I caught my boyfriend of 6 years watching transexual porn!
Q. Yesterday I caught my boyfriend of 6 years watching transexual porn, he cried and claimed that it was normal and that he wasnt interested in men. Hes always told me that hes interested in strap ons and female domination and has requested that I...
A. 27 May 2010: listen to what he says honey, it is just porn and we all watch things we wuld never dream of doing in real life.
its porn, its there for one thing and that is all.
you have asked him if he has any interest in it in the real world and he has said... (read in full...)
I am gay, he is straight, should I tell him how I feel?
Q. I'm a 15 year old guy and I'm gay. I've always known that so that isn't the issue. I've been having REALLY strong feelings for another guy, but he's straight. I don't know if it's love (I doubt it) but they're strong enough feelings to make me ...
A. 25 May 2010: he is straight, dont do it. you cant turn someone gay.
I am sure if you had a friend who was female and she started to try and hit on you and turn you straight you wouldn't want to know her anymore or you would tell her to simply back off.
... (read in full...)
I'm trapped as long as my sister refuses to pull her weight
Q. This is more of a family question, hope you guys can help. I'm 27, and both my parents and I are immigrants. I have two college degrees and have been working for the past 3 years. I live with my parents and younger sister. I bought the house...
A. 25 May 2010: if your sister simply isnt trying and is now using study as another excuse not to work then I would simply stop providing for her. do not provie her with food, tell her she has to contribute towards living at home. almost everyone has to pay a re... (read in full...)
I want my boyfriend off his online dating site, am I over-reacting here??
Q. I have been in a relationship for 6 months, my boyfriend lives with me and he tells me he loves me everyday. i thought our relationship was going great until, i got on the computer after him and saw he was on a dating sight connected to facebook. i ...
A. 25 May 2010: i have a similar dilema at the moment and we have talked it through and he has deleted his account. It is quite simple, if he is dating you then he shouldnt be on the dating site, its not like you have been dating a week, you have been togeth... (read in full...)
Will my body adjust to his large penis size to ensure a long and happy sexual life for us?
Q. My boyfriend and I are getting ready to make love after being together for awhile. My question is his penis is 10 1/2 inches long and 3 inches wide, how can i adjust to this size to enjoy the intercourse? I know lubricants will help, but will my ...
A. 25 May 2010: you havent tried to have sex with him yet to know if it will hurt. if it does hurt then simply ask him to take it slow to start with until you have stretched a little.
you will stretch in time but the vagina is a very stretchy thing anyway.
you... (read in full...)
Could the "friends with benefits" concept work here?
Q. 11 years ago, I was a waitress in a lounge. I got to flirt with drunken men for a living - and I was good at it. I was in a completely new and dysfunctional relationship, and unknowingly pregnant at the time. One night, an absolutely beautiful ...
A. 25 May 2010: i realise you dont want to hear this but you know this is wrong, i one of mistake is bad enough tbut to turn this into a long term affair as friends with benefits is dreadful.
long term buddies with extra will always get confusing but you do need ... (read in full...)
Does this nice guy want me as a girlfriend or as 'friends with benefits'?
Q. Well about a year ago my best friend introduced me to this guy. We have gone out quite a few times nothing serious nor did anything ever happen. He is shy and an all around good guy, good job, doesn't drink or smoke. It is obvious that we are ...
A. 25 May 2010: maybe you should ask him if he wants to start dating, dont go as far as sex for a while to see where it goes but if you like this guy the ask him out. if he says he sees you as just a friend then keep it on a friend level and stopped with anything ... (read in full...)
Is his 'size' effecting us not getting pregnant?
Q. Im with a guy that is above normal in size. he goes in all the way but i can't get pregnant. can him going in real deep affect me from having a child?...
A. 25 May 2010: how long have you two been dating?
Have you been on the pill previously if so how long for and how long have you been trying for?
if you have been on the pill for a long time then this can take some time to get out of your system. if you h... (read in full...)
