I love my boyfriend but I don't fancy him anymore
Q. I love my boyfriend and have been with him for 4 years, but i just dont fancy him anymore. I dont want to leave him i want our relationship to work. Hes sweet and kind and he loves me too. How can i get the desire back for him physically....
A. 6 July 2007: i think lauraE advice is great. i just think because you've been together for 4 years your a bit bored. try doing something exciting with him. try buying him an outfit you would like to see him in. or even buy an outfit you think he'd like to see on ... (read in full...)
I really think he should leave her! What do I do, just sit and see him in agony every day?
Q. Hello, I have a problem can you assist me? I am a 20 year old in a relationship with a 30 year old guy. The problem is that he is 'married'. Now I don't want you to judge me but I am crazy about him and his wife knows about us. However it's driving ...
A. 6 July 2007: i don't really understand what you mean about the wife knows about you and her husband. as for your question it's easy for you to think he should leave her obviously you don't really want to share him with her do you. but it's not really about what ... (read in full...)
How can I forget her, be happy and just move on?
Q. Me and my ex have been dating for about 3 years and she decided that she wanted to be single. Now she has been hanging around one of my friends a little and it's driving me crazy!!!! I just need some advice on how to be happy and move on??...
A. 6 July 2007: there isn't any easy way of moving on as yummy mummy has said but what i say is. try keeping busy take up a new activity of some sort. go out with your firends to take your mind off things. maybe try reflecting back on the relationship and ... (read in full...)
Why won't he kiss me?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 months but he has never kissed me. When I bring the subject up, he says he is planning a perfect first kiss. Should I believe him or is he cheating?...
A. 5 July 2007: i don't think his cheating at all. he might not know how to kiss or he may of had a very bad experience with kissing before.
sit him down and ask him the real reason he doesn't want to kiss you and be very sensitive when your asking he might tell... (read in full...)
My guy will not tell his parents about us
Q. Hi. My name is Caity and my boyfriend's name is Damien. We are both fifteen and have been going out for 13 months now. The problem is, he won't tell his parents that I exist. When I ask him why he says he doesn't know, or that his father is strict. ...
A. 5 July 2007: just like lauraE said his parent maybe very stict and protective over him and as you are 13-15 years old i don't think you should worried about. as you do have time to grow unless you guys are planning to get married or you definitely know your ... (read in full...)
The condom had a hole--what do I do now?
Q. I am 14 and yesterday I had sex with my boyfriend. It was with a condom, but on the end when he pulled it out there was a little hole. What should I do now? Please help me--I don’t want to get pregnant. ...
A. 5 July 2007: now i don't want to seem harsh but you are a little bit young to be having sex anyway. i mean how do you know whether your body ready for such a bit even if you think emotionally you are. now as for your situation you need to go and see a doctor ... (read in full...)
I cant seem to achieve an orgasm during sex
Q. Im 18 yaers old, I have only had sex three times and I havent had an orgasm yet. Im thinking its something wrong with me. How many times does it take before I can have an orgasm? What does it feel like? Also the third time I had sex we did it for ...
A. 5 July 2007: the 2 that have written to you have said it all.
All that i can say is goodluck and once again relax and have fun its a wonderful sensal thing... (read in full...)
How do I masturbate?
Q. This is going to be my first time to masturbate. How do I do it? Do I just touch myself?...
A. 5 July 2007: i think yummy mummy has said it all good luck on your first time... (read in full...)
I get turned on when we kiss but turned off when we touch!
Q. I love my girlfriend. Every time we kiss, she turns me on. But when we touch each other, it feels great, but I can't get turned on. I might just be really nervous, so I'm really worried about what will happen if and when we decide to have sex. P...
A. 5 July 2007: i can't really answer this question because you haven't told me what kind of touching your talking about. but what i would say is you need to relax and find the spot that does turn you on so that when she does touch you it would Definitely turn you ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend can't get hard for our first time due to stress.
Q. my boyfriend is sooo consumed by stress, and its our first time having sex the very fist for me, but becuase of the stress its hard to get it uuhh hard lol what can i do to help calm the stress???...
A. 20 June 2007: i agree with jabey. why not try sensal massages ask him how and where he like to be touched. allow him to touch you which should arouse him. remember you want your first time to be memorable. don't think about it to much cause that can add to the ... (read in full...)
One minute he tells me he loves me, then he says it was a joke and he doesnt, Im soooo confused!?
Q. I loved one boy and he said to me that he doesnt love me.Now after 9 months we are best friends.I find out that I still love him.I didnt tell him.But few days ago he told me that he loves me in a very romantic place and in very romantic way.We were ...
A. 20 June 2007: im confused to. i can't tell you whether he loves you or not but what i can say is his playing a very silly game. i know you say you love him but in order for you not to get hurt you need to distance yourself from him just a little bit so that he ... (read in full...)
