A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Dear Cupid,A few day a ago I found out that my boyfriend had been looking at a porn website when he stayed over at his friend's house. I heard it from both of the people he was with at the time and apparently he wanted to look at the lesbian page! He told me not long ago that porn is disgusting and he would never watch it. Since he found out I knew he has been avoiding me and completely ignoring. I don't know if he's embarrassed or just doesn't love me anymore. i think he might have been pressured to watch it but i can't be sure. What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2010): I think the response from Laura1318
is nasty, and just rude.
Pornography in society has been frowned on for a long time
most people would lie about it, regardless of who you where.
I doubt hes a hypocrite as its a small white lie.
What does it have to do with being fake? stop your crap.
If it makes him untrustworthy, then so would 95% of the
western hemisphere, simple as that.
Do I watch porn? no, have I in the past? yes
What you have to ask yourself is this such a big deal, that
you should confront him about it?
A
male
reader, Samhadone  +, writes (1 June 2010):
Sounds like you dont know each other very well. Talk more.
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female
reader, Laura1318  +, writes (27 May 2010):
 He is avoiding you because it has been shown that he is a liar , a hypocrite , a fake and an untrustworthy person.
Perhaps,he felt that it was very embarrassing and not worthy of your love anymore.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2010): Dear,anonymous
He is probably embarssed sit down and talk to him. it will make every thing alot better and if he wont talk then just break up with him sorry theres not alot for you to do.
Love,
Mrs.davenport
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reader, sunnycomet  +, writes (27 May 2010):
 I think he is embarrassed. You should try to contact him.
99% of the male population like porn so I wouldn't be surprised if lied to you to make you happy.
I don't think porn is serious...cheating yes but not porn. Try to forget about it and build up your relationship.
Good Luck!
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