How do I end a relationship with a woman who uses and threatens me?
Q. i am in love with this girl who is using me. i know it but still I let her get away with it. she cheats on me and lies so much but i am done with all this. she has many problems and i was the only one there for her time after time but i am done. on...
A. 24 November 2011: If she lands at your door again don't answer it, just ignore it, if she threatening you then call the police, just do not let her in or communicate with her. Because if you do she will not give up because she knows that she is winning. ... (read in full...)
How do I end a relationship with a woman who uses and threatens me?
Q. i am in love with this girl who is using me. i know it but still I let her get away with it. she cheats on me and lies so much but i am done with all this. she has many problems and i was the only one there for her time after time but i am done. on...
A. 23 November 2011: Well the posts on here are obviously not helping you no matter how much you try to pretend that they are. You have been advised to break contact with her and you are still talking to her, you are under her thumb again without realising it. Soon she ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend thinks I'm not manly enough
Q. I have an amazing wonderful girlfriend but it gets extremely annoying and upsetting because she can't see me as "manly". I don't like football and she thinks I'm not a man. I tend to show my emotions more and I'm a little sensitive and sh...
A. 21 November 2011: She needs to either accept you for who you are or else let you go and find someone who appreciates who you are. It is not unmanly to actually communicate with your girlfriend, no matter what she thinks. She needs to be told how this makes you feel ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend has trust issues and checks my email, facebook. I don't like this!
Q. Hi! My girlfriend seems to have some trust issues. I got an email from a kind of exgirlfriend and when I saw it on the mailbox my current girlfriend was right next to me and saw it too. The following day she read thoroughly my mailbox looking for ...
A. 20 November 2011: Off course you are right to feel this way. You are entitled to your own privacy even if you are in a relationship. Tell her you find this unacceptable and either she trusts you or not. Just because you are in a relationship does not mean you are not ... (read in full...)
Living a forbidden love and we just want to see each other!
Q. Hi, so me and my girlfriend are living a forbidden love. Both of us are madly in love, but were of different age 5 yrs apart I'm graduated from high school she still has two yrs to go. I recently moved to the city two hours away. We started tlkng ...
A. 20 November 2011: There really is not a lot that you can do about this, I guess she is still a minor so her parents are still responsible for her. If your love is strong well then wait until she is an adult and then she is free to do what she likes. If she goes ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has pictures of his EX still saved on his phone?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 months now and im really into him, i thought he was really into me but untill he was showing me his pictures on his phone and 5 pictures of his EX popped up and he hid his phone but "before i could see them".. He ...
A. 20 November 2011: If it is playing on your mind well then yes tell him, they are probably memories for him so he chose to keep them. Talk to him and see what he says.... (read in full...)
How do I figure out what person I want to be?
Q. Do you ever feel sometimes even when life is going so good and you have great friends and family and your future is right in front of you. You can still feel lost and not know who you are? Because that's how I feel. I've never understood what ...
A. 20 November 2011: Everybody changes as they get older, it's just life. As we experience different things it makes us look at life differently and behave differently. I guess you just need to figure this one out for yourself about who you are and what you want to be, ... (read in full...)
Huge Crush on Husband's Friend.
Q. I have a crush on my husband's best friend/ band mate, lets call him Tyler. I can't stop thinking about him. My feelings for him have even helped me to start writing music again. I don't want to feel this way about him. My friend says that I can't ...
A. 20 November 2011: We just cannot help how we feel sometimes, or who we fall for. but it is obvious that you love your husband and you don't want to hurt him or ruin a lot of friendships. It is ok to fantasize about other people, but you need to try and distance ... (read in full...)
Should I call him? Do you guys think those were signs of attraction?
Q. So i have a question: I started this sales role at a company not to long ago and I developed an instant crush on my boss. Many people would not think I wooud fall for my boss because of my look. Not to sound obnoxious but a lot of people descri...
A. 20 November 2011: If am honest with you, it sounds to me like he was just showing interest in you as an employee. There is nothing there that cries out that he was showing signs off attraction. At the end of the day it is his decision who is let go so deep down you ... (read in full...)
Is he just marrying her out of comfort? Ignore his feelings? if he felt nothing then why did he try to avoid me?
Q. So one of my prior classmates in graduate school and I were in the same class . He is 40 I am 25. Anyways throughout the class we got to know each other and I realized that we had a LOT in common, and in a way we spoke the same "language" I open...
