What does this mean in male language?
Q. I am/was seeeing this guy for about 3 weeks and then he sends me a text last friday saying "youre really full on, i think we should cool it for a bit. im not ready for this sort of thing. sorry x" What does this mean in male language? Does it mean ...
A. 26 September 2011: Follow everybody's advice and don't contact him at all. If he wants to he will contact you, and if he doesn't well then just think of it as his loss and move on. I know the truth can be painful sometimes but I guess in life we just need to accept ... (read in full...)
Can I get my ex back?
Q. i'm mad at my ex 3 weeks ago and when he said hey to me, i ignored him. then no contact. even if we met, he avoided me. about 2 weeks ago,i called and told him we could still be friends, we don't have to avoid each other. but like 5 days later, i ...
A. 26 September 2011: No let him come to you. If you keep trying you are going to come across as desperate and needy and you will only keep hurting yourself. If he is interested he will come to you. If he doesn't you need to accept that it is over and move on. ... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and I have feelings for a 20 year old man
Q. So im 13 going to be 14 and there is this guy that i like but hes 20 and he knows that i like him and he says im not supposed to but i seriously like him i can't stop thinking about him. He always listens to my problems and try's to protect me. He ...
A. 26 September 2011: You are only getting in to your teenage years, where as he is a bit past adult hood. You are both at completely different stages in your life and I don't think it would be healthy to date this guy. People would talk about it and judge you both, Even ... (read in full...)
Getting close to my daughter's dad again and I'm so confused
Q. My ex bf Josh and I have a 5 yr old daughter together. We started dating when I was 16 yrs old and he was 18 yrs old. I got pregnant when I was 19 (she wasn't planned). We mutally decided to break up 2 yrs ago. I'm not really sure why we decided to, ...
A. 26 September 2011: Aw he wants to be back with you. It is obvious he still has feelings for you and wants to be closer to you. He thinks though that you don't share those feelings. If you want to be with him then you need to tell him how you feel. Aw I just love happy ... (read in full...)
I want him to propose. Should I hint or just wait?
Q. hi you agony aunts and uncles back again for some of your great advice, i was just wondering, me and my man been LDR for over two years now we are fully committed and i am moving to be near him soon, and we are eventually moving in together, this ...
A. 26 September 2011: Well he has told you that he wants to get married to you. Which is a great start because at least you know where you stand. As for being engaged, personally I would want it to come from the guy themselves without any hints. But that is up to you ... (read in full...)
Is my husband just joking when he says he wants threesomes?
Q. so i(23) been married to my husband(31) for 7 months now, when we went to a club and partied with friends, my husband (drunk) jokingly said "did you find someone to have a threesome with yet?" im like "haha no" ( im drunk ).. as he said that, i ...
A. 26 September 2011: I am sure he doesn't think that you are a bore in bed! It depends on his personality maybe he is just one of these men that joke around a lot and doesn't mean any harm. There are plenty of this type of men that don't even think about what they are ... (read in full...)
I have led this guy on, just to get me over my ex. I don't really like him though. How can I let him down gently?
Q. Last week I followed some really bad advice and it's got me in trouble. A friend said to get over my ex I should casually try flirting with other guys. So I did this and a guy sent me a message asking for my number, I asked for my girls advice cus I ...
A. 26 September 2011: Don't come straight out and tell him that you don't like him, because it is going to hurt his feelings and bruise his ego. At the same time you are not interested in him and you cannot help how you feel. The best way to deal with this is to be ... (read in full...)
I am jealous that my friend can get more guys than I can. Also I have some lesbian fantasies
Q. I am only 13 and I am totally into guys. See the thing is I have a gorgeous face, but I am a little chubby, not like extremely fat, but I am like 30lb. overweight but no guys like me. My friend has the most ugly face ever but she has huge boobs and ...
A. 25 September 2011: OK lets deal with your friend first. I don't think you should stop being friends with her over this. OK so at the moment she might be getting more male attention than you are and she is soaking it all in and maybe showing off a little bit. But she ... (read in full...)
I want us to be officially a couple, but he doesn't want to talk about it
Q. okay so im a bit confused about this guy i really like. ill start from the beginning... we hit it off right away, we have an undeniable spark and it was him that pointed this out at the start. he called me beautiful and we had amazing laughs t...