How can I tell him that the sex hurt me without hurting him?
Q. Usually when my boyfriend and I have sex, I have an orgasm quite a long time before him. He lasts for quite a long time. The problem is that after I've come, I start to get sore if he carries on, so by the time he finishes, I'm in quite a bit of ...
A. 25 May 2010: could you not slow yourself down? thik of something else then let it go when the time is right?
could it be the foreplay before that gets you so excited? if so then pay more attention to him and dont let him do much with you that way he will fin... (read in full...)
How long should you wait if you want to keep a man?
Q. How long should you wait to have sex with a man you are seeing if you want to keep him?...
A. 25 May 2010: this is something only you can decide.
I personally have a minimum 6 date rule minimum because I find the guys who are happy to wait tend to be the guys looking for more long term.
The guys who pressure you into it you already know tha... (read in full...)
I did everything for her, now we don't get on. Has she used me?
Q. Hey, I have been with a girl for coming up two years now. She started to work in the office where I work- I am 34 and she is now 23. I tried to give this relationship my all. We moved in together after a short while of dating. I paid the depo...
A. 25 May 2010: It sounds to me like the two of you need to sit down and have a chat. when you say you paid the deposit on her house does it not belong to you both?
I have to say I am with someone who is slightly older and earns more than me but I would not let ... (read in full...)
Making A Fool Of Myself perhaps?
Q. I have just returned from a lovely cruise ( third this year) and already booked this ship again for two month time many of the apssengers have been on this ship loads of times as its small and gfriendly I am worried thaqt I might have made a fool...
A. 25 May 2010: you didn't say anythng that could embaress you, you complimented the young man and asked for a picture. I use to sing and get asked by men and ladies for a picture to be taken with them just so they could take it home and say "oooh she had a lovely... (read in full...)
Everyone hates me, Please help me.
Q. Everyone hates me. I hate my school because everyone really hates me. I only have 2 friends that i can be with. But I'm bullied, teased at and I'm always being hurt emotionally and physically. No one really cares about me and I my parents said...
A. 25 May 2010: you need to remember that you wont be at school for your whole life and looking at your age you wont have left to go before you graduate anyway.
Bullies are horrible people and I know how you feel but on the brightside when you do leave school y... (read in full...)
Please advise! Just found out I'm pregnant, my fiance wants to adopt it out...
Q. I am 18 and just found out I am pregnant... I think I am about 3 or 4 weeks. I was never told that antibiotics would cause my birth control to not work properly, and the condom broke. My fiance and I are both very scared right now. I refuse...
A. 25 May 2010: This kind of decision is not something you can set a deadline of 6 days on!
This decision is something you both need to talk about fully but ultimately it will beyour decision.
If you decide adoption now to keep him happy ad give him that de... (read in full...)
What does he want by contacting me again?! He cheated on me and used me!
Q. When we first met my instinct told me loud and clear that he was trouble but he was also very attractive and after hanging out a couple of times the sexual tension grew so strong that I couldn't help but giving in to the temptation. We started ...
A. 25 May 2010: you are waiting for an apology which will never come and even if it does how do you know it is sincere. rather than just deleteing the emails without reading them I think you should put a block on his email address because then you wont see them at ... (read in full...)
I'm so lost! My own father and wife have been having a secret relationship!
Q. I just learnt that my Father age @65 and my Wife age @31 Years have been having a sexual relationship for the last one year. Both are doing regularly and chatting with us.We are live in joint Gujarati hindu family with my mother and two chil...
A. 25 May 2010: Firstly I would suggest you speak with your wife and find out what is going on exactly, secondly I would suggest you leave them and expose them. If your mother stands by your father then he is there to look after her but your children should be with ... (read in full...)
I'm confused by my new boyfriend's penis because I think it's not hard enough!
Q. Hi, Am confused about my new boyfriend's penis coz I think it's not hard enough. We haven't had any penetration sex yet but have had oral sex and what worries me is that the hardest he's been is far lower than my ex boyfriends. I know that with t...
