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Were you ugly as a teen then become a good looking adult?
Q. In high school were you ugly and then get good looking when you became an adult? I was a cute kid/preteen until I hit the age of 15. At 15 I got a weird facial structure, acne, dry frizzy hair, and am SO socially awkward. I'm 19 and still have all ...
A. 20 November 2013: Yea but what is your diet like? Drinking water should be a huge part of your diet! It helps clear acne and bring out healthy nutrients in the oils needed to produce healthy looking hair ! Take a look at your diet! Are u drinking fizzy drinks eating ... (read in full...)
He tells me he loves me but he's not here for me when I need him
Q. Hi, I'm 19 year old girl and at the minute I'm just lost, hurt, upset and don't know what to do. 10 months ago I got with my boyfriend. He's quite abit older than me, he's 27. Everything has been great really happy then a few weeks ago argument a ...
A. 20 November 2013: Is there a reason why he left? Do you both live together?
Or are you in some sort of long distance relationship
Dealing with sick people and death is usually a hard topic for men !! The can listen to your problems but theyre way of dealing with you... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wouldn't be sending flowers to his ex girlfriend every year on that date, would he?
Q. I saw that my boyfriend has been forwarding himself an email about a reminder notice to send flowers the last couple of days . I had seen it quickly over his shoulder and then took a peek yesterday which I don't normally do! The flowers were ...
A. 20 November 2013: It could be anything his mums birthday and anniversary of a now passed on loved one !!
It could be a reminder that he created to send flowers ... It doesnt mean he actually did
I know i always make lists to do on my phone that are never complete... (read in full...)
Were you ugly as a teen then become a good looking adult?
Q. In high school were you ugly and then get good looking when you became an adult? I was a cute kid/preteen until I hit the age of 15. At 15 I got a weird facial structure, acne, dry frizzy hair, and am SO socially awkward. I'm 19 and still have all ...
A. 20 November 2013: Guys get looking as they get older
Guys age beautifully
They actually get better looking with age
Your not going to have acne and frizzy hair forever remember that !!
Trust me your days of becoming a ladys man / man whore are right around the... (read in full...)
Am I silly that I don't want to settle for a man I don't love/he doesn't love me but we get along well?
Q. Hi agony aunts and uncles. hope can get your opinion or help with this problem. I am with my boyfriend for 8 years now, he is my first relationship, only man I've ever been with. I feel I stayed with him a few years too long. He is not from m...
A. 20 November 2013: You deserve to be in love ! Whats the point in raising children in a loveless marraige when that is something they should be surrounded by ! Thats the culture difference right there, he is happy to settle even if there is no love or passion this man... (read in full...)
What do I do if I bump into a guy I used to date while at work?
Q. So, I'm going for a job interview in a couple of days. Nothing fancy, just an office job at a university near to where I was a student. I still have friends there, so thought it would be fun to return. Thing is, there's a guy that goes to the uni ...
A. 19 November 2013: Just dont let it become aquard be polite and say hello
If you get caught in a sticky situation where you might have to socialise just be confident polite and make small talk it woll show him
You have moved on from your relationship and you are will... (read in full...)
Will my friend feel like I am pressuring him if I tell him my feelings?
Q. I have a guy friend who I hang out with. He has been so busy with work lately and the last time I saw him was in the beginning of October. We keep in touch by texting. He revealed to me that he is attracted to me and he kissed me the last time I ...
A. 19 November 2013: I think it can never hurt to tell somebody you have feelings for them !! I mean if you dont do it your always going to regret not saying it ! And the benefit of telling him about your feelings is that you know where you will stand with this gent !
H... (read in full...)
We disagree about money and I'm not sure if I trust him
Q. hi.I want some advice.Am in a relationship that somehow isnt working out.we both love each other dearly. My bf has parents who dont at all care whether he lives or not. And he is struggling quite a lot.we have been together for almost two years ...
A. 19 November 2013: Issue 3- people gossip dont let them upset you ! In a few weeks they will find something else meaningless to mingle over ! Your five minutes of fame with them is short lived and over soon !