A. 25 September 2011: You guys have only been seeing each other a month so if I were you I would just be enjoying myself and not worrying about any labels. It sounds to me like he is interested in you and that he does care about you a lot. It is obvious that he is not ... (read in full...)
He is giving me mixed signals
Q. I'm confused by the mixed signals this guy is giving me. I don't think it's anything but afew of my friends are convinced there is something in it. We had a brief stint in the summer but he only wanted me as a rebound girl so we stopped talking. We ...
A. 25 September 2011: Ah teenage guys and there dramas. Is he shy? Maybe he has been plucking up the courage to talk to you but has just not had the right words. Do you like him? If you do well then you should try and make more of an effort to talk to him and show him ... (read in full...)
She wants me to visit her in USA. She does not know I had a criminal record in the past which may prevent me getting a visa
Q. A month ago I got a letter from a female I met in Florida back in 2003. Truth be told,I have always wondered what could have been. I have been invited over. Her family are bending over backwards for me. My problem being,I have a criminal record. It ...
A. 25 September 2011: We all have made mistakes in our lives try and not let it get you down now. As you said you are not that person now. Look in to your options when it comes to your visa before you start worrying. Talk to the american embassy and ask what your chances ... (read in full...)
How can I tell my family that I'm bi-sexual?
Q. hi im bisexual and i want tell my family but there really old fashioned and they would reject me in seconds what should i do...
A. 25 September 2011: I completely understand that this is a very hard subject to approach and you don't want to upset your family or be pushed out. But at the end of the day you are who you are and you cannot change that. You should be proud of the person you are and be ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is still in love with her ex. Should I break up with her?
Q. I will try to make this as short as i can... My gf still feels something for the ex...more specifically love...now...it would be normal in a long relationship...but she was with him 4 months only...and wasted a year trying to win him back...and t...
A. 25 September 2011: Personally as much as you don't want to hear this I think you need to accept that this relationship is never going to work. She loves her ex that much is obvious and it does sound like she might just have got with you to try and make him jealous. My ... (read in full...)
One of my college friends is a girl and my GF is really freaking out over it
Q. I am in college and have only made 2 friends since starting. one of them is a girl. i am not attracted to her more than a friend. i am deeply in love with my girlfriend and would never want anyone else but she keeps on accusing me of wanting to date ...
A. 25 September 2011: No you are not in the wrong for having a female friend. Just because you are in a relationship doesn't mean that you cannot have platonic friendships with the other sex. Please do me a favour and show her your post. I think she is just a little bit ... (read in full...)
I'm 13, he's 18. Would it be ok to date him?
Q. i always feel a lot older than i am. me and this guy like each other and flirt a lot, and it might lead to a relationship but we're just seeing how things go as hes 18, im 13 and we don't want to rush into anything. i know it would be illegal to ...
A. 25 September 2011: Talk to your parents or a trusted adult about this subject and see what they say. You should be free to do as you like, as long as you remember that it is illegal to have sex with this guy and it could get you in to a lot of trouble. As long as you ... (read in full...)
I can't have sex with my husband because his fantasy is his secretary!
Q. my husband fantasize his secretry so i am very upset when they are alone i feel they are involved in sex thats why i cannot have normal sex with my husband i am very upset what should i do...
A. 25 September 2011: How did you find out about this fantasy? Did he come straight out and tell you or did you find out by yourself? Off course this is hard for you to accept and to deal with. You need to talk to your husband and tell him how upset this has made you. Be ... (read in full...)
Can sperm swim in water?
Q. I know this is a bit of a daft question, but can sperm swim in water? Like if you're fooling around in the bath and the guy comes, if you're not on any sort of contraception is there a risk, however slight, of getting pregnant? Thanks for any ...
A. 25 September 2011: I guess there is always the smallest of risks when it comes to these things but it just really depends on the details. Usually once a guy comes sperm dies pretty much straight away therefore if his sperm wasn't directly inserted in to you then no ... (read in full...)
How do let a girl know she is precious to you?