A. 20 May 2010: Some of them do just point down but if he does have problems being able to actually have sexual intercorse then he should see a doctor. You'll probably find years ago a woman brought it up and embaressed him and so he is now scared of sexual... (read in full...)
Am I silly because I want him to wear a condom?
Q. Hello everyone, I am thinking about having sex with my partner for the first time. I am a virgin and he is not- I am in my mid twenties and he is nearly forty years old. I am already on birth control and condoms and lube are at the beds...
A. 15 April 2010: your not being over sensitive at all, i am exactly the same. I have been in my relationship for two years with my partner and we have both been checked but i am still on the pill and we still use a condom as well. we do this simply because... (read in full...)
He's married. Is it too late?
Q. I have told an ex that I am still in love with him. We have not talked or seen eachother in 3 years. He emailed me out of nowhere to send me well wishes. So I took the opportunity to tell him how I have felt for 3 years. He told me he is engage...
A. 15 April 2010: Yes it is too late and what you are doing is selfish.
He is getting married! he has a fiance. you said your piece now move on and stop hindering his life.
how would you feel if the two of you were engaged and suddenly his ex showed up and he... (read in full...)
She is rubbing pregancy in my face!
Q. me and my hubby have been TTC for about 1 and 1/2 years, his sister is pregant with her 3rd child and i am really happy for her, but my hubbys bro and his gf have been TTC for about 9mths and she just fell pregant. which im was happy for her bu...
A. 15 April 2010: you cant really tell this lady to stop talking to you about it and you have to think how you would behave if the shoe was on the other foot. if you fell pregnant first you would want to tell the world and talk about it all the time especially as its ... (read in full...)
Is burping and passing gas a sign of being comfortable with someone?
Q. Hi! I have been with my guy for nearly a year, he has always been cautious about farting or burping in front of me, and seems to make an effort to try not to do it around me since we started dating . And seemed to get embarassed everytime he did it ...
A. 15 April 2010: well at some point he will have to be comfortable around you because holding in that much gas for that long with give him heart burn and a bad stomach.
this doesnt mean he feels like he doesnt have to impress you, it means he is comforta... (read in full...)
My bits don't look like the girls in porn.
Q. So any help fr guys would be apreciated, basically. As embarasing as it is my vagina isn't like the ones I've seen in certain porn videos! It's got tight small outer lips everything is good except on my right side one of the inner lips sticks out ...
A. 15 April 2010: all women are different, its not abnormal at all.
we all have different bits an pieces and there are never going to be two alike so dont worry and dont lose any confidence about it.... (read in full...)
He makes me feel good but he's my cousin
Q. My cousin and I have been making out for about a year and now he want me to have oral sex with him I am only 14 and I can't tell my parents everytime we make out i feel fine till I am alone I know it so wrong but when we are kissing all my problems ...
A. 14 April 2010: As much as this is still a very wrong situation it at least makes me feel a little better that he is not a lot older than you and taking advantage of the situation.
wait for mr right to come along and not a member of your family. Also remember... (read in full...)
My best friend doesn't like the guys I date and says I pick "losers"
Q. So theres this guy, i really like him. We work together...we ended up kissing and hes just so sweet, hes had a hard life and is a few years older than me. He has kids and is divorced. I really like him and he really likes me. My problem from this ...
A. 12 April 2010: I think it is your life and she is trying to live it for you. if you think something special is there then why ot go for it. if she is your best friend then she should respect your decision as he is important to you.
you said you are moving, ... (read in full...)
My husband stopped wearing his wedding ring after 10 years, should I worry?
Q. My husband always wore his wedding ring for 10+ years. about a month ago he stopped wearing it for a week when i first noticed and looked at his finder he put his hand in his pocket..when I asked about it he said "it bothered his finger" he would...
