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*oogan
writes:i split up with my boyfriend about 6 months ago, and when my work mates found out they were really cool and tried cheering me up. yet there was one bloke name "john" who suddenly started talking to me and tryin it on saying he fancied me since i started. i told him that i wasnt interested as i only just came out of a relationship. well now we started getting a bit intimate and i really like him, ive asked him out but he says he just wants fun. i told him that im not interested no more as i know im gonna get hurt again, but i feel like ive been so stupid when i said i dont wanna be associated with him that way. have i done the right thing?
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reader, moogan +, writes (17 June 2007):
moogan is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni just feel ive done the wrong thing though, he made me feel so special with the compliments and that. i wrote him a letter saying why im not interested no more and he doesnt speak to me the same no more.
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reader, Beckto  +, writes (16 June 2007):
 I'm with Straightup. You did the right thing setting your boundaries. You know better than anyone what is good for you and what you should do. It's soon to go back into another relationship, not to mention he already said he's in it for fun. Keep on keepin' on.
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reader, Straight Up +, writes (15 June 2007):
 no you've done the right thing. i don't think you'd be able to cope with a broken heart again. just take some time out to recover from your last relationship the last thing on your mind should be starting a new relationship.
take some you time. go out and spoil yourself
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