Q. It's one year since your 1st date. You've been generally happy together. What do you do to show your girlfriend how much she means to you? Do you still make it obvious to her and the world that she's most precious to you? ...
A. 25 September 2011: Off course you should still make it obvious to her that she is precious to you and that you love her. There are plenty of things that you can do to mark a year of being together. Plan a romantic night or depending on funds a romantic weekend. Start ... (read in full...)
An employee is sending me texts asking me out to dinner, and this started on my second day!
Q. Alright... so this week I started my new job and I was just trying to get used to everyone and get to know the employees since I am the new supervisor. This one employee passed me a note that said "dinner?" while I was sitting at my desk and it ...
A. 25 September 2011: I agree he had no right taking your number from the data base in the first place. It may be a case that he is lonely but he is not just looking for an innocent dinner this runs much deeper therefore you need to be on your guard. You are the ... (read in full...)
What does this mean in male language?
Q. I am/was seeeing this guy for about 3 weeks and then he sends me a text last friday saying "youre really full on, i think we should cool it for a bit. im not ready for this sort of thing. sorry x" What does this mean in male language? Does it mean ...
A. 25 September 2011: It sounds to me like everything was just happening to fast for him. It could be possible that it was a rebound. Because he has made it clear that he is not ready for anything serious. Don't take this personally he is just not ready for a ... (read in full...)
Can you lose your virginity from too much porn?
Q. if u watch too much porn and have a little blood coming out from downtheir what does it mean? can you loose your virginity by seeing too much porn???...
A. 25 September 2011: No the only way that you can lose your virginity is if you have sex. ... (read in full...)
Am I in the wrong for not wanting this help pushed on me?
Q. Hi, i'm at a low point at the moment in my life and this has only come about withing the last few days. This may be long!! I am married and my hubby is currently away on tour, our welfare team (set up to deal with any issues) has organised day tr...
A. 25 September 2011: I know that it looks like she is adding more stress on top of you. But if you look at it from her point of view. She is looking at your life she can see that you have taking a lot of work on and that you are stressed. She sees that you are wanting ... (read in full...)
I don't know what I do about this girl!
Q. so there is this girl that i like and her friend too. we are all christian, and in some classes too and i dont know what to do, let alone how to ask out a girl.......i dont want things to get awkward either....what do i do?...
A. 25 September 2011: How well do you know this girl? Is she a really close friend? If she is well then just act confident and go up to her and ask her would she like to go to a movie some time or some other activity. It doesn't need to be a big deal if you don't want it ... (read in full...)
Is it realistic for me to want to date a guy of a certain build when I know I'll never be that slender myself?
Q. so am so attracted to really tall thin lanky guys... not stick thin but like a naturally thin guy. Like an "Adam Levine", "John Mayer", "Jared Followill" type of thin looking guy. Thing is I am nowhere near thin. I have never been thin...wont ever ...
A. 25 September 2011: You need to stop over thinking things. You need to gain confidence. OK so you are not thin but you need to accept that you are who you are and believe that men can find you attractive for who you are and not what you are. You will never find a man ... (read in full...)
I'm freaked out that I'm fantasizing about a man who came onto me 10 years ago!
Q. i am 52 and find myself fantising about men one who came onto me about ten years ago and i cant seem to shake that i told him no way i am so confused and love women and their bodies Help...
A. 25 September 2011: It sounds to me like it might just be a mid life crisis. Think back to when the man came on to you and try and remember how you felt. It is probably just your mind over playing it and you are over thinking it to much. Try and not worry about it. If ... (read in full...)
Should he and I just break up for good or try to work things out?
Q. Hi ! I've been dating my boyfriend on and off for the last two years and I'm starting to seriously hate him. I love him so much that its growing into hate. When we break up we are still friends. We still hangout as if we are still dating. We just ...
A. 25 September 2011: It sounds to me like you cannot trust him. Yes OK maybe you have reason not to trust him when this girl is concerned. But you need to take some time to yourself and be realistic about it. Ask yourself can you trust him. Obviously you where paranoid ... (read in full...)
Can I get my ex back?
Q. i'm mad at my ex 3 weeks ago and when he said hey to me, i ignored him. then no contact. even if we met, he avoided me. about 2 weeks ago,i called and told him we could still be friends, we don't have to avoid each other. but like 5 days later, i ...
