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He had his penis indide me with no condom; is it possible to get pregnant?

Q.   ok.......me and my boyfriend hav not had sex but he has put his penis in me. we didn't move but then his parents came and got him. we did not use a condom and i'm not sure if i can get pregnant or not.....can anyone help me??? ...

A.   12 July 2007: yes you could get preganant because he may have pre ejaculated inside of you ... (read in full...)

Why won't he let me go out with friends? I feel like a prisoner!

Q.   Hi I would like a little bit of advice about a slight problem that i am facing with my husband. I am 23 and my husband does not want me to go out with my friends or my sister (I go out once every 2-3 months not often at all) he always tells me to be ...

A.   12 May 2007: you need to talk to him he might be thinking your gonna find someone else if you go out but you cant let him control your life let him know how you are feeling about this and about you starting to resent him because that might make him relise what ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend can't keep his hands off me in public. Is this normal?

Q.   ok this may sound silly, but my boyfriend is obsessed with my boobs! everywhere we are he has his hand up my top. he even does this in public now. The other day we were sitting watching TV with my parents and he had his arm round me and was there ...

A.   10 May 2007: just talk to him and tell him you dont feel comfortable when his hand is up your top in public and espcailly in front of your parents it seems he doesnt have much respect for them because if he did he wouldnt do it in front of your mother ... (read in full...)

How do I get rid of the stretch marks before my boyfriend comes back?

Q.   I'm not sure if or why i have stretch marks. i have white lines on my thighs that usually are a lot more visible in the bath where its hot. i thought stretch marks were like red or purple but these are white and have never been any other colour that ...

A.   10 May 2007: well 1st of all you cant get rid of strech marks although theres rumors of creams but the fact is they dont go why are you so worried if your boyfriend loves you he would love you with strech marks and by the sounds of it it may not even be strech ... (read in full...)

How do you make a bloke leave his wife without actually asking him to?

Q.   how do you make a bloke leave his wife without actually asking him to?...

A.   9 May 2007: you cant make him leave his wife . he can only leave his wife if he wants to ... (read in full...)

I'm a 20 year old virgin and my friend said I should just sleep with one of my friends! Is this good advice?

Q.   Last week I finally to open up to my buddy about being a 20 year old virgin. He asked me what I was waiting for and I told him at this stage of my life I want it to be with someone who I trust. Well his advice to me was to just ask one of my ...

A.   8 May 2007: noooo just wait until you find the right person it will mean so much to you and you only lose your virginity once i know your worried due to your age but you will find someone sooner than you think ... (read in full...)

He calls out his 17 year old daughter's name in bed and he likes underage porn! What is going on with this guy?

Q.   My boyfriend has a giant porn collection that i discovered recently. he watches them when i leave the house even if its for a few minutes. some of the dvds are underage porn. i am worried because his 17 yr old daughter is coming to live with us. ...

A.   8 May 2007: well i think that this 17 yr old girl shouldnt move in. porn is one thing but underage porn is very worrring you should speak to him about this and find why he likes you to call him 'dadddy' in bed and why he calls this 17 yr old girls name in bed ... (read in full...)

My husband and another man, stripped and kissed each other at a party..I was so embarrassed! Is he actually gay?

Q.   Apologies for the length of this but I really really need to get this off my chest. Recently we had a party at our house and there was alcohol supplied, good music and a lot of food. However, it got embarrassing when my husband and his friend b...

A.   8 May 2007: you needto remember they were drunk most probly not even knowing what they was doing i suggest theres no harm there and thinking about divorcing him is a big step are you willing to divorce your husband of how many years just because he was drunk ... (read in full...)

His so-called friend is creating problems in our relationship! What should I do?

Q.   My future husband has a friend which is constantly trying to ruin our relationship out of jealousy as he spends all his money and days getting drunk. My fiancee knows im sensitive about him as we have only gotten into arguments when he has been with ...

A.   8 May 2007: you need to sort out this so called friend maybe try to get him a girl friend your future husband needs to think is it owrth still having that person as a friend if all he does is constantly trying to ruin your relationship... (read in full...)

Do men only become friends with women to get sex?

Q.   I was talking to a guy at school and he told me how 99.9 percent of men will only befriend a girl if he thinks he's going to get something in return, i.e. sex. Is this true? I have plenty of guy friends and I don't get that vibe from them at all. ...

A.   8 May 2007: thats a lie some guys are like that and theres others which are nothing like that you cant judge boys like that because you'll learn not to trust boys and have relationship porblems so please dont think like that ... (read in full...)

What can I do to get my much older neighbour to like me?

Q.   I'm in love with my neighbor. He's way older than me and I'm only 16. I've hung out at his house, but nothing has happened yet. He's touched me, but never kissed me. I like him alot! What should I do? should I keep doing this or should I stop it?...