Im getting to like him more each time I see him, but theres no physhical attraction!!
Q. there's a guy who likes me alot!! i am getting to like him more everyime i see him as he is becoming more confident around me!! he is also very caring!!the problem is that there is not a huge amount of physical attraction there for me!!! i'm not ...
A. 20 June 2007: i think you should give a go why not what do you have to lose. you say the only problem is the physical attraction just like you grew to like him you can also grow to be attracted to him.
hust give him a try
goodluck... (read in full...)
I used to play the field. Now I want to be with my best friend! I'm scared she'll get hurt. What should I do?
Q. I am just an ordinary lad who enjoys being with different girls. I tend just to play the field but for a while I have realised there is only one girl I want to be with, unfortunatly she is also my best friend. I have a feeling she likes me too but I ...
A. 19 June 2007: well i think you should tell her how you feel and make it known that you will change for her a first she may not believe you but if you constantly show her that your for real then hopefully she'll agree... (read in full...)
What's the difference between using condoms and having sex without them?
Q. im just curious if its true when my friend tells me that i will enjoy sex much more when my boyfriend and i start not using condoms. we have always used condoms but in about a month i will be on birth control and eventually im sure the opportunity ...
A. 19 June 2007: the only difference i can think of is you'll both feel the intesity a little more.
But saying that you need to weigh out all the pros and cons about having unprotected
for example condoms don't just protect us from pregnancies whether its 100% or ... (read in full...)
I'm fine with letting go on the physical side but I feel shy and uneasy talking dirty. Any tips? What can i do?
Q. I need some advice about sex. My boyfriend and I have regular sex, which we both enjoy. We seem to click together in this way and he says I'm the best lover he's ever had, and I certainly think that about him. This weekend he suggested that I...
A. 15 June 2007: all that i can say is relax. and let it come naturally... (read in full...)
My boyfriend forced me to have sex, but Im sure he didnt mean it, what should I do ?
Q. I love my boyfriend. I'm 16 and he's 22. I told him I wasn't ready for sex until I'm 18. He said he feels the same way and would never force me to do what I didn't want to. Well, that was a lie. He got drunk one night when I was over at his house ...
A. 15 June 2007: Leave him asap his dangerous. plz leave him i fear for your safety. i heard that you love him but you will get over him. take all of are advice and get out of there... (read in full...)
I am in a relationship with a lovely guy who is perfect in every way apart from one: he doesn't like to go down on me!
Q. Hi. so I am in a relationship with a lovely guy who is perfect in every way apart from one: he doesn't like to go down on me! He doesn't like the smell or the texture of women's bits!and this hurts me, as i feel unattractive and unloved when he ...
A. 15 June 2007: well he has got a point you can show each other affection without having full on sex.
now with him not wanting to go down on you shouldn't be a problem you shouldn't pressure him.
now i beilieve in being fair so if he won't give you oral sex then... (read in full...)
I've asked him out but he says he just want to have fun!
Q. i split up with my boyfriend about 6 months ago, and when my work mates found out they were really cool and tried cheering me up. yet there was one bloke name "john" who suddenly started talking to me and tryin it on saying he fancied me since i ...
A. 15 June 2007: no you've done the right thing. i don't think you'd be able to cope with a broken heart again. just take some time out to recover from your last relationship the last thing on your mind should be starting a new relationship.
take some you time. go o... (read in full...)
I think it's important to celebrate mile stones in a relationship but my boyfriend thinks otherwise...
Q. well i just tried to post this question but aparantly it wasn't clear enough! Me and my boyfriend have been together for one year on the 1st of July. I think it is important that you celebrate being together for a year (im 16, my boyfriend is ...
A. 15 June 2007: i think its a great idea. i know that when i was in a relationship for 2 years each annverisary we would celebrate it. i think its got to do with the age gap. don't get me wrong i don't see nothing with age difference but he could be thinking your ... (read in full...)
How can I lose weight? Everything I try is just not working!
Q. i am 18, i have been on a diet for about 3 months now! i eat under a 1000 calories a day! run about an hour each day and do light weights, sit up etc..(well not eveyday i do miss a few) but i dont seem to have lost any weight!!..i realy would like ...
A. 14 June 2007: hi darlin first you need to love the body your in.
as for losing weight there are plenty of thing you can do to lose weight. it may not be how much your eating it maybe its what you eating write up a food which will allow you to see what your eati... (read in full...)
He has started with the online porn again and we have no sex life. Do I leave?
Q. My husband and I have been married a little over a year. He has told countless lies, primarily about money and online pornography. We went to couples counseling briefly, and it was pointless. Now I don't ever believe anything he says. He has ...
A. 14 June 2007: well the only way your going to know whether his attracted to you or not is by asking him. i don't really think you should leave him. its only been a little over a year there must of been a good reason why you marriage him. as for the porn you have ... (read in full...)