A. 12 April 2010: Has he now said he will be wearing his ring in future?
the only time he would need to take it off outside is if he is doing some form of DIY (health and safety reason if using things like a saw) ... (read in full...)
He makes me feel good but he's my cousin
Q. My cousin and I have been making out for about a year and now he want me to have oral sex with him I am only 14 and I can't tell my parents everytime we make out i feel fine till I am alone I know it so wrong but when we are kissing all my problems ...
A. 12 April 2010: Could you confirm how old your cousin is please?
firstly i would like to point out that you are a minor, you are under age and this is NOT legal!!!!
any form of sexual encounter before the age of 16 is not legal.
secondly this is your... (read in full...)
Should I just isolate myself from women forever?
Q. I unfortunately lost my virginity at the age of 30 to a prostitute, and I have gone through a lot of mixed emotions since. Does this mean I am abnormal? I feel disgusted with myself. Can someone say something to put my mind at ease? I am still 30 ...
A. 12 April 2010: i think there are a lot of useful piece of advice her and it is true, whats done is done and its not that big a deal.
i would like to advise that if you do meet a girl you like the i wouldnt tell her your first experiance was with a prostitu... (read in full...)
Should I continue to try and see him even though he has said he is very happy with his girlfriend?
Q. I met this guy from germany through an internet and now he's here in the same country as mine.However, he will only stay here for like 12 months for a community service. Months after, he arrived in my country and we've been texting each oth...
A. 12 April 2010: You should respect the fact that this guy has a girlfriend.
its is a very selfish thing to tell someone elses boyfriend that you like them.
I am sure that if you were his girlfriend you would be devastated and angry if some other girl was t... (read in full...)
My husband stopped wearing his wedding ring after 10 years, should I worry?
Q. My husband always wore his wedding ring for 10+ years. about a month ago he stopped wearing it for a week when i first noticed and looked at his finder he put his hand in his pocket..when I asked about it he said "it bothered his finger" he would...
A. 12 April 2010: I think you need to ask him why it suddenly bother his finger and that you like the thought that he is wearing his wedding ring as it symbolises you union together.
try not to sound like you are accusing him because if this is the only reason y... (read in full...)
Is this normal after having sex for the first time?
Q. i had sex for the first time two days ago, he didnt properly go in fully, but he went in a little bit cos it hurt so much but since, i've been having a lot of discharge :S is that normal? ...
A. 12 April 2010: ok and now an answer from a lady. Yur first time can be very painful, the answer before is correct in that you do have a hymen and when it is broken it is very painful and you can bleed for a few days. sex can be painful for quite some time b... (read in full...)
How can I show him I'm not still cheating?
Q. hi there, i cheated on my partner earlier this year. I feel like a slut for doing it. He is always saying to me that im still cheating. But im not. I made a massive mistake once. Im not gonna do it again. Im scared that he'll leave me. i wanna try ...
A. 12 April 2010: You cheated so you cant blame him for being suspicious but at the same time he has taken you back which means he should be giving you a chance and not constantly accusing you. Unfortunately your in a tricky situation, you need to give him credit ... (read in full...)
I feel like a cheater, how can I get rid of this guilt?
Q. I have been in a great relationship with a wonderful guy for the past 14 months. About 8 months ago ( 6 months into the relationship) I was in a club and spotted a guy I knew. I started chatting to him as I am very friendly with everyone w...
A. 12 April 2010: by the sounds of things you did everything right, you told your boyfriend what happened and he understood.
if you tried to hide this from him then it would have looked a lot worse and more suspicious but you didnt.
it sounds like you have a ... (read in full...)
I feel cheap because I've done so much more than my b/f
Q. I just started a relationship with a very close friend of mine. We just had our second date and he kissed me. Last night we were doing 20 questions. He asked me how far I had gone with my last boyfriend who I had a year and a half relationship with. ...
A. 12 April 2010: firstly i would like to say if you are the age you say you are then you are far from a slut. you are 19yrs old and have been in a serious relationship and yet you still didn't go all the way. you should be proud of yourself for waiting.
there... (read in full...)