A.   8 May 2007: why do you want to go out with an older guy ,why was you 'hanging out' at his house i think this should stop now and what do you mean he touched you .touched you how i dont understand ... (read in full...)

Do I believe the girl who is saying she's sleeping with my boyfriend?

Q.   Who do i believe? My boyfriend or the girl hus textin me sayin shes sleeping with him?? Ive been with my guy for nearly 4 months and there hav always been other girls from his side that hav become an issue. hes been getting prank calls and texts ...

A.   8 May 2007: normally i would say dont beileve he said,she said but in this case it seems like hes not the faithful type of man i think you should phone the girl and find out more and ask him again and tell him to tell the truth you might even be able to catch ... (read in full...)

Why isn't my Mom telling me ...she is seeing someone?

Q.   im 14 years old and my perents just broke up last summer...im sure my mum is seeing some one which is ok but she isnt telling me, she hides her phone, goes out with "friends" and coz of her "work" she is away half the time, what do i do?...

A.   8 May 2007: i think the reason why your mum hasnt told you because she knows you wouldnt be comfortable about it as your mum and dad aint together any more but your not even sure so i suggest you sit down your mum and ask her if shes seeing anyone ... (read in full...)

Could our carelessness have resulted in me getting pregnant?

Q.   Heya This a question and worry of mine about sex Im 15, and have a lovely boyfriend. We have been together for 2 months, and this weekend we were having sexual fun. we were giving him a hand job and when he came he got some on his hand, he thn fin...

A.   8 May 2007: of course you can get pregnant as soon as the sperm touches the egg thats all it takes but dont be so worried as your not sure your period could just be late i suggest you take a pregnacy test and talk to your boyfriend about this ... (read in full...)

Was I raped?

Q.   is i rape if you wake up to find someone having sex with you?...

A.   8 May 2007: well if you wake up with someone on top of you of course its rape you never gave the person concent ... (read in full...)

I cheated with my ex bf's brother! Should I tell him what I did?

Q.   ok so. my boyfriend and i broke up a little while ago. things weren't working out because he lies and has cheated a while ago and never knows when to tell me anything. just not trustworthy i guess you can say. but anyways i went to this social and ...

A.   8 May 2007: first of all you shouldnt of slept with his brother but i understand that you was upset and wanted to get him back i think you should tell him as you still love him and care for him ... (read in full...)

My confidence is really low and I'm a size 18 (UK), do guys really want a girl this size?

Q.   I like this guy alot but my confidence is really low, I'm a size 18(uk) and im quite tall so its kinda spread out but do guys really want this especially when they're like 18? any thoughts? ...

A.   8 May 2007: theres nothing wrong with being size 18 remember guys want someting they can hold on to be proud of your sz 18 figure... (read in full...)

We talk about marriage all the time but still no proposal after 7 years together!

Q.   7 years into a relationship and no proposal... I don't know what to do. up until last year I have had no real urge to get married but since hitting 34 I just feel a need to settle. My boyfriend and I get on brilliantly. We've travelled a lot ...

A.   8 May 2007: maybe its better that you dont get married i know alot of people whos been together for years and then when they get married eveyting changes... (read in full...)

Would you be with someone who said he'll never marry you or refuses to take a holiday with you and your kids?

Q.   Would you be with someone who said he'll never marry you or refuses to take a holiday with you and your kids?...

A.   8 May 2007: well if the relationship is going somewhere then stay with him and if he refuses to take your kids on holiday maybe its because hes not there father thats why he wont but if he loves you he would take you and your kids ... (read in full...)

I'm miserable with my agressive boyfriend. What shall I do?

Q.   I dont know what to do anymore i am the end of tether, me and my bf have been together nearly together for a year and its getting worse than ever. He has such a short fuse and gets angry so easily to the point that everytime im around him he can r...

A.   8 May 2007: if he thinks its normal then i think you should find somebody else i know its hard because you been with him for a year but its time to move on and find someone who doesnt make you so upset ... (read in full...)

Should I stay with my BF who is close to perfect or go for the sexy music student who writes me songs?

Q.   I'm really confused me and this guy I've been seeing for a year and a half (lets call him Eric) is great, i love him loads and he means the world to me he does everything in his power to make me happy. He really takes care of me. But I'm still very ...

A.   8 May 2007: i say stay with eric why would u leave sumone near to perfect for a sexy one who write you love songs them songs wont be there forever and theres nothing wrong with what your thinking... (read in full...)

My parents don't like my BF coz he does drugs! How can I make them see he's a great guy and makes me happy?

Q.   I have been dating this guy for a while. My parents don't like him cos he does drugs, which i don't do. Is there anyway that i can make them see that i like him for the laughs and the good times we have together? I feel that we are going to...

A.   8 May 2007: you gotta understand your parents point of view they dont want u 2 take drugs aswell try to explain to your parents the good side of him even try to help him get off drugs... (read in full...)

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