. We only hung out outside of class once or twice a week because college schedules are hectic, and ...
A. 4 February 2011: Well personally if it was me I would want to know why he suddenly stopped talking. Therefore I think you should just come straight out and ask him why he stopped talking to you, ask if you done something wrong, and then hopefully you will get some ... (read in full...)
Karma, our meeting...and now 7 years together!!
Q. I was 40 and I had a string of failed relationships behind me. I guess I had given up. My best friend and I would talk about men and love and we'd share our lonely tales. One day I helped her create a profile on a dating website. She decided to w...
A. 4 February 2011: Such a nice story and such a nice happy ending. ... (read in full...)
Do I Listen To My Heart Or Listen To My Head Yet Again??? Please Help!!!
Q. So I've liked this guy since September. We have loads in common and I fell for him hard. I backed off for awhile, because he was in a long distance relationship but in the beginning of January they finally broke up. I was going to make my move on ...
A. 4 February 2011: Dont make a move on him as such because this will back fire and you will be known as the girl that came in between a relationship and believe me you dont want that hanging over you do you?
But i think it is best that you do tell him how you feel... (read in full...)
Looking for love, don't know about the rest ...
Q. Hello all. I have a pressing question but don't know quite how to word it, so I guess I'll just shoot from the hip. I'm still a virgin. I would like to find someone to spend the rest of my life with, but, I don't know about sex. I keep vac...
A. 4 February 2011: Ok well we all have flaws and we all have parts of our bodies that we do not like, nobody is perfect and i bet if you asked even the most confident person do they like every part of there body i could bet you that they dont. There is always going to ... (read in full...)
Looking for love, don't know about the rest ...
Q. Hello all. I have a pressing question but don't know quite how to word it, so I guess I'll just shoot from the hip. I'm still a virgin. I would like to find someone to spend the rest of my life with, but, I don't know about sex. I keep vac...
A. 3 February 2011: I think what you need to do at the moment is to stop worrying about sex and concentrate on yourself a bit more. It is obvious that you have no confidence and this is what is worrying you about having sex and being naked with someone else. The movies ... (read in full...)
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