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He said "'I just want you to want me". What does that mean?

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Question - (21 October 2009) 6 Answers - (Newest, 5 May 2010)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

What does it mean when a guy says 'I just want you to want me'?

Yesterday I was talking to this guy who i had been dating on and off... we were talking about one of our guy friends and he said he felt happy we were having that talk. He then said he was going to be blunt, that he just wants me to want him.... I told him that was selfish of him and he asked how, I told him it was self explanatory, but he said I didn't understand what he was saying. I later asked and he said not to worry about it, that it was dumb. But I want to know what it means..

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2010):

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Well, time passed and I waited for him to come back and well what he wanted was a sexual adventure.. so he meant it sexually. I am glad I didn't give in to him and that this is over, yet I am angry for waisting 2 years of my life with this guy.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2009):

He probably means that he wants you(sexually)............ and he wants you to want him(sexually)...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2009):

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that is what I was thinking when he said that... that he meant it sexually, I just don't have the guts to ask him again since he said it was stupid.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 October 2009):

I don't completly disagree but not agree...he might mean he wants you to want him sexually.

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A female reader, sunnycomet Canada +, writes (21 October 2009):

sunnycomet agony auntI agree with caring guy. He wants you to love him and wants you to want to be his girlfriend.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (21 October 2009):

He wants you to love him.

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