A. 20 November 2011: He obviously loves his girlfriend and he is not going to let anything come in the way of that. Maybe he knew that you had feelings for him, sometimes it can be obvious without us even knowing so am guessing he is avoiding you now because it is a ... (read in full...)
If I tell him I like him will it destroy any chance of a potential romantic relationship?
Q. I'm in love with my best friend. I knew him since the beginning of the school year he helping me a lot since im new at school and that made me fall for him even more. He is the person i been dreaming about ever since i started high school He is perf...
A. 20 November 2011: I think if you like him then you should tell him, you have loads to gain from it. It sounds like he may like you as well so why not just go for it. Flirt with him a little and see how he responds if you don't want to tell him how you feel. See if he ... (read in full...)
What's with all the mixed signals? Was she getting close to me just because she was drunk?
Q. I'm 18 and recently started a new job. I have a female colleague a year younger who invited me on a night out with her friends. I met them in town and as it got busier we all started holding hands to avoid getting seperated. Funny thing was, I found ...
A. 20 November 2011: Well she invited you out, so that shows that she is interested in you as a person anyway. I think maybe she is waiting for you to make the next move. It sounds to me like she does like you. She is probably thinking the same as you and wondering ... (read in full...)
Why are some men so selfish?
Q. Why some men so selfish?. My partner and i have 2 kids together he is 42 and i am 36. Our relationship is very dull, we never go out as a couple, we have little to no sex life to which i put down to him not having a sex drive. He never treats me or ...
A. 20 November 2011: No don't have an affair, this is him just testing you out. Sit down and talk to him, tell him how you feel, ask him how he feels. Tell him you are unsure where the marriage is going and see what he thinks. It sounds like the relationship has just ... (read in full...)
How should I deal with my newborn's father?
Q. I have a gorgeous 2 month old daughter and she's my world. My past with her father isn't so great and I haven't even talked to him since I was 16 weeks pregnant, so basically forever ago! He treated me poorly and said hurtful things, as well ...
A. 20 November 2011: I think you should give him the benefit of the doubt and give him one chance. Set it straight to him though that only one chance he will get and if he messes it up well then it is his problem. You turned your life around so hopefully he can do the ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's overbearing friend has too much time on his hands! What do I do?
Q. My boyfriend has a guy friend. We both have known him for a while. Problem is, he's very overbearing. He dropped out of college, and does nothing but work at his part time job and skate/smoke/drink/play video games. My bf and I are full time college ...
A. 20 November 2011: He is his friend so it's only normal that he wants to spend time with him as well. But talk to him about it and tell him that you want some quality time as well. Come up with a plan that meets in the middle so that everyone is happy and when he is ... (read in full...)
Is it normal for someone 50 to ask their parent if its ok to take a bath?
Q. do you think its normal asking your parent that you will take a bath at the age of 50?someoene i know ask this question everytime want to take a bath in the night. i find it so weird? for me its wrong because personal hygiene.. why ask other people. ...
A. 20 November 2011: Well if this person is staying in there parents home well then it is just common courtesy to ask if it is OK, as it is there house and it shows she respects her parents no matter what her age. ... (read in full...)
I like this married guy but I'm not sure that I want to be a mistress!
Q. hey, this is the first time writing to one of these agony aunt things so i'm sorry if this is long winded. long story short, a guy i'm attracted to has asked me out. he's cute, funny, intelligent.. everything i would want in a guy but never se...
A. 20 November 2011: I don't blame you for wanting to be that person, who would? Yes it might be a bit of fun at the time, but he is married, it is not fair on his wife or his child, and you will be the one that looks bad when it all comes ravelling out. Go and look for ... (read in full...)
9 months of dating and she finds other attractive
Q. Ive been with my gf for about 9 months now and she finds many other people attractive, should I be worried? Is that normal?...
A. 20 November 2011: It really depends do you trust her, and does she trust herself enough not to chat on you, these are things you need to talk about. Finding someone attractive is not a crime. ... (read in full...)
How do I end a relationship with a woman who uses and threatens me?
Q. i am in love with this girl who is using me. i know it but still I let her get away with it. she cheats on me and lies so much but i am done with all this. she has many problems and i was the only one there for her time after time but i am done. on...
A. 20 November 2011: Am sorry but I really think that you are making the wrong choice here, she is not good for you, no matter what you say to try and convince yourself she is not, who knows she might be lying about all this to get you back. Do not be a fool any more, ... (read in full...)
