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male
age
36-40,
*olidus
writes:I need some advice on how to get this girl in my class. We have this study room requirement where we have to fulfill a certain amount of hours or we don't pass the class and since she was way behind I offered to help her out. This allowed me to A) Start talking to her more frequently and B) Get her number. We both came early yesterday so I was able to sit down and spend a couple minutes alone with her. So, we sit down and the first thing she talks about out of the blue is how she's seeing some dude who she's not really into, but just gave him a chance and that she just sees them more as friends. Shen then asks my advice on letting him down easy cause he really likes her. She also mentioned that he was my ethnicity. Was she just talking idly or was she sending me signals that I should try to hit on her or something? Women are difficult to read and I suck with them in generally. So my questions are was she sending me signals and whats the best way for me to go about pursuing a relationship with her? Reply to this Question
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (9 December 2010):
 Here's the thing, some women try to send out signals..Other women already know that if they try that wires will get crossed, so they know it's a big waste of time to drop hints and don't even bother.
Now, from your post I don't know what kind of woman this girl is. Instead of trying to sit here and guess, why don't you ask her out? That's the only way to pursue anything with her, open your mouth and ask her out for this weekend.
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male
reader, the_phoenic  +, writes (9 December 2010):
with little experience you can know
if a girl likes you or not by a simple look in her eyes
but this experience well come eventually over time
though we need more information to give you an accurate answer
but what she said sounds more like she wants to trigger your jealousy so you would ask her out
so give it try....you've got nothing to loose
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