His masturbating is affecting our sex life, ...and my confidence!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for two years. We have had a pretty decent sex life (2-4 times per week) until about 3 or 4 months ago and then everything changed. He says he's just not really in the mood for sex ever but I know that he ...
A. 12 April 2010: It sounds like the two of you need to sit down and have a serious talk.
maybe try just addressing the fact that you dont have sex anymore rather telling him his masterbating is affecting your sex life.
if you love your boyfriend and he... (read in full...)
My boyfriend says I'm a waste of time!
Q. My and my boyfriend have been together for about 19 months now, i love him to bits, we have been through so much together. We have broken up and made up so many times but we always laugh them off and we have a special connection. Were like best ...
A. 29 March 2010: I think for a moment you need to look on this from an outside perspective. Imagine this was a friend of yours asking you what she should do if she was in your shoes.
If i was your friend I would be telling you that you are young, you have no ties... (read in full...)
15 years together and he won't make a comittment!
Q. I have been with my partner for 15 years. We have lived together for 10 years. We have a young family and life is good, apart from one major thing. He will not make any form of commitment to me. We could afford to purchase a house but he won't. We...
A. 29 November 2009: he has made a commitment to you in the sese that you are his life partner and I assume he has no other women so that is his commeitment to you, you have a family together and have lived together for 10 years and been together for 15 years! that is a ... (read in full...)
He's done it all and I want sex but I'm afraid he's too big!
Q. Ok, this guy that I really like is a year and a half older than me. I am a virgin, but he has done everything. I would love to do everything with him and I am ready to give it all up for him. The only problem is I've seen his dick on webcam and it's ...
A. 29 November 2009: ok i will be completely honest with you, no matter how big or small your boyfriend is, when you lose your vaginity it will hurt and i dont mean a little bit. it is a painful experiance and you are likely to bleed too. HOWEVER! so long as he is ve... (read in full...)
Am I gradually turning gay? Or it is because my dad isn't here?
Q. So, theres this teacher(guy) at my school who is very nice, tall and fairly ripped and good looking, alwase goes easy when a student misbehaves and so on. My dad was a sperm donor, so i never met him. I am 13, i dont know how old he is but looks mid ...
A. 29 November 2009: your not gradually turning gay, it sounds like you are missing a father figure. If you were gay then you would fancy boys, want to kiss them get turned on by them, want them sexually like you would a girl. what you want is a father figure to st... (read in full...)
BF doesn't want me hanging out with her brother, but we do and I lie about it!
Q. Dear Cupid, I've been treading in dangerous waters with my best friend lately (her name is Jane). Several weeks ago her brother came into town and I had been looking forward to meeting him for a while and I finally did. We immediately had ...
A. 29 November 2009: if you really like this guy and the feelinhs are mutual then you should tell your friend. she should be old enough to understand and not act like a child. she is probably worried that she might get left out as her best friend and her brother ... (read in full...)
Why do guys always only want sex?
Q. This might take a while but I really need help, please answer if you can. I'm in my final year at school and I have always thought this guy in my year is really nice, gorgeous and a nice personality. I never even thought about me and him being ...
A. 29 November 2009: firstly you are still young and unfortunately this is the hardest time for love and realtionships. ok first point to tackle is the fact that he is hot and cold, if i was correct in reading this you guys hooked up then he didn't ask you to hook up ... (read in full...)
I'm attracted to my best friend's sister but don't know what to do about it!
Q. I grew an attraction to my best friends sister. It was fairly standard, She didn't seem to like me back, so I'd get over it then move on. However, this was not the case, and at his party at the weekend we kept finding ways to sneak off for a kiss ...
A. 29 November 2009: well i have to say I have been through that myself as the sister and yes my brothers did completely dis-own their best friend for a while but so long as you dont mess this girl around then they will come round. this is the important part! ... (read in full...)
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