A. 25 September 2011: It sounds to me like he has made up his mind and that the relationship is over. For your sake I think you need to accept this and concentrate on moving forward with your life. I know that it is hard especially when you want him back but you need to ... (read in full...)
I have only had sex with my current boyfriend, am I missing out on experiencing sex with other guys?
Q. ok so i am currently in a relationship with my boyfriend. im 23 and hes the only person ive had sex with and dated! and hes 24 and i am not his first, im his 13th sex object. right now in our relationship were happy, i know he loves me, he was the ...
A. 25 September 2011: The first thing that concerned me from your post is the way that you said you are his 13th sex object. Is that the way you view yourself as an object? It sounds to me like you don't have confidence in yourself and your relationship. I personally ... (read in full...)
Is my girfriend a psycho?
Q. 6 months back I caught my girlfriend cheating me on Facebook chat . She was doing that for like one week. When I got to know , I cried like hell and didn't say anything more than "you shouldn't have done this" to her such was my love for her. I ...
A. 25 September 2011: Spending 24 hours a day with each other is NOT healthy. Believe me you will start resending each other and arguing over silly things. When two people are in a relationship it is healthy to have some breathing space and time apart.
Your girlfrie... (read in full...)
I sexted another girl. my girlfriend dumped me but says she will always love me. I don't understand these mixed signals
Q. I dont understand my break up at all. My girlfriend broke up with me because I screwed up. I was drunk and went on my computer and facebook sexted a girl I wasnt supposed to talk to at all. I wasnt aloud to talk to this girl so I didnt. I wasnt ...
A. 25 September 2011: Try and look at this from her point of view. She heard rumours that something happened with you and this girl then she took you back then she finds the conversation on facebook. From her point of view this is going to bring all her insecurities back ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend drinks a lot. Am I right to be worried?
Q. What should i do? My boyfriend is always sitting at the bar drinking, like everytime i talk to him .. im like ' Hey what are you doing ? ' , and he is always like at the bar .. or having drinks with my friends .. and he already got in trouble from ...
A. 25 September 2011: Maybe he has a drinking problem? If he is at the bar every single day and it is all he does is drink then yes you do have the right to worry about him. Drinking alcohol can be damaging and it may end up ruining his life. Tell him your worries and ... (read in full...)
He's moving away, and this could be our last chance of a relationship, help! Do I give it a chance?
Q. Hey, any advice would be appreciated! right, first of all I'll tell you the basic story. I'm with this guy. I met him in college, he's similar to me in things like music, and our views on things, I get on well with his family and he does with min...
A. 25 September 2011: This is a very big decision to make and off course you are going to be nervous because so many things can go wrong and ruin peoples lives. You said you aren't attracted to him as more than a friend so I think the best thing that you can do is just ... (read in full...)
Am I being completely taken for a fool by my ex and our mutual friend?
Q. Its been almost a year now since my ex broke up with me. He was someone I met through mutual friends, and because of this ive talked to him and still seen him a decent amount since we broke up. And although the break up was one sided, it wasn't ...
A. 25 September 2011: If I am honest I don't think that she is taking you for a fool. It sounds like she does like you as a person and she probably isn't hiding it from you if she is dating him she probably just doesn't want to make a big deal out of it. Everyone is ... (read in full...)
He just enjoys my treatment of him without reciprocating! I feel hurt and miss him!
Q. are me and my bf falling out?im 19 he is 21 ..just began working..ever since he's started working in a different city(since4 months) he has been busy with work ..he used to call and text a lot telling me he misses me more than his parents and ...
A. 25 September 2011: Stress can do this to people. It sounds like he is working quite a bit and he is slowly pushing you to one side. I think he is doing this because he realises that you are enjoying being a student at the moment yet he is at a different stage of his ... (read in full...)
Retaliation sex, what's your opinion?
Q. Hi everyone. Just wanted to know what people thought about retaliation sex in a relationship. If you know your partner has cheated on you in the past, even if they minimized it saying they never penetrated the woman, is it ok to have the same typ...
