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I started on this sight about 4 years ago looking for help as a lot of the others on here do and i found myself in a great community ! I dont have a degree but i like helping people out with there problems or curious questions from time to time.
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How should I deal with my situation?
Q. Please, no judgment. All I want is a sympathetic advice. I met this man 3 years ago, and it was a love from first glance. Our situation is:he is single, divorced 12 years ago, never got remarried, i am married my wholle life to a wonderfull man, we h...
A. 8 September 2009: ok s mabye this guy offers you a lot of passion that you dnt have in your marraige but think about it if u were young again without your family, husband, buisness or with the great life you have and you were seeing this guy and he treated you like ... (read in full...)
My parents are so cruel! I really wish I wasn't their child
Q. This is my pathetic, sorry life story. pls dont ignore i need friends now more than ever. My mother has not been the one i always hope to have. All my life, she never corrects me calmly instead she yells, beat or she ignores me for long. i have...
A. 25 August 2009: i suggest you leave home tell ur boyfriend see if you could live with him for a few weeks till you get yourself a job and somwhere to live you dont need people like this putting your confidence down family or not it isnt worth it . start a new life ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend's blue balls.....he says if I don't give him head he will leave me!
Q. My boyfriend says every time we hang out he gets blue balls and is in pain for hours, even days. It causes him headaches and muscle cramps too. I do plenty of sexual things for him almost every time we hang out. He's tried masturbating beforehand, ...
A. 21 July 2009: let him leave if hes threating you to do sexual favours that you obiously dont want to do let him walk away
men like that make me so fucking angry xx... (read in full...)
Help me with my relationship, please!
Q. Well i am 25 and have four children, three from a previous relationship, and yes i started really young, But i need someones help, my fella is a gambler and goes to the pokers five days a week, now just to be clear, he doesnt spend my money and he ...
A. 21 July 2009: you just said yourself . . . u think you need sumbody else . . go for it
he obiously doesnu make an effort with your kids and hes treating you like shit . . im guessing hes out of work mabi since hes playing poker r watever all day . . so wher... (read in full...)
Stages of getting over a break-up, can you tell what stage I am now?
Q. I am still not completely over my ex. I know it will take time but when will that be? I can't wait for the day that he becomes a name I would just remember and the feelings like it was a part of a dream I had before. Right now, I can say I am don...
A. 21 July 2009: youll forget him when youve found sumbody that deserves you !!! i no its hard . . its love i no its a bad thing to say but . . . . why dont you get bk with him ?? i no youve been through the pain and everything but hen me and my boyfriend broke ... (read in full...)
My drug addict ex boyfriend dumped me, he just puts drugs before me!
Q. My ex bf began taking cocaine at age 10 as well as drinking and having sex. His parents sent him to a rehab in grade 9 but when he got out he became a dealer and ended up doing time in jail. When he got out he went back to his old ways and ended up ...
A. 21 July 2009: you have to leave him be . . . . i know is hard its love ?? an love is a bastard believe me my sisters an alcohlic and my brothers hooked on crack which most people would think were sum kind of scumbags but we were all brought up really well but ... (read in full...)
Possible to have a real relationship without sex?
Q. So is it possible to have a real relationship without sex? Im 16 and Im a virgin and in a great relationship but I just don't see the point in relationships if you're not gonna do anything else. I mean what good is a teenage relationship? So my ...
A. 21 July 2009: its a gud question . . . iv had four main relationships in my teenage life an three of them were without sex and the current one im in has lastesd the longest and it the happiest relationship by far ! mabye you have a point but i have friends who ... (read in full...)
What is the best position when you have sex for the first time?
Q. I am 13 and im having sex for my first time in a couple of weeks because my boyfriends parents are on holiday and he said i could come round for a couple of nights if i wanted to ... i said yes ... he later asked me if i was ready for sex and i knew ...
A. 20 July 2009: i think your a bit young to have sex . . everybodys guna tell you that . . believe me but its your choice an nobodys going to stop you . . my first time was missionary thats when the boy is on top ! make sure hes gently cos it will be ... (read in full...)
Am I wrong for getting upset with my g/f in this situation? What do I do?
Q. (my gf and I are both about 20, have been together almost 3 years, and living together about a year) Okay, first off, my girlfriend has a bit of an... anger problem. She gets angry at things very easily, and her anger quickly goes over the top, es...
A. 25 April 2009: ur relationship is so unhealthy she has u right under her thumb her insecurity is not your problem tell her to man up youv been together for three years she should trust you by now and if she doesnu learn to trust you , respect you and control ... (read in full...)
I am so very lonely and living in a dead town doesn't help with nobody to talk to...
