I like this boy but he don't like to be in relationships
Q. Hi!I am 15 And there is a guy who likes me and i like him a lot he is the most beautiful guy in the school everyone wants to have him he says that he likes me but he still hasn't proposed nothing oficially to me,what shall i really like ...
A. 22 July 2010: You are 15 yrs old and you have a crush, at 15 you dont really have relationships and i'm sorry to say it take a lot more before he would propose.
live your life and enjoy it, dont get so hung up on this boy who hasn't actually asked you out on a... (read in full...)
My ex refused to be a sperm donor for me, but then we had one last night together and it turns out I'm pregnant! I don't want him to think I tricked him, so how do I tell him about this?
Q. hey my ex-boyfriend and i were together for years and i ask him for a baby because i knew we were breaking up and that now he was more like a sperm donor i guess and he said no which was fine because at the end of the day we weren't ready or should ...
A. 20 July 2010: Do you use any form of contraception when this happened?
If he thought you were on the pill and you wasn't but had sex anyway then yes you did trick him and I could see him being annoyed.
Either way this man now has a child growing inside y... (read in full...)
I just cannot stay away from him, he is the best I ever had and is very well endowed!!
Q. Ok so me and my ex-bf are still having sex!! We broke up in 2002 and we still have sex on the REGULAR I mean 3 or more times a week! Problem is me and him both are in relationship with other people now, but we both still love each other a lot and ...
A. 20 July 2010: you are being cruel to your current partners and you shuold be ashamed of yourselves.
The relationship you are having with your ex wouldn't be wrong if you wasn't already with someone else. I am sure you would be distraught if you were in a real r... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend not interested?
Q. Is my boyfriend not interested? We met three weeks ago for a date and weve been going out for only three weeks. He called me every day that one and a half weeks then he works because hes a roofer. Well now he doesn't call every day which i don't ...
A. 20 July 2010: You have only been dating for three weeks and you talk about your boyfriend loving you forever, this is way to serious for such a new relationship and maybe you are asking way to much from someone you have only been dating for three weeks.
Relat... (read in full...)
He wants to meet but I'm nervous about it
Q. Hey! So I met this guy online a few weeks ago in a chat room. We've been talking non-stop through text and skype. We added each other on facebook and he has a lot of friends so he looks pretty legit. He wants to meet up when he comes back from ...
A. 19 July 2010: be very careful, unfortunately we do live in a time of online predators and they are very clever people. I am not saying dont meet him but there is no need to rush and you need to be very clever yourself to. this is for your own safety. I hav... (read in full...)
I feel betrayed by what I thought was my good catholic wife!
Q. I recently went to my wifes 20th high school reunion. I was ok with the fact that some of my wife's ex-boyfriends were there and unfortunately I personally know them all. My problem began when i read the last wills and tenaments from their senior ...
A. 19 July 2010: You wife did not tell you she was a virgin, you knew she had sex before you were married and she is still the woman you married 20 yrs ago. she has not betrayed you in these 20 yrs, she is the person you have always known and now you know she had... (read in full...)
Why isn't my husband calling when he said he would?
Q. I’ve been married for three years and have a one year old son with my husband. We have problems the same as everyone else out there. No major problems but lots of little arguments. My husband (31) and his sister (35) took their mom (60) to New ...
A. 19 July 2010: I can see why your annoyed and I know if i was in your position I would also be very upset, but he is only with his sister and his mother so he isn't up to anything suspicious. let him know you weren't happy and that you were a little upset and... (read in full...)
She won't let me see my son!
Q. right here goes... I have a wee boy called callum who is two and i dont get to see him at all. the story is that i used to go out with a girl called ali she was 16 and i was 21 she fell pregnant and our relationship fell apart soon after we found ...
A. 7 July 2010: go to citizens advice, he is your son and you have every right to see him regardless of wether or not you are on the certificate. they will probably want to do a DNA test to confirm you are the childs parent because you are not on the birth ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend loves his 11yr old daughter more than me!
