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One minute he tells me he loves me, then he says it was a joke and he doesnt, Im soooo confused!?

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Question - (20 June 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 21 June 2007)
A female Macedonia age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I loved one boy and he said to me that he doesnt love me.Now after 9 months we are best friends.I find out that I still love him.I didnt tell him.But few days ago he told me that he loves me in a very romantic place and in very romantic way.We were holding each others hands on a river and he said to me that he wants us still to be friends after that he told me that he loves me.I was very upset and I started shout him, how could he to lie me in that way.He told me that he is only joking.When we were coming back he asked me what would I think of him if he tells me that all is truth.Today he told me that I am the one person that he loved sincerly.I am very confused.Does he love me?Please help me!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2007):

*Giggles.

Ive done something like this before.

I'd say he loves you, but is shy to show it again.

I know it sounds stupid but trust me.

I dated this one boy for a while 3 years ago.

After we broke up, he still loved me.

And till this day, still does.

We're together right now.

And its been 5 months.

But before it all came to be,

I was shy to show my emotion again.

Id tell him, I loved him.

But quickly after say I was kidding,

I was hurting myself,

but for some reason, I kept holding back.

I say, act like you've moved on ..

and he'll come running to you with the truth.

Its what happend to me,

when I thought about him with another girl,

I just couldnt hold it in for much longer.

I wish you luck. Boys are confusing,

but we gotta love them,

and as much as you dont want to believe it,

theyre confused about us girls aswell.

Maybe he doesnt know what to think.

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A female reader, Straight Up United Kingdom +, writes (20 June 2007):

Straight Up agony auntim confused to. i can't tell you whether he loves you or not but what i can say is his playing a very silly game. i know you say you love him but in order for you not to get hurt you need to distance yourself from him just a little bit so that he can see that what he did upset you then ask him to be serious and find out whether he mearnt what he was saying or not.

goodluck

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