I'm still having a tough time moving on from my previous relationship!
Q. I posted something a couple of months ago about my now defunct seven year relationship with this woman that started out as as a FWB arrangement, but progressed into a relationship. My social life has been packed to to hilt with activities in or...
A. 11 May 2016: Block her from your phone, social media and all other ways for her to contact her. Then forget about her and move on. If she does anything out of boundaries then contact the police and tell them.... (read in full...)
I'm still having a tough time moving on from my previous relationship!
Q. I posted something a couple of months ago about my now defunct seven year relationship with this woman that started out as as a FWB arrangement, but progressed into a relationship. My social life has been packed to to hilt with activities in or...
A. 11 May 2016: The thing with women like this, is that when they realize they cannot have what they want it is like a game to them, I bet if you where to be single in the morning she would leave you alone because she would then have lost the thrill.
Are you sure... (read in full...)
I'm still having a tough time moving on from my previous relationship!
Q. I posted something a couple of months ago about my now defunct seven year relationship with this woman that started out as as a FWB arrangement, but progressed into a relationship. My social life has been packed to to hilt with activities in or...
A. 9 May 2016: Simple answer is she is jealous that you have found someone else and you are happy. ... (read in full...)
Should I stay with the boyfriend I met on facebook? He was taking drugs so I broke up with him.
Q. I was with my boyfriend for 44 days. I started dating him over facebook. I didn't know what he looked like so we met up and kept meeting then he asked me out. I dumped him because he was taking drugs, getting garried (a pill you swallow and it m...
A. 18 April 2016: It is okay to be sad, it is all part of growing up, having fun times and sad times. At least you are smart and you are thinking with your head, you know whats important for your future and that's great. Well done. ... (read in full...)
If a guy has a wart on his penis, then is it genital warts ? And for how long can genital warts be dormant in a person?
Q. Hi all my boyfriend has a wart on his penis which he is not sure where it came from. We have been together for nearly 3 years and I know he has been completely faithful as am I. I don't have any warts or anything. My question is, For how lon...
A. 13 April 2016: It may sound odd yes, but it is a fact, it is also a fact that it can last longer than two years in a woman's body also, but statistically it is less than 1 in 10 women, it is still possible though. ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to get Herpes by skin to skin contact?
Q. Is it possible to get Herpes by skin to skin contact. I only slept with one guy and he swears he tested negative. I have hugged other people but it was friendly hugs,nothing sexual. I am so confused because it was a full on outbreak for m...
A. 13 April 2016: No you cannot contact herpes by hugging someone, I think the guy you slept with is lying. ... (read in full...)
I'm stuck in a loveless marriage but I have a child and another on the way. What do I do?
Q. I apologise in advance. Married 8 years.. 4 yr old daughter and currently 27 weeks pregnant.. But it's a loveless emotionless marriage. I feel so lonely and neglected. But when I discuss with husband he gets defensive and puts blame back on me. He ...
A. 13 April 2016: It is more than likely your husband is getting defensive because he feels you are blaming him for the situation you are both in. Maybe you both need to see a professional and talk things through in a calm environment?
If you are so unhappy then... (read in full...)
Should I confront my sister in law or just move back to my home country?
Q. I moved abroad because I was suffering from social anxiety and depression after being the victim of a sexual assault. Got a fantastic job, bought my own house, got a boyfriend, and we ended up getting married. Things seemed to be going fine. To t...
A. 13 April 2016: Is it possible that you and your husband got married a bit to quick? You say you where in a long distance relationship, but did you actually spend time getting to know each other? I am hoping you both did not rush in to this. You need to be able to ... (read in full...)
Would it be too forward to invite him out for a drink before I leave?
Q. There's a guy who works in the same company as me, just in a different office (same city) and he's my superior. He's definitely older but I'm not sure how old.. he doesn't wear a wedding ring. All this to say that we've exchanged a couple of flirty ...