Issue 2 - you shouldnt trust anybody who cant be open with... (read in full...)
She says she's really in love with me, but I'm not quite there yet
Q. Hi guys, need some advice on the L WORD term My girlfriend and I have been together for just over a month and she told me she really likes me in the beginning which was great as I really liked her too. Now she has told me she is practically fall...
A. 19 November 2013: I think this girl is getting a little ahead of herself !! Im sure her feelings for u are deep and meaningful but i mean how well can you know sombody aftee only one month?
In order to avoid her saying something your not ready to hear (and which will... (read in full...)
Tips for making out and making a guy cum?
Q. I really need tips for how to make a guy cum during a makeout session. Of course we can grind top and bottom, but I'm specifically looking for tips on how to make him cum just using my hands (through his pants), or grinding in different ...
A. 19 November 2013: Tricky one .... Its not going to work every time !
You can make it work out so this boy has all his clothes on but u are completely naked! main rule being that he is NOT allowed to take his clothes off what so ever
You can always tease him kissing ... (read in full...)
My mom doesn't approve of the man that I love
Q. Hi, I am marsha. I am 25 year old graduated last year. I love someone who is younger than me. WE were friends before. I know him past 3 year now. We got close like best friend the end of 3year. Then one fine day he asked me out .. not just dating b...
A. 19 November 2013: Your mum is just looking out for you !! Thats what she is there for she loves you and cares for you
She is probably afraid you are rushing things
You should bring this boy home more often so she can get to know him
When your alone with your mu... (read in full...)
Haven't seen him for years but I want him to see me now
Q. Hey everyone, When I was 18 I met this guy on a social networking site we spoke for 6 months day in day out and he came to my city to meet,we just kissed nothing else happened..but I must add however superficial this might sound I wasn't a pretty t...
A. 19 November 2013: Why would you want to develop a relationship with somebody who treated you like that?
I guess it couldnt hurt to get back into contact with this guy! Remember its a few years later now he could be in a relationship BUT he could also be single ... ... (read in full...)
Pregnancy test negative so why 2 missed periods and terrible cramps?
Q. This isn't exactly a relationship question but maybe someone could help? I've been having cramps off and on for a month now- sometimes just a mild cramp and sometimes to the point where I'm doubled over in pain and have missed 2 periods- after the ...
A. 19 November 2013: Have you been on the pill?
I know my friend who was on birth control for a few years and decided to go off for a year had terrible trouble she didnt receive a period for over 7 months and constantly thought she was pregnant even though her doct... (read in full...)
Do other people have frenenemies? Or just friends?
Q. I have friends but I am quite sure that they are mostly frenemies. Things have happened and they have behaved in certain ways and done things that have proven they are not a true friend. Does anybody else feel this way? Is this normal?...
A. 19 November 2013: Some girls go through this ! I personally never did but you know at the end of the day all girls bitch and bicker about one another ! Even the girls you dont expect to !
It could just be a phase these girls are going through
My advice find som... (read in full...)
Does anyone else think it's silly that a lot of chicks still think they're virgins after giving bjs?
Q. I just think it's really silly. I mean, I guess they'd be technical virgins, but to say you're pure after having a d--k in your mouth is just absolutely ridiculous to me. But I've heard A LOT of girls say they're still virgins after. Am I the only ...
A. 19 November 2013: ... Ok? Mabye you need another sex education class ...
But these girls are still virgins even if all they have done is give. Blow job
Your right that they may not be as pure as ur ideal profound pedestal that you have put the idea of a virgin o... (read in full...)
Slept with a married work colleague
Q. I have worked with this man for a year. We flirt all day everyday and for as long as I've known him iv been attracted to him, hes also attracted to me but hes married. On friday we had a work party and i stayed in his hotel room and we had sex. Ther ...
A. 19 November 2013: You should tell him how you feel !! You can be professional in work but if it is something you feel the need to say then say it !! No need in
Holding it in !! ... (read in full...)