Q. [Mod note: Two questions by the same poster have been combined into one.] My Boyfriend is 35, i am 23 we have known each other for 7 years and have only got together 7 months ago. We have been in our own apartment for 2 months. He has a 11 yr old d...
A. 7 July 2010: you cant be jelous of an 11year old girl and you have to accept she is a going to get bored when you go to the shops....she is a child. you have to accept the bond between them and live with it. This is what happens when you date someone who has a ... (read in full...)
Any ideas for retribution?
Q. Guys I think here Im more an agony aunt than a dude seeking advice but I might as well ask how should i deal with this chick. I started talking to this girl and she started getting hell into me. Eventually I invited her to a party so we could get ...
A. 7 July 2010: I wouldn't bother with this girl anymore if she behaves like that.
And even if you did get together then she slept with your mate and cheated on her boyfriend!
I would simply ignore this girl, she sounds like an attention seeker so ignori... (read in full...)
When is it my time to cheat?
Q. I want to know when is it my time to cheat? I've had plenty of oppertunity to sleep with some broad. My girl admitted to sleeping with someone i confided in. I wuz out of town when this happened and i'm still pissed. I feel like sleeping with her ...
A. 7 July 2010: If you now want to cheat just to get back at her then your relationship is simply over.
An eye for an eye and then the world will be blind.
You have every right to be angry at your girlfriend for cheating but if you want to stay with her th... (read in full...)
What did you do when he cheated? Was I being too dramatic?
Q. My boyfriend came home one night and told me he had something to tell me. He'd been partying with some coworkers and had kissed one of them. I stayed calm. I didn't get mad. I tried really hard to be understanding. I just asked him if he still ...
A. 7 July 2010: You have been strangely calm and understanding about the whole situation, you are better off without him.
He cheated on you and then carried on going out with the same people and then didn't talk to you while he was away, he was lucky you let him ... (read in full...)
I want an affair with my sister-in-law and am in need of help!
Q. i m in affair with my sister in law (brithers wife) two year back we had sex togeather and we have been caught by our family after that i get married. We all family still live togeather. Now my problem is that after 2 years of my happily marriage ...
A. 7 July 2010: if you are even considering entertaining your sister inlaw then you certainly have no morals or respect for your wife.
you would be betraying both your wife and your brother and if you do go ahead then I hope you get caught out because the pain... (read in full...)
Opinions on what constitutes cheating?
Q. My boyfriend has a close female friend who he used to like. I'm wondering what are people's opinions on what would be classified as cheating( apart from kissing and having sex)? Thank you...
A. 7 July 2010: I will be completely honest with you, I have been with my boyfriend for 2 yrs and just found out he has a female friend he has know for 5 yrs and he didn't think I would understand or be comfortable with him having her as a friend. I work away some ... (read in full...)
I was happily married, until I found out he cheated!
Q. ive been with my husband 19 years married for 13 with 2 children 16 and 14 but recently found out he slept with another woman 16 years ago a couple of times and he may have fathered a child im in pieces what do i do i love this guy to pieces...
A. 7 July 2010: I can see how this ca tear your world apart especally to find out there may be another child envolved. Firstly you need to find out if she is the only one because if you accept it and then you find out there were more then there is no recovering... (read in full...)
I want to know how my best friend's husband feels about me. What should I do?
Q. I am currently married, and only have been for six months. My husband is loving and supportive, and we treat each other very well. Although we have a strong emotional relationship, I have never been interested in him sexually [we have sex, it's ...
A. 7 July 2010: you are married and he is married, I dont know what you think you might gain from telling him other than the fact that maybe you are actually hoping he will return the feelings in which case this is dreadful.
Nothing good can come of you opening ... (read in full...)
He said he was clean but why am I having these symptoms?
