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i am an expert fisherman, and go fishing at least twice a week.
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Should I confess to my friend that I love her?
Q. I am a married man of 8 years. The marriage has been OK but not great. Two years ago I started a new job. I met new people in this job and have established some wonderful friendships. One of the people I have met and built a friendship with ...
A. 9 October 2010: you can ask her how she feels about you, but dont tell her how you really fell unless you are prepared to leave you wife and take up with her.
its a really big step. i suggest you deal with your own marriage first, before you do something you will... (read in full...)
He says he loves me after just 3 months?
Q. i was getting to know my boyfriend for 3months..we chatted on phone and texting non stop.. hes soo sweet..her asked me to be his girlfriend i said yeah..hes told all his friends and family about me.. he wants me to meet everyone and hes...
A. 9 October 2010: i knew the instant i saw my wife that i loved her. it took me six months to get a date with her, and four years before she married me.
i think he really does love you but take your time and see what happens.
i think a few girls would trade places w... (read in full...)
Does my boyfriend think I give rubbish hand jobs?
Q. Right, I was giving my new boyfriend a handjob (the first time I've done it with him) and everytime I got into a rhythm he would grab my hand and change what I was doing, eg. make me go faster or squeeze harder. Does this mean he doesn't like what I ...
A. 9 October 2010: trust me, there is no such thing as a rubbish hand job.
but i think he's telling you what he wants, and you should try to listen and learn.
if you have ever had a guy feel you , then you will know some guys can do it too hard, or not quite what you... (read in full...)
Is he saying what I want to hear for sex?
Q. So, a year ago I started a new weekend job and met this guy. I instantly felt attracted to him, and we started talking. Gradually, we started texting and hanging out after work, and after about a month we kissed. Every time we met up after that we ...
A. 9 October 2010: i think , both. he really likes you and he wants to have sex with you. if thats not what you want, then tell him what you do want.
why dont you ask him out on a date?.... (read in full...)
I have insanely strong feelings for my history teacher!
Q. I have insanely strong feelings for my history teacher. He's 28, im 16. Ever since the first day I saw him I've had this massive desire to be around him. I think a lot of it might be lust, but I dont know..some of the things I feel are deeper than ...
A. 8 October 2010: the reason he avoids you is simple, he's your teacher.
he has to keep his distance, even if he feels something for you. its forbidden for a teacher to see one of his pupils as anything but a pupil. he's avoiding you because he has to, no-matter what... (read in full...)
FWB turning into a dating situation?
Q. For the past two months are so I've been engaging in a friends with benefits. He and I started seeing eachother after we met for the first time through mutual friends. Neither of us were really looking for relationships, we ended up enjoying ...
A. 8 October 2010: and your'e complaining?.......
millions of girls would trade places with you in an instant.
it just go's to show some people are never4 happy,lol.... (read in full...)
Is it normal for my boyfriend to stop me before orgasming?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for two months, things regularly get heated, yet I haven't slept with him yet. The thing is, when I toss him off he always stops be by saying 'stop' or pulling my hand away, just before orgasming. I think he's scare...
A. 7 October 2010: did you it can be really painful for the guy just before he comes?. as the semen starts to flow through the penis the pressure has to be really gentle.
the guy has usually been trying to stop cumming and prolonging his orgasm for sometime and the ... (read in full...)
Unattended by hubby so I cheat and then feel so shameful! Please advise.
Q. I need some help I cant stop seeking and cheating on my husband i love him very much however he is so cold to me and not supportive of me in any ways that i can think of. I constantly seek out the eyes and hands of other men to fill a void i feel ...
A. 7 October 2010: he sounds like the classic bully. why do you stay with him?.
he treats you like the housekeeper not like a wife.
you must have been desperate to cheat on him the first time, i hope there are no children in this sham marriage. ... (read in full...)
I like him, but don't want to come across as pushy!
Q. There is someone I met a couple of months ago and we have been getting along well. We've talked alot, seen eachother alone and with friends, kissed and had sex. He has made the effort with me and I'm sure that he does like me. We haven't talked a...
A. 7 October 2010: ask him how he feels, you might be very surprised.
if he wasnt interested he wouldnot still be arround.... (read in full...)
Should I get baptized while being 8 months pregnant?
Q. I am 8 months pregnant and also joining fellowship at dis church. Since I have been going and taking my classes I was asked did I want to be baptized. I always wanted to be baptized and be in a church and now that I'm pregnant I want the same for my ...
A. 7 October 2010: do it as soon as you can. and good luck.... (read in full...)
Is this actress interested in me?
Q. I met this girl when I was 18, she is a bit famous, an actress. We used to hang out quite a lot, we flirted a lot, but I never made a move- I was young and playing the field and she was a bit too eccentric and high maintenances. Then just a mo...
A. 7 October 2010: yep she is....but as she told you she is also a busy girl.
she will let you know if shes not interested, shes that type of girl.
she also feels she can trust you so take things really slow. let her make the moves.
dont get drunk next time, show h... (read in full...)