Q. I am very lonely, I have no friends, no boyfriend, there is nowhere to go in town, its living here. Nobody understands my loneliness and my sadness. I cry because I am so lonely and upset. There is nothing I can do about it. I go nowhere, I ...
A. 17 April 2009: stop feeling soory for your self get out there and live
move somewhere else
at least try ... (read in full...)
What would YOU do here? My friend is playing mind games with me
Q. What would YOU do here? My friend is playing mind games with me and a guy I really like, and I don't know what I should do in this situation? I am in love with a male pal for the past 1-2 years and he knows this since I had told him at Chri...
A. 4 April 2009: personaaly i think you are putting wy to much thought into this !
if your friend does not like him tell her stright out "why do you talk to him all the time if you really think he is to intense "
of course she is playing mind games with y... (read in full...)
She used to be a HE!
Q. I really don't know what to do here. I've been with my girlfriend for one year. It's been going great and she's perfect, or so I thought. We met at work. I'd always had an attraction to her and I was overjoyed when I found out that she liked me as ...
A. 31 March 2009: shes is a she !!! i no its hard for you t understand but like you said yourself you loved her before . . the only thing thats stopping you now is the fact that she use to have a penis . . . dont disown her like her father did !!! u love her for ... (read in full...)
I snogged him and am now worried in case I have HIV!
Q. I am a virgin and worry and stress about things in general, also Stds, I recently met a guy and snogged him loads, I never had sex or anything but now I'm worried I've got HIV cause he isn't a virgin. ...
A. 18 February 2009: you cant get hiv from kissing somebody . . . are you sure your the age you say you are ... (read in full...)
Tormented because my skin is too black.
Q. I am slim, tall, and I think I am pretty enough in my face. But I have very very very dark skin and in my country this is not a good thing. It affects your life badly, I will not have marriage proposals or the ones I do get will not be good offers. ...
A. 16 February 2009: i cant change the way people act with you but believe me it cant last forever . . . bolly wood may be your home but believe me there a a MASSIVE world out there your beautiful just the way you are and nothing else matters peoples opinions are ... (read in full...)
Was I conned? Or had he not thought about the circumstances?
Q. i was seeing my now ex for 6 months, i realised he had a drinking problem, and i made him choose me or drink, after a row, it was causing problems in our relationship, he promised to give up the drinking and get help, he managed to do really well ...
A. 13 February 2009: when people are drunk they dont usually think about what can haapen tomorrow or in an hour . . they live for the moment ??
you were not conned thats such a harsh word . . you were taken advantage of he stole 400 euro on you and drank drove . . ... (read in full...)
He says he doesn't like me but in fact I think he does?
Q. okay like i seriously like this guy he is so perfect and i have cared about him for years now!!!!!!!! he is sooo mean to me though he acts like im not important and his friends treat me like crap. he is always watching me and smiling and acting l...
A. 10 February 2009: im with emily answers on this... (read in full...)
Delayed period, what could it be?
Q. i am a 19 year old lesbian ....i have been with my girlfriend for a very long time i usually get my period two days after her is been about a month passed is till havent gotten it i dont sleep with boys so what could it be im very scared...
A. 10 February 2009: usually it's something silly! it happened to, me i wouldn't get my period within a 2 month 3 month distance once i think it was six months ???? but it was becasue of my diet . . . . could be that for you... (read in full...)
I don't want a bad reputation but I want to fool around and have fun!
Q. I'm 15 and all these guys are trying to get in my pants, like at a party these hot guy i was dancing with put my hand on his dick, and he had a huge boner, and this other guy kept raising my dress til it was barely covering my butt. Im not ready to ...
A. 10 February 2009: you said youve hooked up before... usually when people say that they mean sex... be clearer next time... (read in full...)
I don't want a bad reputation but I want to fool around and have fun!
Q. I'm 15 and all these guys are trying to get in my pants, like at a party these hot guy i was dancing with put my hand on his dick, and he had a huge boner, and this other guy kept raising my dress til it was barely covering my butt. Im not ready to ...
A. 9 February 2009: your thirteen and uv already lost ur virginity ........... im sorry but you need to cop on to yourself fair enough if you want to drink and kiss guys i wouldnu be suprised of people are saying stuff about u already if you go round acting lik... (read in full...)
I have his number so should I make a move and what should I say?
Q. I've been interested in this guy for about 6 months now and I think I may well be falling for him. I always got the impression that he was keen on me, so it wasn't a huge surprise when two of our mutual friends both texted me and said that he wanted ...
A. 9 February 2009: txt him !!! TXT HIM TXT HIM TXT HIM !!!! hahah sorry i think you should go for it wat a better time ??? both of you have obiously liked each other for a while and you said yourself you have been crazy about him over the last how many months ????
... (read in full...)
I haven't had a period in two months, what could be wrong?