Braces! rubberbands! I feel so ugly. All my photos next year will be ruined. And I'm a dancer. What can I do to get through this?
Q. I'm 16 years old, and in my 3rd year of high school. I recently just got braces on, not to straighten my teeth (they were already straight), but, to fix my bite. I have to wear rubberbands and all of that. I can't stand to even look at myself anym...
A. 19 November 2011: Stop looking at it as a negative and don't let it get you down, plenty of people have to get braces and they don't let it get them down, just remember there is always someone out there who is worse off than you and they stay positive about your ... (read in full...)
LDR boyfriend does not appear to respect me. What should I do?
Q. hey, so this is my first relationship ever, and him and i have been in a relationship for over a year now, he's over seas right now so we video call, instant message or call each other but he speaks to me really disrespectfully. So i asked him about ...
A. 19 November 2011: Stick to your grounds. He is being disrespectful the way he is talking to you and he should show you more respect. It is not nice, he is putting you down which is not good at all. Show him that he cannot treat you like this and don't go running back ... (read in full...)
I'm afraid to introduce my b/f to my family because of his past
Q. I want to introduce my boyfriend to my family as we've been dating for four months now. But he doesn't have a great past. He got into trouble with the law a few months back. It really wasn't his fault ( It really wasn't he was sold robbed goods ) ...
A. 19 November 2011: Just explain this to your boyfriend and tell him not to mention anything to your parents for the time being until they get to know him as a person. If it comes out down the line then well at least they will already have knowing him and not judge him ... (read in full...)
I have LTR with my partner, but another man stole my heart. What am to do?
Q. Advice needed, I need to resolve my emotional mess and i don't know anymore how to do it.At the moment i find this way better then asking my friends for advise, cause the things went to far. I am not control freak but i like to have things in contr...
A. 19 November 2011: First of you need to be honest to your partner, so that he knows the truth and what he is up against. It is only fair on him to tell him the truth and let him know what your intentions are. If it is an open relationship you both have where you can ... (read in full...)
I think he might really like me!!!
Q. So today D has really given me second thoughts. I think he REALLY might like me. He called after me today because he wanted to walk to class with me, we have the same class that hour, when he usually walks the entire opposite way, our school is ...
A. 19 November 2011: Yes it is clear that he likes you, or else he would not be showing you this amount of attention or getting jealous. ... (read in full...)
How do I let this guy know that I AM interested?
Q. Hey so there is this guy and we both like eachother. He always comes to see me but im always afraid to approach him because im shy. He texts me alot but lately after 30 min I say I have to go and do my home work and he seems upset but understands. ...
A. 19 November 2011: Simple just tell him that you like him. Reassure him through communication. Maybe arrange for the two of you to meet up when you are free, go to see a film or do something you both enjoy doing. I understand that you are shy, but maybe just tell him ... (read in full...)
8 months later and things have died down between boyfriend and I
Q. my boyfriend and i have been together for 8 months and lately for about a month now, things have died down a bit. sometimes i wont hear from him all day liketoday for example its 6:30pm and we havent talked all day. if i question him he will say 'oh ...
A. 19 November 2011: After a while a relationship does settle down, once the honey moon period is over, contact sometimes becomes less and maybe he just feels that he does not need to reassure you that he is thinking about you when he is at work. If you both still meet ... (read in full...)
I just don't want to be treated differently because of my gender
Q. hey all those who are there... im having a little issue with my partner at the moment... all my life i've been treated differently because i'm female and it really bugs me, i don't understand why all women are put under the same category like...
A. 19 November 2011: You should look at this as a positive not a negative. He cares about you and he just does not want to see anything happening to you, you hear stories all the time about young girls out walking alone at night, and he just does not want to see ... (read in full...)
Should I just take the plunge and call her up one day?
Q. Hey everyone, my story is somewhat long, so please bear with it and many thanks in advance. Firstly, I am 21 years old male and I have been attracted to a girl I work with (infrequently anyway) who is 22. I would say that, from the moment ...
A. 19 November 2011: Well you have answered your own question really, you are never going to no unless you ask her out. So just take the plunge and do it, you have nothing to lose and so much to gain. Good luck. ... (read in full...)
How do I ride him successfully?
