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He says he loves me after just 3 months?

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Question - (8 October 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 9 October 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

i was getting to know my boyfriend for 3months..we chatted on phone and texting non stop..

hes soo sweet..her asked me to be his girlfriend i said yeah..hes told all his friends and family about me..

he wants me to meet everyone and hes really fond of me..he says hes never connected with anyone before they way hes connected with me.

i went to see him today and he told me he loves me.. i asked him how does he know.. he said he knows what love is and what he feels with me is love. and i dont have to love him back and am probably going to think hes a creep but he doesn't care.

he just wants to tell me how he feels. i kissed him..cos i dont love him..i like him alot but i dont love him yet.

and with sex he says he would until am ready and that he doesn't mind waiting cos he doesn't just want me for sex.

i have this feeling that hes genuine but am not sure cos ive been hurt soo many times in the past by guys..

what should I do?? do I trust his love or not??


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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2010):


This man sounds genuine because he doesnt want sex right away. Most men Ive heard say such strong statements to just be with a woman intimately. However, in this case, he does not!

On a side note, Im one of those guys who just needs to enough about a woman and whether I get to know her in the ways I wish in two weeks or two years, when I feel love, I say the words. The fact he's known u for three months and the good amount of time youve spent together, chances are the guy has some substantial feelings. Best to you.

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A male reader, slimfish New Zealand +, writes (9 October 2010):

slimfish agony aunti knew the instant i saw my wife that i loved her. it took me six months to get a date with her, and four years before she married me.

i think he really does love you but take your time and see what happens.

i think a few girls would trade places with you.

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A female reader, Wolfy United Kingdom +, writes (9 October 2010):

Wolfy agony auntI believe this guy does sound very genuine indeed and it's always worth the chance, because if you're too afraid of being rejected once again you'll never know what you could miss out on :) I say keep building on your relationship with him and hopefully one day you will return that strong love he seems to have for you. Best of luck to you and your boyfriend for the future x

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2010):

What he's feeling (and you too) is infatuation, a beginning stage of a relationship. Love is more than just a feeling; it is a choice. Take things slowly and get to know him for now. You have to walk before you run, and you have to have a strong foundation before loving someone.

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