Q. sorry to be graphic but i want the most accurate answers i can get. ok, so i went to see(we live 5 hours apart) my new bf who i have been with for 2 months, and he has had a bit of a history with girls(im the 8th girl hes slept with) and he has pick...
A. 6 July 2010: it sounds like normal discharge but it is still best to get it checked out.
You mentioned that he picked up an infection or two on the way simply through snogging, could you enlighten what infection he claims he got through snogging or anything... (read in full...)
Another girl's boyfriend is turning my head from my own boyfriend...
Q. Im in a relationship but cant stop thinking about someone else! Ok so Ive been in a relationship for 8 months, its quite serious, and i believed he was 'the one' although now we are over the 'honemmon period' i can see cracks. he's very negati...
A. 6 July 2010: take the other man out of the equation ad then decide how you feel about your boyfriend. if you feel he is not then maybe it is best to end the relationship.
The other guy has a girlfriend and you need to leave him alone, it makes no differen... (read in full...)
Opinions on what constitutes cheating?
Q. My boyfriend has a close female friend who he used to like. I'm wondering what are people's opinions on what would be classified as cheating( apart from kissing and having sex)? Thank you...
A. 6 July 2010: the first answer has defined cheating perfectly but do you mind if i ask how long you have been together?
I have recently been through something very similar but it was a lot more extreme and have been thinking about asking some advice myself h... (read in full...)
Scared I'm no longer a virgin!
Q. well i need help. i am so scared that i am not a virgin, because my boyfriend and i decided to play around and i want to know if am still a virgin if he fingered me...
A. 6 July 2010: All of these answer are excellent however the pop quiz isn't very helpful unless someone points out that all of the statements are not true and in every occassion you could get pregnant.
Lastly there is a reason why the law says you should b... (read in full...)
How do I start a relationship with my cousin?
Q. I have a cute cousin, I think she's sending messages. She likes to get close to me when we watch movies, she always dancing really hot when I visit and always likes to share what she does with her boyfriends( how they kiss etc...). Think I can at ...
A. 6 July 2010: do not persue this, you are related and I know its not legal in the UK and \i hope it is the same in the US.
She is a member of your family, there are a million girls out there who your not related to so go and persue one of them.
dating a cous... (read in full...)
Wife having affairs with my consent, is this wrong?
Q. Why do l get turned on by other men sleeping with my wife? It is now a regular thing for her to have 2 or 3 men who she is seeing . She loves me and we have been married 22 yrs , but wants to have her lovers and me . Is that Wrong ?...
A. 31 May 2010: if you are only being open in the hope she doesn't leave you then no this is wrong. if you are being open because you are all happy with it being this way and because your original problem said it turned you on then fine.
if you wife cant be ... (read in full...)
I'm worried I might have got my girlfriend pregnant!
Q. Ok so one day like two weeks ago me and my gf were playing around and I ended up ejaculating(didn't wash off)..I urinated twice before the next morning when we were messing around again and I was rubbing my penis on her vagina(no penetration) and ...
A. 30 May 2010: ad yes breasts do become very tender at certain times of the month, just go take a test or sweat it out to her next due date.... (read in full...)
I'm worried I might have got my girlfriend pregnant!
Q. Ok so one day like two weeks ago me and my gf were playing around and I ended up ejaculating(didn't wash off)..I urinated twice before the next morning when we were messing around again and I was rubbing my penis on her vagina(no penetration) and ...
A. 30 May 2010: it sounds like you dont know know to much about sex and how you can get pregnant because you refer to urinating as though this might have effected it in some way.
unfortunately yes there is a small chance she could be pregnant but the only way... (read in full...)
How can I forget about her past and forgive her for this?
Q. I,ve got married to a beautiful girl last year, after few month one day she started sharing about her past life, but some how she was not ready to open up, this kept on going for few days. and then the time came when she shared every thing about her ...
