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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:hi guys,i'm a bit worried.I was seeing this guy for about 2 months, but he wasn't ready to get into a relationship so it never worked out.Since then it hasn't been awkward, and we've became really good friends. Though i get the impression we both want more, he's even started complimenting me, and we flirt constantly.We meet up frequently, atleast everyother day.At first i thought we were probably better off as friends, but i've found myself liking him again.Tomorow we're going out with a group of friends, and due to inconveniences i needed to stay at someones house.He said i can stay over his..... i'm worried that i shouldn't because of my feelings for him. And i don't know whether he's so relaxed with us being friends, that he feels it's ok for me to come over.what does everyone think???xxx
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reader, Straight Up +, writes (16 May 2007):
 i don't think you should sleep at his house. i can you Guarantee you something will happen expecially as you 2 were an item. i say you lay your cards on the table tell him how you feel. u don't have nothing to lose
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reader, cd206 +, writes (16 May 2007):
 It's possible tht he's relaxed at the thought of you staying over but my instinct when reading your post is that he will use your vulnerability with liking him and needing a place to stay to force you into doing things you don't want to do outside of being in a relationship. You're obviously not comfortable about this so I suggest staying with another friend that you do feel comfortable with. You don't need to make a big deal about not staying with him, just tell him you need a catch up with Friend X.
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