A. 13 April 2016: You have nothing to lose here at all. You are leaving the company so even if he does turn your offer down at least you won't have to face him everyday. I say go for it, ask him for a drink, the worst he can say is no. Who knows you both might hit it ... (read in full...)
My friend's sister and I have been secretly seeing each other
Q. I have two questions. I'll start from the beginning. I've been friends with a guy "Scott" for a few years. He has a younger sister who is pretty amazing but we are total opposites. She was dating a guy that her parents loved, coming from a politica...
A. 13 April 2016: Off course you are going to be worried, she cheated on a guy with you, so she can easily cheat on you with another guy when she wants to. In my eyes she is not a very trustworthy person, exactly what age is she? Maybe she is just not mature enough ... (read in full...)
Why does a guy get shy and awkward around you?
Q. A friend of mine who knows I'm attracted to him isn't very clear about what he feels for me. Every time we meet, he admits being shy and awkward around me. His friends say he isn't like that around them. He admitted he got so awkward while hugging ...
A. 12 April 2016: Maybe he doesn't feel the same way as you do therefore he is shy and awkward because he doesn't want to give you the wrong impression. You say he knows that you like him, but he makes no effort, this says to me that he is not interested so you ... (read in full...)
How do I solve the finishing problem?
Q. J and I have been sleeping together for about 2 and a half months now, and the sex is great and we have a lot of physical and emotional chemistry and we usually just can't keep our hands off of each other. However, no matter how hard I try, I can't ...
A. 12 April 2016: Ask him to direct you. Try some new techniques and see how it goes. Ask him to tell you what feels good and what doesn't. It is clear that whatever way you are doing it at the moment is not working for him, so you both need to work together to see ... (read in full...)
Should I marry him even though it would mean that I would be stuck in a life I would hate?
Q. Ive going to marry soon this year and im having dillema about my future. I think its normal to worry about my future life and im not telling or discussed this with anyone. Its making me depressed by the time pass and it keep worse. We have been t...
A. 12 April 2016: I can understand why you would not want to live with his parents, if it was me I would feel the same. I think all married couples should have their own house, and own space. Have you spoke to him about how you feel?
Maybe you can compromise and live... (read in full...)
Should I stay with the boyfriend I met on facebook? He was taking drugs so I broke up with him.
Q. I was with my boyfriend for 44 days. I started dating him over facebook. I didn't know what he looked like so we met up and kept meeting then he asked me out. I dumped him because he was taking drugs, getting garried (a pill you swallow and it m...
A. 12 April 2016: Sweetie he is emotionally blackmailing you, he is trying to make you feel bad so that you will get in a relationship with him again, this is not the kind of guy you want to be with. You broke up with him because he took drugs and liked to make you ... (read in full...)
How can get a girl that I adore to forget about my past?
Q. How can get a girl that I adore to forget about my past ? From the time I was 18 I was in a band. Even though we were just a small town band we had our own little group of followers and got a good deal of attention. I was young and enjoy life. Ov...
A. 12 April 2016: Then tell her that, tell her how you feel what you want from future, explain to her that you where young and single and nobody got hurt because you where straight with all the women and told them it was no strings fun, its not like you where leading ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's great, but I'm still obsessing over my ex
Q. I just wanted some advice on my current situation. I have a boyfriend we've been together for about 8 and a half mouths. He's amazing. In my eyes he's the definition of what every guy should be and if he had been anything less I wouldn't have go...
A. 12 April 2016: Oh dear your poor boyfriend, he must feel like second best, which is never good in a relationship, your boyfriend sounds like a good guy and he deserves nothing but happiness, something am afraid you are unable to give him, the kindest thing you can ... (read in full...)
BFcheated and confessed the next day. Do I cut him some slack because of his honesty?
Q. I have been in a relationship for over 4.5 years. Everything was smooth until now. My bf had gone on a vacation and had sex with some random girl. He knew he was doing the wrong thing and wasn't drunk but it still happened. He's still away but ...
