Recently broke up with boyfriend, and have feelings for my ex boyfriend!
Q. Hey guys.. im in a bit of a situation. I have recently broken up with my boyfriend john, I'm 17 nearly 18 and hes 21. I broke up with him because i felt he was getting way to serious and too much. He was just the perfect guy you couldnt fault him ...
A. 20 February 2011: Well hopefully you and ali can work on things and you can both be happy together again :-).... (read in full...)
We lied about how we met to our parents!
Q. i'll be meeting my boyfriends parents in April. and my mom wants to get to know his parents before letting me go. but the problem is that we lied about how we met to our parents. what do i do to make this work? thanks ...
A. 13 February 2011: Well if you could explain a little bit more on what you lied about that would help. Im guessing that the right thing you can both do is be truthful to your parents. Yes the might be disappointed at first that you lied to them but they will soon be ... (read in full...)
I want to use my 2" thick dildo but I can't because it hurts
Q. Hey, I'm 17 and I've been exploring myself for a year or so now. I really like masturbating, but I can only fit 1 finger in, and I want more. When I try 2 fingers, I am actually able to get them both in, but it's really tight and kind of hurts when ...
A. 13 February 2011: You are so tight because you are a virgin. Therefore it is going to hurt a little bit the first time you use your dildo. You really need to make sure that you are totally turned on and relaxed and also buy yourself some lubrication as it makes ... (read in full...)
I am losing the man I love because of the mistakes I've made
Q. My boyfriend and I have been officially together for 2 years, but we have been friends/lovers for pretty much 5 years. We used to be madly in love but as the years passed, things of course died down. We still loved each other and we've lived with ...
A. 13 February 2011: Ok well I think what he really needs right now is some space. So tell him that you love him a lot and that you are sorry for not showing it as much as you should have, tell him you will give him the space he needs to think things through and that if ... (read in full...)
Now she's willing to chill, but before sought a rain check when I asked. Why would she be more willing now?
Q. Hi, Jor-El here after 3 months of being away. Before I asked about my Bio-Lab possibly liking me. Last semester we got closer, which is good, but when I wanted to hang out with her, she'd use the words "rain check" a lot, but this semester when I ...
A. 13 February 2011: Im guessing at the start she wasnt really in to you, maybe she had other things going on in her life, or maybe the more she thought on it the more she began to like you. Take this as a good thing and see where it goes. It sounds like she is ... (read in full...)
Whenever I use my toy I bleed!
Q. When ever i use my "toy" all most every time when im done i find blood on it is that normal? The toy isnt that big either its only alittle wider and longer then my index finger. Im still a virgen though but does that mean every time i have sex il ...
A. 13 February 2011: Im guessin it must have something to do with the toy you are using. No you will not bleed everytime you have sex so dont worry about that. The problem is down to the toy you are using and how you are doing it. Was it cheap to buy? Because if you ... (read in full...)
How can I be more social and outgoing with my old friends?
Q. I dated an immature way too old for me jerk for six months two years ago and had again during the summer. The only reason i went back to him was because i was afraid i wouldn't find another guy. I make straight A's and try my best to be nice to ...
A. 13 February 2011: There really is only one answer for that and its just be yourself. You havent hung out with these friends in a long time so it is like getting to know them all over again, so just be yourself ask them about themselves try and find things that you ... (read in full...)
Do I go to a bar and act like a bar fly? Or just let him go?
Q. My problem is I want to get even with my ex lover who dumped me for a younger transvestite. It is not that I am all that old, 45 today. He is 50 and his new thing is 25. It is not that I am unattractive or out of shape. I still wear size 8 jeans and ...
A. 13 February 2011: If you ask me he is not worth your time or effort. He traded you in for a younger model which in my eyes means he will eventually do that to his new partner. He sounds to me like he is a player and doesnt care about anyone but him self. Do not lower ... (read in full...)
I am married and shamefully think of this man
Q. I am married without kids and he is single as I know of. met this person 3 yeas back. We met through an undesirable formal environment and I never liked him in the beginning. But gradually I began to like him and respect him and now I admire him. ...
