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Hey guys !!

I started on this sight about 4 years ago looking for help as a lot of the others on here do and i found myself in a great community ! I dont have a degree but i like helping people out with there problems or curious questions from time to time.

Theres no specific category i mostly go for in answering ill help anyone i can when i have time to !!

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My girlfriend sees me more like her best friend rather than boyfriend...

Q.   Me and my girlfriend have been going out for a year and a half and I really love her and she loved me too... But last night I knew something was up, so I asked her. It took a while for her to tell me, but I told here I was here for her. She said I ...

A.   30 January 2009: Give your girlfriend space to do her own thing ... (read in full...)

How realistic are my chances with him?

Q.   I like my guy friend, J. He has a girlfriend who's going back to Europe in June. He likes her physically but called her a whore and never talks about her to anyone. My friend A also likes J but isn't allowed to talk to him because his of girlfriend, ...

A.   30 January 2009: I think you should leave things with him be until his girlfriend has left for europe and when he is ready for another relationship . people get anry and say mean things about the people closest to them and i think you should find out for sure if ... (read in full...)

He says if we're not 'intimate', he won't introduce me as his girlfriend?

Q.   My boyfriend and I had the 'sex' talk last night. He's been making comments, jokes about us having sex, so I set him straight and said, 'I'm not ready.' He was respectful and we continued on... We're all lovey dovey. But he did say, "I want to ...

A.   30 January 2009: i think you need to set things stright i get the impression he is fully trying to take advantage of you by using blackmail. Basically you "boyfriend" is telling you if your not going to give him sex then he isnu going to call you his girl... (read in full...)

Should I trust that my online BF really loves me?

Q.   :) i wants too know one thing that i always think about this is for guys! Im a 13 year old girl and ive fallen in love with a boy over the internet we've been together for 2 months and i think hes the 1! BUT! HE KEEPS SAYING HE LOVES ME BUT LIV...

A.   30 January 2009: You're at such a young age that I doubt you understand what love is, I dont want to patronise you but yum yum is right ??}=] you're so young and you still have so much to live for so much to learn and so much to experience its lust... if you live ... (read in full...)

When I left the room I heard her kissing another guy--what do I do?

Q.   Iv recently split from a long-term relationship and have been getting to know a girl who lives in my building, she used to smile at me and Id always catch her looking at me when I was with my girlfriend, then after I split with my girlfriend she ...

A.   30 January 2009: you should ask her before you get hurt . you arnt techniacally together so if she did kiss him mabye she found no harm in it . if she tells you she kissed this guy it shows shes honest dont let your previous relatioships effect your ones now !!!! ... (read in full...)

What is he thinking? I can't tell

Q.   I posted this question yesterday and still have no answers. Could you please re-post and perhaps tag it as something else and not 'friends.' Many thanks! I met this guy through work a long time ago. Recently I saw him while out and couldn’t sto...

A.   28 January 2009: if he says your being forward again or comments about it again you should just say that you no what you want and your not afraid to go after it . just let him no you dont wanted to be chasing something wen theres nothing to chase x x... (read in full...)

He told some foreign girl online that he was single--leave him or dismiss it?

Q.   I've been going out with this guy for about 3 weeks now, and I was friends with him for about a month before that. Anyway, like it or not, a standard protocol of mine when I am with a guy is to, after a few weeks, go into my bogus myspace ac...

A.   26 January 2009: Leave him alone man get rid of him. Still I dont' like how sneaky you were about testing him. That's not a nice thing to do.... (read in full...)

Anyone have a b/f cheat and gave them a second chance?

Q.   hey guys quick question.... has anyone been in a situation where there boyfriend cheated on them and they gave them a 2nd chance?? if soo did it sucseed and would you advice for me to give my boyfriend a second chance.. he says he loves me and now...

A.   24 January 2009: well the boy i am wit recently .... we wernt going out and we still are but we were "together" if u get wat im saying and he kissed 2 other girls and i kissed 2 oother boys . . all diffrent nights but we sorted it out and since then everything has ... (read in full...)

How painful will first time sex be and how can I make it less so?

Q.   ok ive been with my boyfriend for five months and hes been my best friend for ages.Im a virgin but Im sure that i want to have sex with him but im slightly nerous about two things.The first is how much pain it will cause me.From experience how bad ...

A.   22 January 2009: the pain is something you cant describe im not tryin to scare you but its a pain you wont have felt before . it basically just a pain anwhen the penise enters and thats it. then if your lucky it might be gud . . . wait a week or two until the next ... (read in full...)

On the pill and I'm getting lower back pains and lower stomach pains every day.

Q.   I've been on the pill for about 2 months now and I've since noticed lower back pains and lower stomach pains every day. I've only ever missed my pill once and that was in the first pack and I still came on so I highly doubt I'm pregnant. Is this ...

A.   22 January 2009: just a fact bout the pill i thought people shud no the goverment try to hide from young teens espically that the pill can reduce the chances of having children in later stages of life when you are planning a pregency . i would advise you... (read in full...)