He said he was single, but now I find out about his terminal girlfriend
Q. I've just found out that this guy I have been getting to know has a girlfriend and that she is terminally ill. I confronted him and he says he just needs someone to support him through this time. I feel sick to my stomach because we have kissed a ...
A. 18 November 2013: If you feel guilty you should back away from this situation !
Just tell this man that you are not comfortable supporting him under these circumstances
Its great that you understand where he is coming from it must be an awful and difficult situatio... (read in full...)
Looking for help with emotionally unavailable guy.
Q. I don't know if this is a long shot but I'm looking for some advice and help with dealings I have with a guy. He is emotionally unavailable, he is my fwb ( when he fancies it!!) and I'm not sure if you'd call him a player. Anyway so I'm hoping to...
A. 18 November 2013: This post seems a little familiar ?
Just move on
He is your friends with benefits for a reason ... So you will be there when ever it suits him for a bootycall ...
Girls enter theses statuses and then get upset about it
How baffling ... (read in full...)
Slept with a married work colleague
Q. I have worked with this man for a year. We flirt all day everyday and for as long as I've known him iv been attracted to him, hes also attracted to me but hes married. On friday we had a work party and i stayed in his hotel room and we had sex. Ther ...
A. 18 November 2013: I dont think this man is looking for just sex from you but an emoitional relationship as well ! Ok so this man is married look these things happen people get married and after a few years the sparks fade but they refuse to seperate because of the c... (read in full...)
It feels like we've changed over the course of the relationship, and I'm not sure we should continue
Q. My boyfriend and I have had a mostly happy and strong relationship going over the past 3 years, however over the past few months I have become increasingly unsure that this is the right guy for me. The reason why is because I feel like we have both ...
A. 18 November 2013: When i got to the paragraph about you developing feelings for another person i thought to myself ... Great i can relate to this person and give some helpful advice... And then u cheated ! Come on girl you know your unhappy when u become attracte... (read in full...)
Am I expecting too much from relationships?
Q. Hi all, just looking for a bit of advice. The thing is I'm 25, nearly 26 and I'm so fed up of being alone. I feel guilty for feeling this way as I have a lovely family and friends, a decent job and I have been contented with my life in general. I ...
A. 18 November 2013: So you have high standards and know exactly what you want from a relationship? PERFECT you have won half of the battle! Your not like most girls who cry about wanting a boyfriend but not knowing what they want in a partner ! So whats on your li... (read in full...)
Am I being overly concerned -- he wanted to have sex without protection
Q. After waiting a fair amount of time, the guy I'm dating and I decided to have sex. I had needed to take it slow, and he had respected that, then last night we took things further. It got to the point where he was about to go inside me, but he tried ...
A. 18 November 2013: He is not being selfish its a natural thing to want to go without the condom Is amazing and it brings to together in a more bondful moment (a condom Is there to seperate you ) However you guys are only fresh in dating the guy was just chancing hi... (read in full...)
I always feel I'm annoying my FWB when I text him
Q. So, it started back in 2010 when I met this boy and we were just friends with benefits.. I started to really like him and he said he didn't want anything more and then he just randomly got a girlfriend with this girl I disliked at the time. So, ...
A. 17 November 2013: This boy is just using you as a FWB once again and ur to in love with him to see that.
Let me lay it out like this
You started out as FWB
You began to get feelings & he rejected them & made it clear to you that he was only interested in the sexua... (read in full...)
What advice would you give to your 20 year old self
Q. What advice would you give to your 20 year old self? Financial, relationship and just general life information you wish you had known. My biggest fear is wasting my life, I think about this daily. I constantly feel like I should be doing/...
A. 17 November 2013: Hey im also a 20 something girl! What you want in life is something you have to decide on education travel work love shopping socialising? For me my goal this year was to become more independent i was living at home and working but decided to m... (read in full...)
We had a stupid argument and my ex broke up with me. I want her back!
Q. Hey there hope you all are doing good! I'll probably say random info but hopefully it helps you help me. Well I need a bit of help here. I've been with my girlfriend for about 7 months now well ex girlfriend cause she broke up with me today. We've ...