A. 12 April 2016: Okay so yes he was honest, does that mean you should forgive him? Well if it was me no I wouldn't. It is opening a door for him to think it is okay to treat you this way. He had sex with another girl. So therefore there must be something lacking in ... (read in full...)
How can get a girl that I adore to forget about my past?
Q. How can get a girl that I adore to forget about my past ? From the time I was 18 I was in a band. Even though we were just a small town band we had our own little group of followers and got a good deal of attention. I was young and enjoy life. Ov...
A. 12 April 2016: You just need to be honest with her and tell her that is not who you are anymore. Everybody has a past, and you where honest about yours which is a good start to you guys dating. She is opposite to you, so yes it will take her time to get her head ... (read in full...)
Mixed signals from my crush
Q. Hi everyone, sorry if this is a bit long. I am 21 year old gay man. Last year I dated this guy, and even tough we never made our relationship "official", I was very happy during the months we were together, I really tried my best to make it work,...
A. 12 April 2016: Okay so he has been hurt before in the past, but that does not give him the right to mess with your head and hurt you. Have you actually told him though how you feel? He might see you as a friend now and nothing more, have you spoke about it? The ... (read in full...)
When will I get a life partner
Q. MOD NOTE: Original poster, I am approving this but DC is NOT a dating site. Maybe you can get suggestions how to meet someone... now I am 36yrs almost to hit 40 I feel very sad to be single I have been so shy for many years such that its hard to ...
A. 12 April 2016: Yes I agree with Denizen, talk to people in your church about your problems, talk to your family about wanting a life partner. Gain more confidence, don't wait until a girl comes and talks to you, make the first move, smile be friendly with girls. ... (read in full...)
My husband has had an affair. What should I do?
Q. My husband has had affair. We have been married 30 years?. He had affair 16 years ago. Our two kids know about it. What should I do?...
A. 12 April 2016: You should do what you feel is right for you at the moment. This is very hard for you to deal with, and if you only just found out well then it is a shock to your system, it may have been a long time ago but its still as hurtful.
Do you feel that... (read in full...)
Life is flying by, do I take a chance or wait?
Q. Hi i joined a dating site 2 week ago and saw a guy i know of and on rare nights out over the years we have spoken and said hi to each other ive always had a liking of him , its been 4 years since i last spoke to him. I messaged him on this dating ...
A. 12 April 2016: It seems that he doesn't really use the online dating site therefore yes why not send him a facebook message. I don't see the harm in contacting him, and who knows it might be the start of something great. If he is not interested well at least you ... (read in full...)
What could be going on with this moody co-worker?
Q. This guy with a girlfriend of 7 years, suddenly starts to flirt with a longtime cowoker. But he started doing this after having a very hot/cold relationship (non-sexual) with another coworker who stopped talking to him. When that coworker gave hi...
A. 12 April 2016: I agree he sounds like a very dumb man, surely he should see that he done wrong and apologize for his actions and rudeness? Maybe he is to stubborn to apologize so he plays other childish games so that this woman can notice him, it sounds to me like ... (read in full...)
If a guy has a wart on his penis, then is it genital warts ? And for how long can genital warts be dormant in a person?
Q. Hi all my boyfriend has a wart on his penis which he is not sure where it came from. We have been together for nearly 3 years and I know he has been completely faithful as am I. I don't have any warts or anything. My question is, For how lon...
A. 11 April 2016: Generally when it lies dormant in a woman for more than two years then it is cleared, but chigirl it is different for a man, it can lie dormant for years in a man and then show up, so honeypie is right in what she is saying. Its good that he is ... (read in full...)
Are they turned off by my virginity?
Q. I loved two different guys once upon a time... The first guy was into me, we had alot in common. We went on a couple dates and we discussed sex, marriage etc. When he found out I was a virgin tho , he said he couldnt be with me anymore.. The...
A. 11 April 2016: It is not you and you have done nothing wrong, it just seems that the guys you have picked don't want anything serious. That's the danger with talking online to men, they can tell you a load of lies just so that they can get in to your pants, ... (read in full...)