A. 13 February 2011: Ok if I am going to be honest with you it does sound like he cares about you very much, but in saying that he may just see you as a close friend and that is why he is texting you, am afraid it is really hard to tell in this situation. Its a good ... (read in full...)
Sometimes even after a few hours this guy can't finish!
Q. I have been sleeping with the guy that I am dating for a few weeks now and in general it's great. The one problem is that it takes him forever to finish and sometimes even after sex for a few hours, he just can't finish. Whenever he does finish i...
A. 13 February 2011: Ok well this could be for many reasons really, is he cicumsised? As this can lose a bit of sensitivity making him last longer. Also he could have trained himself to last as long as possible and now that is why it takes him a long time. But he should ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend says I am fixated on him and he wanted a break
Q. Hi My bf of 1 year told me today that i am kind of fixated on him, so he needs to take a break and stop talking to me for about a month and see how it goes. I really do love him a lot. I cant bear the thought of not talking to him for a month. ...
A. 13 February 2011: Ok first off you really need to stop calling him pet because if you keep doing this then you are only going to drive him further away. What he meant was that you are showing him two much attention and he needs space to breathe. Therefore if you want ... (read in full...)
Where do men go when they are looking for a good woman?
Q. where is a good place to meet a good man at . have already try church an it did not work for me . so i know they has to be places men go that are looking for a good women ? ...
A. 13 February 2011: This is a good question, probably one that many men ask as well. Erm maybe you could look in to some activities or clubs in your area. Something other than church. Think about what you would like to do as a hobby and see if there is a class ... (read in full...)
Is pullling out with a condom safe?
Q. me and my boyfriend and i want to be the safest we lke can so if he pulls out whilst wearing a condom will that reduce chances even more?...
A. 12 February 2011: Condoms are usually very safe but as like all contraception they can fail so therefore yes him pulling out before ejaculating is safer as such but as long as he is still wearing the condom. If you are really worried about getting pregnant then maybe ... (read in full...)
Images of my girlfriend keep popping in my head
Q. images of my ex girlfriend keep popping into my head at random times does this mean I still have feelings for her? it has been about a year since we broke up because she liked her friend more than me....
A. 12 February 2011: Well it doesnt mean that you have feelings for her, it could be just the possibilty that you really liked her and you still tend to think about her every now and again. This is completely normal and nothing to worry about. Am sure at one stage she ... (read in full...)
What are the advantages/disadvantages of the implant?
Q. Is it true with the implant you have like year period or something? what are the disadvantages?...
A. 12 February 2011: Everybody reacts differently to the implant. It can effect your regular periods were you may bleed for two weeks instead of one, or else it might stop your periods completely. It reacts to everyone different. But no you will not be bleeding for a ... (read in full...)
I'm stressing him out and he wants a break. I want him back!
Q. For all the virgo man on this please help! I am a Pisces women and I Love My Virgo boyfriend very much and he has told me he loved me to.I do everything he wants me to I changed almost everything for him but as soon as there is a problem I have with ...
A. 12 February 2011: I think maybe what he needs is a bit of space. Dont look at it like it is the end of your relationship just sometimes people need some space to think things through, therefore just give him the time he needs dont contact him let him contact you when ... (read in full...)
My last girlfriend cheated on me. Will I ever find a another love who I will be able to trust?
Q. Recently, I was cheated on by my girlfriend. I loved her so much and trusted her alot too, but she proved to be contrary to what I thought of her. Do you think I will find another girl whom I will love and trust? The problem is that I have totally ...
A. 12 February 2011: Ok well obviously you are going to be very upset and angry at your girlfriend for doing this. Obviously she was not to be trusted but this is not your fault. I understand at the moment that you are hurting and your trust in women is gone at the ... (read in full...)
If I leave, I will bring shame to my family, and they will break all ties with me! What should I do?
Q. Hello everyone, I am a 24-year old girl from Bordeaux. My family comes from Pakistan and we are quite a traditional family with close family ties. They do not allow me to meet my friends and my only occupation is staying at home and doing my house...