A. 17 November 2013: To start im sorry you are going through this break-up, but to be honest this seems like a story thats going to repeat itself from the information you have posted. To me it seems like your partner is being slightly imature in this relationship and ... (read in full...)
I got pregnant from a drunken night with my ex and he doesn't want me to have the baby!
Q. I broke up with my ex at the start of the year a few months later I met another man, things with him seemed great at first but quickly got worse as we were both still hung up on our ex's. Things came to an end but we stayed in touch and about a ...
A. 1 January 2013: you do not have to end this pregnancy because you have seen the true colours of your former lover.
think about your life what you wanted from it what you planned?
you will find that nothing really happens they way you wanted or intended but stil... (read in full...)
We feel like we are playing with fire and we're trapped in an emotional stalemate. What can we do?
Q. I've fallen hard for a co-worker. I'm married, and she has a long term boyfriend. When I started the job we both noticed each other but neither of us were looking for anything more. I realised the crush I had on her was stronger than I had inten...
A. 1 January 2013: the minute you have to start hiding txts, emails or lieing about being home late or who you were talking to means uve already started cheating ...
leave you work if you can i know times are hard financially but if you want your marraige to work... (read in full...)
I'm uncomfortable getting naked, will it turn him off?
Q. Ok. So my boyfriend invited me over to his house next week. His parents are going to be out of town and we're going to have the house to ourselves. I've gone upto second base with him but I think he intends to go further this time (not that I have a ...
A. 11 November 2011: everyone at when they are younger are uncomfortable with their bodies, pfft not even younger people it happens to everyone in different stages of their lifes so dont feel ugly because everyone feels how u feel abou ur body at some stage ! anyway i ... (read in full...)
Facebook Ruined My Life
Q. Is it just me or is Facebook a total head-wreck? Personally, I see it as one big popularity contest. I mean it is so pointless. Why not go out and meet your friends for real, instead of giving yourself a headache trying to think of the 'coolest' ...
A. 25 February 2011: Facebook is one of those love hate things , its great because it helps you socialise is some forms make it easier for others to meet an become friends, but iv started to think lately that in many ways it stops you from socialising because your on ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend lying about talking to a particular girl!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year and a half and things are getting complicated. Throughout our relationship, we have always been jealous/insecure and it got worse and worse through time. We are exactly alike in that way. But ...
A. 21 October 2010: ok aside from the whole jealously thing the minute a guy turns on a girl he talks to when he is in a relationship with sombody else IS A SIGN HE CHEATED ON YOU he might not have been constantly done it but there is a chance he did it once because ... (read in full...)
What do I do about my inability to let go of my fairy-tale fantasy?
Q. Hi, so I am an almost-sixteen-year-old girl and I have known for some months now that I like girls. I have never had an issue with gay people or anything like that and I am comfortable with the realization that I myself am gay but at the same time ...
A. 13 October 2010: hey i thought your question was quite interesting so thought i would give it a shot ? basically you being gay doesnt have to STOP your fairy-tale from happening just becuase your sexuality does. same sex partners are now able to adopt grow a fam... (read in full...)
I'm ready to give up all together!
Q. How can I get over sex and men? I hate my body it's so disgusting. I'm a bit fat but working on it, although I'm not overweight, but almost. The problem is I have a disproportioned body, I have big hips, big butt with cellulite and thighs with ...
A. 8 October 2010: hey, you seem very upset so i thought id give it a go and have a pop at helping you ! Basically right the whole barbie thing get it UT OF YOUR HEAD . . sure those girls are gorgeous theres no denying it as much as we all envy them but in the end ... (read in full...)
Is he playing mind games or am I paranoid?
Q. Basically iv been seeing this guy "bob" for the last few months , its a very casual thing between us , he lives in diffrent town so i never bump into him which i kind of like, im happy this thing we share is not in my face. The thing is he is the f...
A. 14 September 2010: your advice is actually fair enough and most likely right, however i havnt had sex with him everytime i seen him, which was by his own choice because i made it quiet clear what i wanted and he didnu take the oppertunity? which confused me more ?
d... (read in full...)