A. 30 May 2010: This woman is not a different woman to who you fell in love with and married and this isn't something that has happened to her while she has known you.
This is all in her past. the only thing you have a right to be angry about is the fact that she... (read in full...)
Does a married man flrting mean he wants a fling?
Q. I know I'm going to get in trouble for writing this, but do married men that flirt want to have a fling with you? A married man has been flirting with me for a few months, and I wondered if he ever thought about taking it to the next level. I'm not ...
A. 30 May 2010: a little harmless flirting isnt really a problem so long as that is how it stays.
the fact that your asking this question makes me think you would consider taking it further if it was put to you and if he does then you need to remember he is ma... (read in full...)
He slept with her after we broke up and now she's acting crazy!
Q. I've been having problems with a girl who liked my then boyfriend. Basically she's been a real pain towards me and now that we've broken up she's continued. Last night me and my ex were hanging out and I made him tell me what he was covering up ...
A. 30 May 2010: This girl does sound a little crazy and if you can ignore it the simply cotinue to do so. to be honest the fact that your ignoring it is probably driving her a little more crazy lol. she has given up something special to her and she has probably ... (read in full...)
Emotional affair with someone in a loveless marriage... found out he has kids. what should I do?
Q. Hey everyone! I'm in a bit of a dilemma and was hoping you guys could help... Recently i met a guy (lets call him Joe)on a chatroom where people just go for conversation, anyway he and I hit it off straight away. He lives down south and i live up ...
A. 30 May 2010: he is a married man, you need to stop all communication with him.
if hi marriage doesn't scare you off then you should be ashamed of yourself. If he doesn't want to be with her then he should leave her and get a divorce, not start an affair. ... (read in full...)
I need your opinions please. Why do I find it so difficult to trust people?
Q. Okay, I'll start at the beginning. My father cheated on my mother for almost 2 years when me and my brother where 2. He then left her for the woman he cheated on her with. She was completely heart broken, understandably. We're now 17. He's still wi...
A. 30 May 2010: break ups affect everyone differently and yes I would say this has obviously affected you because of your dads betrayal to your mother.
This wasn't a matter of simply splitting up, this was an affair and he broke your mums trust and you have see... (read in full...)
How do anonymous flings and oral sex differ from having sex with someone you know?
Q. One of the hardest aspects of my being able to accept, get over, and not think about my wife's one night fling (she gave and received oral sex with a total stranger who was much older than her - she didn't, still doesn't know his name) is to ...
A. 30 May 2010: the only difference is that if it was someone you knew then you would have been betrayed by a friend and your wife however this way it is only she who has betrayed you.
you are a strong man to put this behind you and you have every right to be in... (read in full...)
My family is draining me dry!
Q. I PAY for everything. My whole family are on the take and I’m sick of supporting every loser I’m related to. My parents say that it’s my duty to make sure that everyone is OK and it’s our culture. But when will it end? I’m 20, i go university i...
A. 30 May 2010: it really is as simply as your girlfriend thinks it is. You are not the sole provider for your family. Your family should work and support themselves and there is no way you should be paying for your cousin.
You have your own life to live so go l... (read in full...)
His changing his pictures upset me, should I mention it to him?
Q. i am on a online dating site.. i was getting tired of it.. i met this one person on there from it and we have been talking every day.. we have gone out 4 times.. we haven't gotten too physical yet and i am still deciding if i like him. Seems like ...
A. 30 May 2010: you are not a couple, doesnt sound like your dating really so it would seem there is no reason as to why he shouldnt change his pictures.
rather than comment about him changing his picture why not say you really like him and you want to start da... (read in full...)
Help!!! Are these rumours true???
Q. On Friday night I was out celebrating with friends as we've just left college. I'm a lightweight compared to them as I don't drink often, and had close to nothing to eat that day. Now I can't remember much from the night, but stories have got back...