Q. hi everyone. my man wants us to try different positions and its exciting but my problem is how to be on top. we've tried it but l just can't do it, l feel so heavy like my body wont move up or down and its so bad, once in he'll slide out coz l ...
A. 19 November 2011: You just need to practice, that's the only way to master it. Everyone is different, so it is just going to take you some time to get it right so keep on practising and trying different things.... (read in full...)
He doesn't take care of me when I'm sick
Q. Something is bothering me a bit. I am currently very sick, and yesterday I was much worse. I was at my boyfriend's house when suddenly my symptoms got really bad. I begged him to drive to the winn dixie right next to his house to get me some ...
A. 19 November 2011: It doesn't mean that he doesn't care. He might show it in other ways. But at the end of the day if it is really bothering you well then you need to talk to him about it and tell him how it made you feel. He needs to know that his actions made you ... (read in full...)
I dont' want to waste my time with the wrong man
Q. Hi I'm a single mum of 2 beautiful children under 5 and last September I met a wonderful man online. The relationship has been great, he's amazing with my children and I love him with all my heart...but I can't shake this feeling something isn't ...
A. 19 November 2011: You need to sort yourself out before you drive him away. It sounds like you are very jealous and clingy and this will push any man away. You have had a bad past so your trust in men is next to none, and you are not sure on how a normal relationship ... (read in full...)
How can a relationship possibly be happy when it seems like the other doesn't want to be in it anymore.
Q. Me and my fiance have been together almost two years. For the most part, everything is good, but lately things have been starting to fall apart. Any time he gets angry, he storms off, goes home, calls the next day and apologizes, but never actually ...
A. 19 November 2011: Instead of opening up to you he is bottinling everything up inside and then he keeps exploding over silly things and that is what is causing so many arguments. I take it he does not like confrontation or speaking about his feelings so he tries and ... (read in full...)
How do I stop feeling like I never had an adult that cared about me?
Q. My dad has always been extremely critical of me, and my mother was always very withdrawn; I don't ever remember her even saying "I love you" to me. I have never felt close parental support or guidance. Instead I feel as though I have had to raise ...
A. 19 November 2011: Have you tried opening up to your own parents and telling them how you feel? Am sure they would be shocked to realise that you feel like this. They probably don't realise this is how you feel, and am sure they do love you even if they do not show ... (read in full...)
I would love to have a boyfriend but have never been asked out
Q. It makes me sad because all of my friends have had their first boyfriends, first kiss, their first time having sex and even a couple have kids but that's not something to brag about. I have yet to experience any of these things and it gets me down. ...
A. 19 November 2011: Well confidence is a big part of it weather you like it or not, if you don't feel that you are pretty well then how do you expect anyone else to see that you are. If you believe in yourself well then so will others.
Anyway besides that. It shoul... (read in full...)
I don't think I'm worthy of this girl
Q. I have been very ill lately, having seizures and panic attacks, due to a hereditary nerve problem. I recently met a girl who is 14 and really took to me. She called everyday to see if I was okay, and she has just been an angel to me. I am 18 and a ...
A. 19 November 2011: Just be yourself and have more confidence in yourself. It is clear that she likes you as who you are so don't try and change yourself, you need to believe in yourself more and accept that you are enough for her. Have confidence in yourself. If she ... (read in full...)
I have fallen for my best friends wife, what do I do?
Q. I am a guy in his late 20's and I have fallen for my best friends wife. The thing is that my friend has done some things that I could never fogive him for. He has raped her while she was asleep and he lost his job because of porn addiction. He ha...
A. 19 November 2011: What he done to his wife is unacceptable completely and she should do the right thing and get rid of him if he is going to do something like that to her. But at the end of the day it is her choice to stay with him I guess and there is not a lot ... (read in full...)
How can I make him forget about her and fall in love with me?
Q. i met this guy a few weeks ago he told me he likes me but there is something wrong. he has broken up with this girl, its been like one year and they where together for 6 year. He hasn't forgotten her. How can i make him forget about her and fall in ...
A. 19 November 2011: I'm sorry to say this but you cannot make someone fall in love with you, and you cannot make him get over her either, it is up to him to get over her, and it is obvious he has not let go yet and he needs some time. Sorry to say this but you just ... (read in full...)
The age old question: Does he like me?
Q. Hi! OK, a little backstory: he is my classmate in this tertiary course we're in, both of us being in second year (I didn't know him from 1st 'cause this is a newly merged programme). The first semester I didn't really see much of him as we were a...
