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writes:Ok, theres this boy that i've known since i was little, because we grew up together in the same church. Sounds like a fairy tale huh? The only problem is that hes 19 and im 16. Do you think hell wanna date me anyway because i'm very mature for my age. Reply to this Question
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reader, candy00s  +, writes (30 May 2007):
 There isnt that much of an age difference between you, he sounds like he is a nice guy so why not get him on his own and tell him you like him see what his response is.
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reader, Straight Up +, writes (30 May 2007):
 i can't tell you whether he will or won't but what i can say is someone people don't mind age gaps. i think you should talk to him. try bringing up conversation about people in relationships with age gaps. like micheal douglas and caterine-zeta-jones goodluck don't forget to inform me of any improvement
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reader, stina +, writes (30 May 2007):
 Hi there Anonymous,
Everyone's different. You know him better than any of us - you've been around him for probably 10+ years, right? There's only one way to find out - why don't you suggest going out and doing something together. You don't have to necessarily go out on a date - just go out as friends first and see where things lead.
There are a lot of couples that have a three year age difference (or more!). When I was 17, I dated a guy who was 21. The only problem was my parents, but once they got to know him they ended up liking him. We stayed together for a year, but we didn't split because of anything age related.
Just get to know the guy, hang out together and see where it leads.
Take care.
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