A. 30 May 2010: I would suggest you speak with this man rather than listen to gossip.
if you had sex where everyone could see you then I would think there was CCTV so ask for it as it is your legal right to have a copy.
Rape is if you did not give consent to ... (read in full...)
Can anyone out there throw me a life raft???
Q. Hi. I'm an Aunt and I need YOUR help, or a little hug at least. My husband and I have separated. We've separated before and its usually for the same reason, or thereabouts. He's a very hard worker, has now got his own business, looks after me ...
A. 30 May 2010: I'm not sure what kid of answer you are looking for i'm afraid because you seem to understand all of the circumstances in your situation.
If you can accept that you wont get to see him much but you still want to be with him then I would sugg... (read in full...)
If he sees me without my makeup on I don't think he will like me anymore
Q. ok, I'm so insecure. i feel ugly without makeup, because of my freckles. so i really like this guy, but he talks about sleeping over, I'm really worried though, that if he sees me without makeup he'll think differently or think I'm ugly. i really l...
A. 30 May 2010: Only you can fix your insecurities honey but you need to start realising that people dont like you because of the make up your wearing, the like you because of who you are.
Your age says you are still young, if this is your first then would yo... (read in full...)
Wife having affairs with my consent, is this wrong?
Q. Why do l get turned on by other men sleeping with my wife? It is now a regular thing for her to have 2 or 3 men who she is seeing . She loves me and we have been married 22 yrs , but wants to have her lovers and me . Is that Wrong ?...
A. 30 May 2010: well she isn't keeping it from you, your turned on by it so your happy with it and she likes having more than one man. so long as the balance stays as it is and everyone stays happy then fine.
but as soon as someone isnt happy then it needs to... (read in full...)
He still talks to his ex, and has lied about it.
Q. i'm having trust issues with my boyfriend that involve me being jealous of his ex-girlfriend. we've been together for over two years but when we first hooked up i suspected that he wasn't over his last girlfriend. we've had many talks about th...
A. 30 May 2010: i guess everyone definition on speaking rarely can differ so to him he might think he is telling the truth about this.
I truely understand how you are feeling and I completely support you on this but you really need to speak with him about it... (read in full...)
Is there ever really a good time to have a baby?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years now. He has a son from a previous relationship. We have mentioned children in passing on many occasions and both agree we want them, however we have never made any solid plans. We did sort of agree last year ...
A. 30 May 2010: there is always a good time to have a child and it certainly isn't while your partner is unemployed. a child is expensive alot of effort.
Your boyfriend needs to find a job to help support you, once you have had a baby it will be a long time bef... (read in full...)
Do women not in a relationship stay on contraception just incase
Q. How do ladies who not presently in a relationship but who are in the market for one, handle the question of whether to be on contraception just in case? ...
A. 30 May 2010: I was on the pill when i wasn't in a relationship because it makes your period lighter and regular, and cramps are alomst non existant when your on the pill.
so it might not be a matter of just in case it could be more of a matter of convenie... (read in full...)
Did I have the right to tell her she makes me uncomfortable?
Q. This is the back story- My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 and a half years. He is the most trustworthy person and I know that he would never cheat on me. I am 110% sure of it. My boyfriend and I, and another 3 people are all really close ...
A. 27 May 2010: yes you had every right to tell her and I would not trust her at all.
Your boyfriend has done the right thing and told you what was going on but this girl has no reason to be contacting him and she should not be leaning on him.
Dont trust he... (read in full...)
I caught my boyfriend of 6 years watching transexual porn!
Q. Yesterday I caught my boyfriend of 6 years watching transexual porn, he cried and claimed that it was normal and that he wasnt interested in men. Hes always told me that hes interested in strap ons and female domination and has requested that I...
A. 27 May 2010: listen to what he says honey, it is just porn and we all watch things we wuld never dream of doing in real life.
its porn, its there for one thing and that is all.
you have asked him if he has any interest in it in the real world and he has said... (read in full...)
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