A. 12 February 2011: Hi well am afraid that nobody can answer your question but yourself. It sounds like you are either going to need to sacrafice your family or else your girlfriend clare. I know that it must be a difficult desicion and it must be painful but am afraid ... (read in full...)
Shouldn't my girlfriend consult with me first before making plans?
Q. I've been dating my girlfriend for about 2 years now. It's a long distance relationship. Everything was going so well until I realized we don't have much to talk about on the phone. It's the same old stories, so our conversations don't last long. A...
A. 12 February 2011: Ok no she shouldnt need to tell you if she wants to go out with her friends on a night out. Even though you are in a relationship with this woman she is still her own person and she is independant and therefore she should be free to make her own ... (read in full...)
I'm unsure about my sexuality...am I gay or straight?
Q. i am in my twenties. i find myself wondering about my sexuality. Since high school i have jumped back and forth between the sexual identities of straight, bi, and gay. when i look at porn, i tend to drift towards gay, or group (multiple guys, on...
A. 12 February 2011: Ok well I guess at the moment you are just very confused about your sexuality. Try not to think about it to much, the best thing you can do is to do whatever you feel comfortable with. It may be a case that at the moment you are bisexual and later ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has a very low sex drive and its extremely frustrating for me!
Q. I am now 20 years old and started dating my girlfriend about 3 years ago. during the first year or so of our dating we has sex on a regular basis for the most part with no less than twice a week, anytime anywhere, it was fun and we were happy and ...
A. 12 February 2011: Ok well everyone is different but if she is only 20 then she really shouldnt be losing her sex drive without a reason behind it. I guess there must be something that is causing her not to want to have sex. Could she be stressed out with anything in ... (read in full...)
Bisexual, in a relationship but want to experiment more...
Q. Ok so I'm bisexual and I've known since I was young, around 12/13. I watch lesbian porn but to me that does not determine my sexuality or anybody else's for that matter. but what I do want to do is experiment more with other girls but I'm already in ...
A. 12 February 2011: Well it is totally normal at your age to want to experiment with different things, and if you want to experiment with other girls then am afraid you are either going to have to finish things with your boyfriend or else sit down with him and talk to ... (read in full...)
Does my college lecturer have feelings for me?
Q. I know you’re all going to think I’m being childish here, but please hear me out. I’m 18, and very mature for my age. Last year, I met my college lecturer, and we hit it off straight away. There was one point though where I got close to this boy and ...
A. 12 February 2011: Ok well it does sound like he is flirting with you and that he does have feelings for you. But just remember he knows were his place is and he knows he cant get involved with a student therefore he will probably not make anymore advances to you. Yes ... (read in full...)
Mixed feelings, trust issues, an LDR, and meaningless fights...What should I do??
Q. Dear Cupid, Ive been with my boyfriend for almost three years now. He is 25 and I'm 23. Recently he went to live to another city to study. We were living together for almost two years and had built a wonderful home. Our relationship is ...
A. 12 February 2011: I think the reason that you are finding everything so hard at the moment is because he is living away from you. Ask anyone long distance relationships are really not easy and it takes a lot of strength to keep them. Sometimes long distance just does ... (read in full...)
Can one person fall in love with two people?
Q. Is it possible to be in love with two people?...
A. 12 February 2011: I guess it could be a possibilty but more than likely it would just be confusion as the person doesnt know who they really want to be with. I think if you feel like you are in love with two people then you need to distance yourself from both and ... (read in full...)
Do people really fall out of love?
Q. Im 29 and my girlfriend is 25. I have been with my girlfriend for 2 years. Just before Christmas we had been going through a rough patch and arguing over stupid stuff and calling each other names. She said she wanted some space so I moved out and ...
A. 12 February 2011: I guess everyone is right, I think you just need to give her some time. Sometimes people can just fall out of love and it is really sad but we just have to accept these things. She needs some space so for now dont contact her and try and come to ... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend gay?
