I'm attracted to my best friend's sister but don't know what to do about it!
Q. I grew an attraction to my best friends sister. It was fairly standard, She didn't seem to like me back, so I'd get over it then move on. However, this was not the case, and at his party at the weekend we kept finding ways to sneak off for a kiss ...
A. 29 November 2009: well i have to say I have been through that myself as the sister and yes my brothers did completely dis-own their best friend for a while but so long as you dont mess this girl around then they will come round. this is the important part! ... (read in full...)
How can I get a pregnancy test kit without my mum finding out?
Q. hello im 14 and i need a pregancy test how can i get one without my mum finding out? i want to make sure i am before i tell my mum as she will go mental if she found out...
A. 4 August 2009: well you would just need to go to a pharmacy, while you are there buy some condoms too!
also if your not then you should also be told you are too young to be having sex and preganancy is what can happen if you dont take the proper precatio... (read in full...)
Do we all have a bit of a split personality or is it just me?
Q. Do we all have a bit of a split personality,or it's just me? I tell my husband ,that I love him, at the same time, I'm reading about divorce advices on the internet. Hm,, Also, I tell him ,sure it is for ever yet I fantasize about living o...
A. 4 August 2009: go read the book "I hate you! dont leave me"
it sounds like you are going through the same problem and this book might shed some light on it. this is a medical condition.
this is abot someone who does things to push their partner away but... (read in full...)
Should I let my friend have him? And how do I have phone sex?
Q. 0k.. i am currently talking to one of my closest friends bff and he is very very sweet and i am starting to like him but yesterday i was talking to my friend and was like y u didnt tell me u was talking to my bff i didnt know what to say because i ...
A. 4 August 2009: I am feeling old now lol, a bff.....isn't the Best Friends Forever? or has it changed?
Anyways if this boy is her boyfriend then leave him alone because you dont want to be getting involved, if she has told you how she feels about him and she is m... (read in full...)
Do I have a good reason to be angry?
Q. I hace been talking to a guy for 2 weeks now and he has a gf. I didnt know that for a while but then when i found out i was furious. I know we arent together but he says hes comfortable in this relaionship and doesnt like the girl shes been pushing ...
A. 30 July 2009: you have been talking to a guy for 2 weeks online, you have no right to be angry but he girlfriend has! he has been talking to you online for 2 weeks so he doesn't need to tell you anything although if he lead you to believe he was single then ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to put your baby in temp. foster care and then claim it back at a more convenient time?
Q. hi im 15 and i just found out i was pregnant. i know my options, abortion, adoption, or keeping it. i don't want to give my baby up for adoption because i dont think i could handle carrying it for 9 months and then giving it away but if i abort it ...
A. 30 July 2009: i realise this probably isn't very helpful but if abortion is against your beliefs then surly so is under age sex!? it hasn't been said yet but someone should say you should have used precautions! having a baby is a huge responsibilty and it i... (read in full...)
How do I show my girlfriend I love her?
Q. I have been with my girlfriend 3 yrs and she recently asked if i loved her. i was quite angered by this as she knows i do. what things should i be doing to let her know how much i love her other than the occasional flowers, chocolates etc?...
A. 30 July 2009: I think it is just a girl thing and nothing to worry about. I know when i am feeling a little low i just want to hear it and you will ask my man if he loves me and he will say he does and give me a hug and we will cuddle up on the sofa for the eve... (read in full...)
What will happen to my boyfriend if I get pregnant?
Q. Ok..I am 14 and I have a 17 year old boyfriend..and all last week I was over his house and half of the time while I was there we had unprotected sex but everytime he is about to "bust" he take it out for awhile and we start again, while we were ...
A. 27 July 2009: Olivia Y has given you perfect advice
the only thing i want to ad is that even if he does pull out you can still get pregnant, I am assuming y ou are not aware that whilst you are having sex a man can release pre cum which is just a small amount o... (read in full...)