Would you be thinking there's more to the story here or just a guy wanting to get away at a casino, all by himself?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating about 2 years. We have been arguing a lot lately and have broken up some but then gotten back togther. I have never doubted his faithfulness to me. And I know he feels the same about me. So trust has never been an ...
A. 11 April 2016: It sounds dodgy to me, if he needed space he should have been honest and told you he needed time to himself, but he didnt he said he was going to his nieces party and ended up at a casino spending the night all alone? Sounds fishy to me, you know ... (read in full...)
He wants to move close to his baby mother! Am I overreacting?
Q. During a conversation with my boyfriend of 2 years, we were discussing areas of our city where we would like to live together. (We currently reside our parents) I told him that I wanted to live in a more central area where condos were being built ...
A. 11 April 2016: I don't think you should be with him, he is always going to put his child first, which off course is the correct thing to do, he is taking responsibility, I applaud that. Is there a big age gap between you? As I really don't think you want to be ... (read in full...)
I enjoy it more without climax - is this odd?
Q. Sex actually feels best when I don't cum? Am I normal? I'm a newbie to sex and have only been having it since last year. But I have done it a lot, and I honestly like sex when I don't orgasm the most. It just feels awesome, and I don't get spent or ...
A. 11 April 2016: Off course you are normal, most women don't climax during intercourse anyway, most pretend that they do, but most still enjoy it just as much. You are still young, so it is good to explore and find what you like and what you don't, remember we are ... (read in full...)
What could be going on with this moody co-worker?
Q. This guy with a girlfriend of 7 years, suddenly starts to flirt with a longtime cowoker. But he started doing this after having a very hot/cold relationship (non-sexual) with another coworker who stopped talking to him. When that coworker gave hi...
A. 11 April 2016: Its clear that he had feelings for the other co worker, she turned him down, probably because of the fact that he has a girlfriend so she wanted to do the right thing, he took this as a rejection, he spat out his dummy and got moody. Now he is ... (read in full...)
I don't love him the way I did before I met the other guy
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for almost five years now so last month he was acting up for me so I left him. He had started acting up in such a way that he was working so since when he was off from work he spent time with his family leaving me with ...
A. 11 April 2016: I think you should be on your own for a while until you figure out what it is that you want. If you don't feel love with your boyfriend anymore then you need to be honest with him. You cannot stay with someone in case they hurt themselves, and if he ... (read in full...)
I like my friend but he's in a FWB relationship with another friend. Do I say anything?
Q. i have a crush on my best friends and i have been liking him for a while. the problem is that he like someone else which is one of my friends . they used to date but not anymore. i tried to tell him how i felt on valentines day, but i didn't work ...
A. 11 April 2016: I think that if you told him how you felt you would lose your friend that he used to date. The fact that he was with her and is still sleeping with her sort of means that if you are her friend then you should not get involved. I think the best thing ... (read in full...)
Is it bad for me to get him before the date, or should we meet up at the intended destination?
Q. So it's time for our second date, and he's back in school. His school is like 5-10 mins from where we are going so he asked if I could get him on the way. I'm being advised by my friends not to do it. They feel if I do, it makes me the guy in th...
A. 11 April 2016: I think it would be a good idea for you to collect him, as it is on your way anyway, it makes sense. Women have equal rights to men these days, therefore I feel that equal effort should be made by both the girl and the guy. Why should the guy be ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's attitude towards my godchild turned me off. Am I wrong for feeling this way?
Q. Hi everyone. I've been dating my boyfriend for almost a year. We recently started talking about moving in together. I felt anxious about that cause although we get along very well, I still think we're in the "honeymoon" period or something. Any...
A. 11 April 2016: I think you are both in very different stages of life. He sounds like an immature 28 year old if I am being honest. Okay so he does not want to settle down and have children any time soon, that much is clear. But it is not like you are your ... (read in full...)
Is it best to get sex out of the way?
