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anonymous
writes:Okay so I have irregular periods always have and my boyfriend of 5 years knows this, sometimes my periods are longer then usual and heavier then usual...but now hes starting to think im lying about being on my period just to avoid sex with him! He even thinks im sleeping with someone else! its so annoying i don't know how to talk to him about this so i just stay quiet! How should i talk to him about this?
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reader, EbonyBlossom  +, writes (27 June 2010):
 Maybe you should use the internet or get him to talk to another girl to educate him that it's totally normal for girls to have irregular periods. You could even show him this page! I know that my periods used to be about 25 or more days apart, but when they came they could last for up to ten days! That was until I went on the pill. Now my periods are shorter, lighter, and very regular. If you went then he would have even less cause to think you were lying and you could have sex more often. You would also reap the benefits of extra protection, less period pain, and a clearer complexion. You can even skip a period if it's due to fall at a particularly inconvenient time. But your boyfriend really is being a naive and uneducated boy and he needs to learn more about the female anatomy =]
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reader, QZ +, writes (27 June 2010):
 I agree. Just show him. If he's going to be juvenile about it and accuse you of things you aren't doing, be blunt about your situation.
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reader, sunnycomet  +, writes (27 June 2010):
 easy....prove it to him that you are on ur period. Just show him. He'll never accuse you again.
Good Luck!
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