He walked out on me and doesn't want to be found!
Q. My husband walked out on me over 2 weeks ago... I had no idea why, so I got the police to look for him. They eventually found him, but wouldn't tell me where he was, as they said he didn't want to be found. I feel dejected, depressed, empty ...
A. 27 July 2009: My appologies, i read it wrong.
I would still say that it sounds like he has some kind of break down and needed to escape. If it was only 2 weeks ago then i would actually suggest that you give him a month or so to come to his senses and come ... (read in full...)
How long should I wait before sleeping with a guy?
Q. when you meet a guy what is the time frame you should wait to go to bed I don't want him to think im easy or slutty...
A. 27 July 2009: Wait until you are ready, secure and comfortable.
Personally I normally use a month of dating as a guide but that is based on seeing him about twice a week.
one guy i made 6 months and he waited for me and because of that i knew he was with... (read in full...)
What would you do if you found your 40 husband in bed with a girl age 18-21? Help me
Q. What would you do if you found your husband who's 40 in bed with a girl between the ages of 18-21? The girls blonde, young everything he would like and i even found texts on his phone where he told her she was hotter than me, and would prefer h...
A. 27 July 2009: i dont care what age she is i would leave him! he obviously has no respoect for you at all and this marriage is obviously over!
me personally i would have hit him and more than likely knocked him out and i would have done the same to her.
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I want to give him a chance but he punches me!
Q. I've been with my boyfriend over 2 years and we're madly in love. However on a number of occassions he has punched etc.He has not beat me up and never badly hurt me. I used to blame myself but not anymore . After warning him never to touch me ...
A. 27 July 2009: you are madly in love but he isn't, he has a serious problem and you have given him more than just a chance already and you told him what would happen if he hit you again.
Unfortunately you already know this mean streak is in him and it always w... (read in full...)
My long distance relationship is over but he still wants me to see him!
Q. ive been in a long distance relationship for 8 months . and on friday i am going to see him for the weekend but last night he said he doesnt tink its working out.spoke to him today and he said he still wants me to go and see him and he still loves ...
A. 27 July 2009: Its hard to do a long distance relationship and they rarely last but they should be fun while they last.
he should have broken up with you face to face if you are going to see him this weekend but now that he has done it over the phone i dont kno... (read in full...)
He walked out on me and doesn't want to be found!
Q. My husband walked out on me over 2 weeks ago... I had no idea why, so I got the police to look for him. They eventually found him, but wouldn't tell me where he was, as they said he didn't want to be found. I feel dejected, depressed, empty ...
A. 27 July 2009: I am very sorry to hear you are going through this.
It sounds to me like your husband may have had some form of break down of his own and decided to start a new life for himself.
This is understandably hard on you but as it was two years ago i ... (read in full...)
Help, I need advice! Who is the father?
Q. I have a problem I am 24 weeks pregnant and I don't know who the father is. I had sex with my husband on jan 22 and my ex husband on jan 28th. I think i ovulation date was on jan 26th. I know scientist say girl sperm swim slower and live longer ...
A. 26 July 2009: someone of your age should know better than to listen to old wives tales about sperm!!! the sperm does not tell the sex of the baby, only once the egg is fertilised doe it decide what chromasones it has! firstly you should be ashamed of what you... (read in full...)
I really feel that it is love! But the age difference....
Q. Basically, i really love this guy, he tells me he likes me to, sometime i feel like hes leading me on, but hes afraid to let his feelings out because of the age gap between us, im 15 and hes 21, our birthdays are on the same month, mines before his, ...
A. 26 July 2009: I have been in this exact same position when i was 15 so please listen to a girl with experiance. When i was 15 i fell in love with a 21 yr old, we said we would be friends until i was 16 and neither of us would date anyone else until then but a... (read in full...)
Do I confront my girlfriend about her trivial lies?