Q. I'm a 19 year old virgin, and my boyfriend of three years recently broke up with me. He's adamant we'll stay friends and so far that's working, but I really want to have sex. The reason we never had sex is we tried twice and the first time hur...
A. 11 April 2016: Is friendship really working with your ex? Are you sure you don't want more than friendship? From experience it is difficult to be friends with an ex, as their was feelings between you both at one point.
It seems you are moving on and it is grea... (read in full...)
I'm still having a tough time moving on from my previous relationship!
Q. I posted something a couple of months ago about my now defunct seven year relationship with this woman that started out as as a FWB arrangement, but progressed into a relationship. My social life has been packed to to hilt with activities in or...
A. 11 April 2016: Yes it could be that she wants sex from you, but do not let her in again, as feelings will rise and you will only end up back at square one. The best thing for you to do is not respond to her and tell her that you have moved on from him. Don't give ... (read in full...)
She never checked his social media or snooped around, now I want to expose him! What do you think of my plan?
Q. My best friend has been seeing someone for the past 3 years and was starting to fall for him. I did a bit of snooping on his social media and found that he's been with a girl for over a year now. My friend trusted this guy 100%, so she never ...
A. 8 April 2016: I think you should go with your plan, this girl deserves to know what her boyfriend has been doing behind her back, it might stop her from getting hurt even more in the future. Good luck. ... (read in full...)
30 years and she still wont listen to the truth!
Q. Just found out some one I like over thirty years ago been mad at me all this time, our last date she thought I put something in her drink, a drug, I didn't, she left me that night and went home with this other guy, who was trying to make me out the ...
A. 8 April 2016: You say that you just found this out recently, therefore yes am sure it came as a shock to you, you say she still doesn't believe you, therefore you have obviously already told her it was not you. I guess the best thing to do now is to let it go, ... (read in full...)
Was I wrong for coming onto her?
Q. I apologize for the length of this in advance! So i had a rough day today. Got cursed out by some old guy on the road who nearly killed me and i almost went bat shit on him. I didn't know old people could be so foul. Later i went to the mall to b...
A. 8 April 2016: She might just be a chatty person by nature. Maybe she was low in sales this month so she has to make more off an effort with the customers, maybe to you it was a deep conversation but to her it was just chit chat. You tried to ask her out, she ... (read in full...)
Should my boyfriend be putting in more effort to see me?
Q. I have a general question about a relationship that I've been in for just over a year now. I love my boyfriend. We both have our ups and downs and have been working on creating an amazing relationship together as we love each other more than we've ...
A. 8 April 2016: If it was me I would feel upset, when I am sick I want my partner to be there to comfort me and to look after me, and off course the same vice versa if he was sick. No matter what age we are it is nice to have someone their if we are sick.
It seem... (read in full...)
How can I get my pregnant girlfriend to understand my point about moving in with my parents?
Q. When I was 17 I got a girl pregnant. We weren't really dating just hooking up and she wanted to give baby up for adoption but I wanted to keep it. My family support me and when my son was born my gf signed over the baby to me and my parents have ...
A. 8 April 2016: I can see both of your points, but at some stage you will need to move out of your parents house and stand on your own to feet, I hope you can see what a huge thing your parents are doing for you and supporting you. Not many parents would take on ... (read in full...)
I'm still having a tough time moving on from my previous relationship!
Q. I posted something a couple of months ago about my now defunct seven year relationship with this woman that started out as as a FWB arrangement, but progressed into a relationship. My social life has been packed to to hilt with activities in or...
A. 8 April 2016: It's not odd behavior at all, it is the behavior of a woman who doesn't want you, but also who likes the attention from you. She doesn't want you to be with anyone else, but she also is just using you for her own benefit and to make herself feel ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend seemed too interested in my friend during our threesome
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for about 3 years and have had a great sex life with lots of experimentation as we both have high sex drives. He has always wanted to have a threesome so I, having had two previous good experiences with thr...
A. 8 April 2016: I am glad you are both back on track and it has not ruined your relationship. Thanks for the feedback, it is always nice to hear a happy ending, all the best :-)... (read in full...)