Q. I haven't had a period in over 2 months. I'm obviously a girl, I haven't had sex. What's going on with me? :/...
A. 9 February 2009: dont worry it used to happen to me all the time it could be your diet thats what was wrong with me i wasnt eating enought of particular nutrients etc and once i ate more (and more healthy) my period has become more regular you could go on... (read in full...)
My secret!
Q. Okay this ones a complicated one. Basically a year and a half ago I started teaching my best friend's girlfriend the drums. We both had feelings for each other (you know when you can just tell they like you and vis versa)and eventually we ended up...
A. 9 February 2009: if you really really loved her you never would have cheated ever... (read in full...)
I have a dilemma... Uh oh!
Q. I'm going to try and make this as short as possible. I have known this girl for about three years now. I first met her through a party at her mom's house, we instantly became great friends. We "did it" quite a few times back in that time. ...
A. 8 February 2009: There could be two things she's doing right now. She could really either be making a fresh start and wants you back in her life whether that's as friends or more than friends, I don't know?? or She could be using you and taking advantage of the ... (read in full...)
My daughter is only 14 and wants to have sex with her boyfriend.
Q. Basically, my daughter wants to start having sex at fourteen and I do not approve. She has been with her boyfriend for just over a year now and I know they are both ready to and she wants to, he is not forcing her, it's just as a parent I'm sure you ...
A. 8 February 2009: usually anyone under the age is able to get birth control in doctors with out parental permission if the child seems mature or responsible enough
as well it has been found that doctors are being forced to hand out birth control as they want ke... (read in full...)
Doesn't "natural" feel better?
Q. Me and my boyfriend are ready for sex.We've talked about condoms but I'm wondering if intercourse is more pleasurable if you can feel a boy's real penis and semen rather than just rubber?...
A. 8 February 2009: natuarl is better my advice would be to go on some form of birth control apart from condoms like the pill . also use condoms for the first two months so you no wat the diffrence is also condoms prevent stds and aids so i would always use them reg... (read in full...)
What should I do in this situation?
Q. Ok i apologise if this question is a bit complicated but i'm confused about things, and need a bit of help. A few weeks ago, me and my bf (we'll call him J) split up, and i was devastated. The weekend after i dealt with things in a bad way by going ...
A. 4 February 2009: dont worry we have all been in those situations . this new guy p sounds interesting . . dont mind your advisor about the "drinking" problem . . . if hes young or in college its most likely hes been partying hard and that shows he has grewat ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my mum my 15 year old sister had sex?
Q. Hey, I recently wrote the article below but am now wondering if I should tell my mum that my sister had sex? I feel as though I should because I can't lie to my mum about my sister having had sex. I know my mum would get rather angry but she mi...
A. 3 February 2009: you really shouldnt tell your mum . . . if your sister wants to tell your mum then thats her buisness but it is nothing to do with you who she does and doesnt tell.
if your upset by her actions talk to her connect with her tell her how you feel... (read in full...)
What are good ways to tease my guy?
Q. What are good ways to tease my guy? We're both going to the mall tonight...trying on some clothes? He wanted to get a little freaky in public, but I'm not ready for sex yet! :-) We've gone as far as very, very passionate kissing and a little tou...
A. 3 February 2009: if your not ready for sex you can try other things like masterbating or oral sex . . .
i always like getting my lip bittin
or kiss tease !
really slowly go to kiss him but keep your eyes focused on his lips . . . . when he go to kiss you bk off ... (read in full...)
I'm finding it extremely hard being away from him and its very unsettling for me,
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together now for just over a year. We both love each other very much but in oct 2008 i went off to uni. I'm only 19 and my boyfriend is 25; but were experiencing some real problems. I'm finding it extremely hard bei...
A. 1 February 2009: flirting with boys isnt a bad thing its a great thing that you can still be able to talk with other men besides your boyfriend . mabye you could try visting your boyfriend at weekends and see how that goes because it doesnt seem that your trying h... (read in full...)
I really feel as if I'm just missing out on life!
Q. Okay, I'm 14. I've been feeling like I'm missing out on stuff. For example, I've never even had a boyfriend and I've never even kissed anyone. My friends have boyfriends and drama in their lives. Not that I want drama but I'm just rarely involved ...
A. 1 February 2009: my advice would be to get out of your old habits NOW !!!!! make memories that are guna stay with you forever do you really want to look bk on your life wen your like 90 and think man i did nothing wen i was a teenager all i did was sit at home ... (read in full...)
Sex and regrets
Q. Well, i am a roman catholic. I have been with my boyfriend for about 1 year, 2 and a half months. And today, yes, we had sex. (He is also roman catholic) And now im feeling guilty :/ and a bit .. confused. I always told my self i would wait...