Q. Hi - I have started seeing a new girl, have been going out for just over 4 months now and everything is going great. However, there are a few small issues that I have. The main problem is her lying (or what I believe to be) - we have had discuss...
A. 17 July 2009: i have had this same problem and it will slowly tear you apart.
you do need to talk to her about being open and honest about things because even if they are trivial things that wouldn't bother you if you knew the truth it is the little white li... (read in full...)
He is seeing me and his ex at the same time, now we are both pregnant part 2
Q. Hey. Don't know if you remember my last problem - "He is seeing me and his ex at the same time, now we are both pregnant." I am in a relationship with a well known Scottish Football player. As you know from my problem both me and his ex are ...
A. 17 July 2009: if you are still with him then you are still hopeful that he will be faithful otherwise there is no point in the relationship anyways.
If you want to be with him and you see a future there which is a faithful one the say yes! live a happy an... (read in full...)
One night stand with Lothario leads to pregnancy!
Q. I went on a girls night out a few weeks ago, had a good time, had fun, but unfortunately I couldn't resist the advances of a good-looking Lothario, and I slept with him. I didn't plan to sleep with him but was under the influence at the time. A se...
A. 17 July 2009: Firstly, as your husband has been so forgiving i think you need a bit of a telling! You should be ashamed of yourself for cheating on your husband and for not using any protection! secondly you should thank your lucky stars that you have such a... (read in full...)
Men want porn but have to settle for us
Q. Hi there. I just have a quick question about porn watching please... It seems to me, that porn is what men want, but us (real women-their wives with stretchmarks from their children) is what they have to settle for... Is that true? Thanks ...
A. 12 July 2009: porn is something all men watch it is a fact of life just as much as all of us women gossip lol.
so what if a man watches porn, it is a little fantasy or a little turn on, i know full well my boyfriend watches porn but i have no reason to ask him ... (read in full...)
How do I respond to this kind of situation?
Q. I'v been doing online dating for about 5 months now and let's just say it's been quite interesting. A few hits and a few misses, the usual. I'm just a little puzzled as to what I should do in the following situations. Guy emails me indicating ...
A. 12 July 2009: i think men act in strange ways at times lol, we woman over analyse everthing lol and i would be thinking the same as you lol. You'll probably find that he didn't realise he didn't ask anything and is now waiting to hear from you.
why not just sen... (read in full...)
Boyfriend doesn't want to live with me anymore
Q. Ok so im 19 and my bf is 20. We've been dating for a year and a half and for the past 6 months we've been living together. Now he's bought his own place and doesn't want me to move in with him he's told me to find my own place but we can still be ...
A. 12 July 2009: Ok this is a tricky one and i am kind of going through a similar thing.
my boyfriend recently bought his own place and we have been together for 18 months and to me it only seems right that we live together but he wouldn't have it.
turns o... (read in full...)
He can't get hard for me because he's chatting sexually online
Q. i am married for 29 years my husband often had afairs but stopped almost 20 years now he has now join a chat line and speaks to a girl often where he contacts her but that has stopped she now contacts him regulary he was about to leave with her he ...
A. 12 July 2009: Ok bare with me on this one,
I have a boyfriend who i love dearly, recently i caught him chatting to another girl online, even claimed he was single so he could have a flirt online. i found this out because he swapped his msn address with the... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to go on dates with people that you don't fancy?
Q. is it wrong to go on dates with people that you don't fancy? Recently, i have been building my confidence and i find that going on dates with guys i know i'm not attracted to really gives me a boost as its getting me more comfortable arou...
A. 12 July 2009: There is nothing wrog with going on dates for practice so long as your not leading the other person on.
never say no because you never know, once you have been on that date you might find that you actually quite like them. this is the best way... (read in full...)
She asked for a photo of my penis, I sent it and then find out she was humiliating me in front of her friends!
Q. I started online dating a couple of weeks ago. I have never done anything like this before - and found it really fun. I started it because I wanted to find a nice girl to date. Anyway, I started talking to this 24 year old girl. We were going to go ...