What would be the easiest way to get rid of my feelings for her?
Q. I'm looking for the easiest way to get rid of feelings for someone. I'm in a very odd situation with a girl that I know. Basically we started out as fwb, it messed up when I wanted more but she said she wasn't ready for a relationship aft...
A. 7 April 2016: It's clear to see that you have feelings for her but she does not want commitment, if you want to move on and get over her then you need to remove her from your life, that means cut all contact and give yourself time to get over her. I understand ... (read in full...)
Is my younger BF afraid of commitment? Why would he want to take his ex out for a meal for her birthday?
Q. HELP......I feel i am going mad or is it me being unreasonable. My partner of 8 months has many female friends. In the last couple of weeks one has been to his flat (apparently she is in a committed relationship), i was not allowed to meet her, he ...
A. 7 April 2016: Sweetie I think you should block his number so that he cannot contact you anymore. It was never a good relationship if he was always putting other girls before you and being sneaky. He was without a doubt hiding things fro, you. He wants you for ... (read in full...)
I think a guy finally likes me !! Am I exaggerating? What are my options?
Q. I've known Jon for a while now and we are friends. I was passing by his desk one time and he was talking to another co-worker and then he saw me and he was like "Oh, I like your shirt. The colors on it." And I just said thank you and left. I ha...
A. 2 April 2016: It is a good start, you both see, to be communicating well. Just play it cool and see how it goes. Keep getting to know each other, and see how it goes. You are still young and all this should be exciting so good luck and I hope it works out. ... (read in full...)
Met this girl online but now I feel I've lost a new friend. what should I do?
Q. I recently made friends with a girl online and we really got on well to start with but past week we have had arguements around me being moody because I get anxious when waiting for a reply; I end up being rude. She is in a relationship but has chea...
A. 2 April 2016: You where rude to her so u both argued. Maybe you need to work on your anxiety issues first so that it can help you in the future have a bit more patience.
You say she has cheated before but will not do it again, but are you wanting more than a fr... (read in full...)
Is my younger BF afraid of commitment? Why would he want to take his ex out for a meal for her birthday?
Q. HELP......I feel i am going mad or is it me being unreasonable. My partner of 8 months has many female friends. In the last couple of weeks one has been to his flat (apparently she is in a committed relationship), i was not allowed to meet her, he ...
A. 2 April 2016: Yes the end of a relationship is indeed sad, it does not mean that you need to be alone, spend time doing things you enjoy, hanging out with friends and making the most of your life, when you are ready to move on there are plenty of men out there ... (read in full...)
Is my younger BF afraid of commitment? Why would he want to take his ex out for a meal for her birthday?
Q. HELP......I feel i am going mad or is it me being unreasonable. My partner of 8 months has many female friends. In the last couple of weeks one has been to his flat (apparently she is in a committed relationship), i was not allowed to meet her, he ...
A. 1 April 2016: I don't think you are being sensitive here at all, I think he is treating you very badly and being very disrespectful. If it was me I would not be putting up with this behavior.
It is okay for him to have female friends, however it is not okay for ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend seemed too interested in my friend during our threesome
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for about 3 years and have had a great sex life with lots of experimentation as we both have high sex drives. He has always wanted to have a threesome so I, having had two previous good experiences with thr...
A. 31 March 2016: Am sure his intentions where not to make you feel invisible. I doubt he would have wanted to do that to you. You where allowing him to have sex with another woman, so it was like he was the cat that got the cream, he was probably looking at her ... (read in full...)
I'm still having a tough time moving on from my previous relationship!
Q. I posted something a couple of months ago about my now defunct seven year relationship with this woman that started out as as a FWB arrangement, but progressed into a relationship. My social life has been packed to to hilt with activities in or...
A. 29 March 2016: Maybe you are just not ready to be out dating again. You still have feelings for your ex, and am sure all these other women you are comparing to her and making yourself feel even worse. I think you should be alone for a while and concentrate on ... (read in full...)
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