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writes:I broke up with my girlfriend a few weeks ago, and I still love her. I was talking to one of my other best friends and I found out that he is now dating my ex. I still love her very much and I want her back. I don't want to destroy my best friend's relationship with her, but I want her more than anything in the world. What should I do?
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reader, Eilish  +, writes (19 February 2011):
 Awww bless your heart :(.
The thing you have to remember here is friends are forever whereas girlfriends come and go. If you begin competing with your friend then you could risk your friendship. Fair enough, he shouldn't have started dating her or he should have asked you first, but it's happened now and theres nothing you can do. I know it's hard, but the only solution for you here is to move on. If she rejects you for him, then you'll only get hurt even more. I'm sure you don't want to lose neither of these people. There's plenty more people in this world, it's just the matter of finding the right one. And in this case, it obviously wasn't her. Hope I helped.xxx
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reader, the_phoenic +, writes (19 February 2011):
the same old story
you have a wonderfull gf and you start talking about how wonderfull she is infront of you best friend and vice versa, eventually they start liking each other and things spice up the cling togeather and you find your self knocked out
my theory is to leave them alone
because chasing her well make you look weak and women dont like week men and they seem in the begining of a spicy relation that went trough allot before becoming true
so it wont be so easy and it would be so devistating to you
life os full of open doors but we keep looking at the closed ones behind us
Good Luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2011): well you can either wait for her to come back or find someone else. i had the same situation my gf went out with my ex best friend and i still loved her even though i had somewhat of a date to meet a new girl so when i told my girlfriend she started to cry because she still loves me and soon after that we were back together that's just what happened to me if you still talk to your ex tell her how you feel then dont call/text or converse with her so she can miss you and well if that dont work move on
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