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anonymous
writes:I met this girl on the Internet. She lived in a different country. We started just as friends. When we started as friends she was in the process of breaking with her boyfriend of 2 years. They loved each other very much but the boy's parent won't agree to there marriage. She used to tell me all this in the chat we used to talk for very long hours and I supported her every time she was unhappy. Eventually they broke up and then the guy got marriedAfter 2 months we exchanged our numbers and after about 5 months of our friendship i went to her country to meet her. After about 6 more months I again went to meet her. All this while I was in love with her, I had told her this. Initially she was also interested but she took a back seat after her parents didn't want a foreigner. These days I'm having a lot of questions about this relatonshipi ...where I always see a hope that if I stay with her longer she would agree to be with me, also if I think of leaving her I feel she will be left alone. On the other hand my life is getting neglected.She wants me to be her friend and to be there when she needs me. Also I would say she has never stopped me from going away she wants my life to be happy. She wants me to be there for her but would let me go. If I'm with her I know I will never love any other girl. Should i stay or walk away??
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2010): I say stick it out...sadly, you will feel neglected and join many other human beings on the emotional rollercoaster of love but it can all be worth it. You guys could work things out and brave through it and maybe she'll disregard her family and all of their negativity. If its love and really L'amour de votre vie then it will find a way...you must put work into it first and you give up only as a last resource. For love I would shed blood before tears.
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reader, sunnycomet  +, writes (19 June 2010):
 I think you should move on. She is not ready for a relationship and the last one didn't work out because her parents refused her two year bf. It is very unlikely her parents will accept you.
Good Luck!
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