A. 12 July 2009: First things first, I really hope this hasn't put you off of internet dating.
This has been a bad experiance and that girl should be ashamed of the way she behaved.
secondly you should be a little more careful when doing internet dating ... (read in full...)
Do you think I'm wrong in telling her not to come to the club on new years eve?
Q. Hi, I wonder if you guys can help me. I work in a busy nightclub in London's west end as a Bouncer. It's become a busy period now as christmas and new year is coming and I'll be working a lot over this period. I told my girlfriend that I can't spend ...
A. 26 November 2008: Put simply...yes you are. i can see your point that you wont have time to spend with her but as long as she knows this then what harm does it do.
You are working on the biggest night of the year which in itself would be cause for her to be angr... (read in full...)
I feel like I've been given a label by the person who I have grown to love deeply.
Q. Yesterday my boyfriend said in a heated conversation that he thought I'd been 'ruined'. This has upset me terribly and I'm wondering how I am ever going to get beyond his remark. He won't retract it or apologise. When I asked him if he would choose ...
A. 19 November 2008: Honey he isn't a good man to say that to you. No one should say something like that to someone they love especially when they know they have problems. even worse still he is saying "next time he will choose someone less complicated" which makes it ... (read in full...)
I could be pregnant, and I've just got with a new guy... what to do?
Q. I have had a very casual friends with benefits thing with this guy. Well I have been on birth control so I wasnt worried about getting pregnant. I thought my cycle was off and that would start any day and I havent. I dont know if I should just wait ...
A. 19 November 2008: First thing you need to do is go take a test, this will stop you from worrying. It will also stop you from telling your new boyfriend about something thats not even there.
If you are pregnant then only you can decide if you want to keep the baby... (read in full...)
Someone gave me oral herpes on purpose - will karma provide a consequence?
Q. if someone has given me oral herpes on purpose what does that make them and what should i do about it? should i just let god handle it? because anything that happens is for a reason right? so does that mean that if something happens to me on purpose ...
A. 19 November 2008: i know in the uk if someone does something like this on purpose and knowingly giving you something then you can actually sue them for bodily harm.
if this isn't what you want to be thinking about i would suggest you stop thinking karma will fix this... (read in full...)
How true can it be for a woman to have sex with another woman, but not call her self lesbian or bi?
Q. How true can it be for a woman to have sex with another woman, but not call her self lesbian or bi? For 6 years now I been lovers with a very hot and sexual woman. I give her oral sex all the time and we have hot make-out sesions. I lust her, I ...
A. 17 November 2008: If she says she loves this man then i would say she is using you.
Expect more and find someone who says they love you and who isn't confused about wether or not they are gay.
Just think if she is putting yu through this now if she did decide s... (read in full...)
I didn't think I could bleed for so long! What's wrong with me?
Q. i think there is something wrong with me, i am on the pill and have been for about 6 months now, me and my partner broke up about 4 months ago but i have been taking the pill still to control my periods more as they used to be heavy and last about a ...
A. 17 November 2008: You need to see a doctor, this is not normal and you shouldn't still be on yur period.... (read in full...)
How can I orgasm easily?
Q. Recently me and my boyfriend have started penetrative sex, we both talked it over and stuff (we were both virgins and we are using protection) personally I love it... and with him he gets really sad because he thinks he not doing it correctly, he's ...
A. 17 November 2008: firstly you are having sex illegally! there are reasons why these laws are in place and it is wrong! but as your doing it anyways then you should know there is no easy way to orgasm for a woman. majority of woman do not orgasm during sex ever!... (read in full...)
How can he say he loves me but not want to continue it?
Q. I'm the other woman. I know and heard every comment known to man about this. I am not one to just do something like this. It all started in high school. We both was seeing other people and we started out as friends and then it went from there. We ...