Should you shave your arms?

Q.   Should you shave your arms? It's just I have some quite dark hair on my arms, and I wondered if it's normal to shave your arms. It's not like super-dark, so I don't have to shave. I just wanted to know....

A.   22 January 2009: loads of my friends shave there arms and they regret it personally i bleach my arm hair its itchy but it does the job all my friends say its so much effort to continuously shave you arm hair . . . like you already have to shave you legs your arm ... (read in full...)

If I lose my virginity to a guy I don't love, won't it be easier?

Q.   Im listening to the advice ppl give me bout waiting for sex, but i have another theory. i know a girls first time is special and something she will remember BUT, i dont know if i can lose it to someone i absolutely love, and then lose HIM. I have f...

A.   21 January 2009: this goes against everything i tlk about because i hate relationships an all that lovy dovy lalala shit but i lost my virginity drunk to a guy . . . . . in the woods (a drinking session spot ) and i didnu regret it but when i started having sex ... (read in full...)

I need some insight on Virgo men... any Zodiac experts?

Q.   I have recently gone on a date with a Virgo man and was wondering if anyone can give me some insight on them. We had a wonderful time and a lot of fun and he has called a few times since the date. (It's only been a week since the date). I am an ...

A.   21 January 2009: i once dated a virgo actually he was my longest relationship virgo people tend to have very big personalities very big characters but when you get to know them they tend to be very insecure !(not great in the bedroom area) usually they are ... (read in full...)

My wife wants a boob job... why does she think I don't find her attractive

Q.   My wife wants a boob job because she doesn't think I don't find her attractive not sure where she got that idea. I told she doesn't need one and being a drama queen. I admit do look at other women and I do flirt with other women at work (she caught ...

A.   12 November 2008: it could also be that your wife just has low confidence and self esteem levels she might have add problems with the way she felt about her brests a long time ago and you havent exactly helped the situation by flirting with colluges etc this probably ... (read in full...)

She's so CLINGY I can't stand it! Should I break up or tell her I need some space?

Q.   alright well iv been dating this girl for like only 2 weeks now...and we both live in a residence at our college. Well pretty much since the first day we met she is soooo clingy..we always have to be holding hands, hugging, rubbing or whatever the ...

A.   1 November 2008: well firstly i think you need to ask yourself do you even like her that much you say she is clingy and whiney . . . if you can find so many negative things about her that annoy you you shouldnt even have to ask the question of weather you should be ... (read in full...)

I'm only 12 and I think I'm pregnant !

Q.   About 2 months ago, i had sexual intercorse with my boyfriend even though i am only 12 YEARS OLD!!! i really regret it because i started my period a year ago and i havent had my period for ages! and i think i might be pregnant. i am really scared. ...

A.   1 November 2008: im really sorry that you feel this way and that you are in this situation at this age the best thing for you to do would be to buy a pregnany test?? and of course the most important thing here is did you use protection ??? sometimes when girls start ... (read in full...)

Can a girl get pregnant this way?

Q.   hey... this is kind of embarrasing but.. If a guy rubs his *ahem* against a girls.. area.. with underwear on, is it possible for the girl to get pregnant if the guy cums? Sorry but this question has been bugging me.. thanks xxx...

A.   1 November 2008: i would say it is unlikely to become pregnant im guessing your a teenager so you not very experienced in knowleged in what can and cant get you pregnant . if the penis wasnt inserted into the vagina it is less likely that a preganancy will arise ... (read in full...)

Is she still a virgin if the penetration didn't succeed? Is it normal that we noticed blood later?

Q.   i tried to penetrate my gf but it was too tight and couldn't get in so we couldnt have sex. no blood came out right away but she was saying that she feels a little burning in her vagina. 2 hours later she showed me little bit of blood on her und...

A.   1 November 2008: hey , you should relax a girls first time having sex usually isnt the nicest the thing . for girls it can be very pailful and becuase girls can focus in on the pain there is usually no consern for any great feelings . dont worry about it the next ... (read in full...)

He says all he has is me! How do I tell him I don't want to date him anymore?

Q.   Me and my boyfriend have been going out for the past year and its been great but recently i feel i really resent him, i don't want to talk to him, text him, see him or anything. I feel as if i want to see other people and have fun. I don't know if ...

A.   1 November 2008: before i go in to detail you have to decide what you really want. it does sound like you would be happier alone and out there meeting new people. but are you sure you want to let him go??right now becuase you away your in college you might feel it ... (read in full...)

I'm being bullied into losing my virginity.

Q.   OK. So, I'm 14, yes fourteen. I've recently got a boyfriend who I've been going out for for 5 months, and that's pretty good I must admit. A lot of girls who have always had it out for me have been coming up to me and been going, "Hey virgin, you ...

A.   29 October 2008: hey , really you dont need to listen to those girls . there is three main reasons why they are probably picking on you 1) lack of self confidence , which means they will pick on sombody to make them feel bigger . 2) usuallly bullying starts becasue ... (read in full...)

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