Do I forgive her or move on?
Q. My girlfriend and i have been together for 3 years. We are very close and are in love with each other. she has a friend that she knew since in school. she cheated on me 3 times with him while we were together for 3 years. i kept suspecting and a...
A. 12 June 2007: i can't tell you whether to forgive her or not but what i can say is relationships should have trust in them. and it seems to me that you don't trust her what if she does it again how will you feel. it's a bit hard to comment on this because the man ... (read in full...)
I was wondering does sex hurt the first time and if so, how can the pain be stopped?
Q. i was wondering does it hurt the first time a girl has sex and if so how can the pain be stoped?can someone please tell me: does it hurt a lot do you bleed does it only hurt the first time is there anthing that can prepare me the first time ?...
A. 11 June 2007:
Well because nothing has ever been there before it’s probably going to hurt as for you bleeding that depends on how you do it and whether your body is sensitive. My advice is to just relax I know it’s going to be hard as it’s your first time you ... (read in full...)
Made love for the 1st time after 6 months! I started bleeding..what happened?
Q. Last night was the first time in 6 months that i slept with a guy, and i started bleeding!! My previous boyfriend had an extremely big penis, and this guy has a large penis as well. WHy was i bleeding? Is there a problem or is this normal? Is it ...
A. 5 June 2007: im sorry but u haven't made it clear about what happened did you have sex and then 6 months later out of the blue you started bleeding? but it has come to my attention that if that is the case it could of been a miscarriage... (read in full...)
How do I deal with a two way love affair?
Q. How do I deal with a two way love affair? I love both of them but both of them have their bad points. And one of them i have a child by. I don't know which one to talk to....
A. 5 June 2007: i'll be honest with you it's not impossible to deal with 2 love affair but it is very stressful. i don't think you should deal with 2 affair it's not fair on the partners. think of it like this would you like it if they were having affairs i believe ... (read in full...)
Never in my life have I kept anything from her, if we get back together, in my eyes, she has a right to know everything, but I know it will destroy her, what do I do?
Q. I started seeing a girl 7 months ago, we have known each other for a bit, and completly fell in love. She came from a troubled childhood, and about a month ago, everything caught up with her, she told me she wanted a break. I'm no idiot, I realise ...
A. 5 June 2007: i don't think that you really need to tell her because you both had split up at the time but saying that if you do want to tell her then go ahead my advice to you is be very sensitive as you know she had a very troubled childhood and you dont want ... (read in full...)
How do I know if I am in love?
Q. how do i know am in love??..i dunno how people tell there in love how would i know?? help??...
A. 30 May 2007: like love- him said there are alot of signs but then again you can also miss read these signs which could simply be lust. your the only person who will be able tell whether your in love or not but if you can tell me why you think you might be in ... (read in full...)
It bugs me that this older guy I date...is a virgin! How do I stop being this way?
Q. Hi I'm currently dating an older guy and I just found out he's a virgin and for some reason I'm having a hard time being okay with it, I always assumed older guys = more experience and now that i know he's got less than me, it bugs me. how can i...
A. 30 May 2007: you should be happy you don't have to think about how many people his been sexual with. i understand where your comming from. but thats way you shouldn't sterotype people. just think about getting to know him not him being a virgin
goodluck
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We have tried 2 have sex more than 8 times and it's still extremely painful.
Q. I'm 18 and I lost my virginity to my boyfriend on March 10th. It was painful but as time went on it got easier. Since then, we have tried 2 have sex more than 8 times and it's still extremely painful. Most times he can't even get half way in ...
A. 30 May 2007: i couldn't agree more with what CD is saying. i think yr problem is more to do with relaxing than anything else. don't think about sex to much the next time your together just enjoy each others company. and when you try to have sex again make sure ... (read in full...)
My BF is a virgin how can I help him along sexually by giving him a Blow Job ?
Q. Hiya all well i really do need help here the last time me and my bf tried to have sex (he still a v so it would have been his first time but am not) he was up and everything but he couldn't keep up as he was so nervous well here my question i wanna ...
A. 30 May 2007: well i very against blow jobs. i don't believe god mad mouth to go down there and im not being rude am jus being frank. now that ive got that out of the way there are other sexual things that you 2 can do, like touching, massaging is great. next ... (read in full...)
I'm 16. Will a 19yr old date me?
Q. Ok, theres this boy that i've known since i was little, because we grew up together in the same church. Sounds like a fairy tale huh? The only problem is that hes 19 and im 16. Do you think hell wanna date me anyway because i'm very mature for my ...
A. 30 May 2007: i can't tell you whether he will or won't but what i can say is someone people don't mind age gaps. i think you should talk to him. try bringing up conversation about people in relationships with age gaps. like micheal douglas and ... (read in full...)