A. 17 November 2008: when you say meeting once a week for 30 min to an hour what were you meeting for??? firstly i can understand him not seeing you and instead he is making things work with his girlfriend. How would you feel if you loved your husband and you kne... (read in full...)
How true can it be for a woman to have sex with another woman, but not call her self lesbian or bi?
Q. How true can it be for a woman to have sex with another woman, but not call her self lesbian or bi? For 6 years now I been lovers with a very hot and sexual woman. I give her oral sex all the time and we have hot make-out sesions. I lust her, I ...
A. 17 November 2008: no you cant be having gay relations whilst claiming to be straight! this woman must either be bent or bi.
sounds more like she is bi although i have to admit i dont believe people can be bi, i think they are gay and just cant admit it so they put... (read in full...)
Do things happen for a reason or is that wishful thinking?
Q. Do things happens for a reason? Like if your marriage breaks down, its not all that bad, because the reason it broke down, that there is a better love can come to your life? So it's like meant to happen? Or if you lose an opportunity in your career, ...
A. 17 November 2008: Well I always like to think that most things happen for a reason. I broke up with my fiancee about 4yrs ago and was devastated but i am now with someone i love with all my heart and he is the best thing that could of happened to me. recent... (read in full...)
I can orgasm, but I can't always be sure if I've ejaculated!
Q. Im 15 and cant ejaculate, but to be honest I have tight foreskin too. I can pull it back but it wont stay back and I cant always be sure if I have ejaculated I can orgasm though. I don't wanna get the snip but im not sure what to do, i've not been ...
A. 17 November 2008: I think this is more a question for the men but i just wanted to say to get the snip would mean to have a small operation to make you infertile so that you cant have children so i am positive you dont want that. Also foreskin is different for ever... (read in full...)
My friends say it's time for me to date, but I don't like anyone enough.
Q. my friends say it's time for me to date but i can't find anyone that i like enough that likes me back. wut should i do?...
A. 17 November 2008: there isn't a time for when you should start dating. you only date when you find someone you like and you want to date them. why date someone you dont really like just to break up with them and go through the heartache and discomfort. Much bett... (read in full...)
Can a married man have 'butterflies in his stomach?'
Q. There is the man about 40, a married one- married with 2 children. The couple are not well matched but they have been together for about 14 years now. I have always fancied him but I never suspected he may be in love with me. Recently he has told ...
A. 17 November 2008: He is a married man and you should leave him alone, if he wasn't happy in his marriage he should get a divorce and not try to line someone else up on the mean time. If the marriage is bad enough to concider an affair then they shouldn't be together... (read in full...)
I don't want to come off as clingy, so what's the next move?
Q. hey i recently posted http://www.dearcupid.org/question/do-you-think-i-still-have-a-chance.html and no one seemed to reply. i have: I rang him today, and asked him out on Tuesday, he said he didn't know what he is doing for Tuesday so I just ne...
A. 17 November 2008: I haven't read the first question but in response to what you have put here i would say move on. If someone says ask on the day because they dont know what they are doign sounds a lot like " i will wait to see if something better comes along and if ... (read in full...)
Excessive vaginal discharge, could there be something wrong?
Q. Quite often i have so much vaginal discharge it feels like i have wet myself. is there something wrong with me?...
A. 12 August 2008: Please ignore the male answers to this question and listen to super sammie ad the annonymous eader.
This isn't a problem, there is nothing wrong with you and its because your hitting pubity.
Yes its not nice and i know a few girlies in my yo... (read in full...)
I am 14, he is 18. Should I date him?
Q. dear cupid well im seein this guy ive known for a long time now and he is understanding and he would never pressure me to have sex he told me he wud wait for me when im ready but thats the thing im 14 and he iz 18 and he iz realy nice but i dont ...
A. 12 August 2008: When i was 15 i started to date a 21 year old, he was my first boyfriend and I was crazy about him. The only problem was my father didn't approve and he made my life hell for at least 6 months before accepting it.
The thing about this is I was wi... (read in full...)
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