I remarried, but have fallen back in love with my ex wife
Q. Hi, I hope someone else on this site has been in my shoes and understands my situation, and perhaps as even been on any of the three side or three possible outcomes. Let me first explain what's going on, and I can only do that from my point of...
A. 3 August 2010: i think before you go away for a weekend get away you should meet with her for coffee or something . . may figure out something, obviously your not happy in your relationship at the moment ,so why would you bother staying with this woman whether ... (read in full...)
How can I be there for my little sister now her dad has died depsite us not being very close?
Q. hi my younger sister who is nine not yet ten, father died last night we both have different dads. im 18 and we dont have a great relationship if even a relationship. shes not taking the death very well and of course everybody is worried about her ...
A. 2 March 2010: no my mum is still alive its very hard to no what to do for her because she wont really let anybody help her if u ask if if she wants anything if shes ok?, or tell her your there for her she just responds yea . . there's nothing else she can say i ... (read in full...)
How can I be there for my little sister now her dad has died depsite us not being very close?
Q. hi my younger sister who is nine not yet ten, father died last night we both have different dads. im 18 and we dont have a great relationship if even a relationship. shes not taking the death very well and of course everybody is worried about her ...
A. 2 March 2010: no my mum is still alive ... (read in full...)
Why is he lying about porn?
Q. Ok, so I've been w/ my fiance for 3 years now, 2 of which we have lived together. He works construction and got rained out early one day, and instead of coming home, went to the adult store. I didn't mind, it was nothing we had done together before, ...
A. 21 December 2009: in a way i agree with "satindesire" but i also understand why your mad i would feel hurt and kind of humiliated if my boyfriend went and watched porn 5mins after we had sex and i to would feel i wasnt good enuf for him if you do want to fix thin... (read in full...)
17 and a 40 year old having sex?
Q. Hello. I was just wondering if it's ok for a seventeen year old girl to have sex with a forty year old man? I've known him for a few months and we've been talking a lot. I really like him and want him. I know that it is a significant age difference, ...
A. 20 December 2009: paedophile . . . stay away and report him to the police ... (read in full...)
Friends and family are judging my guy on his appearance.
Q. Hi. Recently, I decided I'd introduce my boyfriend to my friends. I met him through the internet and we had an online relationship until we met some months ago. Of course all of them didn't believe such thing as internet relationships could ever ...
A. 12 September 2009: seriously do not listen to your friends and your mother looks really isnt everything .. most good looking people who know they are beautiful are complete arseholes you will learn that all that matters is that you like him and thats all that cou... (read in full...)
We went out for two days and then he dumped me. I can't stop crying!.
Q. I need help, I'm 15 in year 11 and there's this lad I like at school I havent been talking to him long, and we got together a couple of days ago, he dumped me last night, but I have never felt like this before. I havent stopped crying, I can't ...
A. 11 September 2009: boys come and go bu your friends will be there to support you no matter what theres going to be plenty of these boys theres basically queing up around the cornr to break your heart !=[ 3days isnt love .. it takes time to fall in love to get to no ... (read in full...)
Trying to have sex for the first time and it's not working to well
Q. Ok so few days ago i tried to have sex with my boyfriend for the first time and we just couldn't...at first i bled little, the next day same, then in the next 3 days i started to bleed more and it was hurting a lot.I noticed that my hymen was ...
A. 8 September 2009: its ok its perfectly norma the first time you have sex properly it will hurt . . but it gets better dont worry .
i have heard before (i dont no if its true) but if a girls in uncomfortable with having sex or feels she isnt ready to go furt... (read in full...)
How should I deal with my situation?
Q. Please, no judgment. All I want is a sympathetic advice. I met this man 3 years ago, and it was a love from first glance. Our situation is:he is single, divorced 12 years ago, never got remarried, i am married my wholle life to a wonderfull man, we h...
A. 8 September 2009: ok s mabye this guy offers you a lot of passion that you dnt have in your marraige but think about it if u were young again without your family, husband, buisness or with the great life you have and you were seeing this guy and he treated you like ... (read in full...)
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