Q. is my boyfriend gay ? we're friends for about 6 years,we haven't seen each other for about 2 years...he became my boyfriend 3months ago we shared things and happy moments with my family and his family too, he's very sweet and very loving.....
A. 10 February 2011: Well it is very hard to come to a conclusion if he is gay or not from what you have said. Maybe this dentist is just a really good friend of his. It is possible for two men to go travelling together as friends. However if there are other signs and ... (read in full...)
What's with the sudden changes? Is he playing games?
Q. Been seeing this guy since Nov and we are not exclusive. Never had that talk. He is a bit of the player kind. i picked up on this. We hang out a few times a week, I stay over watch tv, eat dinner, laugh a lot. We have only gone on a few outside ...
A. 10 February 2011: Well it sounds to me like you may have found your proof if there were missing condoms. But maybe however he realised after your talk that he really likes you and that he doesnt want to lose you. At least you spoke honestly to him and in return he is ... (read in full...)
My feelings are confused about my ex and the girl I am dating
Q. Yesterday i'd joined a marriage ceremony of my friend's sister.. And it was night marriage.. Me and my two other friend reached there.. And there was present my ex girlfriend who got broke up with me for next guy.. We all had not slept whole night.. ...
A. 10 February 2011: Well its your choice on what to do, but she needs to pick end of story. Or else you will only ever be the other man. Its your choice. ... (read in full...)
I'm so happy and sad at the same time!
Q. Ok, I am 34 years old, and have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now. He has been divorced for 3 years, and his ex wife lives 7 hours away and is remarried. I have two boys (10) and (12)that live with me, as their father passed away 4 years ago. ...
A. 10 February 2011: It sounds to me like his ex wife may be a little bit jelous of his new life with you and she is making it difficult for him, she may also be a little scared that you might get to close to her children and they might start to look at you as a mother ... (read in full...)
Am I completely unjustified here?
Q. I have been dating my girlfriend now for almost two years. We have lived together now for exactly one year. She has a five-year-old son who I love very much that also lives with us. When she moved here we discussed the roles I would play with her ...
A. 10 February 2011: No I dont think you are wrong at the end of the day it would be nice if she showed that you were appreciated. You should be very proud of yourself taking on another mans child and being a role model in his life. You are his father figure and by the ... (read in full...)
Marriage, communication and relationships...
Q. hello i dnt know where to start about my question but maybe i will start my story n the beginning im 3 years marriage and have 2 kids i met my husband thru online long distance relationship, b4 i met my husband he was broken hearted coz his fiance ...
A. 10 February 2011: You need to sit down and talk to him about this. Your marriage sounds like it was very rushed, you dont truely know someone talking to them on the internet no matter how long it is and it sounds like you married very quick and had children and now ... (read in full...)
I'm having trouble with him understanding I want a divorce!
Q. been married for 3 and a half yrs my husband dont even know i am in the room he dont share things with me never has he is lying to me about stupid stuff and saying i would have flipped out if he told me the truth this is not true ! no sex in a yr ...
A. 10 February 2011: I think the best thing you can do is get legal advice. Ok so he is not obliged to move out of the home. Therefore the only other option would be for you to look for rented accomodation at the moment while you file for divorce and then the house will ... (read in full...)
18th birthday ideas???
Q. in a few months im going to be 18 and im starting to think about what i want to do for my birthday. I feel like your 18th birthday should be special because your finally an adult, i asked my mom and dad what i should do and they started giving me ...
A. 10 February 2011: It is really up to yourself how you want to spend your 18th birthday and adapt it around to what suits you and what you really want to do. Off course 18 is a huge milestone and understandably you will want to celebrate it and remember it for years ... (read in full...)
What should I do to see if I could turn things around?
Q. So this guy told me that he liked me and wanted us to turn into something.. He even asked me in the car what I thought of us being together and of course I told him that I would really like that idea. All of a sudden out of nowhere 2 weeks later he ...
A. 10 February 2011: Its really hard to try and work out why he has acted this way. I guess he either said it to you on impulse and regrets it or else he has commitment issues and he got scared and backed away. The only thing you can really do hear is to ask him why he ... (read in full...)