A. 31 January 2009: everybody makes mistakes . . . you cant help it your human . . . you were going to have sex sometime im a batisped catholic but my religion doesnt mean much to me (im sorry if that offends you )
i live by the reasons of life
anything could ha... (read in full...)
A lesson to be learned here...
Q. Met this guy on internet dating site. Texted, only, for 5 weeks, and then we arranged to meet. Because he works till late.... he came to my house.... I was sure he was someone I could trust. Of course, our texting was mostly of a sexual nature... ...
A. 31 January 2009: I'm sorry he was such an asshole to you, you deserve better then that, everybody deserves respect. Lessons learned from the first time round though. Never invite a stranger to your house, he could have been anybody, he could have been really ugly. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's penis smells!!!
Q. Okay this is really embarrassing but I have a sex problem. I've been going out with my man for close to four years and the sex is good, when we do have it. I want to please him and stuff, I love to give oral sex and have been told I'm very very good ...
A. 31 January 2009: Was he your first boyfriend or the only guy you have gave oral to maybe it could be that you just don't like the taste, anyway I know I dont... I know I've never come across any of my boys having a smell. Maybe it could be because he washe... (read in full...)
Why is my brother taking it out on me?
Q. My brother (he's 19 and I'm 15) has been acting a like a huge jerk lately. He wont talk to me or seen me in weeks. It all started when I told him that I didn't like his very (very) annoying and rude girlfriend because she gave my sister (shes 24) ...
A. 31 January 2009: tell your brother that it was nothing to do with you it was between your sister and his girlfriend its not you problem . he might have been annoyed about the fact that you laughed at something he found serious . tell him how u feel and that you don... (read in full...)
Crush for 3 years is free! Should I go for it?!
Q. I've had a crush on this guy for three years. They say he likes me too. It turns out he broke up with his girlfriend. Should I give it a shot or should I wait until he makes the move? ...
A. 31 January 2009: give it a shot definatly why not . . . the worst thing he cud say is no !!!!!!! dont be shocked if he said he isnt ready for a relationship yet he might need sometime but you should let him know what you want GO FOR IT !!!!=] x x ... (read in full...)
I want to continue this!
Q. Me and my sister were drunk and horny and had consensual sex. How do I tell her I want to continue having sex with her?...
A. 31 January 2009: Be sure you know how your sister feels about this situation. If she doesn't want to continue SLEEPING WITH HER BROTHER then that's her choice. Personally I think you should find a girl who isn't your sister to have sex with. ... (read in full...)
Why would my bf lie about being in a relationship with a girl for 3 years?
Q. Why would my bf lie about being in a relationship with a girl for 3 years? We were discussing past relationships and he said he had been in a relationship with this girl for 3 years. He told me her full name. And a few months after we talked about ...
A. 31 January 2009: mabye he was scared u wouldnt be interested if he gad no experience in relationships ......
mabye the girl is lieing
mabye he could have liked this girl for a really long time ??
i dont no honestly thats never happened to me ?? ... (read in full...)
Can and will my life get better???
Q. I don't even know where to begin. 1 - my parents turned against their own daughter. 2 - I was diagnosed with anorexia. 3 - I don't even know how to explain what I'm going through. I just wanna know if things can get better. My life is bad...
A. 31 January 2009: you shud never give up !!!i no things are bad but they cant stay bad forever , everybody goes thru a horrible time in there life this is just yours , i no it might seem hard , to fight , to stay strong, not to cry or argue . . . or eat
but o... (read in full...)
Should I have sex with a boy I lust for if I already have a boyfriend?
Q. Ok well Im 14 and I had sex with this boy that I was talkin to for 2 months and I always liked him the first time I saw him, and also we have health class together. anyways after we had sex a couple of days later I didn't talk to him for like a ...
A. 30 January 2009: you got to love the bad boys . . . theyre yummy !!!!! do what you think is right i think you shud stay with your bf you cant shame him twice . . . so he lacks badboyness . . . . youll be ok ... (read in full...)
My horrible story please read
Q. im 13. ive suffered from 2 server addictions. one-cutting two-over doseage of pills. anti-depresents. i want to share my story and tell some luckier people what its like to b 13 and have a bad life. It all started in 7th gade when some 18 yearold ...
A. 30 January 2009: . . . do what you think is right for your life i no alot of people arnt going to like what i say right now but ITS YOUR LIFE and dont let anything get in the way of ruining it if you want to keep the baby thats great at least you no you have your ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend sees me more like her best friend rather than boyfriend...
Q. Me and my girlfriend have been going out for a year and a half and I really love her and she loved me too... But last night I knew something was up, so I asked her. It took a while for her to tell me, but I told here I was here for her. She said I ...
A. 30 January 2009: Give your girlfriend space to do her own thing ... (read in full...)
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