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female
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes:My lover and I split up just after xmas due to not seeing eye to eye with things etc..we were together 2 years, anyway after no contact for a month he emailed me again saying he was depressed and feeling stressed out and that he wanted to see how I was doing? I said I was ok but asked him what he wanted off me? He said nothing as such but because I was always there for him and I knew him so well he wanted to contact me...I said I could only offer him friendship because I didn't want to get hurt again with all the arguments but secretly I would want him to make a go with things but I dont want to ask him that because i will look a fool if iv got it all wrong with him. Anyway that was friday and now its monday and i haven't heard from him...What is he playing at? Should I wait? or is he playing games with me? Its been 3 days since his last email.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2011): I think that maybe a text from you just to see what's what, may be ok here. Casually just ask him how he is. Maybe he was down when he emailed you and now is fine and the need to meet up has subsided. As he hasn't contacted you I think that may be the case. But there is no harm in inquiring, then you can judge by his response.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe hasn't said that he wants me back, has he? We split up because he was always too busy to see me...can you blame me for feeling like this?
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reader, the_phoenic +, writes (8 February 2011):
i dont think he is playing
but he backed off because you told him that
friendship is all what you got for him
try to e-mail him again
try to give him a signal that you are ok with him
if he changed some of his attitude
if he loves witch is noticable he most probably would change for you
Good Luck
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