Unmarried, 38, no children... is something wrong with me?
Q. Hey everyone.. would appreciate a little help..Im 38 and just realised Im more than likely never going to meet Mr Right or have children..and I dont know if I like that. Ive probably never actually sat down and thought about it before now, but afte...
A. 7 October 2010: i think it means you have high standards and hav'nt gone for the first guy that came along.
or you could be looking in the wrong places. bars and clubs are great if you want to get laid, but very few people meet their life partners there.
relax... (read in full...)
Could this be muscle damage or something more serious?
Q. How would you know if a lower abdominal muscle was damaged? basically I have tenderness and sometimes get sharp pains in left lower part of my stomach. Some days it will be worse than others and I can feel a swelling. I went to the doctor and got ...
A. 7 October 2010: see your doctor again. soon.... (read in full...)
I want to keep my values *and* get asked out
Q. Hi I'm 13 years of age. A few days ago I realized that I really like one of my good friends. He is funny,and pretty good looking. A lot of my friends have said we would look good together, but I know he will never ask me out. The reasons why are ...
A. 7 October 2010: you have your first "crush", and it will be the first of many.
you sound pretty neat to me, and there will be heaps of guys after you soon.
guys like to marry smart girls with values. so dont throw your values away on the first guy that you meet... (read in full...)
I want to be smart!
Q. This is such a boring question.. but... It seems that whenever I study really hard for a test, I never get the scores I want. Am I just a really bad test taker? Or am I not studying hard enough? How would I be a better test taker and have better ...
A. 7 October 2010: this is something you need to talk to your teachers about.
they will admire you for trying to better your grades and help you.
thats what they are for.
you have taken the first step by comming here for advice, that too courage.
small steps i... (read in full...)
Sex was so fun, I don't regret it but now I"m 14 & pregnant!
Q. Im under 16 and pregnant. Let me fill you in, Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years now since I was 12,i'm 14 now. Anyway, we were celebrating our 2 year anniversary by going for dinner then a movie at his. When we finished our dinner ...
A. 7 October 2010: well firstly, your'e not the first girl to get pregnant at 14 thats for sure.
tell your mum now,,not later. now!.
then get on with the rest of your life, and good luck.... (read in full...)
I want to have sex but my heart starts beating so fast I feel like I'm going to die!
Q. I think I have problem and I always been shy to talk about it but I can’t keep it inside me anymore I need help... I am 23 years old and I really want to have baby so badly but the big problem is I can’t have sex I am virgin. I have been trying...
A. 3 October 2010: i think you will find that if you keep trying just a little more, your heart will burst and you will see stars and you will call out "oh god i'm cumming" and then you will be ready for the next step...goodluck... (read in full...)
Does breast feeding mess up your breasts?
Q. Hey well i heard that breast feeding messes up your nipples like makes them not soft any more and stuff and that they wont go back to normal is that true?...
A. 2 October 2010: your whole body has changed due to the baby, thats life.
stop thinking about you for a change, and concentrate on your baby.... (read in full...)
She dumped me because I failed to make plans for the future
Q. My girlfriend of 3 years has just dumped me. I'm 34 and she is 28. I cheated on her once, and it came out at the start of the year. I had also failed to make any concrete plans to move in (start living) with her, or mention marriage / kids. She was ...
A. 2 October 2010: i think your'e a cheating loser, and it about time you grew up. why should she waste any more time with you??.
if i'm wrong then get off you sorry arse and get out and win her back.
it wont be easy though, it will take love and commitment and hone... (read in full...)
My boyfriend doesn't want to have sex with me
Q. My boyfriend and i have been together for 3 years. Within the first year he was always kissing me, cuddling me, etc....but now he barely comes near me. It's ME who's always going to HIM, i've tried that thing where 'you let them come to you' but i ...
A. 2 October 2010: i dont think he really loves you. that maybe something your'e not prepared to hear.
tell him you need sex and if you dont get it from him tell him you will seek it elsewere.
see how he reacts then.... (read in full...)
My ex who dumped me is now drinking excessively! what can I do?
Q. My ex has started going out drinking since our breakup, she very rarely drank alcohol before we broke up and now she's out doing it a lot. I care about her still, as much as I want to move on, I kinda don't want her out doing stupid things, she's ...
A. 2 October 2010: its called attention seeking.....stay out of it ank get on with your life. that is if you have one!.... (read in full...)
No erection during sex.
Q. I began dating a boy about three months ago, he's 18 and I'm 19, and during this time we've fooled around and he was never able to ejaculate with me, but could through masturbation. Clearly, this threw me off, but as we continued to work at it, he ...
A. 2 October 2010: this guy really loves you and is trying too hard to please you. are you sure that its not you putting too much pressure on him to perform. guys really do have a sensitive side as well as girls.
relax and let him know all is ok and that there are ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend started crying after 1st time sex and now still won't talk to me about it?