A. 18 November 2011: Well it is clear that he really likes you as a person, as for more I am just not sure to be honest. He might just think of you as a close friend. It is a hard one to call. But sometimes the best relationships start with a good friendship. If you ... (read in full...)
I don't want him to be around our baby ever, am I doing the right thing?
Q. Hello viewers...I'm back and now I'm shy if 27 weeks pregnant. Things aren't the greatest for me but better.I'm having my third boy and the father still has nothing to do with us. and is mom and brother has accepted the fact and he has beaten his ...
A. 18 November 2011: It's a hard one to judge. At the end of the day you need to think about the baby and what is best for him. If he does not want anything to do with you or the children and he makes that clear well then I guess you are doing the right thing. But if ... (read in full...)
Why doesn't my boyfriend french kiss me?
Q. Now I don't want to force him into doing anything. I just thought that I needed to say that first so I don't get remarks about how rude it is to do that cause I agree but........my boyfriend kisses me, but we don't use any tongue action like "French ...
A. 18 November 2011: Everyone has there own style of kissing and obviously this is his own style. If you want to change things around about well then you take the lead and let him follow you. ... (read in full...)
He's back and I don't want to fall for him again!
Q. He is back and I think I've fallen for him again! The guy I used to like for 2 years ignored me and acting like a major b*****d to me so I learnt how to get over him. Now he is back, he has apologised sincerely I'm afraid my feelings have come...
A. 17 November 2011: The best thing for you to do is run a mile. You went through the heartache before and you managed to heal yourself from this and get over him, if you fall for him a second time it is just going to be a whole lot worse. You know deep down you will ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend will only sleep on the couch, not with me
Q. please help my boyfriend and i have been together for 9 months now been staying together for the past 3 months, in the past month or so he has stopped sleeping in the bed with me and will only sleep on the couch. there has been a few times whe...
A. 16 November 2011: Erm you really need to be asking him why he is doing this and not asking anyone on here. Off course we are hear to support you but at the end of the day the answer lies with him so you need to talk to him about it.... (read in full...)
He never listened and now his family and friends have run out of way to say and how to support him!
Q. Once upon a time a man and woman meet, man and woman became good friends. The man is married to his first love they have three children, but the man starts to fall in love with his friend, and vice versa, though for a while nither says it and they ...
A. 16 November 2011: I don't think that she can help even if she wants to. At the end of the day what he done sounds very serious and therefore he should be punished. It is good that he is going to seek help about his issues but if he hurt his wife and put his children ... (read in full...)
How do I end a relationship with a woman who uses and threatens me?
Q. i am in love with this girl who is using me. i know it but still I let her get away with it. she cheats on me and lies so much but i am done with all this. she has many problems and i was the only one there for her time after time but i am done. on...
A. 16 November 2011: Seriously all she is doing is making empty threats to you, because she believes she can scare you in to getting back with her. You need to seriously ignore this woman she is dangerous. You need to phone up your telephone service and block her number ... (read in full...)
How do I end a relationship with a woman who uses and threatens me?
Q. i am in love with this girl who is using me. i know it but still I let her get away with it. she cheats on me and lies so much but i am done with all this. she has many problems and i was the only one there for her time after time but i am done. on...
A. 16 November 2011: Find the strength within you. Yes it is hard to ignore someone that you love, but remember that you are doing it for the RIGHT reasons. She sounds manipulative and unstable. She is using empty threats now because she does not know any other way to ... (read in full...)
How do I end a relationship with a woman who uses and threatens me?
Q. i am in love with this girl who is using me. i know it but still I let her get away with it. she cheats on me and lies so much but i am done with all this. she has many problems and i was the only one there for her time after time but i am done. on...
A. 15 November 2011: I understand that it will be hard, but look at the way she is treating you, you are unwell and she still does not care. Tell her mother to inform her that if she does not return your car you will report it stolen. Don't mess around this needs to be ... (read in full...)
How do I end a relationship with a woman who uses and threatens me?
Q. i am in love with this girl who is using me. i know it but still I let her get away with it. she cheats on me and lies so much but i am done with all this. she has many problems and i was the only one there for her time after time but i am done. on...
A. 14 November 2011: She is controlling you and you know it. You just need to remain strong. Tell her you are sick of letting her use you and you are finished, tell her your mind is made up and not to contact you again, don't listen to anything she has to say just end ... (read in full...)
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