We recently had unprotected first-time sex. Could she be pregnant?
Q. Dear cupid, I am worried that my girlfriend may be pregnant. We had first-time sex recently. We had sex in the shower first, I did not ejaculate. Then, I went to my bedroom and masturbated until I ejaculated. I fell asleep for about 45 minutes...
A. 30 May 2007: well there is always the possibility of getting pregnant when you have unprotected sex. the best thing to do is wait and see if she misses her period then asked her to take a pregnancy test ... (read in full...)
She's had threesomes, a lot of past sex partners, and told me I can show our home made porn clip to anyone! What's her problem?
Q. I've been dating this girl for six months now and have a few doubts about her. I am just being old fashioned and silly? She's 25 and I am 30. Here's why: 20 or so sexual partners in 9 years. Can’t give an exact figure. Didn’t always go all th...
A. 30 May 2007: she probably has a very high sex drive. i don't really think theres any problem. you should b greatful that she's been honest with you. you say that you love her and she's ready to settle don't let her past destory yr future. but if you have any ... (read in full...)
He said he's not ready to get involved but has asked me over to stay tomorrow night but I'm scared to because of the way I feel about him...
Q. hi guys, i'm a bit worried. I was seeing this guy for about 2 months, but he wasn't ready to get into a relationship so it never worked out. Since then it hasn't been awkward, and we've became really good friends. Though i get the impressio...
A. 16 May 2007: i don't think you should sleep at his house. i can you Guarantee you something will happen expecially as you 2 were an item. i say you lay your cards on the table tell him how you feel. u don't have nothing to lose... (read in full...)
How can I communicate with my partner so that we can have a better relationship together ?
Q. I have a few questions. First, how do I communicate so he can't turn every problem around on me? Why can't he try to see and fix his faults for good? (He changes for a few days then goes right back to normal...) Why won't he stay home with ...
A. 16 May 2007: you need to sit him down and talk about the problems your having with him. you need to let him understand how your feeling there no point bottling it inside you. never give him the easy way out. when his trying cause problems don't let him. allow ... (read in full...)
How do you truly express that you love someone when they dont believe you!?
Q. What do you say to someone whom you love so much to keep them?How do you express how you really feel if they dont believe you when you say you love them?...
A. 16 May 2007: keep on telling them how much you love them. show them by intimate kiss or hug try and express your feeling it does not have to be sexual. ask him why he doesn't believe you.
just communicate thats the best advice i can give you. ... (read in full...)
Why do I always fall for people who are not interested in me?
Q. I am sixteen years old and I have never had a boyfriend. I am not delusional. I know that I am not extraordinarily pretty. And I know that not everyone you fall for will feel the same way towards you. But, seriously, for me it's a repetitiv...
A. 14 May 2007: it's always like that we all tend to fancy people who don't fancy us. try not to think about im telling you mr right always comes unexpectedly. focus on your self go out shopping with your friends buy something that makes you feel good. don't worry ... (read in full...)
I wrote a few hours ago about my partner wanting me out of our house to live with my mum.
Q. I wrote a few hours ago about my partner wanting me out of our house to live with my mum. He is now threatening to treat my daughter (from previous marriage)who lives with us -horribly. He is saying he can't stand me and needs me to go. He has p...
A. 14 May 2007: well you both bought the house together so its as much yours as it is his. whether you love him or not he can't treat you like that your better of without him. you haven't given me a question to answer. but my advice is get out of there take your ... (read in full...)
Did I loose my virginity the second time I had sex?
Q. The first time I had sex, I didn't bleed, and it sort of hurt, not that much really. I waited a while, (almost a year) and with a new guy I had sex again, only this time i bleed and it was way more painful... why would this happen, it's like I lost ...
A. 11 May 2007: the first time you don't have to bleed it depends on how you had sex. i not really sure because you didn't give me enough info but what i will say is you could of bleed the second time because the males penis was big or the postion you were in it ... (read in full...)
Is this really love, or is it just our hormones ?
Q. Real love or hormones? I am 18 and have been dating my GF for 5 months now, and I want to know if our feelings for each other are real, or just some teenage hormones. We have have a great adult relationship full of deep conversation, fe...
A. 11 May 2007: only you will no whether your in love or not. i can't tell you but what i can say is when you have found love you won't be questioning it. just take things one step at a time and very soon you'll have your answer... (read in full...)
My bf wants to wait until I'm 18, but I want sex now!
Q. hi there im a 17 year old female and i have a boyfriend who is 32 years old we love each other very much and my parents know about our relationship and adore him. we have been seeing each other for 6 months the only problem is i really want to have ...
A. 8 May 2007: in depends where you are in the uk but you should be happy that he wants to wait and remember when you wait the sex is much better goodluck... (read in full...)
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