After the kissing... what next?
Q. So i have a problem. I kissed my bf for the first time ever last night and we even made out for a bit and now im wondering what the next step is. i know im not ready for sex but i dont wanna kiss him then leave him hanging... please help. im going ...
A. 10 February 2011: Well if you think you might be leading him on then tell him straight out that you are not ready for sex, if he cares about you he will respect that. Good for you that you are not rushing in to anything to soon, as you are still young and you do not ... (read in full...)
Erection Help
Q. Hey, I'm 16 and a gay lad, i have a problem which i dont know what to do about, i know i am gay so i know that is not the reason why, i cant get a proper erection, by this i mean i get it up for about 1 min then it starts to go soft, this only ...
A. 10 February 2011: Well can you get an erection whenever you are not about to have sex? If you are on your own masterbating does your erection hold? If so then i dont think there is anything medical wrong. If it is just before sex it is happening them and guessing sub ... (read in full...)
Help! Why does she not want to talk to me?
Q. I finally got the guts to ask for the phone number of a girl I really like. She willing gave it too me and I was so happy. She texted me back the first day but had to leave because of a dance class. Since then though she hasn't returned any of my ...
A. 10 February 2011: Ok stop texting her everyday. In fact dont text her again unless she texts you. Sometime texting every day can be a bit much so just see if she texts you again and if she doesnt i think its best to leave her alone and move on as she is obviously not ... (read in full...)
Dating someone older but there's no sex involved!
Q. Im 13 and i'm dating a 19 year old.. my mum knows about it but i don't know whether its illegal. I'm VERY mature for my age and normally go for older guys, but he's the oldest i have ever been with. Were not in a sexual relationship. I've told him ...
A. 10 February 2011: As long as you both arent having a sexual relationship then no it is not illegal at all. Age shouldnt matter in a sense but just remember that no matter how mature you are he is still at a different stage of his life than you. In saying that no you ... (read in full...)
My feelings are confused about my ex and the girl I am dating
Q. Yesterday i'd joined a marriage ceremony of my friend's sister.. And it was night marriage.. Me and my two other friend reached there.. And there was present my ex girlfriend who got broke up with me for next guy.. We all had not slept whole night.. ...
A. 10 February 2011: You should not be the other guy to another woman, what is it so hard about her situation that you need to understand, she either picks you or him tell her that she cannot have both and tell her you are not going to contact her until she makes up her ... (read in full...)
Stretch marks at 13! Will they ever go away?
Q. Hey so I have VERY sensitive skin I mean in 6th grade I coughed so much I got bruises on my face! So I'm 13 and I have stretch marks! I'm not obsesse not even fat really i think I just grew to fast and with sensitive skin it reacted =\ is there any ...
A. 10 February 2011: Stretch marks are quite common and it just means that your skin has streched as you have grown and from reaching puberty. Now try not to worry because the difference between a teenage girl getting stretch marks and an adult is that yours will fade ... (read in full...)
Recently broke up with boyfriend, and have feelings for my ex boyfriend!
Q. Hey guys.. im in a bit of a situation. I have recently broken up with my boyfriend john, I'm 17 nearly 18 and hes 21. I broke up with him because i felt he was getting way to serious and too much. He was just the perfect guy you couldnt fault him ...
A. 10 February 2011: You cant help who you want to be with. It sounds to me like John was a rebound and when he started getting really close you backed away and then realised that you still werent over your ex ali.
But i think you should give it some time before y... (read in full...)
My feelings are confused about my ex and the girl I am dating
Q. Yesterday i'd joined a marriage ceremony of my friend's sister.. And it was night marriage.. Me and my two other friend reached there.. And there was present my ex girlfriend who got broke up with me for next guy.. We all had not slept whole night.. ...
A. 9 February 2011: First off you now need to accept the face that your ex partner does not want to be with you anymore. So stop listening to the song that reminds you of her as this will only keep hurting you more, you need to leave her in the past now and accept that ... (read in full...)
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