Q. I've been dating an incredible girl for about 2.5 years. She's a year younger than me, so I'm in college and she's in high school. When we first started dating, she was a virgin and I wasn't. We agreed to wait until she was ready and the time was ...
A. 2 October 2010: dont pressure her for more sex at this time. just go back to being loving and give her lots of hugs. buy her flowers and help her see that you really love her and will be there for her. ask her out to the movies and stuff like that and eventually ... (read in full...)
Anxiety attack, all went wrong.
Q. I really need some advise i hope you can help, im a 26 yr old male living in the uk, my problem is this, ive just started seeing this gorgeous amazing girl that im crazy about but i seem to have developed some sort of anxiety, when we became ...
A. 28 September 2010: did you tell her how you feel. it happens to every guy at some time in his life.
you need to reassure her and also yourself and try again, this time with no pressure, relax and let it just happen.
the very worst thing is to worry about it.... (read in full...)
Should I sleep with him if I don't want to have sex?
Q. Should I continue to sleep with my boyfriend if he has asked for sex which I don't want to give?...
A. 28 September 2010: you dont HAVE to have sex....ever. its your body and he must respect that.... (read in full...)
I didn't bleed, and it didn't hurt my first time.
Q. Well im 16 years old nd had sex for the very first time, all my friends were already sexually active and they said there first time was very painfull nd horrible but my first time wasent painfull at all nd i taught u were suppost to bleed but i ...
A. 28 September 2010: your'e very lucky and it seems your partner prepared you for sex and you were ready for it. dont worry about the no blood thing, its very normal. the hyman skin is very thin and comes in all shapes and sizes. just get on with your life and enjoy the ... (read in full...)
Why would she want to talk to a guy who stood her up twice?
Q. Here's the story: 19yr girl meets 41yr old man as a virgin. She goes on a date with him to try and forget 33yr old guy who enchants and frustrates her. 41yr old and her kiss for an hr straight. But then, he asks for a 2nd date and stands her up. So, ...
A. 28 September 2010: she is...its her problem to sort out. stay out of it.... (read in full...)
What does it mean when a girl says this during sex?
Q. Hello everyone i just have a little bit unusual question mostly for females but i dont mind having different opinons :D , i just wanna know what girls mean when they say during sex F**k me harder or when they are like ' harder harder ' Does th...
A. 28 September 2010: why dont you ask her?. then you will know.... (read in full...)
Do guys like hairy vaginas or not?
Q. I am 16 in a few months but ive never had sex before. Im not sure if my vagina is normal or really hairy, but i think its too hairy. Is it weird if i shaved it? What do guys prefer, hairy, a little bit hairy or no hair at all?...
A. 28 September 2010: guys like hair, no hair, a little hair, a landing strip etc.
in other words they like you, not weather you have hair or not. at 16 and still a virgin i would suggest you leave thing as they are. nice and natural.
i think its more important to know ... (read in full...)
My virgin girlfriend wont have sex with me
Q. Im a virgin and so in love with this girl who is also a virgin,recently i talked to her about having sex but she wont give in,she belives in no sex before marriage and it rilly bothers me coz she is only 16years.she lets me touch her private parts ...
A. 24 September 2010: you need to back off and stop pressuring her. let her see that you love her and she may change her mind down the track if you prove to be worthy of her. dont wory to much about the age difference, but dont let that be a factor in yours and her sex ... (read in full...)
If I stay over with him more often will it eventually lead to sex? He promised we would not have sex until marriage but I'm worried he wont be able to control himself!
Q. I have been staying over at my boyfriend's hostel room like every once a week. And each time he will rub his penis on my vagina although i am still wearing my panties. I would like to stay over with him more often but I am afraid if that continue...
A. 24 September 2010: would it be the end of the world if you had sex?.
i understand all about your wanting to remain a virgin and all that but sex is a two way street.
you can continue to explore sex together and then if the time is right, go for it...let it happen. ... (read in full...)
He doesn't deserve to be a father so what do I do? Have it aborted or what?
Q. I am nine weeks pregnant, almost ten. I am engaged to my boyfriend. I was not planning on getting pregnant and never thought having kids was something i had to do. I found i was pregnant and told my finace and he was so happy and exited. I was not. ...
A. 23 September 2010: get out now....there is no future with this guy. make the abortion descision on your own and good luck with whatever you decide... (read in full...)
Sharing my wife... playing with fire?
Q. I want to know if anyone has ever played around with this – I am a 41 year old man… recently married a beautiful 27 year old woman. We are very much in love…trying to have a child together. We have a great sex life…but we are both on the adven...
A. 23 September 2010: if she"s seen his unit and gets off on it she is sure as hell going to try it....with or without you. you started the ball rolling so you have to follow it through.
but i wonder why she wont let you try mff?. why cant she agree to that.good luck... (read in full...)
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