A. 25 September 2011: In my opinion two wrongs don't make a right. At the end of the day if someone cheats in a relationship it is very wrong but if someone chose's to forgive them well then they need to live with it. It will just bring more trouble to the relationship ... (read in full...)
Will she ever want or like sex?
Q. Mainly want female answers. How normal is it for a girl to just not like any sexual things at all? My girlfriend says she hates the feeling of sex and anything to do with it, she is not a virgin (I am) but she just simply hates it, she has never ...
A. 25 September 2011: Have you asked her why she feels this way? It sounds like she has had a bad experience in the past that has set her mind to not enjoying it. Try and get her to open up to you and see if she can understand why she doesn't like it. My guess is ... (read in full...)
How do you know if the love is real and if it's worth the chase?
Q. How do you know if love is real. What if you accidently find it and think its right, but do you go with the words you hear or what you feel in your heart and if she is gone is she worth the chase?...
A. 25 September 2011: I guess you don't ever really know, you just need to follow your heart and how you feel about the person. Again it is your choice if you feel she is worth the chase or not. ... (read in full...)
This guy is so decent and respected my boundaries. Is he interested?
Q. If a guy in a club/bar talks to you for a while, genuinely taking an interest in you. But yet, he doesn't try anything with you (proper flirting, holding your hand, putting his arm around you, touching your shoulder or leg) that kind of thing. It's ...
A. 25 September 2011: Everybody is different and not all men are out to look for one night stands. It sounds to me like he was genuine enough and that he may actually be a decent guy. I know in clubs this can be rare but it does happen. So if you liked him well then meet ... (read in full...)
He is hot and cold and confusing me. What am I supposed to make of him by his actions?
Q. hi, this probably sounds stupid but anyways i'll just get on with it. i have beeen talking to this guy for ages and he lives where i live and hes calling me babe nd sending a lot of x's nd he asked to meet/kiss me. i said ok so when it got to the ...
A. 25 September 2011: It just sounds to me like he is confused at the moment, its hard to tell what has confused him but I guess you just need to accept that he doesn't want to be in a relationship at the moment. I know it is hard because you really like him but it needs ... (read in full...)
Two weeks later he is not replying. Was I too hasty not letting him go further?
Q. Was I being to harsh on the guy? we were dating for two months and we were kissing all the time through the dates but I wouldn't let him go any further on our last date, however I let him touch me down there, and it was fine. we havent seen eac...
A. 25 September 2011: Nobody but him knows the reason why he has stopped texting. Your question did you do the wrong thing? No off course you didn't. You should never feel like you have to do anything, always do things that you are comfortable with. There could be a ... (read in full...)
I really don't love him. I need to get over him. He's moved on. I have not. How do I stop wanting to stalk him?
Q. So recently i ended my relationship with this guy..it was mainly because i didnt get really good grades that i wanted and i totally blame the guy for it..because he always thought i could carry on with my studies and would do great blah blah..but i ...
A. 25 September 2011: I think because he was a big part of your life you still feel like he belongs to you and you just have this itching feeling to know what he is doing all of the time. This can be normal feelings. You need to adjust now to single life. However hard it ... (read in full...)
Is it okay to feel this way? sometimes it feels like a FWB, yet when with him the sex is amazing.
Q. Sometimes my boyfriend feels more like a friend with benefits or something. I love him to pieces, I trust him completely, he understands me better than anyone; in short, he's the best mate I could ever wish for. But thinking of the fact that we're ...
A. 25 September 2011: The answer to your question is yes it is ok to feel this way. Everyone has there doubts in relationships and there weak spots. It sounds to me like you have a very smart head on your shoulders and you know what you want which is great. Ok so the ... (read in full...)
The man I loved made a complete volte-face after marriage and my life is hell with him. What do I do?
Q. I kindly need your opinion regarding my marriage situation.I have been married for 5 years with the man I loved with all my heart.We've been together for 11 years prior to marriage(since high school).We couldn't marry and live together because of ...
A. 25 September 2011: You never done anything wrong. Once you guys were legally married he stopped trying so hard because he knew then that he had you. He has probably just gotten lazier and lazier and now is treating you very bad. He is not good for you. He doesn't care ... (read in full...)
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