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reader, Jakester101  +, writes (15 May 2010):
 If he is after sex, the so called "player" might as well go live under a rock for the rest of his life after you DENY his offer.
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reader, adamantine +, writes (14 May 2010):
 Hi there.. I can see from your flag that you live in Seychelles. My mum is from the Seychelles and I've been there a number of times to visit my family. From what I've observed, the men there often don't care about their women. They are often not faithful. Neither are the women. Most women have many children by different fathers. These men go around fathering children like it's no bodies business.
I'm not trying to put down this partiular culture, it's just what I've seen and what happened to my grandmother herself.
If he has a girlfriend and a baby, he probably is a player. Please stay away from him and watch out for a good guy who will take care of you.
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reader, PrettyGurl  +, writes (12 May 2010):
I think that he is definitly a player. You need to move on, and not waste your time on him. In some cases its okay for a guy to have a child, but in this case its not. For 1 thing your yoing as it is and you don't need that kind of drama in your life at his point. You should also put yourself in the other womans shoes. How would you feel if that was your boyfriend and you guys had a baby together, and u find out he is texting 13-15 yr old girls?
I HOPE THIS HELPS. GUD LUCK ;)
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reader, chicfrumdastix +, writes (11 May 2010):
 ummm...HELLO! duh hes a player/man whore! if u were to take him up on this 'proposal' u are how do i say this nicely.. not the brightest crayon in the box!! stay away from him. its for ur own safety..
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reader, welsh_girlxx  +, writes (11 May 2010):
hes a player, i've gone through sort of the same thing end it now before you get to like him and if you do carry on with it rememeber its just fun and dont get attached to him because when it comes to the point were he said ill leave her for you hes lieing!!!!
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (11 May 2010):
 Player and a cheater as well. He already has a girlfriend, why would you want to be his number 2?
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reader, sunnycomet  +, writes (11 May 2010):
 Why would you want to go out with him knowing he is in a relationship and has a baby with this person?
Do you really want to be the other women?
Are you really so heartless that you don't care about his girlfriend and the pain you would cause her if you went out with him?
Why would you want all this? Especially when he only wants sex from you.
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female
reader, hannah76 +, writes (11 May 2010):
 Hi,
You refused and now you know more about him so why you want him???
Dont waste you time on him. He has a gf and a baby!!!
Hannah.
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reader, raiders +, writes (11 May 2010):
 You refused then why wouldn't you refuse him now that you know he has a girlfriend and a baby..It going to be a big headache, put a stop to it know that there are no feeling involve.
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reader, purple_butterfly +, writes (11 May 2010):
He was just fooling around with you. He looks like a big time player to me. Plus, you will not be comfortable with any guy who has a girl and a baby. Also, he is 6 years older.
Forget it and move on. :)
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (11 May 2010):
He has a girlfriend and a baby. You can be sure that he is a player.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2010): Hello,
No dear he's playing games and trust me you're not the only girl he's texting and asking to meet up with.
He has someone and a baby yet still wants to lead a single life. Don't waste your time.
Good luck
;D
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2010): First of all he is to old for you 6 years is ok when you are older but not at your age. No don't accept his proposal, he already has a girlfriend and a baby. This player is only after one thing. Keep well clear of him.
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